Please as you read this, learn from both stories ....
She wrote;
"I met CiCiofLagos 2 years ago on one job hunting WhatsApp group. We became close and it skyrocketed into what’s supposed to be genuine friendship.
I got a job in Port Harcourt two months later and moved from Lagos to PH.
Last year there was a job opening in one of our company’s subsidiary with a juicy offer. First thought that came into my head was “Cynthia will want this job”. I immediately called to notify her, which she agreed to send her CV.
Her interview was scheduled for 12th September.
She called to complain about being low on finances & coming over immediately will be a problem. I agreed to pay for her flight so she can be in PH 10th(sunday).
When she landed in Port Harcourt on Sunday, I called my man so we can take her around the city and give her a treat.
I introduced my boyfriend Obinna to her and made sure she was comfortable and had a great time. Sheltered and fed this babe for 3 weeks.
All the while, I had no idea I was wasting my time, food, money and energy on a devil.
Anytime I return from work she’s not at home which was becoming a routine. Confronted and asked about her frequent absence. According to her, she met “a nice guy”.
I can’t police a grown woman, so I told her to be careful & be security conscious because Port Harcourt isn’t safe.
She returned to Lagos in October since she didn’t pass the second phase of the interview.
Our communication reduced and I noticed she was intentionally avoiding me. Anytime I called, she won’t pick or return the calls.
I had to let her be.
Last week, our mutual I met in the same job hunting WhatsApp group posted her introduction pictures. Guess who the husband to be is? My boyfriend!!!
You want to know another joke? She is pregnant!!! PREGNANT!"
The friend responded
She wrote;
"My junior sister saw your tweets on someone’s Facebook page and called to inform that am been dragged on social media.
You didn’t have to put it here without finding out the whole truth.
I have been feeling bad about the whole issue and trying to look for a better way to address this and appease you. But since you’ve taken it up to embarrass me on social media, I don’t owe you any explanation.
You are lying through your teeth about the issue. Have you told everyone that you weren’t performing the duties of a girlfriend? You don’t even know how to cook a proper meal. Talking about feeding me and all when I was the person doing all the cooking for you and Obinna.
We accidentally had s#x one of the days you went to work and it eventually turned to a love story I can’t wipe off because of friendship. I got pregnant too. You can’t blame me for getting pregnant please. I avoided your calls when I returned to Lagos because of guilt.
Now you’ve posted it for the world to see I don’t care anymore. Do your worst."
She wrote;
"I met CiCiofLagos 2 years ago on one job hunting WhatsApp group. We became close and it skyrocketed into what’s supposed to be genuine friendship.
I got a job in Port Harcourt two months later and moved from Lagos to PH.
Last year there was a job opening in one of our company’s subsidiary with a juicy offer. First thought that came into my head was “Cynthia will want this job”. I immediately called to notify her, which she agreed to send her CV.
Her interview was scheduled for 12th September.
She called to complain about being low on finances & coming over immediately will be a problem. I agreed to pay for her flight so she can be in PH 10th(sunday).
When she landed in Port Harcourt on Sunday, I called my man so we can take her around the city and give her a treat.
I introduced my boyfriend Obinna to her and made sure she was comfortable and had a great time. Sheltered and fed this babe for 3 weeks.
All the while, I had no idea I was wasting my time, food, money and energy on a devil.
Anytime I return from work she’s not at home which was becoming a routine. Confronted and asked about her frequent absence. According to her, she met “a nice guy”.
I can’t police a grown woman, so I told her to be careful & be security conscious because Port Harcourt isn’t safe.
She returned to Lagos in October since she didn’t pass the second phase of the interview.
Our communication reduced and I noticed she was intentionally avoiding me. Anytime I called, she won’t pick or return the calls.
I had to let her be.
Last week, our mutual I met in the same job hunting WhatsApp group posted her introduction pictures. Guess who the husband to be is? My boyfriend!!!
You want to know another joke? She is pregnant!!! PREGNANT!"
The friend responded
She wrote;
"My junior sister saw your tweets on someone’s Facebook page and called to inform that am been dragged on social media.
You didn’t have to put it here without finding out the whole truth.
I have been feeling bad about the whole issue and trying to look for a better way to address this and appease you. But since you’ve taken it up to embarrass me on social media, I don’t owe you any explanation.
You are lying through your teeth about the issue. Have you told everyone that you weren’t performing the duties of a girlfriend? You don’t even know how to cook a proper meal. Talking about feeding me and all when I was the person doing all the cooking for you and Obinna.
We accidentally had s#x one of the days you went to work and it eventually turned to a love story I can’t wipe off because of friendship. I got pregnant too. You can’t blame me for getting pregnant please. I avoided your calls when I returned to Lagos because of guilt.
Now you’ve posted it for the world to see I don’t care anymore. Do your worst."
What a bad friend,how people have sex causally with anyone available surprises me.
ReplyDeleteObinna will still fuck her up.
This is a karma waiting to happen.
DeleteIrony of life, relationship and friendship. so sorry you learnt the hard way.
ReplyDeleteWomen always blaming themselves what about the man?
ReplyDeleteThe man is wrong but the lady is worse because this was her benefactor. Do you see why many people avoid opening their homes to people? See her posting, she doesn't know how to cook, wasn't performing her duties as a girlfriend. Yet the man stayed with her till you came and probably ordered kayanmata and used on him.
DeleteGetting married is the beginning of the story, we don't know how it will end. This type of thing is more common that we think and mostly amongst us ladies. She was overwhelmed with jealousy as how will she have a job and a man when she doesn't have any so she took what she felt she could have.
Breach of trust. Never keep a goat and yam together. See her lame excuse.
ReplyDeleteI detest this kind of stories/behaviour because most times it doesn't end well for the snatcher.
No conscience no morals
ReplyDeleteSome people's audacity are wild
"Hell is empty; all the devil's are here"
ReplyDelete- William Shakespeare ( The Tempest).
💯💯💯
DeleteScary world 😰
The heart of man is desperately wicked.
ReplyDelete*Woman
DeleteWhy do I think this whole thing is staged even though I hate to think that way. Go to their handles on X and see
ReplyDeletemy gender never learn, why will you feel so comfortable to allow your man get to meet your friend. You allowed your man and your friend to cheat on you. Sorry just in case next time you meet another man just don't repeat such mistake.
ReplyDelete"Allowed"?
DeleteHow?
Is the man a dog that doesn't have self control or a working brain?
She took his pen*s and inserted it into her friend' puna
What about the goat of a man?
ReplyDeleteYou saw your girl's friend that came visiting and quickly lifted her skirt, raw. Goats!
No matter how woke you want to sound..
DeleteLeave your friend away from bring friends with your boyfriend/husband..
I give you this advice as a friend,. You don't want to know how many girlfriend/wife friends seduces we men behind your backs, most of us just don't disclose to you..
Many men don't fall and many are also falling..
Well unless you don't care about your man sleeping with your friends or you want to do a 3some..
Even portable said he has banged a lot of his wives friends that are giving her bad advico, but Una think say na cruise
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Especially those dumb girls that take their friends to date with their boyfriends and the ones that go with their friends to their boyfriends home..
Una go learn the hard way
I dey tell you
DeleteNo values, morals, standards, respect or even self control amongst us anymore...
ReplyDeleteHow one can see anyody and do the do is what I can't seem to fathom
Tueh!!! 🤮🤮🤮
The man doesn't love you just do any possible thing to forget the hurt and betrayal. My friend did the same but I never confronted her or him. Few months later the relationship crashed and the guy started begging me and exposing their dirty laundry.. But I still reject him and disgrace my friend when she reach out to me. So silence is the best answer. Go about with your life and never worry about them weda they are happy or not...learn a skill or go back to school to get yourself busy
ReplyDelete🤗🤗🤗
DeleteSo wrong of her and the man, The other lady should be happy she dodge a bullet
ReplyDeleteMany people will never learn, accommodating people you only met online, I have a colleague that always copy almost everything I do, say or think, to the extent of liking anything I like and dislikes anything I dislike, I've noticed this thing about her, as if she doesn't have a mind of her own, I know this kind of friend will snatch anything snatchable.
ReplyDeleteI don't know if she does it to another person but in my own case, it's very glaring and I know she can go to any length to copy me, imagine that kind of colleague with my man.
Both of them belong to trashcan.
Greatful soul such people are deadly. If you check well the person may be a covert narcissist. Since you work with this person, you just be polite but avoid such a person at all costs, cut any ties you have with them eg on social media. No need for small talk. And be clear and on point on any form of discussion you have with her. I predict she may be gossiping about you behind your back but shining 32 in front of you. She will also find ways to publicly annoy you so you can react angrily and people will see you as an intolerant or bad person. In all she does ignore her. Try not to react to anything and avoid her. Don't even mind making it obvious, just avoid her. I just felt I should hint you, because I have dealt with such humans before.
DeleteDon't let her know anything about your life, unfriend her on Facebook and Instagram, block her from viewing your WhatsApp status. Don't let her know your house or be to be close to any of your relatives/neighbour or friend
DeleteThey both deserve each other,the girl dodge a bullet cos this type of guy can sleep with anything in skirt.. imagine her audacity? She accidentally fell pregnant Indeed..hope she won't cry wolf when the guy will do same to her
ReplyDeleteHmmmm, reminds me of when my cousin slept with my boyfriend, simply because I had confided in her that I wasn't interested in the guy. She lured him to PH and slept with him in the hotel for 2 days. Guess what! The guy eventually confessed to me, when we fought telling me how I was treating him anyhow meanwhile my cousin had told him everything I told her about him. I was beyond shocked, I confronted my cousin and dumped the guy. So many years later, my cousin still can't look me in the face, she avoids being anywhere I am till date. I honestly don't know why women intentionally or unintentionally get involved in their friends, sisters' boyfriends or husbands, beats me men!
ReplyDeleteTalatu
Envy
DeleteFrom looking for a way to appease you.. to i don't owe you any explanation.. to actually explaining to us that girlfriend duties were not done and cooking is not her strong point...to admitting sex happened and confirmed the alleged pregnancy too.. I have concluded that CICi of Lagos is guilty as charged, she even admits she was thinking of appeasement .
ReplyDeleteCici is a bad girl *in Mr. MACARONI 'S voice*
Obinna has left a good girl for a bad girl, he has been trapped but the good news is that the bad girl will deal with him, she will do him bad, let his village people not allow him to be broke a little ooo,, cos Cici will mistakenly have sex with someone who will give her money to buy food for her baby and she will owe him no explanation after all was the young baby suppose to starve when the father was not performing his fatherly duties.
Cici will mistakenly sleep with his friends who are more handsome or richer, she can even go on to marry someone else and leave Obinna to his fate
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Obinna, mark my words, you will later cry when Cici shows you shege promax .
He won’t cry shit. Life isn’t nollywood.
DeleteYou wish!
DeleteObinna will cry hot tears,let him ask your gender that went that way how they are coping.
Anonymous 13:40
Abeg she should Forget the He-goat
ReplyDeleteAnd She-goat
They were never melt to be Together
God in his infinite Mercy will give her
Her perfect Husband...🙏🙏
Girl you deserve better. I don’t hurt over this at all cos the snatcher and snatchee deserve each other. Just learn your lesson and move on. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
ReplyDelete😁
ReplyDeleteCynthia would have supported her friend on girlfriend (wife) not cook or house keeper, bla, bla, etc. if Cynthia had not found out Obinna's wants and worth.
She saw Obinna wants or deserves a wife, cook, house keeper, and mother for his child. And a mistake occured several times.
See, before you parrot after social media #tags, influencers, motivational speakers and pastorprenuers know yourself, who you are in a relationship with, and what you are doing with your life.
Akwaigbo gurl, Obinna was not for you. Let him and her be. Your kind of man will come for you. Man wey no care about what you no care about, not because they are not important but because you both no care about those things.
We should be careful about who we call friend. What i read does not sound like tales of two friends at all.
ReplyDeleteNo morals anymore
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo
People should blame the man as well because I know the lady cannot be the one who made the move. I am sure nobody would have known that she slept with the man if she didn't get pregnant. And this pregnancy led to them marrying according to her friends response. Many people do this things and leave no trace almost all the time. Na who them catch naim be devil, if you have never been caught, then you must be a saint. Both the man and the friend are evil .
ReplyDeleteThe annoying thing is the person that was accommodated will go scot free, live a happy life. Life is not fair. Most times the bad ones get away with everything and keep blossoming.
ReplyDeleteDon't let your girlfriend make you miss your wife 😁
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Dante oooooo
Delete😂😂😂🤣😆
DeleteGood riddance
ReplyDeleteThe girl dodged a bullet. That type of man can sleep with house girl or niece of his wife if the wife is pregnant or just delivered baby and cannot perform her bedroom duties. He is a dog. Let her wipe her tears and thank God for showing her who she was with.
Hmmmmmmmn.
ReplyDeleteNa wa😏
ReplyDeleteHow u get em is how u keep em.. karma will revenge for her, they’ll both get theirs
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