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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
FAKE PREGNANCY
Good day Stella,
I have being dating this guy for more than 2 years now, recently I told him that i am pregnant, he called my mum, his parents and my sister to inform them....
The surprising and funny part, is that he has called my senior cousin that is standing as elder brother to us and fixed a day with him and my mum to come and see them officially…
My mum is happy and has informed my elder sister abroad…my sister abroad called me and was congratulating me….
The problem is that, I was joking about the pregnancy...
Where will I start from, to tell them that I was joking, it will really break my mum, and maybe my guy will stop the process of the marriage, if I tell him, that I was joking….
What should I do?
WOW... you are not pregnant?wahala dey!!!
As it is now, you cannot tell him that you were joking oooooh, not only will he call it off, the relationship will suffer breakage.....
My advice to you would be to continue lying along and fake a msicarriage when your next flow comes...I am sure this is not the first time you would lie to him ....Please take it easy with the lies and note that anything that has its foundation based on lies does not stand for long oooooh.
For your own good, DO NOT TELL ANYONE that you lied!
Why joke about that in the first place?? It's either you get pregnant, or "joke" again that you had a miscarriage.
ReplyDeleteHonesty is the best policy. If you lose the relationship because of the truth then it wasn't meant to be. Next time do better, what kind of joke is that? Now the joke is on you. Start by telling your man the truth and see what happens..........
DeleteIt could be that she wanted to prank him to see his reaction. Yeah?
DeleteSo without pregnancy, he wouldn't have seen her people and do the needful as supposed baa?
DeleteMaybe he was waiting for her to get pregnant 🙄🥱🤔
DeleteLet me tell u something about life........life has a way of prolonging whatever u desire earnestly! You fit begin knack now everyday e fit no enter but let me shock u again assuming the guy no need the pregnancy and u lied, believe me the belle go dey there you go even begin wonder how it happened😂 😂 😂 life is mysterious my people!
DeleteThe thing Abt lies is that you have to use another one to cover up the previous one. I'm always for saying the truth. Come clean,who go stay go stay.
DeleteWhy did you lie with such a thing?? What kind of expensive joke is that?Now you are feeling guilty.
DeleteThere are lies you cannot escape when is time for truth to come out.
When he told you about his intention to go and see your people, you would have told him the truth immediately.
Honesty is the best policy. Lie ruins things.
You could tell him that your period was delayed and you had symptoms that made you believe you were. Claiming to have a miscarriage means you will always tell this lie even after many years. Anytime you go to a hospital and they ask you the number of times you've been pregnant, you will be forced to include the miscarriage that never happened. It's not worth it abeg.
DeleteAs Stella said, that's the best option
ReplyDeleteConfused set of youths no direction
ReplyDeleteConfused set of youths no direction
ReplyDeleteStart planning on how to get pregnant,or you form miscarriage.This your lie sef na wa.
ReplyDeleteMy dear the only option is to try and get pregnant. Don't continue the lie because pregnancy has a time frame.
ReplyDeleteVisit a gynecologist. Check yourself, if possible take fertility enhancing drugs and focus on getting pregnant for now.
While at it. Can you give him excuses why you want the wedding plans postponed till further notice. Don't forget to tell your mum the truth.
Please don't go ahead with this lie. It backfires. Lack of trust has a negative effect in marriage
And to think that you act like a born again Christian see the kind of advise you’re giving .
Delete👌👌
DeleteWell try and get pregnant within this short window but you shouldn’t joke with such. You are playing with his emotions 🤨.
ReplyDeleteJoke?
ReplyDeleteOr you wanted the guy to do what he has started doing?
Na prank you play.
Why is Stella calling it a LIE told?
why didn't you tell him it was a joke immediately you told him? you waited till he informed everyone about it, fixed introduction before you are saying it was a joke. No need to tell him the truth else this relationship will be gone forever.
ReplyDeleteJust find away to fall pregnant with him or fake a miscarriage since you have started telling lies.
This would definitely Backfire it’s best to come clean
ReplyDeleteSo this love and transparency that’s being preached who is practicing it? Or is it only when it is convenient for us ?
Let me ask you one question, when you told him you were pregnant what was your sincere purpose?
Why did you lie? You wanted to figure out what his reaction would be if one day you were truly pregnant, right?
ReplyDeleteIf somewhere in your subconscious you were scared of what his future reaction might be and you knew his response was something you couldn't vouch for without putting him through a test, why fornicate in the first place?
Why allow him to sleep with you let alone without protection, when you knew you couldn't trust him enough not to let you down?
You don't even have a backup excuse in place to get you out of the predicament you are presently in, just in case his reaction was positive, because deep down you weren't expecting his reaction to be positive, yet you kept allowing it.
I am just trying to understand why some ladies are always scared to tell a man who is sleeping with them that they are expecting his child when protection isn't involved yet not scared enough to avoid fornicating due to the negative reactions he might give you when you share the news. That fear of being let down by your man is enough to make you keep your legs closed.
I don't know if I have any advice for you, because if you tell him you miscarried, he may not believe you and subtly think you set him up to speed up the marriage rite.
Words on Marble.
Babe just follow Stella advice.
ReplyDeleteMay God help you .
@icefishseller
May God help her for evil ? Have some respect for God
DeleteI know you lied because you wanted to see his reaction if truly you are pregnant, but you should have just tell him you were joking before it got to this, anyways just follow Stella advice.
ReplyDeleteJust continue with the lie and fake a miscarriage like stella said. Na wetin good for guys that gives pregnancy as a condition for marriage. 😁😁😁😁
ReplyDeleteYou wanted to tell him to see his reaction whether he will dump you or continue with the relationship. Now you have seen the reaction you are looking for. For someone you have been in a relationship with for two years, you should understand each other enough not to lie about anything. And why hasn't he thought about marrying you since until 'pregnancy' came into the picture. It means he has the means to marry you and has deliberately been wasting time.
ReplyDeleteWhen he was busy calling people, weren't you aware so that you stop him before he goes ahead to eventually call everyone? You allowed him to inform everybody and you were probably even happy that marriage don set. Did you suddenly realize the gravity of the lie you told? Simply tell him that you didn't know what came over you, as in, village people beclouded you and you told him you were pregnant but truly truly, you're not. If he loves you, he will forgive you and still go ahead with the marriage. If he doesn't, just know that he falls into the category of men that want their women to be pregnant before marrying them
Madam start trying to get pregnant by seeing the gynaecologist and taking fertility drugs
ReplyDeleteA joke gone too far.
ReplyDeleteHmmm.
ReplyDeleteWell he needed a push and you gave one
ReplyDeleteTwo years don reach for him to know
Tell him you’re not pregnant abeg
Too many lies on top what
On top man and marriage. Una think say all the bombast against men na real in life? That's why men who cry over woman matter mostly get laughed at by other men and most women.
Delete😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 man dey sweet o, see even Stella stay with man 😆😆😆😆
DeletePheeeew!!!! Men dey see shege back to back. Poster just follow Stella advise. Nothing to add.
ReplyDeleteWhy am I laughing though? Poster, you can't keep using lies to cover a lie, it's either you tell him or get pregnant by him immediately. If you continue telling lies it will backfire in your face.
ReplyDeleteThis your joke is extreme.
ReplyDeleteIf he ticked all the boxes, then try and get pregnant asap.
The joke is a silly one and I pray it doesn't cost a good man.
ReplyDeleteWhy not arrange for some boys to beat you up and steal your wallet note this must happen when you are menstruating. Then form miscarriage please note you need a nurse to sell this this lie well. And get ready to pay a good sum.
ReplyDeleteWTH!
DeleteHmmm. This is how someone claimed miscarriage to hasten a wedding/marriage.
ReplyDeleteWell... after saying their "I dos", the miscarriages never stopped occurring!! Sadly, these ones were real!!
Just tell him the truth that you wanted to know if he really loved you. Make him happy and when he’s in a good mood, tell him
ReplyDeleteHold on to the lies you started or else there will be crack in that relationship
ReplyDeleteWahala
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteSo without pregnancy your guy cannot marry you. Tell him you have a miscarriage
Lies upon lies.. claim miscarriage join, until your claims occur for real. 😆 I laugh you.
ReplyDeleteLies no good oooo
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B
Any person who writes to spin, white-wash, bias and, as now called, influence is missing almost free master class if he/she does not read chronicles on this blog.
ReplyDeleteSee how the Poster calls her action a joke? After all a man should expect to be teased or joked with by his woman. She just wanted to see how he would react. Is that not the essence of all jokes and pranks?
But was it a joke. Did she really intended it as a joke. The answer is: Just learn how to use words and and know how people influence the actions we take and think are our meditated actions.
Mind what you lie with, so that it won't come back to hurt you.... Que sera sera
ReplyDeleteOne thing with lies is that you have to keep on strategizing. Honesty is the key , as the saying goes do unto others the way you want to be reciprocated.
ReplyDeleteStupid expensive joke. Anyway,claim your next period na miscarriage then leave that guy to go and find a good woman since you are deceitful.
ReplyDeleteLeave ke?
DeleteLol
Persin wey dey "joke" pregnancy for?
So many red flags: First you lied about being pregnant and secondly, your guy did not want to do the needful until he heard you re pregnant. And who plans a traditional wedding and makes other plans without letting you know first..He just went ahead to make plans without you knowing? Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteMy advice for you is to let him know that you were not pregnant in the first place and it was all a joke...Starting a marriage with negative stuff like miscarriage, fake pregnancy is a wrong premise to lay your marital foundation.. Miscarriage is not a word to play around with.....
Use your feminine charm to let him know or tell your mom the truth let her plead on your behalf...
Learn that when you play silly games, you win silly prizes...
All the best
The man too is not smart enough. She told him that she is pregnant, he didn't care to ask the test result to be sure.
ReplyDeleteAbi the poster wants to use pregnancy to ' hook' the man, why she lied.
See them👆
ReplyDeleteBunch of liars..
The same people that would claim they hate being lied to.. see them all encouraging and enabling one..
Hypocrites..
Shame!
Men, you better be wise and firm..
Don't be soft and too understanding..
See how they treat such men
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You'll suffer for 600 years
God I pray please direct the man to see this you are a jezebel just like sdk
ReplyDeleteLater she dey go knack outside come pin am to the guy fear some women
ReplyDeleteHmm..What do women really want?
ReplyDeleteMoreover, The guy na confirmed mugu. Having sex for 2 years and only to be jolted up to plan wedding by fake pregnancy.
This lie is almost similar to giving a man another man's child.
Hmm..What do women really want?
ReplyDeleteMoreover, The guy na confirmed mugu. Having sex for 2 years and only to be jolted up to plan wedding by fake pregnancy.
This lie is almost similar to giving a man another man's child.
If the guy is from eastern Nigeria like me, my advice is for you to go and carry belle now. Continue to dey knack until belle enter no go tell am say na joke o.
ReplyDeleteSome of my brothers wey don ready to settle down dey like use belle propose😂
That is what will spur him to complete the marriage rites on time. Since he has already taken the first steps allow him to continue, but make sure you fulfill your own end of the bargain.
Mr J
E sure say this guy go leave you if you tell the truth.
ReplyDeleteThis guy is mature and loves you. If you tell him the truth it would hurt him that you didn't trust him. Many issues will come up and that is a big crack in your relationship.
Continue with the lie, if you are unable to get pregnant asap, then lie that you had a miscarriage immediately after the wedding.