This Chronicle concerns my friend...
She got married 13 years ago and no children yet in the marriage due to series of miscarriages... both of them stayed in a place with her father in-law that was bedridden and the son of her sister in-law for three years before the husband was transferred to another town...
The sister in-law retained the house and my friend with her husband left for the new place,and after two months the sister in-law went to the church that they were transferred from and said a lot of things which the pastor could not say including abandoning her father for her, it was when the pastor came to preach for my friend's husband that he called my friend privately and told her to be very careful with that her sister in-law that she said a lot of bad things he would not like to say...
After the demise of the father in-law,they had a family prayer in their brother's church including his brother,his wife and three of my friend's sister in-laws including that one,the eldest sister was led to say since herself and that her sister in-law has kids they should lay hand on their brother's wife to have kids like them too,the eldest sister in-law prayed laying hand on her womb but that sister in-law refused that she is seeing her mensuration..
This is a lady that calls herself an evangelist,she pretended to stay in the house for four months monitoring my friend until she had issues with her own brother...
When everyone will be awake going to their normal job in the morning she will sleep till 12 ,bath,sleep again till everyone will be back again still sleeping,the brother told her to look for something doing and she has handwork o,and she left the house after the correction by the brother........and so many other things she is doing and saying,I keep that for another day......Is she really a suspect?
Suspect of what?For the ladys inability to have a kid or what?Because she went to gossip the lady to a Pastor does not mean that she is the one who has stopped her from having a child....This is a great allegation and without proof it would not be fair to put this accusation on anyone oh.
That Pastor sef that went to poison her mind by telling her what was said is not a good person.Tell your friend to be careful of that Pastor......
What kind of medical treatment is your friend getting?
ReplyDeleteAlso menses supposed finish by now so she can come and pray for them Abi
your friend should seek for medical help, spiritual help rather than thinking that her SIL is the reason behind her waiting. She should go for prayers, see her doctor and make sure that they are both medically okay. Your friend should also avoid that pastor who want join two heads together.
ReplyDeleteHonestly I can't speak for others as for me I need some one to explain this Chronicle to me because I am confused about it..thanks in advance..
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ReplyDeleteI know there are anointed people on this blog. Please y'all should help me pray for my Mom who has a heart condition. Pls pray that God corrects the problem so she wouldn't need surgery. Pls fam,plsssss help me pray. Pls beg God for me plsssss
Jehovah Rapha show Your mighty power in Jesus Christ Name Amen
DeleteHeavenly and Divine Healing upon Mama in Jesus might name AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
DeleteBiko leave me this afternoon lol
ReplyDeleteThis narrative is a bit somehow but I think your friend has got her eyes fixed on Man not God... Tell her to stop looking for who is or isn't and face God! That pastor though! My pastor will not even listen to the sister-in-law speak Ill of her not to talk of relating it back. Jeez!!!
ReplyDeleteSuspicion is a bad thing oh. Tell your friend to repent and pray to her God for a child. She should leave another person alone. If God answers u. Her fight is in vain
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All these kind talk dey tire me. Abeg make dem just dey, their suspicion no too make sense.
ReplyDeleteIn Nigeria, every one is a suspect. Nigerians have the mindset that people are after them, every where they turn they see enemies, friends ooo family ooo, all na suspect. While it is ok to be cautious, the disadvantages of this sort of mindset far outweighs the advantages. Paranoia, lack of sleep, superstition, all types of mental illness, are all a result of this mindset.
ReplyDelete@Poster, continue believing God for a miracle and while at it please do a thorough check up for what is causing the miscarriages, pls stop looking over your shoulders for a perceived enemy, and stop letting random people 'lay hands' on your tummy all in the name of prayer.
Your first paragraph is the truth. Overly suspicious. I have been struggling to withstand this mentality of someone else mystically being behind my life problems. Its not easy but for peace of mind sake, its far better. And the way you lay it all out including lack of sleep, has helped me in this journey.
DeleteChronicl poster: Maybe the sister in law that sleeps from morning to night is also dealing with issues like anxiety, depression, hbp, malaria or is pregnant. As for whatever she said to the Pastor, did you think living a fully immobile/handicapped adult for another person to care for unexpectedly will have no single issue? Bear in mind that she isnt professionally trained to care for an ill elder who likely needed 20 hours plus care. Even care nurses have small complaints on their quality of service. Also you didnt witness the events neither did your dad complain to you, so while Man of God may not be lying he may add some flavour. I am not saying she is perfect, I just suspect how the comments you will read will flow and I want you to think of things from another angle. See, some of us are in situations where gossip here and there has completely ruined the office with malice and resentment, paranoia and unfounded beef year in year out. Then we left that horrid circle and saw from afar that some of those negative attitude were based on several levels of lies, sociopathy,lack of empathy.
May I suggest something? It looks like you need a break. Plan something very far away from everybody except your spouse. Both of you should act like couple, boyfriend and girlfriend (not husband & wife) just faliing in love again. Make sure you rest& eat very very well and take your vitamins and co during that time away. And your spouse also needs to mentally,physically be present for that period. Promise yourselves not to bring up family drama, naija politics or inflation rate during thatprecious time away.
Please it doesnt have to be expensive. Badagry is nice, so is South Africa, Ghana. Or try Ethopia or Turkey or Bulgaria. Anyone that works best for your budget. Make sure you communicate with your Creator very well in spirit and in truth. You and your hubby should pray and worship together with all sincerity. I know it is so difficult to keep positive in seemingly daunting situations, am going thru my own, but keep hope&faith very alive
I don overtype. I wish you the very best and may you hold your children and be so full of joy that all this drama will look childish to you.
PS: I hope you and your partner have done very thorough medical tests and saw experienced Gynecologists', however there is nothing difficult for God in Jesus Name. Amen.
You did not tell us whether she had sought medical attention and the verdict of the doctors.
ReplyDeleteHe said, she said, they said. Let your friend be strong and take wise decisions for her mental health.
It’s either she hasn’t been to a good doctor in a teaching hospital, or she has and they’ve told them an ogbonge reason she no wan share. No be our people again?
DeleteExactly, even if she went to the hospital and was told that she is fine, has her husband gone for his own tests?
DeleteWell done Inspector Jato, the investigator. You submitted an inconclusive case for us to look into.
ReplyDeletePoster please what is your friend's blood group I hope she is not negative and her husband positive because blood group incompatibility can cause reocurring miscarriage if she didn't take Rhogam after a miscarriage or an abortion if she is negative and partner positive.
ReplyDeleteSecondly if she gets pregnant at what month does she miscarry we have to rule out incompetent cervix before looking for someone to blame. Please your friend should visit a government hospital for proper assessment and back it up with prayers God is the giver of children not human.
The thing about TTC, is everyone is a suspect. I doubt if that sister-in-law has a hand in anything
ReplyDeleteI don't even understand this chronicle, how can she be a suspect because she refused to lay hands on your friend's stomach or did the pastor tell her that her SIL was the problem? Abegooo
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