Hmmmm.....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SUCKY SUCKY HUSBAND
Stella , I think I'm about to lose my husband....
This is the issue.....
I delivered our first baby few months ago, the problem is that my husband wants to be sucking breast even though I'm still breastfeeding.
I thought he was joking initially but he is serious but I refused, he tried severally but I still refused, so since then he changed automatically, he has also left our bedroom and sleeping in visitors room since.
Before all these happened, my husband has been the best thing that happened to me , let me not say that he is perfect but he is the best, he provides for me without asking and he is very caring, but with what is happening now he has changed and we quarrel over little things.
he has not eaten my food for 2 days now and I'm so worried, he said that I still need orientation on how to stay married, I think i will have to give in and allow him do what he wants because i don't want to loose my husband/marriage, but i find it extremely weird to breastfeed an adult.
Please bvs I don't know if it is normal to do it as I don't want to lose my home or is there anyway i can talk to him about it,
Please bvs I don't know if it is normal to do it as I don't want to lose my home or is there anyway i can talk to him about it,
I'm asking for help here as anonymous because this is not something I can boldly discuss with anybody or my mum, I can't even discuss it with his mother either even though we are close.
When his mother visited last week she noticed that we were having issues, she tried to talk to us but we couldn't tell her what the issue is, she just said that whatever the issue is that we should try and settle it.
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Hmmmm your husband wan suck and you turn am to Chronicles?Have you not been giing him since? After spoiling him with sucking, you are coming to ask us? were we there when he was sucking with eyes closed and enjoying himself?
What if you had twins?Wont you breastfeed both? Please the man eat and leave us to face serious matters....My advice is to let him suck so there will be peace......
Stella sometimes you’re so cold how can you be laughing over something that bothers a person instead of looking for solution e good ?
ReplyDeleteStella said nothing but the truth
DeleteCorrect answer, matter of fact this is a non issue🤨🤪😜
Gifty
That's what people get when the bring their problems to internet..they will receive the good, bad and absolute rubbish responses. So i no blame stella. That she runs a blog does not make her wiser so cut her some slack!!
Delete17:09 you’re so shady acting like you’re defending her but deep down you’re nasty
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DeleteOnly GOD is perfect
My concern with men who suck their lactating wives is, how are they comfortable sucking breast milk? Even as a woman, I can't taste breast milk. My husband won't near your breast until you wean the baby.
ReplyDeletePoster, just give him and let's see how he will continue sucking breast milk, just know that you will be eating for 3 😂😂😂😂
*Larry was here*
So our palate and taste buds are the standard now. Becos e no sweet you mean say e no suppose sweet others. Such shallow and silly response.
DeleteAnoy17:58 your response to Larry's comment is worse, why attacking her. Drop your own comment and let others breathe. Larry has always been a sweet fellow probably long before you discovered this blog.
DeleteFeed two of them for peace to reign.
ReplyDelete@15:04 Can you wean the two of them at the appropriate time?
DeleteIs he interested in sucking breast or sucking Milk?
DeleteThere's how a man can suck your nips without extracting milk.
If he's gunning for milk, then he probably wasn't breastfed properly by His mum.
If you can free your mind, there is nothing weird about it. Just let your baby empty your breasts first and if you can also pump before you both get down, so that you don't feel like you're feeding him breastmilk (even though nothing dey there kwa).
ReplyDeleteWhat a selfish man!!
ReplyDeleteDon’t breastfeed him, let him keep carrying face.
Sluttychic.
Very selfish and petty man
DeleteBetter to be selfish than be slutty
DeleteThe thing is nobody has manual on how these things cos believe me this topic no follow for all these talking stage things but in marriage some things can happen.
ReplyDeleteSome men will not neat your breast cos of the smell but since he don't mind it's not really a big issue pls try and fix it .
Some cracks happen esp after the first delivery issues stemming from him wanting when you re not healed yet or your mind there psychologically pls have a talk with him before he step outside ,he is already sleeping outside the bedroom don't allow him to go far he will pin the excuse on you
Cheers to you
More reasons men should advocate for polygamy.
ReplyDeleteIf the man was married to two wives, this wouldn't be an issue because poster will gladly breastfeed her kids and heal while the other wife satisfy the man.
But woke peoplw say no.with one wife yet too many problems abound from the female gender.
The man should get himself a side chick since we pretend not to see the importance of polygamy.The man should do hide and seek outside with a willing side chick.
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DeleteOnye ojoo!🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Gifty
Go and do your polygamy in peace. Oginidi?
DeleteI agree with you, the crazy idea of 1 adult human beng being everything to another adult human being is simply not practicable and unnecessarily too burdensome. The reason for all these unhappy unions and unfulfilled couples everywhere
DeleteYou fit never chop food today but here you are advocating for polygamy as if you can maintain 2 women including their children in this hard time.
DeletePoster you can’t breastfeed an adult abeg, you will faint collapse and probably die.
Please ignore that man and face your front or wean your baby so your breasts milk will dry up make everybody kuku rest.
Fan Emmanuel
No man maintain two women in polygamy.
DeleteEven now, a woman who wants to be wholly maintained by a man must be ready for written or oral chronicles.
In those days, wives in polygamous setting have their own means of sustenance for themselves and children. The man is to bring in the balance in some other ways. The polygamy of provision by man is a mixture of European imposed monogamy and traditional polygamy.
By the way, the woman claim to children today is a relic of polygamy as children always stay in their mother's huts, later, rooms under almost sole care of the mothers.
Anon 15:13, start the polygamy from your family and friends. Advise them to marry more than one wife. You too, marry like four wives. Ewu
DeleteAnon 15: 13 Before you practice your polygamy, you must drop your internet and move to the village to do hunting. Silly monkey, so how do you propose a woman solves her marital problems, by going for polyandry? Poster buy fake books and feed your husband with it or give him feeding bottle to suck. Your husband is not as nice as you portray him.
DeletePlease feed him too for peace to reign. Probably he wants to fiddle with them and not necessarily suck.
ReplyDeleteEither way, give in for peace to reign. Please come back to tell us how it is going. 😆 🤣
Hmmm.life no balance!
DeleteWhat I like
Please allow him to suck. Especially after feeding baby. It will refill fast as long as he empties it.
ReplyDeleteMy hubby loves it too. I don’t see it as a big deal. He heated me a lot with engorged breast when my baby suddenly stopped breastfeeding at 8months.
Please feed your babies in peace especially as he’s been a good man.
Very sick. Some people will do absolutely anything to keep
Deletea man.
He has obviously got a fetish. And being stupid cos he is not getting his way.
ReplyDeleteExactly very childish man
DeleteWhat nonsense? Tell him mother pls
ReplyDeleteReal nonsense
DeleteYour husband has a breastfeeding fetish that you’re only just realizing now that you’ve had a baby. He was probably into some sick porn that made him develop this interest.
ReplyDeleteI will advise that you call his bluff. He has been the best husband so far but he’s showing you a very manipulative side that if you end up giving into, you will never be able to stand your ground again on any other matter.
So what if he doesn’t eat your food? That in itself is a VERY manipulative behaviour. He’s trying to break you until you let him have his way. Do you know that coercion into breastfeeding him is actually sexual assault?
Please don’t let him gaslight you into comprising you values. You are very justified for not wanting to give actual breast milk to an adult male, husband or not.
Tell your that you don’t like it because the thought of an adult male actually drinking breast milk, makes you VERY uncomfortable. Don’t discuss it with anyone to advise him. Just keep on doing your own thing and pray to God to intervene. When you stop lactating, get sexy, give him a titty fuck and all the nip sucking he wants.
Yeye man
Madam valuemart, weldone o!
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Anon 18:03 it’s easy to see people who have never been respected or valued since they gave birth to them. If you like submit your two breast for your husband to suck and feed your children pap. It’s your family problem and not mine.
DeleteMadam third class citizen
Anon 15:20 God Bless You
DeleteWetin some of una dey marry sef
ReplyDeleteIf to say we dey the future some of us for no even reason to date not to talk of marriage
DeleteMany tufiakwa men out there who have no business getting married
DeleteMany tufiakwa men out there who have no business getting married
DeleteI am telling you. Nonsense men everywhere.
DeleteI wonder why we have this crop of men in our society today
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ReplyDeleteI think you should allow him but only when the baby is properly and fully breastfed.
ReplyDeleteLet him suck. He probably won't disturb you for it anymore, after tasting your breast milk. I've never deliberately tasted my own breast milk. One day, I accidentally did and it was very sweet. Then I said no wonder babies love it. Despite the sweetness, I never tried to taste it again after that day. I just feel it's weird.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I think you should allow him, for peace to reign. Even if he demands it again, allow him and ask him to increase food and provision money, since you'd now have to start eating for 3. That would probably stop him, if the taste doesn't.
I can't imagine how this flimsy excuse from your husband wants to ruin your marriage. If doing so doesn't affect you ,allow him he is your husband or what do you want us to say. This has to be a private talk i don't know why is a chronicle.
ReplyDeleteYou said it all. This absolutely a private matter that should not be discussed out side.
DeleteNne na wa o 😮 this is absurd and weird.
ReplyDeleteMadam give am booby joor.
ReplyDeleteJust give in if that will restore the peace in your home but this is bad sh**t weird
ReplyDeleteEven me as a woman I can't suck my breasts if am breastfeeding, wo give him the breasts make peace dey o jare God bless your marriage.
ReplyDeleteSo you as a woman do you normally suck your breast when you are not breastfeeding?. Pls answer o becos I want to check something.
Delete@18:05, why are you tackling our sistas per comment?🤭
DeleteBecause of breast a grown man is acting this way. Ahhh.
ReplyDeleteE shock you? 😂
DeleteE only grow age, maturity and empathy na zero
DeleteToday it’s breast milk (which he’s disgusting btw ), tomorrow it will be for him to fxck 3days after you birth and since you wouldn’t want to lose your marriage to a very unreasonable fetish man , you will give in .
ReplyDeleteLots of you women have married unkind men but you don’t know yet because you people don’t have a good examples of a good man.
You give it to him ok
So, Nigerian women need to redefine who is a good husband.
DeleteThat's where the drizzle starts on them
By the time we get to their definition of God fearing man, is already a downpour.
Very useless women with no dignity, imagine advising her to breast feed her sick husband while still nursing her baby, some day his new fetish will be for you to sleep with a gorilla and some silly women will advise you to do it just to stay married.
DeleteI don’t see anything wrong with a husband sucking his wife’s breast milk as long as you clean your nipples very well before giving it to your baby since the baby’s immunity is still low.
ReplyDeleteMy husband always took mouthfuls of breast milk now and then while I was nursing..it didn’t affect anyone, both babies are parents now and we are grandparents. I don’t know what the issue is unless it’s a taboo in your place.
This is exactly why she shouldn’t give him to suck! So she shd put her child’s health in jeopardy?? You lots have serious low self esteem.
DeletePut baby's health in jeopardy how??? You people just come up with arrant nonsense in the name of sounding knowledgeable and woke.
DeleteUrhobo man say "Akpoughe - life na spectacle!"🤭
ReplyDeleteJust one of the reasons why it’s better to remain single
ReplyDeleteHmm
DeleteYou never ready be that 🙄
I tell you. He wants to put his dirty mouth same place the clean baby’s mouth needs to go. The baby needs to drink that food, he can drink countless things, yet he is getting puffed up and angry over nature’s design and creating undue stress in the household.
DeleteVery manipulative and inconsiderate man. He is whining because they refused to give him baby's food. He would use that his caterpillar dirty teeth and mouth to suck the nipples that baby sucks. Unamikot
DeleteMeanwhile, his fellow king did not advise this poster. He suddenly developed withlow on his fingers
Honestly this is so sad
DeleteHow can one breast feed a grown up man? I tire oo...
ReplyDeleteWomen will always be one to sacrifice, somehow
ReplyDeleteNot necessarily
DeleteStrange man I tell you. I can’t taste my own breast milk talkless of my husband sucking. Problem is, if you allow him, won’t you have an over flow of milk?? It’s like constantly sucking the breast from baby and your husband. Your brain will tell you to continue to produce more. Selfish selfish man. Open up to your mother inlaw and let her advise you accordingly. And who cares if he doesn’t want to eat your food?? Some of you are still worried about this nonsense?? Na wa oo.
ReplyDeleteI’m nigvrroubled that he wants it
ReplyDeleteI’m troubled that he doesn’t understand boundaries and he’s obviously the more powerful partner. He knows he can freeze you out into submission and he’s using that power to get his way. I don’t like people doing that
Exactly!
DeleteSome men believe because of one thing called brideprice they can do whatever they like to their wives and she must obey their every whims.
The fact that he is making such a huge deal over this shows the type of person that he is. She married evil and she just doesn’t know it.
No bride price was mentioned in the chronicle. On that matter, it is a wonder women still support it and celebrate the custom that says a man cannot claim his child born by a woman he has not paid bride price on.
DeleteRead the chronicle again. Poster fully explained why she cannot stand on her No. You evaded that to talk about bride price.
Anon 20:07 sometimes you people can be eloquent but lack basic comprehension.
DeleteRead my comment again. I am simply saying some men can be emboldened to request for ridiculous things because they have a warped interpretation of submission and brideprice. If it doesn’t make sense to you, it’s fine. I won’t give you the banter you crave. You’re on every post, without your ID dropping sneaky jabs. How embarrassing.
Anon, it has nothing to do with bride price, everything depends on the level of value a woman places on herself and the type of man she is dealing with, do you know what unthinkable things some unmarried ladies do to please a man.
DeleteVery weird 😳😳😳
ReplyDeleteI also think you’ll be taping with Stella’s advice because you want him back the way he was and just need someone to say it’s okay to give in
ReplyDeleteI find it hard to eat food cooked by lactating mothers because I imagine that their breast milk drips into the food, and someone is begging for breast milk. Yuck🤮
ReplyDeleteYou sound idiotic
Delete18:07, very idiotic. He has always been like this. Look out for his comments
DeleteAnon 18:07 and Anon 23:55, it takes one to know one. Only an idïot recognizes a fellow idïot.
DeleteIT is finished. I've read some pretty crazy shit on this blog but this has to take the cake.
ReplyDeleteIt appears your husband has a fetish. Do you cum? And does breastmilk squirt out of your nipples when you do? It can be a bit of a turn on for some men.
That said, i don't see nothing wrong with what your husband wants. I mean if he paid for the container, why are you denying him the contents? Both the milk and the milkee belongs to the milker right? So madam present those full jugs of yours to that passionate milker of a husband you have.
Who knows maybe he is just trying to augment his protein sources in this economy.
When you dey call am babe you no reason say him go want milk too?
DeleteWerey 😂
No shit🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteGifty
No shit🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteGifty
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAnne K
18:30, so you don't have any novel to write on this issue?
DeleteYour fellow king wants to share breastmilk with his baby, no advice from you?
Lawyer Ikpeama
Marriage comes with all kinds of discoveries. Husband competing with newborns. I honestly can’t. Tell him as you are still breastfeeding for the sake of health of the babies and not to cause transfer of bacteria he should wait until you stop breastfeeding. I couldn’t agree to this either because I am a germaphobe and with babies I am more intense. The health of the baby must come first.
ReplyDeleteI meant he should wait until the baby is weaned.
DeleteYour casing of the matter makes sense.
DeleteProblem is that when the human heart wants something, most don't reason matters as you cased it. For effect she may add that medical science supports the possibility of cross infection of the baby.
Read somewhere of a baby that got herpes from being kissed by an infected person.
I believe this is the characteristic of immature men. Keeping malice, moving to another room, and refusing to eat food when things don't go their way. Manipulative much! These men are always perfect in other ways but childish. Just like my hubby, one day, i was breastfeeding our first child in our bed. He grabbed my other breast and started sucking it, i felt disgusted and pushed him away immediately. I told him not to try that shit with me again, lol. In my case, he did not make a fuss about it. Apologise to him and explain how you feel about the whole thing. Being married to these childish men is draining. Me and mine are seeing marriage counsellor this period, and if nothing changes, we separate. Just apologise for peace but stand your ground but do it respectfully.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o
DeleteUhhm women with suffering how can a full grown man tell people that his problem is breast milk ?better do as he wish but why can't you tell your mother in law so as to know if she didn't breastfeed him hence the need to know where the problem came from;
ReplyDeleteAs funny as this chronicle is, to allow peace reign allow him too to suck after the baby has finished sucking.
ReplyDeleteAllow. There's a way he'd suck and he won't extract milk. Don't take advice from single people with zero experience or you'd be in the market again, hustling for male attention.
ReplyDeleteSee this one o
DeleteIf he asks for anal s#x next time , she should give him so that she will not become single again because singleness is a disease.
I shake my head at your stupid mindset
Your husband will be tired of you because you lack self respect, just read the advise you gave her. I wish I knew you, you must sell 80 bags of pure water for me daily or else na divorce since you are a fool.
DeleteSome singles are actually more sensible than some of you married chics.
DeleteHow do you know the singles and married commenters on this post or you just want to showcase your ignorance 🙄
Y’all end up marrying despicable men and then think you are better than the singles.
Sluttychic.
This is so funny. Stella blog is like a school, I dey learn new and weird things everyday.
ReplyDeleteLook, as much I find it weird, I think you should ask yourself if you're comfortable with it before you proceed. As ludicrous as it sounds, men can act like babies. Look at him sulking like a child. Anyway, have a frank talk with him and let him know you won't stand for his blackmail. But poster, if your not too weirded out by it, you can let him have his way once in a while. At the end of the day, we make concessions for people we love. Trust me, people have far worse fetishes.
ReplyDeleteYeye man, please wash your breast well before feeding the baby before he will infect baby
ReplyDeleteYeye man, please wash your breast well before feeding the baby before he will infect baby
ReplyDeleteNonsense and ingredients, your husband is selfish, I'm sure he gives you head? After washing your plate with that mouth, he now comes to drag nipple with baby using the same mouth. Poster make sure you clean the nipple very well after breastfeeding your husband before you feed your child.
ReplyDeleteGive unto the baby what the baby desires and give unto the the dad what he desires too.
ReplyDelete🤣
DeleteManipulative selfish and petty man who doesn't care about your boundaries, Madam wear seat belt na nonsense you marry
ReplyDeleteVery wicked man
DeleteHe just dey warm up, other selfish "I must have my way" still dey road. Mean man
ReplyDeleteTomorrow he will ask to fcuk your anus and you will agree after he Manipulates you like this.
ReplyDeleteIf your baby is up to 6 months wean him or her. Stop breastfeeding your baby and let the milk dry up. Then give him empty breasts to suck. Stupid man
That’s even more selfish!!!! The baby deserves to be breastfed until he or she doesn’t want it anymore. Baby deserves all the nutrients in her mother’s breast. Her husband is NOT a good Man!
DeleteOne man's food is another man's poison. When I was breastfeeding, my husband would dare not come close to my breast. If that's what he wants, give him let peace reign
ReplyDeleteHe is a ritualist
ReplyDeletePls whatever you allow him to do, don't allow him to enter through the back of. See you see bad smell
Tighten your seatbelt for the next demand. Will you give in for peace sake even though it’s against your wish? You have every right to say NO in your marriage even if he’s 💯 a provider. Your body your choice. I really wish you goodluck in this your marriage.
ReplyDeleteDear Poster, Your husband is inconsiderate, wicked and heartless man. How on earth will he want to suck your breast while breastfeeding his baby. What a disgusting and horrible act. My first born was breast fed for two good years while second born breast fed for one and half year. Despite the fact that i so much love to suck breasts, during lactating i never get closer to my wife's breasts because i cannot stand the smell not to talk of sucking a breast of a nursing mother. Madam, please in the name of God i beg of you and for the sake of the innocent child health don't submit to his request and don't be shy to discuss it with your mother in-law. Again don't panic you will not lose your marriage. Gaskia, some of my genders are animals in human skin. Shalom.
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