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Wednesday, February 07, 2024

Actress Blessing Obasi Recounts Marrying At An Older Age And The Struggles She Faced..

 Nollywood Actress Blessing Obasi posted on instagram that marrying late wasn't a decision she willingingly took but rather,a process of self discovery,resilience and defying societal expectations.

She made this revelation in reaction to a discussion show about the difficulties and challenges single women in their 30s encounter.

She wrote:
"I know,I had to jump on this conversation because, after several years of feeling like an outsider in a world that often equates a woman's worth with her marital status, I've finally stepped into a chapter that I crafted on my own terms.

Getting married at an older age wasn't just a choice;it was a journey of self discovery, resilience, and breaking free from societal norms that tried to dictate my happiness.

The pressure and stigma were like unwelcome shadows, whispering doubts and casting long, lonely nights. But in those moments of solitude, I found strength. I learned that love isn't a race, nor is marriage a trophy for early achievement. It's about finding someone who understands the chapters of your past and wants to write the future ones with you.

So here I am, not a bride of youthful naivety, but a woman adorned in the wisdom of her years, ready to embark on a shared journey of love, respect, and partnership. And to those still walking their path, remember:your life, your pace, your story. Embrace it".

36 comments:

  1. Very nice one blessing

    I enjoy her movies

    Gifty

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  2. Very nice one blessing

    I enjoy her movies

    Gifty

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  3. Very well written

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  4. Live your life girlie ,more years ahead.

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  5. So happy for you Blessing....her husband Stan has got a good head on his shoulders, an old man in a young man's body. May your marriage continually succeed

    Talatu

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    1. He is just young and mature. I love this his statement I read somewhere, " The first year of their marriage,he will never be the reason they will have quarrel at home and he maintained his word ".
      That's someone that loves and cares about your feelings .

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  6. She’s an inspiration and a testament of faith in God that there’s nothing God cannot do and what you want, God gives to his children. God is never late.

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  7. Really nice, i like her already

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  8. Lovely writeup!
    God's time is the best.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ˜Ž

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  9. God continue to bless you and your family Amen

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  10. I love this.

    Neesolah

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  11. Glad for you blessings. I wish you more years in bliss.

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  12. Beautiful! Age is just a number and it is never too late to start any part of your life.

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  13. One Bv asked if 32 was too late to marry.
    Bvs ate her head.๐Ÿ˜‚
    Come and read this๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    1. Odiegwu!

      I married at 40 had 3 pregnancies thereafter plus I'm a director in my chosen field of endeavour

      Kam nukwa!

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  14. Ifenkili๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜
    God bless ur home.
    I love her movies and her husband is one good actor too.

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  15. Firstly, she is still young (to me).
    Secondly, she has to be one of the most intelligent nolly wood actresses ever. Kinda role models I d like to see

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    1. You must be 50+ for you to say a woman in her 30's is young

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    2. Phew! Here we go again

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    3. There are a lot of 50s and 60s, and maybe 70s here. Hence the variety of comments. Some which others may not understand the history of.

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  16. I have always liked her even from the days when they give her supporting roles in movies.

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  17. Well said madam ๐Ÿ‘
    Wisdom.
    Let the single breath so that can properly walk their path and come out strong and better

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  18. Matured husband with a big heart, intelligent wife with a big heart. May God Almighty continue to protect and bless you both. Amen

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