The actor made this known in a post on his Instagram page on Monday.
Jimoh warned women not to confess their extramarital affairs or infidelity to their partner.
Giving reasons for his advice, the actor explained that men don’t overlook infidelity, hence the need for women to keep their mistakes a secret.
He wrote: “Dear female, I know this may be a hard pill for men to swallow, if you ever by mistake cheat on your man, don’t ever confess! keep it between you and God.
“Men don’t forgive cheating and if they forgive you, they will hold it over and punish you with it for the rest of your life.”
Giving reasons for his advice, the actor explained that men don’t overlook infidelity, hence the need for women to keep their mistakes a secret.
He wrote: “Dear female, I know this may be a hard pill for men to swallow, if you ever by mistake cheat on your man, don’t ever confess! keep it between you and God.
“Men don’t forgive cheating and if they forgive you, they will hold it over and punish you with it for the rest of your life.”
I work in a domestic violence department and I can 100% could not have agreed more with him. Pack your things and go just quietly. Any man that still stays married after wife cheated is probably staying because of something. Confess and leave, don't confess and stay or don't confess at all.
ReplyDeleteTrue! In the same way, a woman who stayed after finding out her man cheated is also staying for a reason because at that point, the love is gone or has dwindled.
DeleteHe said the truth, the absolute truth.
ReplyDeleteTo each his own. Why cheat in the first place. Godliness and contentment is great gain. Don’t let the devil use your bodies and your desires for self gratification to ruin your life. We will all leave this earth like HW has Where he is now he won’t remember anything like s%x
ReplyDeleteLet’s focus on living and making the earth a better place to live in
Zendaya
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DeleteWhy would anyone cheat in the first place??? Don't eat your cake and still expect to have it.
Everyone on earth has a weakness, even you. You may not be a cheat, but you have your spiritual and moral failures in other ways. I have never cheated and likely never will, but I know how and why ppl cheat. I also know that I am no paragon of virtue and if tested in the area of my weakness could easily fail.
DeleteAbsolute truth.
ReplyDeleteSadly,the bitter truth. I know someone who did,the man claimed to have forgive the wife but she's always crying of emotional abuse and torture. I told her to leave,she said,she wants her kids to grow up in a home. She's almost like the breadwinner.
ReplyDeleteLmao! Delusional! How can you cheat and expect a man to forgive you and not count it upon you?
DeleteIf you ever cheat on your man, make sure you’ve signed out of the marriage. Because it would no longer exist.
TRUE for both men and women.
ReplyDeleteWe should not let market share protection make us tell half truths
Is he married? If not, he should pray that the wife should cheat and not confess until he finds out for himself, then the narrative will change. Things like this are better said with first-hand experience.
ReplyDeleteAbi?
DeleteYou're so brutal 🙀🤣🤣🤣
DeleteHe’s very married ..you can take the advice or leave it.he didn’t put your name there so stop taking it personal
DeleteYou're so 100% correct
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely
ReplyDeleteBut must you cheat?😎
ReplyDeleteHe wasn’t debating cheating,na so una dey fail exam.
DeleteHe's right
ReplyDeleteHe is right. The relationship will never be the same.
ReplyDeleteI think I agree
ReplyDeleteThe biggest cheat of a husband will expect faithfulness from his wife. And a man will carry that shit and toss in a woman’s face at the quickest opportunity, even 30 years later, seen it with my own eyes. Men don’t forgive cheating, even if they deserved to be cheated on or they said they have forgiven. Confess at your own risk.
ReplyDeleteI know a man who is divorced today. Says he regrets sending away his wife. The woman was good to him and his kids and was a hard worker. It was his pride that caused to send her away. He said he could have actually forgiven her since it was a one time act.
ReplyDeleteThe lady moved on and remarried I’m sure she has learnt her lesson and made a better commitment to the new hubby
But the ex is still struggling with trust issues till today
I don’t even know what to say.
To each his own
Zendaya
Na mumu wife dey talk
ReplyDeleteHmmmm. this is so true! I used to have a neighbour that was ttcing for 7 years, him and her husband has gone for several test and they keep saying her husband has low sperm count, treatment upon treatment o, I am not sure it got better. Then one certain evening, this lady got stranded under Obalende bridge, and then a man in a car beckoned at her to help her, when she got close to the car, she realized it was one of her ex, they exchanged pleasantries and the guy offered to take her home. On the way the guy took her to a different route and raped her. She walked the rest of the journey home that night, cos she refused to proceed with the guy. Hmm world people the woman got home and told her husband, the man said no problem at first, the next day, he asked her to go to the hospital, they treated her and all. But as soon as the woman returned from the hospital, the man asked her to leave. Na play we call am o, he chased the woman out. The woman left after all her plea fell on her husband's deaf ear. Only for the woman to realize she missed her period at the end of the month, she went for test and it was confirmed. Confusion first set in, she no know where to go or who to call. She summon courage and call her husband, the man said he can't be the father, he looked for every mean to get the number of the ex that raped him. After about 3 months, she got the guy's number, and she told him. The ex accepted the pregnancy surprisingly. Not knowing that the ex too has been ttcing for 7 years too. Long story short, the woman gave birth to triplets (all boys), andn when they did their DNA, it revealed that the man that raped her is their father.
ReplyDeleteWhat a tale. So where is she and the kids now? I am so intrigued with this story.
DeleteHer husband didn’t support her. At a time she needed love and support he tossed her out. I don’t know why men are like this, they know the average woman does not have the physical strength to over power a man naturally, a woman on her back cannot overpower a man without having a weapon and her hands are free. I don’t know why some men think we can easily fight off a man. I remember a lady saying a 60+ yr old man dragged her into an abandoned building and she thought because of his age she would be able to fight him off, but she said he was so strong she could not fight him off. It was her screaming that drew the attention of another man who was able to rescue her. I honestly feel that until men start getting raped by other men they will never understand what it feels like to be violated in that way.
On point. Know this and know peace
ReplyDeleteI’m a man and I told my wife,I don’t plan to cheat but if I do and you find out and forgive me,it’s your prerogative cos if you cheat and I find out it’s over. It’s not double standard,it’s personal principles.Even man wey him wife dey feed go still vex if she cheat not to talk of one that is the man of his house.
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