In her words:
"This is to us women yeah?, you need to understand here that when a man cheats, 80% of the time, it has absolutely nothing to do with you, so don't you ever beat yourself up again? You'll be beautiful,you will know how to make all his favorite dishes, you will be sexy as hell,and be intelligent and smart and he will still cheat.
So it's not you, it is never you.Don't go cry in your room, or starving yourself or being sad.stop all that nonsense,don't go and blame yourself for something someone else has decided to do,
"This is to us women yeah?, you need to understand here that when a man cheats, 80% of the time, it has absolutely nothing to do with you, so don't you ever beat yourself up again? You'll be beautiful,you will know how to make all his favorite dishes, you will be sexy as hell,and be intelligent and smart and he will still cheat.
So it's not you, it is never you.Don't go cry in your room, or starving yourself or being sad.stop all that nonsense,don't go and blame yourself for something someone else has decided to do,
DONT!
Don't blame yourself for something someone else decides to do.
But i am not here tell you what to do, if at the point, you decided on what you wanna do, make sure your happiness comes first.
And like I always say, marry a kind man, cos when you do, if and when he decides to cheat unfortunately, he knows to consider you on the sense that while he's doing his shit, he will never let you find out, because he knows it will hurt you, he will never disrespect you, he will never put you in a situation where you are constantly humiliated or embarrassed.
So again to you women, remember it's not you, infact, it's always never you".
But i am not here tell you what to do, if at the point, you decided on what you wanna do, make sure your happiness comes first.
And like I always say, marry a kind man, cos when you do, if and when he decides to cheat unfortunately, he knows to consider you on the sense that while he's doing his shit, he will never let you find out, because he knows it will hurt you, he will never disrespect you, he will never put you in a situation where you are constantly humiliated or embarrassed.
So again to you women, remember it's not you, infact, it's always never you".
Words on marble 👍
ReplyDeleteShe forgot to add bedmatics expert and respectful to her list.
ReplyDeleteShe will know all the acrobatic styles, be very respectful to him that she even kneels to thank him after s*x, yet he will cheat
Nothing left to say. For those asking and waiting for Yul to tell them what May did to him, you guys will wait taya as he didn’t have anything to tell.
ReplyDeleteLol. They go wait taya.
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DeleteHe is not telling for the sake of the kids, hope he maintains that and not spill under pressure.
DeleteMaybe she cheated in revenge of his numerous cheating. Unfortunately, society frowns upon women talking to another man not to talk of cheating. Even the children will blame her and feel ashamed even if they know their dad was cheating, that is the world we live in.
Does yul look like who will spare her reputation if she did such? Please please the breast surgery accuser
DeleteLol.na una dey advice.na una dey still complain.no be only you sabi put happiness first.infact men have started putting their happiness first that's why we having all of this advice from women.men are smarter now the difference is that they don't come to social media, they just do what's on their mind jejely and they bounce.so sister do what's on your mind too.no complain.everybody go dey alright.
ReplyDeleteOde.
DeleteAny man who decides to cheat on his wife to seek some funny happiness will get choked by that so called happiness he seeks, creating pain for another person.
DeleteContinue hiding under different self centered reasons to perpetrated wickedness.
***perpetrate
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ReplyDeleteNaija woman no dey ever accept responsibility. So I no surprise on this advice naija men try oh.see werrin una dey marry. Person invest in this one too.!
ReplyDeleteArrant nonsense!
DeleteSee the rubbish you are spewing in the name of attacking Nigerian women!
This lady you are insulting, are you her mate?!
Are you in her socio-economic class?!
Do you move in the circles she runs in?!
Are you up to her level?!
If you were to meet her face to face, can you repeat this nonsense you wrote up there?!
Bush man!
Village boy!
Rat!
FOOL!!!
DeleteCAPITAL FOOL!!!
What do you mean?!!!
Nigerian women never accept responsibility?!!!
Accept responsibility for their husbands' infidelities?!!!
Are you normal?!!!
You dey craze ni?!!!
So you mean to say that all Nigerian women whose husbands cheat are responsible for their husbands cheating?!!!
That the men cheat who cheat, cheat because of their wives?!!!
That Nigerian women are the cause of their husbands infidelities?!!!
Are you stupid?!!!
Mad dog!!!
Take your misogynistic, sexist, male chauvinist nonsense to those Alpha Males and Kangs platforms
Radarada!!!!
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ReplyDeleteUnless you never dated or nacked married man while single (or after being divorced), that's only when you have the moral ground to act victim..
ReplyDeleteI was in a gathering last month, come see as all these early 20 babes dey rush married men, Asin fellow single men are not even our competitors sef😂😂
Later they'll marry and be acting nollywood..
Be playing..
And yea, we have also agreed to be bringing only our sweet d!cks to the table too this year.. no be only Una fit useless dey bring svcculent pvssy into a relationship..
ReplyDeleteNo one has the monopoly of dumbness 🙏
Don't self-destruct and implode with bitterness this year you hear?
DeleteWord @Elsie 🤗🤗. @ Dante😄😄
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DeleteAsslickers Association of Dante
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"So again to you women, remember it's not you, infact, IT'S ALWAYS NEVER YOU".
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@the bolded, that means say no matter what, the man is the problem😂😂..
No wahala, we'll see the kind man wey Una dey always talk about nah..
Dear kings: marry a kind woman oh.. kindness isn't restricted to the male gender
@ Dante, what if the kindness isn't reciprocal from one of the spouses
ReplyDeleteThe only thing with Nigerian women is how to use men as poverty alleviation.
ReplyDelete"Nigerian women"...
DeleteShemi your grandmama, mama, sisters, female cousins, nieces, grand nieces, daughters, granddaughters be "Nigerian women"?
So they are all in the mix abi?
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" Marry a kind man, cos when you do, if and when he decides to cheat unfortunately, he knows to consider you on the sense that while he's doing his shit, he will never let you find out ......... Basket mouth.
ReplyDeleteWhat concerns being kind concerns cheating? You can be kind and still have no self discipline, guess you know?? He cheats and will never let you find out not because he is really kind, maybe another reason like to avoid issues or break up.
The worse of them are the ones that cheat with disrespect. Throw it on your face to show you they have someone better, give the same room to his ' side chic' to also disrespect you.
Make no excuse for nobody, who wants to cheat is cheating because he is a cheat.
I never knew what is happiness since I was teenager , I put my happiness first before any other things or person now. Gone were the days of silent cry and sadness bcos someone I trusted betrayed me many times. Now if you like cheat with 100 women I do not care na u go tired for my non attention.
ReplyDeleteWho needs your attention when younger fresher gurls are looking for who to do different styles for after a very little soings and pampering?? 😂 your kind will always learn the harrrrd way.
DeleteSo your mission on earth is to use different girls for different styles? You feel you are enjoying but you are dumb.
DeleteAbsolutely true
ReplyDeleteMen need to talk more about women (wives) cheating. Especially men who like some wives have their hands tied by different ropes (ropes) preventing them from leaving the marriage.
ReplyDeleteThis will help other Co men victims cope.
Last year a DNA test center gave chilling statistics on test results. Questions swirling around the mind then was how did the men cope; how did the marriage go after; etc.
Anon 23:23 you are too cheap bcos u are one of those call girls he slept with just a bottle of beer and 5000 naira for your services .
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