Hi Stella
I wrote a chronicle last year about how I introduced Bimpe to her fiance now turned husband. She gave me a cold response towards preparation to her wedding when I called to greet her and two weeks notice to attend her wedding.
Her hubby toasted me then but he was not my spec so I introduced him to Bimpe by God's grace they are happily married.
Her hubby toasted me then but he was not my spec so I introduced him to Bimpe by God's grace they are happily married.
Now, due to how Bimpe treated me during her wedding. I distanced myself from her friendship. I did not attend the wedding due to her actions towards me.
The issue now is Bimpe wants to revive her friendship with me but I am no longer interested in the friendship.
A colleague of mine in Ekiti told me Bimpe has been transferred to Ekiti, the former state where I worked. We are both civil servant working for the same firm but different state. I now work in Lagos .
People that know us as friends are always asking after her from me.
Should I tell my colleagues that we are no longer friends? how can I distance myself from her without being hurtful. Should I be ignoring her happy new month WhatsApp message because I don't want to have any stuff to do with her.
I am not holding any grudges against her but I don't want to encounter another betrayal from her ::
Dont activate any friendship with the traitor please...VERY DISLOYAL AND WICKED FRIEND!!!
Dont respond to any Nonsense happy new month messages, when she tire, she go stop.
No need to tell anyone you are no longer friends, if they ask just say that she is fine.
If you ignore this and go and activate the friendship eh, you will bring another Chronicle ooooooooh.
Sebi she has married and satisfied? She will soon accuse you of trying to snatch her husband...... PLEASE FACE FRONT BEFORE SHE SLAMS YOU AGAIN.....
Stella, please I have a question for you.
ReplyDeleteWhen did you purchase a blue pen and where is ur red pen? You gave it out or harmattan stopped it from working?
Please ignore her abeg, no need to tell anybody about your friendship with her.
DeleteStella #justiceforredpen# 🙄
I won't be surprised because Harmattan can be that cold and heartless. Sorry Stella for the red pen. I intend to continue shinning and spreading my heat waves everywhere. There will no longer be Harmattan to steal red pens.
DeleteLet everyone dey their dey Biko,you can reply her new month messages with same to you and keep it at that.
ReplyDeleteYou don't need to inform people about what happened.
But it seems u like her husband now😂 because u said u introduced her to him when he was not ur spec! So he is your spec now👀
DeleteMadam NK, so this nonsense you typed makes sense to you abi? If you (or anyone) have nothing to say/type, is it not better to be quiet than ....
DeleteNa wa oh!
Poster you guys can actually be friends but the distant kind of friends, there is nothing wrong in responding to her WhatsApp messages. Whether she likes it or not something definitely died with the way she acted so she shouldn't expect to pause the friendship and resume it whenever she wants.
ReplyDeletePlease yourself and do whatever makes you happy.
ReplyDeleteWords on Marble.
Just tell her what she did and that you can't forget it even though you've forgiven her. No bad blood. Tell her you wish her well but there's no more space in your heart for her.
DeleteShe will take her L and leave you alone.
Block her number. Simple
ReplyDeleteAnyone who asks after her, answer fine
If they push, tell them to mind their business respectfully.
I have one like this too. Blocked him and even deleted the number.
Has started chatting me, sending me daily prayers. As I did not reply, Shebi did anybody beat me?
CTRL X. cut o cut off
I like your mindset 🙌🏿
DeletePoster, do not have anything to do with her anymore. Let 2023 stay behind please.
Sluttychic.
No be everything una go send in as chronicle. Haba! What’s all this nonsense about WhatsApp, Ekiti and happy new month? 🤨
ReplyDeletePoster is like you no get work to be following something wey no get drama. But you wan turn am to drama.
Ayam loving dis Stella blue pen🥰
ReplyDeleteStella has told you something you needed to read.
ReplyDeleteMao Akuh
Bimpe is probably pregnant and trying to line up baby gifts🤣 Please leave Bimpe in 2023
ReplyDeletePoster Stella has said it all. Ignore her messages she will stop when she’s tired and when your friends ask about her tell them she’s fine
ReplyDeleteThis aunty again? This is like the 4th chronicle. Kilode gangan?
ReplyDeleteLMAO. You are wicked
DeleteFor the fact that her husband toasted you and when you refused, she came into the picture, l would say keep your distance from the family.
ReplyDeleteDo not malign her to anyone. If you can ignore social media communication with her, just dey your dey .
Triumphant One.
POSTER,MIND YOUR BUSINESS
ReplyDeletePlease can someone explain what is happening to us. My mum passed away in September 23. My sister passed away on 28 Dec 23 she was my mums last born. My step mums last born a guy passed away exactly a week after my younger sis. Please can someone explain it to me like what's going on? Does anyone have an idea.? Pls help us understand this tragedies. Both were not up to 40yrs 😭😭
ReplyDeleteMay God give you the fortitude to bear the loose loss. It is terrible. You need to pray extra hard to avoid untimely death in your family.
DeletePoster you need to brace up o. How is this one a chronicle? Someone didn't announce her wedding to you for longer period has caused enemity. Shior , radarada. Ur body dey hot too much. . You didn't not even get liver, you want to be telling the whole world again about your stupidity. Iranu
ReplyDeletePoster please face front. She should have called and apologized on how she treated you if she wants to revive the friendship. She is using your head, you better don’t allow her play that game with you this year.
ReplyDeleteWhen people ask about her, tell them she is fine. Also reply her message straight without pleasantries. You can reply her thanks or same to you when she sends any happy new month message. I repeat don’t revive any friendship she will still use you. Also don’t see her as an enemy.
Poster please keep your distance from the family.
ReplyDeleteDear poster kindly please follow Stella's advice. Thanks
ReplyDeleteI am seriously against cutting people off when you haven't told them their wrongdoings.
ReplyDeleteThis your case is the case of someone doing you wrong and turning around to make you feel guilty about your reaction
ReplyDeleteGaslighting is the name
Delete3 years I had problems in my marriage ,I left. I mentioned it on this blog,I went through grief,pain everything hell. At aa point I was squatting with a friend of mine from uni,she was in their family house,I went to stay with her. they had rules like don't wear slippers into the toilet and all,it was strange but after 5 days I became used to it,I had my friends comee to their gate and pick me for lunch or dinner I will bring food back we e will wack together. I told her she will follow mee back to Abuja,my family hass a house there,wee can stay there together. She told me how her uncle's and relatives are all against her,her sisters are married,her twin too but she wasn't. She's 44 then no wahala. Plan was in place andd I keept praying . I will go to work and come back.
ReplyDeleteOne night I was sleeping around 10pm,I heard a big knock infaact like someone beat me hard. I woke up she looked at me straight in my eyes andd asked if I didn't see when shee entered....haaaa Oluwa oh.
How I didn't understand
She said when entered I was pretending to be sleeping. I was shocked because why would I pretend.
Needless to say I packed my bag that night it was around 11 pm,haailed aa cab to a hotel thankfully their house eis in gra so it's easier get cab at such times.
Recently she's been trying to reach out to me,to talk to me. I pick answer her but it ends there. I don't even have eher number stored in my phone
To your Israel,I hold nothing against her but I would choose life again and again before somebody will stab mee in my sleep
That was bad
DeleteBlock her biko
DeleteJust face front poster before you suffer another betrayal.
ReplyDeleteDo not activate any friendship with her just face your front and peay that God bless you with your own husband. You don't need to explain anything to anyone about your relationship with her cos after you give them gist somehow she will hear through gist and get to know what you have in mind for her.
ReplyDeleteContinue to ignore her, mute her messages or you block her and face front.
Poster dey your dey
ReplyDelete7 friends don't play for 7 years. It's into the next phase
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