Hmmm.......
ADVICE NEEDED
I asked once she told me the frame on it got spoit" its a set of ring"
Should i tell her to get another ring over or let me just ignore but we still get in touch normally though? Is this a petty issue ?
She will still do what she wants to do with a ring or without one...I know of a Lady who travelled to America after she got engaged...She still had her ring on and started dating someone else even though she still had frequent contact with the man she engaged...Later she shifted the ring fom her finger to her necklance as a pendant.........After a while she told him she had fallen in love with someone else and wanted to move on....He told her not to return the ring and to flush it down the toilet....
Dont stress yourself
Hope you are wearing your own ring 🙄
ReplyDeleteNa wa ooo....... Long distant relationship is not easy. You guys are engaged, which means she can move on. Have a serious talk with her so you don't tie each other down unnecessarily.
DeleteMen dey wear engagement ring for your village?😁
DeleteWhy don't you guys ask the cynical question when a female Bvs sends in chronicles like this one.
DeleteIt's important to approach this situation with sensitivity and open communication. While the absence of the engagement ring might seem like a small issue in comparison to the larger aspects of a relationship, it's crucial to acknowledge that different people attach varying levels of significance to symbols like engagement rings.
ReplyDeleteInstead of assuming or ignoring the matter, consider having an open and honest conversation with your fiancée. You can express your concern about the missing ring and ask if there's anything you can do to address the issue together. It might be possible that she genuinely experienced an issue with the ring, as she mentioned, and discussing it could help you both find a solution.
Approach the conversation with a tone of understanding and support, rather than placing blame. You can say something like, "I noticed you haven't been wearing the engagement ring lately, and I wanted to check in to make sure everything is okay with it. If there's any issue, we can work together to find a solution that makes us both comfortable."
Remember, communication is key in any relationship, and discussing concerns openly helps build trust and understanding. If it turns out to be a simple issue, you can work together to find a solution, whether it's repairing the ring, getting a new one, or finding an alternative that both of you are comfortable with.
Most intelligent 😁, na for this small issue you write this epistle? Just to justify your "intelligent" accolades? Dividend as income for money market investment!🤣
DeleteChatGPT to the rescue @St Elsewhere 😭😂😂
DeleteChatGPT to the rescue @St Elsewhere 😭😂😂
DeleteNext time try to summarize.
DeleteAnons will never stop making me laugh 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeletePhoenix, there's NOTHING wrong with your comment. Don't mind them.
DeleteAbeg, don't mind this jealous trolls. To the trolls may you find God's love. If you had love in your life and a sense of purpose you wouldn't be here trolling.
DeleteMay the God that turned Jabez story around turn your bitter and sorrowful lives around and give you peace in Jesus name
The responses are for the chronicle sender. Let ppl write as much as they want so the BV seeking help can get it.
DeleteGood for you!
DeleteI like it sometimes when men are in pains 😂 😂 😂
Phonix ur comment is even longer than the chronicle itself.
DeleteIt’s chatGPT o! Let’s learn to use chatGPT intelligently. Answer with a human tone so that the reader will understand. Don’t just copy and paste without human touch.
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ReplyDeleteShe has probably broken up with you without you knowing
ReplyDeleteDon't jump into conclusion that she has broken up him because she doesn't wear ring. He said that they still get in touch. We will know the truth when the wedding plan begins.
DeleteHenceforth, treat the relationship on a 50/50 note if it eventually works fine, but if it doesn't, move on. Ladies, have more chances to be overwhelmed by another guy over there (abroad).
ReplyDeleteLadies don't even like players or a guy to waste their time . He engaged her for almost 5 months, he would have done little thing like introduction before she traveled.
DeleteGiving her engagement ring doesn't mean you have married her.
The fear of disappointment or trust is reason many don't date for that long. Some men these days you can't really say their mind.
We still have those in a long distance relationship,and they will still come back and get married.
It's just trust and love.
you should have an open discussion with her, do not assume anything to avoid you did not ask me. If she is no longer interested she should be bold enough to tell you than pretending.
ReplyDeleteNot wearing the ring shouldn't be an issue.
ReplyDeleteShe may wears the ring and still cheat, if she really wants to.
The question is ,how well do you trust her??
Lol... afraid is catching my guy. She's single, as well as you. A ring stops nothing. She go collect doggy and you won't even know. Goodwick.
ReplyDeleteNot wearing the ring shouldn't be an issue.
ReplyDeleteShe may wears the ring and still cheat, if she really wants to.
The question is ,how well do you trust her??
Not wearing the ring shouldn't be an issue.
ReplyDeleteShe may wears the ring and still cheat, if she really wants to.
The question is ,how well do you trust her??
Ring or no ring ,person wey wan misbehave go misbehave na
ReplyDeleteMy parents have never worn rings since I’ve been old enough to observe things
ReplyDeleteIf she’s getting her life together in a new place, a broken ring may not be on her mind
Tell her if you want her to get another and you can send her like $100 to buy one for now.
Don't stress yourself, what will be will be.
ReplyDeleteWhatever it is you have worries about, the next few months may prove you right it wrong. But I wouldn't sweat it if I were you. If you aren't joining her pretty soon, I'll advise you move on or better yet just reactivate any side-piece you have been saving for a rainy day like this.
ReplyDeleteDon’t reactive anything
DeleteLadies abroad have family and friends here watching you unless you’re ready to lose the relationship
Also if she’s filing for you or planning to , be careful so she doesn’t cancel the whole thing
Are you in touch with her family. Stay close to them. Their conscience may make them tell you any truth
Yeah her family are much into me, I think you are right she call me late nights hours just to know if I'm OK,
DeleteAnonymous up there , no I fear. What will be will be , only dnt wana sound petty.. thanks for this write up
Reactivate sidepiece?
DeleteStella this comment shows a man who believes in women as objects not human beings
Hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteDo you intend to relocate to her location or remain here.
ReplyDeleteThe lady might fall out of love or decide to keep you until you finds another person who can upgrade her residence status..
Don't put your 100 hope on her.
E be like say wahala dey ooh
ReplyDeleteIt's about time for you to move on.
ReplyDeleteYou terrible🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMy brother,come and ask me and I will tell you my experience 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
ReplyDeleteBros, having the ring on is not a big deal andn ot even a factor to consider..Her mind set is the Koko but my word for you is, be prepared for unforseen circumstances
If she was wearing her ring consistently and suddenly stopped because she migrated then…hmmmm. It is possible she is telling the truth, rings get damaged and stones fall out all the time, especially for ppl with small fingers. Ask her to show you the damage on a video so you can take it to the jeweller, if she refuses to do a video then…hmmmm.
ReplyDeleteNow, here is the other side that you must consider. Were your intentions pure when you engaged her, or were you motivated to do so because you knew that she was emigrating and wanted to line up your own japa opportunity? Remember God rewards us according to our motivations and not our actions. So, if your intentions were not pure then anything can happen to you and you won’t have divine protection.
Haha I saw the damaged, she even told me before I asked though
DeleteOga, why don’t you trust her?. You’re asking strangers to give you a contrary opinion on what your girl told you. Tufiakwa
DeleteAsk her.
ReplyDeleteNobody here can tell you what is in her heart.
Because she knows it's a 50-50 win, what if the ring will block some certain opportunities to her she might reason.
ReplyDeleteShe is not in the relationship with her full chest, just talk to her.
Why didn’t you wife her? What does it take to do a court marriage with her? Abi you want to make her lord of the rings? If I were her, if I meet a better person over there, I’ll just move on… no time for time wasters. I don’t even have time for long distance relationship unless am married. Poster, na you fuck up.
ReplyDeleteE tire me. Oga Marry her
DeleteBeen engaged is not been married. As far as am concerned, she’s single and free to move on with her life.
ReplyDeleteShe’s not single after engagement
DeleteBreakfast loading 🤣🤣🤣😅
ReplyDeleteI’ll do exactly what she did, I can never wear an engagement ring in a long distance marriage and I can’t never wear an engagement ring for over 3 months.
ReplyDeleteEngagement na marriage? Oga abeg park one side, correct Bobo’s full abroad. We move….
ReplyDeleteIs she still calling and filling you in with her life details?
ReplyDeleteThen,she's with you. If she isn't doing that. Then I don't know how to explain it sweetly.
Just ask her how far
Hmm ehat distance can do to a relationship sha...
ReplyDeleteA guy met a babe and they were getting to know themselves, it has been 6weeks they met and hanging out and babe got visa to japa, guy began to rush rush, he want to become intimate stating that's only way they can be close and keep in touch. Babe said walai e no fit happen, she don japa now, communication dey slow, dem no even know whether dem be friends or nothing.
As she dey gist me na laugh I jus dey laugh all through, bobo be wan chop clean mouth
What will be will be. Pls keep yourself busy .
ReplyDeleteWhatever will be will be. Don't stress yourself
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