Wednesday, January 17, 2024
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(1) Society Gatekeepers of Patriarchy & Toxic Masculinity
ReplyDelete(2) According to society, the success or failure of a marriage rests on the woman and she is always blamed for it.
Parents = Patriarchs and Matriarchs.
DeleteYou took the words outta my mouth,Saint...Apt!!
DeleteHnmmm
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ReplyDeleteSame way some mothers will advice their daughter on wedding day:
ReplyDelete"Shine your eyes in your husband's house oooo;as you are getting married now don't be a mumu to any sister in-law;take what's yours and don't allow any woman tell you what to happen in your home cos now you are the wife.."
THEN same mother advise her son when getting married like this:
"Nwa M;don't be a woman wrapper now you are getting married;be a man and always stand on your decision;you are the head of the home..
Also don't forget you have siblings and parents;don't allow any wife break the love and bond you share with your siblings and us..
Don't be too soft because your wife might take you got granted;please remember the family inugo.."
😊😊
Just know Majority of humans are just after their benefit from you;so the advice especially about family would majorly be based on what will be of benefit to them..
@MARTINS
Martins, this is spot on!
DeleteMartins this is true my cousin's sister they re five girls and a boy in the house ,when the boy was looking for a wife one of the sisters saw a pretty girl for him
DeleteThe mum said no ok why no the mum said that girl they re five in number I don't want them to overburden my son with bills, the sisters said they opened their mouth in surprise and asked her mum but we re also plenty in the house , so which man will marry us if they have this your mentality.
It's a hypocritical world out there
Wickedness of the highest order !!
ReplyDeleteThat’s the mentality of most African parents.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeletePeople's attitudes towards marriage is influenced solely by exaited societal patriarchy and further by culture, and personal or tribal beliefs.
ReplyDeleteIn some cultures or families, there might be traditional expectations or biases that favour different standards for men and women in conformity to social acceptance and tolerance, which could explain the differing views on remarriage. It's essential to consider the specific cultural, tribal, communal and familial context in each case.
Above all is the issue indexed by Martins - the mitigating hypocrisy of double standard.
Simple question they ask,you always go and copy somebody textbook to paste here as comment.
DeleteNa wa for Waec
Touche,😂
ReplyDeleteGifty
Hmmmm!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmn.
ReplyDelete🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteBecause divorced men keep proving parents right on this. Sigh
ReplyDeleteIt all depends on the people in your circle
ReplyDeleteI know a lady on her third marriage in quick succession. Never heard his parents were against it
Hnmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteIt is the double standard syndrome that is disturbing us in Africa. I remember when my younger sister wanted to get married, how my dad over priced the bride price just to frustrate the poor guy but when it was my turn to go and marry some one's
ReplyDeletedaughter he was trying to cute down on the cost as much as possible. And I was just there saying to myself was this not the same man that wanted so much and now giving so little?
One of the double standards we have in this world
ReplyDeleteSome tribes goes about impregnating other ladies from a different tribe without paying the bride price and child to answer their surname ,but when it comes to their sisters never you most pay the bride price or else your child will never answer your name is that not wickedness?
ReplyDeletehmmmmmm the double standard in Nigeria
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