WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

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IN HOUSE NEWS
How the go they go today? Actvities have started again here today after so many days of shops closed...we thank God....

What was all that drama about inside Tuesday in house news? I hope that you guys wont repeat same comments? i will be deleting any comments referring to same issue #ifyouknowyouknow

The next time i am coming to Naija i will come with so many phones...I have phones as if i am selling used phones...LOL

Please nobody should ask me for any cos i dont know how to get them across without getting 'kolobied' by the person sent.

Nobody give me gift from this Blog.....Where are all the blog billionaires? Just messager me and pay for multiple packs of efo riro for me....LMAO

Hmmm this life...I am still shocked by the passing of the Ondo state governor.....and read where someone suggested he may have stepped on toes... this life no balance......

I need ideas for in house gists.........please dont post as Anon..post with your blog ID so that i can reward you with something........

The year is coming to an end and our blog award recipients will be posted tomorrow or so......Its kinda dry but still better than nothing....

Shout out to all the wonderful women on the blog, i celebrate you all today, I celebrate your positivity and forwardness....Blog Visitor Cynthia Iyede you r so special...I remember you from the beginning when some were not there and now u r a mama of two (abi number tiree dey load)...You are one of the few who have loved me here without throwing it back in my bechee face or challenging me rudely ...I know that i am not perfect but you make me feel so....Thank you for the love.

It doesnt mean there are not some who dont love me more than she does....sebi them must use somebody for advert na....LOL

I will giveaway data tomorrow...will get back to you with the email address to send your numbers to OK?

Have a nice day and stay loved.

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PINKYS CORNER

There is this young man I got to know through a close pal here in Ibadan. As person wey I be, I Sabi engage people except if I don't want to and it all depends on the environment and my mood at that point in time shaaa.

I realized, he wasn't saying anything positive about women then I decided to engage him in order to know the reason behind all his words. Hmmmmm. Baba was married to a pretty lady who gave birth to a baby boy. During those years, he was ok and doing fine for himself but suddenly, things changed and everything crumbled and the wife began to act funny

Someone who has a good business suddenly became a driver who earn 20k per month as a salary. Everything he had wiped off within a twinkle of an eye and the wife left. He said, the wife only dropped a letter for him and that was all he knew. He was accommodated by one of his old friends after he lost everything he had.

After working as a driver for 2years, God helped him and he secured a good job here in Ibadan but the company is situated at OYO. Gave him a personal car and also an apartment in Ibadan because most of his duties are basically in Ibadan. Things have began to take a different shape for him now. Someone who earned 20k as salary is now earning close to a million every month. Though, he said and also showed me evidence of him paying some loans he took when he had a business then.
After six years of the wife leaving him and absconding with his child, she is back in his DM begging him to please accept that. He said and I quote " where ever you lost your happiness, you can't find it there". 

I remembered that statement because my mum has once told me that years back. The wife, who left the husband for six years is back begging, after having a baby boy again for another man but the man traveled out of the country without her knowledge and didn't bother contacting her. Now, she is begging the first husband to accept her.
My people, how possible is this? Do you think it will surely work? What happens to the child that has become a bond between her and the man in UK? What if the man comes back home after 3years with lots of money and start begging, won't she accept and let go of the first husband again?

Alot of questions to be answered.. I was so shocked and couldn't even say anything. He showed me the their chat yesterday, I went through and I realized, this man is done forever but the woman keeps begging and her family keeps calling. I asked him why he decided not to block her, he said, he won't because of his child which I'm so happy about. I introduced him to this blog and I'm sure, he will be reading comments.
I had to ask him if I can post because I don't just come up with people's story without seeking for permission.

Next time i will not post a chronicel inside in house news..The in house news is a place for everything else but chronicles....yeah?

Ire ooooo

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SDK PSYCHOLOGIST FROM WEDNESDAY SPONTANEOUS POST

Red Flag that signals 'Time To End The Relationship':

While every relationship is unique, certain "red flags" may signal that it's time to seriously consider ending a relationship. Here are examples:

1.) Repeated Betrayals: Persistent breaches of trust, such as infidelity or dishonesty, can erode the foundation of the relationship.

2.) Abuse: Any form of abuse—be it physical, emotional, or verbal—is a clear indicator that the relationship is unhealthy and potentially dangerous.

3.) Unwillingness to Change: If one partner is resistant to addressing problematic behaviors or making necessary changes, it may be challenging to sustain a healthy relationship.

4.) Fundamental Value Misalignment: Irreconcilable differences in core values, beliefs, or life goals can create significant challenges for the long-term compatibility of a couple.

5.) Lack of Emotional Connection: A persistent lack of emotional intimacy, connection, or shared experiences may indicate that the relationship is no longer fulfilling for both partners.

6.) Continuous Neglect: If a partner consistently neglects your emotional, physical, or financial needs despite communication and efforts to address the issue, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship.

7.) Differing Life Priorities: If you and your partner have fundamentally different priorities, such as career goals, family planning, or lifestyle choices, it can strain the relationship.

8.) Pattern of Control: Ongoing patterns of controlling behavior, manipulation, or coercion can be indicators of an unhealthy power dynamic.

9.) Unresolved Conflict: Inability to effectively resolve conflicts or repeated cycles of arguing without resolution may lead to a toxic and unproductive relationship.

10.) Loss of Respect: A significant loss of respect for each other's opinions, boundaries, or autonomy can create an environment that is detrimental to the health of the relationship.

11.) Feeling Stuck or Unhappy: If you consistently feel trapped, unhappy, or unfulfilled in the relationship, it's essential to consider whether staying is in your best interest.

12.) Refusal to Seek Help: If problems persist and your partner is unwilling to participate in couples therapy or seek professional help, it may be challenging to overcome significant issues.

13.) Gaslighting or Manipulation: Ongoing manipulation or gaslighting, where your perception of reality is consistently distorted, can be emotionally damaging and signal a toxic relationship.

14.) Consistent Lack of Effort: A relationship requires effort from both parties. If there's a consistent lack of effort, engagement, or investment, it may be an indication that the relationship has run its course.

15.) Repeated Breakups: A pattern of breaking up and getting back together without resolution of underlying issues may indicate an unstable and unsustainable relationship.

Ending a relationship is a significant decision, and it's important to approach it with careful consideration and, if needed, seek support from friends, family, or professionals. Prioritize your well-being and ensure that the decision aligns with your values and long-term goals.

This is really Interesting!

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