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MARRIED WITH A SINGLE MINDSET
I remember one day I and hubby quarrelled and, he now chased me out of the house, a face me I slap you house. He went and locked the kitchen and toilet too and told me to stay outside.
I was outside for like 1 hour that day.
Neighbours were just looking at me and whispering. I felt so pained that day and something changed in our marriage.
Since that incident, I stopped planning anything big with him. I now own my own personal business and now looking out for myself and kids and mum. He chased me out of face me I slap you, what if we now build our personal house, that is how he will chase me out and lock me outside. SMH
I do tell him this when we are playing around, I would tell him that "you chased me out of this face me I slap you, if it was a mansion what would you do? You would lock me outside the gate right? And you expect me to plan with you and build a house?" He would now apologize for what he did but in my mind, I already moved away from that planning together thingy. If he has money, let him bring it let's build a house. I'm building my own life.
I dont know what to say on this but he was wrong in locking you out and will do it again and again, its in the character of some men, even if you are paying rent, he will still lock you out.
Try to quarell with him again and he will still lock you out..
My dear hold that your plan B well well and even join a plan C....
In Germany i know that a woman can walk you out of a house you bought with the help of a Police and if she doesnt want you in, you cant come in but the man cannot do that....It is only in Naija that the law does not favour women at all.
You guys will still quarrel. The center is already divided with this mindset Nd will crumble like a pack of cards sooner or later.
ReplyDeleteThis burnt bridge will take years of repair to rebuild. I understand that you are angry for the humiliation.
DeleteKeep your plans to yourself. You are the one who knows the man you married.
Very correct but the man caused it. Why would you lock your wife out of the home cos of small quarrel?
DeleteNdi dem Isrealiii type. Mtchew. Maybe it happened so that you can receive sense. Good you are taking care of yourself poster.
DeleteI'm of the view that what a person can do in the face of anger is really what's in the person. Forgive him but never allow him make you rest on your oars by planning your finances with him, except it's well defined.
ReplyDeleteHe'll still show this side of him again if the situation warrants it.
Learn to read the unspoken words of your spouse.
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I'm sorry, but your first sentence isn't fair. A person would be all nice and cool until one day he gets angry at something you do and then you'll say that's the real him.. IMO, that's not fair sha..
DeleteFirst we should be mindful of doing things that get reasonable people angry
Angry to the point of sending her out of their abode is the type of anger to be wary of. Poster I am glad you took time to think about your situation. This is about way more than sentiments. It is about your survival.
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ReplyDeleteNo one is perfect, he has apologised, should he kill himself??..
Some of you will push someone to his limit and then blame him for his reaction..
You think you have not wronged him in a million ways also..
Na you Sabi.. if you like carry the grudges to your grave..
If anyone come and comment nonsense under me, I won't reply you but will personally swear for you this midnight,. I'm not in the mood for all those nonsense you people do today. Try me
Airhead, society needs to pack people like you to an island somewhere
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Dante don vex
Delete😂😂😂😂Whc can person be this 🤦🤦
DeleteLol
DeleteAnon 16:10, ur swear dey wait u
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DeleteNo vex
Dante will swear for someone lol
DeleteThe most complex B
😂😂 Dante don't goan swear and the thing wee jus return back to sender.
DeleteThis comment cracked me up 😂😂
Delete@ Dante sometimes learn to shut the fuck up....REALLY.... For a man you talk too damn much.... How old are you ?
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DeleteMan talks too much.
A man should not talk. Real men don't talk. Only women talk. That's why this matter is on the ground. Because the man saw himself as superior to a woman.
Funnily, if Poster had chronicled that her husband replied her insult for insult, the female Bvs here would still comment as you did
So, we should admit that the man is superior to the woman?
Some of una only want to read a "Yes Ma'am" male comments on this blog.
DeleteUnfortunately, life is 50% male and the more variety of male opinions a woman hears, the better she is in handling man matters
I actually know a man who does what your husband did to you to his wife. In his own case, they live in a flat. He will beat the lady up, claiming she disrespected him, and lock her out , saying she must beg for forgiveness before he lets her in. After staying out in the sun for hours, the lady will be forced to apologize to the horseband who eventually allows her into the house. He still beats her to date. She is unemployed and was betrayed by her parents who gave her out at 17 to this man, so she has noone or nothing to fall back on. So she is still with the beast.
ReplyDeleteMadam, in your own case, your husband has apologised and so far he has not repeated that ignoble act again. So please forgive him, let go. Don't keep regurgitating that incident in your head.
You can have a plan.B, nothing wrong with that, but it shouldn't be with the motive of revenge. It doesn't augur well. Whatever satisfaction you may derive from doing so will be momentary and puerile.
We all have one minute of madness, maybe that was his. See the goodness in the man you can still share jokes with, and free your mind of all encumbering grudges. Enjoy your marriage
That story you related is horrible. Lack of resources and an education has kept that woman in bondage to that monster. There are too many charities and NGOs around for any woman to remain under such control and ill treatment. I truly hope she will come in contact with someone who can help her.
DeleteIn as much as I love peace and advocate for forgiveness but I advice all women to have a plan b no matter how sweet your husband is!
DeleteMen lack perseverance and do not stay in worst times that's how they are wired, do u know a common side chick can make a man forget his family of years?
Can you send the contact of that young lady to an NGO that will help her.
DeleteAll these men and women are wired are baseless.
DeleteEach human being is uniquely shaped by all education received in life and how the person chooses to use the education.
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DeleteIt is not how they are wired anything
It is the selfishness, wickedness and cowardice in those men that make them run at the first sign of trouble
Your plan B is very on point. Do everything away from your husband, even if he hasn't locked you out before, there is need for you to have your own things. Do it codedly though and don't let the things you have acquired make you disrespect your husband, Just look out for yourself, children and family.
ReplyDeleteIf her husbands do things codedly away from their wives would it be good?
DeleteTania, If she locked him outside too I would understand, though it is not advised for a smooth marital co-existent.
DeleteWords on Marble.
All of a man belongs to the wife after marriage. Nothing she does to the man the marriage takes that right away.
DeleteThat concept is very much sold here by post like this one and other insinuating posts
Locking a woman out is ordinarily wrong. Clearly it was
a disgrace too much for the Poster.
But note that what led to that is not told in the post for balanced assessment of the man's action even if it may not justify it.
Married men know what they see in their marriages. Because of societal expectations and restrictions, they don't tell as much as women especially in traditional societies like ours. However, the wise ones too now make plans B and C as this Poster. That's One lesson learned here as a married man. After reading comments by female Bvs and placing them side by side with Madam's conducts, sense entered.
A wicked man seeks to always humiliate his wife because he has no shame, conscience, value for her or sees her as part of him. It is misogyny , he sees her as an object ,not a person
DeleteYour chronicle's title aptly describes the situation of things, your married, but single by heart, and it is not healthy at all. Please forgive your husband, working on yourself to be better especially financially doesn't mean you can't build with your husband. With the way you're thinking, you might as well physically check out of the marriage, because emotionally, you're no longer there. Forgive him, but don't stop building yourself whilst building with him.
ReplyDeleteShe has forgiven him, the issue is trust and fear. I get it. Forgiving someone does not create trust in them. They are two completely different qualities. Also she fears a repeat of the past, this is stemming from the lack of trust. His actions placed her in that mindset only he can remove them, not through words but through continued actions that builds trust and removes her fear. It is he who should be doing the hard work to change this situation.
DeleteYou didn't tell us what triggered the quarrel in the first place; PERHAPS what you did was terribly wrong.
DeleteNow he may not repeat it in the future because he had probably perceived the severity of that singular step ... and learnt his lessons based on the fact that you were seriously hurt and you didn't hide it. I feel he is the empathetic type.
You had probably quarreled afterwards perhaps worse and he didn't repeat it, if yes he might have truly changed.
Please forgive him and let go. Unlearn. Relearn. I like the advice of Chekks 55 and many more.
You know your hubby more than all of us ... nonetheless I will advise you to purge your grudge and plan with him without trashing your own plans.
Being proactive. Your Plan B. It's important generally in love and life.
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But what could she have done that made him even lock up the bathroom, if she needed to pee or poop she had nowhere to go. She had no access to water, food, or even the bloody toilet, who does that? What he did was completely fckd up. Imagine needing to change a maxipad and you can’t get to the bathroom. He should be crawling on the ground begging her eternal forgiveness. Sometimes saying I am sorry are the lamest three words to speak if it is not spoken with true remorse that is visible.
DeletePoster even tho i want you to forgive your husband but always put yourself first, these men are not loyal..
ReplyDeleteIt was so wrong of him to have locked you out,poster please find it in your heart to forgive him completely. God wants to bless your home,don't let unforgiven spirit,hinder your progress,since he continuously apologies,whenever you bring it up. Anger is evil. Bikonu nne.
ReplyDeleteForgive but don't lose guard, never ever be caught unawares ever again
DeleteNo human being is GOD
That was so insensitive of him.The shame alone is enough to crush one's soul. Just forgive him but I know it's not easy to forget such. What he did opened your eyes to what he is capable of doing in the future if he indeed owns a mansion. He has taught you to have a plan B in one corner ,this one is not your fault. Meanwhile that shouldn't stop you from building with him, just don't let go of your plan B.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm my sister please stick to your plan of you. Forgive him but dont forget. I wish you well
ReplyDeleteNa wa for this oyibo law o! So na only women them dey protect?🤔
ReplyDeleteSome Men Sha, how can you even lock your own wife out? God abegg o.😎
No it is not only women protected. But from time immemorial women have born the brunt in maltreatment from men in a patriarchal society. Women have been regarded as property without rights, and majorly they are physically weaker than men, hence the need to aid them in getting justice. I'm not saying some women do not take undue advantage of this, I'm saying many women have been helped by such laws. Go research, there are also men who have gotten justice from abusive women, but more often than not, it goes the other way (i.e women needing help from abusive men).
DeleteHold your plan B wella. Unfortunately women are the endangered species.
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B.
Next time, quote the person wey talk am first 😊
DeleteWhatever your B is that doesn't involve your horseband biko hold on to it tightly
ReplyDeleteHold on to your personal plan,add one again if you can. The northerners have a proverb that says "na miji ba abun goyo ba". It means a man is not one to carry on the head/back because they'll embarrass you. Na their way be that
ReplyDeleteNa wa some men can do unimaginable things in the name of marriage.
ReplyDeleteI am typing with my plastic ID.
Welcome back to SDK BLOG a place where things dey happen.
Madam, after the first time, has there been a repeat? If no then forgive. If you can not forgive your spouse completely to the point of planning evil or looking out for just u over an error, do the needful and get a divorce.
ReplyDeleteI don't think she is planning evil. She has just been awakened to the need to look out for herself. Something must not happen multiple times for a person to acquire some sense.
DeleteThis reminds of the story of this beautiful woman with two kids in my friend’s neighbourhood.
ReplyDeleteThe husband always locked her out after any slight provocation and for days too.
He always fought those who took them in too so everyone minded their businesses.
One day while crouched under a tree with her kids because rain was falling a rich widower who had been seeing her stopped and picked her and the kids home.
The husband in his usual manner didn’t bother to look for them, apparently hoping she would come to beg as usual. Days turned to weeks.
Long story short, the widower married her and enrolled her kids in school. Luckily for her, the husband never did anything on her head but terrorised her in his face me I slap you apartment.
When the husband started his smear campaign of the rich oppressing him by snatching his wife as well as his kids, he was advised to come pick his kids, which he did but had to return them because they kept crying that they wanted to go back to their new Dad😂.
I wonder what it takes to respect and treat another human with dignity.
Sweet ending 💕
DeleteI love this
DeleteHe locked them outside at night without minding if they could be bitten by snake . The man even repeated it even after the woman forgave him several times. And some people are here blaming poster for having a plan B
DeleteSome men thou........ That single act will now warrant disrespect from neighbours, anger is bad. My dear pls your plan B is very Ok but still not neglect him either in building his future which will definitely be for your children sake ....... Just be wise to avoid stories that touches the heart.
ReplyDeleteStella, the Nigeria law protect married women to some extent if the marriage is a civil one, it's ignorance and intimidation that's killing us in that area.
ReplyDeletePoster, forgive him but let your plan B stands, even if you have to plan and build physical house with him, make sure you have evidence of your contribution and your full name should appear on all documents to the property
But many still don't do court wedding or marry in churches like Catholic and Anglican that register the weddings they officiate.
DeletePlease find it in your heart to forgive your husband. Accept his apology and try build your home.
ReplyDeletePlease keep your plan B intact. No loose guard o
ReplyDeleteForgive him from your heart and still hold on to your plan B,e get why..
ReplyDeletePlay smart..
Please forgive him and make plans with him but don't quench your own hustle. Every woman needs to make her own money, na fact be that!
ReplyDeleteAfter about 40yrs of marriage, it is jst recently that my dad stopped telling my mom after a big fight, to get out of his house. The last one that happened few years ago, he told us, anyone that wants to follow her among us is free to go and if all of us decide to go, we should kindly lock his house and return his keys.
ReplyDeleteBecause of that, i grew up with a certain fire in me, to own my house, no matter how marriage dey sweet me. We can have our joint whatever, but somewhere different, i go hold my side, although my husband is nothing like my dad, but the trauma never goes away, and you learn a coping mechanism. So OP, this is ur coping mechanism, do not for whatever reason let urself go, pls have something separate from ur joint investments. Chances are he might do it again, even in old age, he has already shown you the traits. Good luck!
Mean spiteful ego driven men always was their ego fed by forcing their victims to grovel and beg them to make feel superior and powerful . To feel like Lord and you are at their mercy
DeleteThey Are Weak Men , who forget that old age is coming .....
Just like my story, financial abuse is a real thing. Money dey oh but they just feel there's no need for some things, normal things that make children and teenagers happy.
DeleteI tried working at 18, they refused . It never even occurred to me to depend on another person in my life. Thank God for always blessing me with good jobs.
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DeleteThis threat of abandonment in old age women use to brow beat husbands demands so many rhetorical questions.
Does it not apply only where the age difference between the couple is wide. What is old age where the couple are less than 5years apart?
What guarantee that a wife will age better than her husband.
Does it recognize the uncertainty of life. That the woman maybe the weaker and sick person in older years.
What if after nursing a grudge planned to be avenged in old age, the woman dies first or the man died young.
Why do some women seek that their husbands get sick and dependent on them in old age.
If a husband doesn't become weakened by age, will the woman weaken him.
Would the woman be working in her old age to care for her husband in old age or she would rely on their children funding or the man's saved money.
Some of the inter-regional passengers trucks of the 60's and 70's had emblazoned on them this question: "who knows tomorrow"
Many wives died with grudges waiting to suffer their husbands in their husbands' old age. Some were divorced or had peppering second wives married to join them because they did not know tomorrow.
And by the way, husbands are getting on this waiting game too. Wisers ones are hedging their tomorrow from the suffering being planned for them.
Women and wives should live their lives and forget this planned old age punishments of husbands
Logically there should be many plans, having an army doesn't mean you want to go to war
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteAs if a married woman is not supposed to work, earn, and save for herself and dependents (children/parents/other related person).
People need to be careful of their actions when angry. Even in your anger learn how to refrain from some certain things.
ReplyDeleteI believe there is a difference in the way you engage in a quarell with someone you still intend to talk to in the nearest future compare to the way you engage in quarell with someone you don't want to ever see again.
In the former situation there ought to be some sore of refraining and in the latter situation you fight without any care in the world.
Apology doesn't solve everything or erase the after-effect of your actions so I don't even blame you. Why would he lock you out when he could have left the house instead; to cool off if he needed to breathe. I do not support locking anyone out. How does it even sound that a parent locked a child outside because he erred let alone an adult. Doesn't that sound abusive?
I understand why you are weary of him because that incident scarred you. Anyone who blames you should put themselves in your shoes and see if they won't start being distrustful of that person who pushed them out. The only downside is, you have in the marriage
Half-heartedly now and that could lead to bigger issues alone the way.
If you still want your marriage to work. You have to forgive in order to have a blissful marriage. He may do it again and he May not. Time will tell.
Continue to be supportive and move with him with a pure heart but don't leave yourself behind or lose yourself in the marriage. Make sure you are productive as well.
Words on Marble.
Technically the marriage has ended. She is only using the man to train and cater for the children and cater for herself until due time.
DeleteOnly if men are reading and learning too. Since it was learned here that this is the way some (most) women think in marriage, the outlook on marriage changed to think like a woman, act like a man and woman. At least no disappointment will be shocking tomorrow.
The marriage has ended only if the man does nothing to build trust back up. If he sincerely puts effort this poster will not even realize when she has fully forgiven her husband. Love can only blossom if fed. I see you didn't address what the man did. We can only advise from what she told us and it is her right to keep whatever details she sees fit to herself. You just want to do tit for tat gender wars. So now it is no longer Think Like a Man, but Think Like a Woman. Smh. 😂
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DeleteYou don't beat a child and say it should not cry. Only a wicked man will do what he did, he is a childish and spiteful man , who exposed himself to ridicule from neighbours as a man with no sense and lacks self control. He exposed his wife to being unsafe. Only a useless man turns off his protector, provider role to prove stupid points
I despise actions like this. A husband takes action on his wife and expects love to return to return to him because he has apologised. Locking a person out of the home is going to be a life changing event for both parties. Sorry and an apology will not fix every situation. Hurting others come with a price. Fear is a great motivator to set yourself in order so you never face a situation again. Not everyone recovers from a public humiliation. I cannot blame you poster, as I do not know how I would have felt or reacted if that happened to me. It seems like you have forgiven him, you are still married and there. I personally does not believe that forgiveness means trust. You have forgiven but you don’t trust him, I get it.
ReplyDeleteNot only locked her out but went to lock the conveniences which are even outside their room so she has nowhere to ease herself. How mean can one get. I don't blame her..
DeleteHorrible. Parents don’t even punish their children by blocking access to the toilet, why would he even think that was appropriate to do. He was proving who had the power and who was the boss, now he gets to deal with the consequences of his actions, a wife who cannot trust her safety and security to him.
DeleteThe funny thing the husband and indeed a lot of men don't realize is, when you disgrace your wife, you are disgracing yourself. It is like you beating yourself figuratively. Check well, when this occurs, there is no real spirit of oneness and equality. I am not merely alluding to gender roles, but seeing each other as humans and respecting one another. Usually there is no real love in such unions, the other spouse is seen as someone 'from outside '. Not my blood and exists only to serve my needs. That selfishness eventually leads to the breakdown of the union and home, no matter how long the couple decide to remain together. Sad really. Though things can change by the grace of God, but so many have remained in unhappy and loveless unions. Best thing is to try not to get into such. But life ehhhnnnn..............
DeleteThank you darling , this is just what it is 16:47.
DeleteConcise and comprehensive .
Madam poster hold onto your plan B,that man mighty discard you as used water,so play smart.
ReplyDeleteWomen with their excesses that is why it is advisable for men to be very patience with their wives,if you are the type that gets angry easily you don't have any business with marriage.
ReplyDeletePoints well made. No narration of the cause. Only narration of the reaction and counter reaction.
DeleteWhy did u marry him wheñ you can't forgive and forget ,if the table turns he also will have things he can't forgive you for stop forming saint Even this your write up shows you are easily offended and people need to be careful with you ,I doubt whether you will have friends after he has even said Sorry yet you are still holding him in your mind hellfire is real
ReplyDeleteOf course, no be u again? People around u should be weary of u
DeleteYou, will you forget it if your wife chase you out of a house that she built with her own money?
DeleteYou that will divorce her and pick another wife the moment you become start making good money.
She has forgiven him but she is only protecting herself from any reoccurrence of such.
The man even locked the convenience. What height of wickedness is that. Poster, your decisions for a plan be can't be condemned by me
Goke
DeleteOnly wickedness and entitlement in you can blame her for the spiteful a d mean actions of her husband
Hmmmm.
ReplyDeleteForgive him. If you continue in this mindset, you may never truly enjoy this marriage.
ReplyDeleteHe cannot be trusted to protect again until he deliberately wins her trust back, such men shouldn't get married. Their sense is low, what wickedness !
DeleteAbeg i love that mindset
ReplyDeletePlease forgive him, holding unto the hurt can cause you other things. Marriage is a union of two forgives.
ReplyDeleteDarling, I understand why you would feel the way you do, but to hang on to that offence which hasn't occurred again, is counterintuitive if you plan to remain in that marriage. The resentment you feel will only fester till it degenerates and consumes you. Remember, bitterness corrodes the container.
ReplyDeleteI would never condone what your hubby did to you but you merely stating "hubby and I quarrelled and he chased me out of the house " is highly prejudicial and will increase the already prejudiced mindset a lot of ladies have against men. A friend told me that her hubby slapped her and she wants a divorce. I wasn't reactive in spite of my strong stance against any form of domestic violence. I asked her why he slapped her? Surprisingly that threw her off, she felt I should be more supportive instead of quizzing her. I explained that I needed to see the whole picture to arrive at an informed decision. She reluctantly told me that she had an "argument" with her MIL and she spat on her. Can you imagine spitting on your MIL in presence of her son? Now, while I still didn't excuse the slap, I totally understood why it happened.
Sweetheart, I want you to check yourself. Were you completely blameless? Have you never offended a person and expected forgiveness? I have been married for over 2 decades and apart from the Grace of God, one of the keys to a successful marriage is forgiveness, especially when it's not a repeat offence. How can you still hold that over your hubby even after he apologised? The minute your mindset is that of single but married, that's your cue to end that marriage. Resentment is one of the four horsemen of an impending divorce.
You see those ladies whom we read about? The ones who end up killing their husbands. You think they just woke up one day and decided to kill the hubby? Even the ones who obviously snapped, it was due to the build up of resentment. Everyone is capable of anything if tuned to the right frequency. You have to let go of that offence or please end the marriage, don't put both of you in a cage or worse, end up overreacting to a new offence that may have catastrophic consequences. May God heal your soul wound and help you to be more forgiving.
e-hugs and kisses.
Thank you Ronalda, one of the few with wisdom and independent mindset. Madam, what your husband did was very bad. Please you have no business with marriage if you can not forgive you spouse. Have you ever wondered what will happen if you husband decides to adopt the same single mindset?
Delete@ Ronaldo it's always a delight to read your comments. But you didn’t say if you're in support of a plan B or not.
DeleteThe most complex B
Thank you. Balanced comment.
DeletePoster I support your plan B wholeheartedly. For resentment not to build, the husband should never repeat such negative reaction again. He broke trust, so he has to be committed to building it back. This goes beyond mere apologies to concrete actions. Or else the poster may just wake up one day to find she has always been on her own. Forgiveness is not always so easy, depending on the action and forgetting whatever happened can be even more difficult. I understand that the poster was traumatized. She is trying to adjust to new facts she has experienced about her marriage. It will definitely take time and effort for things to stabilize and normalize in her home. And that is if there is no more of such.
DeleteOnly God knows what your offence was.
ReplyDeleteI imagine myself as a man. Let me assume that you cheated. If my wife cheats, I can't chase her out. I may end the relationship with her but I can never chase her out to sleep outside like some people do to their maids.
Did you break the plasma TV in the parlour? Even at that , he shouldn't have chased you out like a kid.
Did you disrespect him in public?
Please your plan B is a very good idea. He can repeat this same thing in a house that you jointly built.
If.
DeleteUntil happens.
Dear Poster, hold on to your plan B, even add plan C to it. Life can be unpredictable
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a union between two imperfect people living together and tolerating one and other.since he has apologized, pls let go and hopefully he doesn't repeat same act.Having a plan B, isn't a bad idea either.
ReplyDeleteThe Laws in Europe was built to Favor women, that's why the divorce rate is so high. @Poster, you might have learned your lessons from that action, why not forget and test him if he will do it again, there is nothing wrong with plan B but don't jeopardize the future of your children from benefitting what both of you would have achieved together.
ReplyDeleteNo need to test a partner in marriage. If all partners test each other, the marriages that would remain standing will be a mockery of the institution.
DeleteBiko that Plan B dey very very important oooo
ReplyDeleteHold am well well oooo....
Sometimes, some people do things that they truly regret. If you see that he's remorseful, please forgive and build with him
ReplyDeleteHave plans B, C, D, etc.
ReplyDeleteEven the Bible supports it.
And particularly so in an unpredictable economy if you are a Nigerian living in Nigeria.
But free your husband.
He has apologized.
When you pepper him and guilt trip him with it, he apologizes again.
Some men won't apologize twice on that matter.
If he was not apologetic and unrepentant, it would be a different case.
Ask yourself if you would like your husband to read this post.
Can you tell him? So he too can stop depending on your involvement in his future?
As is, if your husband falls, you would not lift a finger of help or to help him
How good it would be for younger men to read this blog to learn that starting early to amass legitimate solid investment is their only security for old age outside of God's care.
No man should treat his wife like thrash
DeleteYour last paragraph lacks sense
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DeleteBecause you don't read to comprehend.
If you like depend on man to fend for you in old age.
Again, the Bible says you cannot trust man as your help.
And by the way, only the shallow insult in discussions.
What the man did shows his true nature. Very wicked and mean. Locking the kitchen and toilet. He will still show this attitude if given the opportunity again. Such people need counselling and prayers because he has serious anger issues. I GUESS he is young, with prayers and counselling he will change
ReplyDeleteWhat the man did shows his true nature. Very wicked and mean. Locking the kitchen and toilet. He will still show this attitude if given the opportunity again. Such people need counselling and prayers because he has serious anger issues. I GUESS he is young, with prayers and counselling he will change
ReplyDeleteNa so men dey
ReplyDeleteOnly emotionally unintelligent and wicked men o
DeleteOnly emotionally unintelligent and wicked men o
DeleteMadam sorry about the incident. Find it in your heart to forgive. If your husband is sincere with his repentance plan with him.Maybe Na face me and slap compound that is also the issue.
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