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I sent my tithe through my sister to pay to a pastor cos I couldn’t do it physically. She went and started writing names of her siblings that they gave him the money. Then he started praying for everyone. This is my tithe not offering or seed money:
Please is this right?
Why would your sister do something like that? Or didnt you explain well? Anyway i think it was also somehow that you would send someone to drop your tithe for you.. Somwait, if the Pasotr does not pray for you over the tithe what will happen? Do you know that tithe is paid directly into church account for those who want to? Are you a church goer for God or for the Pastor? free yourself from this kind of practice oh..
Pay your tithe YOURSELF. If you are unable to make it to Church, you keep it till the next Sunday. There is no timeframe for God's blessings.
ReplyDeleteYour church don't have account details? Save it on your app, once money/salary enter, transfer the tithe for that month and send your receipt to whoever is in charge.
DeleteTell your sister how you feel about her writing other people's name on your tithe anyways God knows the original tither.
ReplyDeleteNext time pay into the church account directly.✌️
Which blessings you they talk about? Is it not time for you all to wake up? Una just like to fund people lavish life style.
DeleteAnd what is wrong with prayer for other members of your family even if you are the one that pày the tithe ?did God not see that the tithe belongs to you ?or you are looking for another blessing from the pastor that you want him to notice you añd ñot from God.
ReplyDeleteThe most important thing is that you have paid your tithe.
ReplyDeleteGod knows and sees your intention
Nothing wrong with what you did
ReplyDeleteYour sister is wrong for that
O wrong naa,next time,collect the account details and pay directly into the church's account. Its done,let it slide.
ReplyDeleteAfter my son's naming, I sent my sister to pay his tithe. 10% of what was realized at his ceremony.
ReplyDeleteYou can pay your tithe to a Pastor, it doesn't necessarily mean a church. I pay my tithe to my Pastor who also doubles as my husband.
Guess what? I didn't pay it to him, I gave it to God through him, after all, God will not collect it directly.
That said, your sister was wrong but God understands your motive, don't be sad, next time do it yourself since you now understand what she's capable of.
You can definitely pay the next one to him.
Happy Sunday.
Iya Nimi
God is not man, that someone can manipulate. God sees beyond our thinking.
ReplyDeleteOur intention matters alot.
But confront her and let her know how you feel.
Lastly please forgive her .
Why not do a transfer to the church's account and let God bless you on His own. Or do you believe it's until a pastor prays on the money that you'll get your blessing?
ReplyDeleteGod is bigger than who we think He is. Don't limit him.
'Do you know that tithe is paid directly into church account or tithe box for those who want to?'
ReplyDeleteThis up here is how it's supposed to be, even if you want to send your sister, she's not supposed to give it directly to the pastor, she should have dropped inside the tithe box.
She did wrong but God sees our hearts and knows our intentions. Next time pay your tithe yourself.
ReplyDeleteBTW, nothing wrong about the pastor praying for your siblings.
Some ppl are like that. Once something hits their hands suddenly they want to decide how it should be used, even if they got specific instructions. Once you realize someone’s personality then you should operate accordingly. At this point you can certainly address it directly with her, but in the future just take care of any money matters on your own. Also, keep in mind that if you have a lot folks automatically will start adding and subtracting and deciding what you need and what you can do without because in their minds you have this and that already. Your sister could have done the exact same thing she did with your tithe using her own tithe even if she went to church. But in her heart the generosity she is trying to display is only good for someone else’s not her own. If she was truly generous she would have donated her own in their name and denied herself, that is how true kindness works.
ReplyDeleteIt is about feeling a false sense of power and control
DeleteBe careful with your sister, insecure people can be dangerously foolish if given the opportunity
Is wrong to ask your sister to drop your tithe in church, you got to know she wrote your siblings names cos she told you. What if she didn't tell you anything would you still know and write chronicle on that?
ReplyDeleteCollect your church account details and send in your tithe when you cannot meet up with church activities.
Transfering to the church account is best.
ReplyDeleteGod knows you are the source of the tithe, whether pastor prayed for others or not. Always pray with Malachi 3:10 before paying your tithe. It's obedience to God's word, not service to man. Peace.
ReplyDeletePoster what your sister did is wrong.
ReplyDeleteBut the deed had been done.
Forget it, next time send your Tithe to the Pastors/church bank account, get his number.
The truth is the money came from your pocket so its still your blessing.
God knows your mind so he will definitely do the needful.
I don't think your sis did bad by asking the pastor to pray for all her siblings, even without the money she can request for prayers for the family, she's a good sister for praying for all not even only herself
ReplyDeleteThis one follow for chronicle? 🤷♀️
ReplyDeleteYou can't resolve simple issue with your siblings except you seek public opinion.
Simple instruction the sister decided to do what she liked
DeleteIt is good she sampled opinion here
Your sister no do well at all.
ReplyDeleteYour sister no do well at all.
ReplyDeleteAll this paying of tithe stuff, if you people know your Bible very well, you'd know that paying tithe is not in accordance with Jesus teaching.
ReplyDeleteThank you Pastor Kenneth Hagins for opening my eyes.
I pray they learn.
DeleteWhat your sister did was wrong, but next time do it yourself.
ReplyDeleteAll blessings comes from God who seeth all not the pastor
ReplyDeleteBut how did you find out that your sister wrote the name of your siblings when she gave the tithe? Did the Pastor call you to tell you this? I thought these matters are supposed to be private.
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