Hmmmm.....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CHRISTMAS SHOCKER
Stella and BVs, I am in shock and writing this Chronicles from the house fo the man I am pregnant for and engaged to be married....
He asked me to stay over for a few days before he travels to his hometown in the East to see his parents......He came into the Country a few days ago from one of the European Countries......
Hhe has not allowed me to do anything about running around for his trip because of my state..I got pregnant when he came into the Country in June and he proposed to me over the phone when he video called me last month and saw my stomach....
The reason for this Chronicle is that he was careless with his phone and i entered his chats to see the shocker i never expected...
He is going to the Villge to marry his ex girlfriend and he told her he is still with me because I am pregnant..Note that his ex lives in another European country and is also from the same place as he is....They are childhood friends......
He is travelling on Sunday and the Wedding holds after Christmas day, I am not sure i saw the date properly.....
Should i confront him now or wait for him to come back....I cant change the date cause the date is fixed and all the people i thought were just travelling are part of the plan.....
I am shaking here with this revealtion..
He has called me with his friends phone to ask if he forgot his phone at home and i said No..........
I am confused and in shock......My whole family knows about the engagement and he told my people he wants to marry me when he comes in Easter..He comes home a lot cos of some projects he has and that was how we met two years ago...
Should i confront him?
I am scared and confused...
I forgot to add that his ex and i look somewhat alike.....She is biracial and I am so light skinned you would think i am also biracial but i escaped being an albino.... We are both beautiful .
JESUS SEE WICKEDNESS!!!!
Please let him know you know and forward all the evidence to your phone so that he doesnt delete them and lie...Let him know that you know and ask for the way forward.........You dont need to be hyspterical or anything cos afterall he is a Nigerian man and might probably want to marry the two of you as wives...You as the Nigerian branch and the ex as the European branch
Confront him oooooooooooooooooooooo
Let him know you know his plans, about getting married to someone else. Do not confront him alone o. Do not marry him (cos it sounds like you want you stay there)
ReplyDeleteMadam brace up, have your baby and take care of your baby after all if you really wanted marriage, you would have done it before spreading your legs. Try to improve on your finances and if you're still interested another man will come for you. Don't roll in the mud of your mistake.
DeletePlease confront him and be ready mentally for the pain that will follow. So sorry this is happening to you in your state but I tell you either way you are the winner out of all of these because you have a baby on the way, what a huge blessing!!!
DeletePrepare and go to the venue
DeleteProposed over the phone indeed! Ndi abroad husband. Pregnancy doesn’t work as a trap anymore. Just drop his phone, pick your things and leave the home of newly weds. You will be a cautionary tale to other desperate husband trappers.
DeleteIf you don’t confront him na you know o
ReplyDeleteBut this snooping is supposed to be done before you get pregnant na. You are not smart at all… who takes Nigerian men seriously?
Delete😥😥😥
ReplyDeleteMost Nigerian guys living abroad lie alot. You need to think twice when dealing with them cause they are not to be trusted. Some are even happily married over there but claim single when they come home.
ReplyDeletePoster, confront him but I would have preferred face to face confrontation. But then the harm has been done. As he may have already done the do in the village.
I wish you were not already pregnant. If its not far gone, terminate it. But if you are buoyant and age is not on your side keep it and face front.
He will say many lies. And you will believe him.
This is wickedness
I agree. Confont him now and record the conversation
ReplyDeleteBut you need to answer some questions yourself. Do you want to marry him?
Have you accepted the fact that you may raise this child alone?
All the best
Zendaya
I agree. Confont him now and record the conversation
ReplyDeleteBut you need to answer some questions yourself. Do you want to marry him?
Have you accepted the fact that you may raise this child alone?
All the best
Zendaya
Does she want to marry who ? As what?
DeleteI’ve been crying since morning but the Stella’s reply cracked me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteWhich one be Nigerian branch again? 😂😂😂
Do not confront him, please don’t. Just collect his phones and lock him in the house and go out, lol.. he will be a no show on his wedding day.. lol come back the next day and calmly talk to him
DeleteThis is a bad idea.
DeleteAnonymous 15:47
DeleteYou are very correct
Poster, act as if you have not seen his phone, act as if he did not leave the phone at home
Give him the impression that he misplaced it when he went out
Do not give the phone to him
This is so that you will fully secure the evidence of his two-timing
On the day he is to travel, wake up at dawn without waking him
If by then he has gotten a new phone, take it
Take all communication gadgets he can use to contact his people like laptops, ipads, smart watches, the works
Lock him in the house and call an Uber/Bolt
Go to your family and tell them what's going on
Monitor the calls and messages he will be receiving
Do not pick the calls or answer the messages
Let's see how he will go for that wedding
When at the end of the day you are able to confirm that he wasn't able to show up for his wedding, go with your family to confront him
I like this idea nollywood things 🤣
DeleteAll of this in her current condition?? He still won’t marry her. He’ll marry where his heart belongs. Na posters fault for not getting to know this guy properly.
DeleteIf you try locking him in as anon 15:47 recommended above 👆, what he will do to you, might lead to the loss of your pregnancy and your life.
DeleteIs this drama worth All the stress?
DeleteSometimes I just wonder why naija girls no dey learn lesson especially on top abroadinarian citizens. Who dey propose to person over phone. Later una go say technology. He is obviously not in love with cos he saw ur stomach and switch story. Abeg u saw a big fish and you opened legs. It is well . Enjoy ooo
ReplyDeleteIf you check now, the fish isn't big. A lot of these guys are male prostitutes
DeletePlease, I don't want to read any men-are-scum comment. The poster is just unfortunate to meet a manipulative and oloriburiku somebody.
ReplyDeleteHmmm poster it is well with you.
ReplyDeleteThere is no need crying and killing yourself over this.
Simply ask him what his plans are for you, since he is marrying the other girl.
Let him know you know about his plans and keep your own evidence.
You might just want to have your baby and move on while he plays his role as a father to tour child.
Be safe poster
Ask him in the presence of others, never be alone with him again
DeleteDesperate men can be dangerous
This is real premium tears.
ReplyDeleteMadam you are already pregnant so whether you like it or not, this man will remain a part of your life for a long time. Oh well! What's the next thing to do?
Cash out and cash out big. You need to activate street mode. Heavy ruggedity should be deployed here. Don't dull yourself otherwise that lady he plans to marry will make sure you are left empty handed.
Whether you confront him or not is up to you. In all you do though, ensure you are very well taken care of. If you choose to go ahead and be his wife here in Nigeria, nothing wrong with that. Your child deserves the best and if his father is willing to perform traditional rites on your head, even better.
As much as every woman deserves to have her own man, reality dictates that that won't always be the case. Whether you like it or not, battle lines have been drawn for you already. The lady he intends to marry will want to do everything to frustrate you. She already has your mans people as her allies. Notice how they all played you and traveled behind your back for the wedding. You will need to pick your fight carefully if at all it comes to that. At least now you know the kind of family you are dealing with.
In all this, whether he marries you or not, make sure you are settled heavily. How you play your cards determines which bank of the river you will keep drinking from.
Oil dey your head. All your points are valid nothing to remove or add. Poster pls take these pieces of advice from DOGALMIGHTY and know peace.it's legit.
Delete💯💯💯 Well Said. Seconded
DeleteSimple
Delete🙆🙆, chai! Men likes complications alot, why stress yourself like this bikonu men?
ReplyDeleteWhy can't he come straight and tell you the arrangement? Who knows you might want to be the Nigerian wife in peace after all some people accept polygamy with their full chest once the man can afford it.
Confront him straight as e dey hot abeg!! What nonsense
And be at the mercy of such a mean man?
DeleteAre you ready to marry after finding out his about to marry to another person. Babe just move on pls.
ReplyDeleteThat is good for you ,your only option is to be second wife :;you didn't tell us when inspite of Stella advice to you girls about abroad wannabe you won't hear because of money and other material things .Either you tell him or not what does it solve he has already gone to marry the ex- and your only choose since you are pregnant is to accept your fate..
ReplyDeleteWhat second wife? He may abandon her
DeleteHehe, Stella say nah Nigerian branch and European branch🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeletePoster, please confront him.
Ada is that you? Go and gate crash that wedding so that the lady will know she’s on a long thing too. Let her cry too on her wedding day . Go with people o.
ReplyDeleteFor what? Did he make her pregnant by himself?
DeleteThis is also a bad idea.
DeleteI though this too, and she can always blame it on pregnancy hormones but after thinking about the timelines and that the woman knows of the pregnancy I am now wondering if he plans to use the BV and the unborn for darker purposes. The BV needs to tell her ppl exactly what is happening. The fact that the woman knows about the pregnancy adds a level of weirdness to the entire situation. BV may be in deeper than she thinks. She needs to go through all of his chats and emails to make sure she is actually safe and she knows who this man is. She needs to get everything off the phone before he shuts it down, take the phone and travel to her ppl for the holidays, cause now I am actually worried.
DeleteDear pregnant poster let him know you know his plan of getting married to his ex
ReplyDeleteWhatever may be ,the deed is done. You have learnt your lesson already,next time if you see a man ,ensure you wait until marriage before you give him your cookies,because had it been you have not given in to him or no pregnancy it would have been easy for you to forget about him.
ReplyDeleteUnderstand that it's not all men that you can keep with pregnancy waiting till marriage to have sex still has its advantages and gives you rest of mind.
Whatever ,keep the baby.
Chai. Ndi IJGB. I am beautiful but now a candidate for polygamy.
ReplyDeletePoster, in all you do, stay face. He may want to kpai you or beat the pregnancy out from you to be completely free to enjoy his marriage.
Just be careful.
Men do this alot,he might be in love with you but marrying the other for a reason not known to us (yeah I know this doesn't make any sense,but just believe this narrative till you give birth for your health sake, then once you have your baby, let the real narrative sink , he's a murrafucker
ReplyDeleteI would never believe such because he would have married the BV quietly even at registry and secure her and his child if he really loved her.
DeleteBV , please check the phone thoroughly to see if the man is into fetish things. Read all the chats to see what his life really is about. You likely only focused on the chat with the woman. Either send all the chats to your phone or download them elsewhere. Because of the timelines I am wondering if he is planning anything diabolical. Please go through everything to make sure that you and the baby are safe.
Hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B
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ReplyDeleteStellz, please move this chronicle to the folder so this BV can get the proper response.
DeleteOmoh
ReplyDeleteFear "i just got back" men
Poster please confront him but not with fight,ask him what he intends to do with you and his baby.Please brace up for a shocking answer.
Start thinking of moving on as well,cos you may not be so comfortable with the arrangement he may propose to you.
Sending you love.
Let him know you know, don't just panic or shout while you confront him so he will tell you what really his mind is, the one outside might be pregnant too, he really wants to use one stone to kill two birds.
ReplyDeleteHave you're baby peacefully, nothing loss ....... It's a wicked world.
POSTER RUN TO YOUR PEOPLE, GIVE THEM ALLLL THE INFORMATION, NEVER RETURN TO HIM Before he will use you and the pregnancy for diabolical purposes
DeleteIt is understandable if you are worried at this moment, the deed has been done, you will need to focus on your pregnancy until delivery --wishing you safe delivery.
ReplyDeleteFrom your narrative, they've been together for many years, probably helped each other to the present level (possibly they were never "ex" sef).
Just avoid some IJGB like plague, you saw abroad money, quickly get belle sef. It's possible you suspected something was off that's why his phone became "carelessly misplaced" and within hours you gained access to chat. This calculation eh, it is not calculating at all. Some people are already showing the way to cash out of this equation. In whatever you do remain safe for your baby's sake.
This is very sad, some men are wicked, if I were you, I will move on with my life without looking back.
ReplyDeleteIn all of these, please do not go the evil way! It doesn’t end well! Just take care of yourself and baby and Pray for a better tomorrow!
ReplyDeleteIf you let him know that you know just bear in mind that he will stop those fake special treatments you normally get from him which you thought was genuine. He will start treating you worse than before.
ReplyDeleteMy dramatic ass would have shown up at the wedding with my ppl, let us all fckn rumble together, cake will mysteriously crash, food will mysteriously spoil, wedding day from hell. Naw bra, you don’t try to come sneaky and shit with me then pull this stunt, let your wedding go down in history so you alway remember it with shivers going down your spine. But that’s me. What you want to do? Call him and cry together, do shallow breathing and wonder how you were dealt this hand. You could also ghost him completely if you have no desire to be second wife. But if you do not have a penny to your name, a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of you may have to just grin and bear it. I would never confess knowing, because your knowing is your only trump card that you can play at a critical time. If you want you can use him and build a house out of him for you and your child. There are many tactics that you can use to benefit yourself cause you now know this is not love or respect, so you are free to use him right back just like he has used you. So, take your pick of how you want to play the hand that has been dealt to you by this mofo. Kill him with kindness and fake love and bleed him dry, just stay one step ahead.
ReplyDeleteLet him know but in a polite way oooooooh
ReplyDeleteBased on your explanation, you position is well cut out already. You are his Nigeria wife while his ex will be his European wife. If you over pushed it the you will become a single mother to an IJGB.
ReplyDeleteThe mo'fuckin truth!!!
DeleteHe is cold for not giving her the option of choice
DeleteIt is not as simple
DeleteThis is all so confusing. Worst part is that you're far gone. I think you should confront him to know what you're up against. Very sad
ReplyDeleteHow old is the pregnancy
ReplyDeleteConsider ending it
If not, then get all good contacts from his phone and call the girl and his family and let them know
Meanwhile wheee is your own family
Are you accepting marriage proposal without involving your family
Another angle, he left the phone deliberately so that OP would find out. Trash!
ReplyDeleteWhat if he changes and doesn't give the financial care you need for the baby when you confront him? Why not behave as if nothing happens while you put effort into caring for yourself and baby, see him as a boyfriend you made a mistake with, and nothing more? Don't put up drama that will affect you later.
ReplyDeleteAnon 21:17 you want to keel me with laugh
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