A woman named Mrs Glory Israel has called out her Husband identified as Pastor Samuel Emetu for abandoning her with their five kids and going to marry another wife...
Mrs Glory and her husband pastor Samuel married in 2005 but the marriage broke down after five Children land they seperated in 2020.
However, their Church allegedly dissolved the marriage in March 2022 and Pastor Samuel Emetu remarried in October 2022.
She posted “Let him take care of his five Children, till now he hasn’t divorced me because am yet to receive any divorce document to that effect, I didn’t even know when the Church dissolved our marriage before you know it, I heard he has remarried while still married to me”
“He married me as a V!rgin, our marital problem should not affect our innocent Children”
“Am tired of suffering with these Children alone, currently our daughter Deborah had an accident and she is having excruciating pains all over her body ,let him come and take care of his daughter” she posted on her facebook page.
While Mrs Glory Israel hails from Umuahia, Pastor Samuel Emetu hails from Ohafia all in Abia State.
However, their Church allegedly dissolved the marriage in March 2022 and Pastor Samuel Emetu remarried in October 2022.
She posted “Let him take care of his five Children, till now he hasn’t divorced me because am yet to receive any divorce document to that effect, I didn’t even know when the Church dissolved our marriage before you know it, I heard he has remarried while still married to me”
“He married me as a V!rgin, our marital problem should not affect our innocent Children”
“Am tired of suffering with these Children alone, currently our daughter Deborah had an accident and she is having excruciating pains all over her body ,let him come and take care of his daughter” she posted on her facebook page.
While Mrs Glory Israel hails from Umuahia, Pastor Samuel Emetu hails from Ohafia all in Abia State.
All these irresponsible behaviours are just so annoying.
ReplyDeleteThe church was quick to dissolve their in in church but not in court. Allowing the man commit bigamy. The church should also please take care of the 5 children, before the man drops another 5 with wife number 2.
DeleteMadam head to court. If you both live in Lagos, google justice court.
DeleteWhy is there no law protecting women in this country?
DeleteWith all these complains here and there 😔 about marriage. I'm always scared ooh. No encouragement for we single?
ReplyDeleteYours will be different. Beautiful and joyful.
DeleteAt all. Oga oh
DeleteThe story is not about you but about the abandoned five children and the possibly illegal divorce
DeleteFear who no fear todays Pastors . Dem rugged pass yahoo bois
ReplyDeleteAnd the man is a pastor.
ReplyDeleteWonderful!
Lol..
ReplyDeleteThe same people supported Dotun's ex wife for denying him access to his kids, would be the same people that'll come and insult this man..
The difference is money..
To say the babe get money, she'll want to use the kids to punish the man but cos money no dey, she dey call am to come access the children 😂
Women are so so selfish in nature..
Anyway, oga, take care of your kids,. Whether the wife was a terrible wife or not is irrelevant
Sometimes, it would be nice to take a step back and access situations from all angles before drawing conclusions.
DeleteBe careful ye who thinks he is standing tall. May our words never come back to haunt us.
Not all women will use her children as a weapon against her ex.
DeleteMy own aim is to train my children with every support I can give them, if he brings fine , if he doesn't, life goes on.
Any day he wakes up and say he wants to take them,
💃💃💃 dancing mood activated.
Who get time to fight unnecessary fight?? Can never be me.
Who be this one..
DeleteYou wey don doke a step back and assess from every corner, go talk your own findings nah.
Mtcheew
DANTE!!!
DeleteDante, you made good efforts to balance it.
DeleteEven some women who can't take care of the children still drag the children for themselves and ask for child care / spousal support.
See how the woman deliberately used "his" and "our" children. Do fathers own children in the eyes of the typical Nigerian mother?
It is an irresponsible ,spiteful and useless man that will dodge responsibility of his children
DeleteSuch a pity!
DeleteYou are so bias even when you try not to you can't just help it. Even when the situation does not warrant it you will still turn around, twist it just to blame the woman. Someone and her kids are going through a lot and this is what you have to say.
DeleteI was among those who stood by dotun and got insulted for it, called all sorts of names but I refuse to be partial.
There were lots of women on this blog who stood by dotun go back to the post and read it, but you decided to concentrate on those who don't use so you can use that as a supporting argument for your warped mentality.
What do you have to say about the man's action? Nothing
Are you inside the woman's head to know what she would have done? Even if can't wait to to throw shades at your fellow hypocrites in feminine form at least acknowledge the situation on ground first and show empathy.
Even if you think she would have done all that you implied, please what is the correlation between her case and dotun's.
Dotun want and would never abandon his kids. He would move mountains to get them but the man in this story does not care at all and abadaoned them because if he cares like dotun does the woman will not be on facebook chasing him to acknowledge and care for his chikdren.
It is even this kind of men that deserves the treatment dotun is getting.
TWE
DeleteWhat exactly is your problem?
Didn't I say the man should do the right thing even if the wife was terrible..
Wetin dey worry you this afternoon?
After writing a long line for the wife look at the few words you wrote for the irresponsible man so it won't be like you did not say anything about the man . Like he is so dumb he needs someone to tell him to take care of his kids before he does. What do you have to say about him ignoring his kids to the extent the woman had to call him out? You are advising him when you should be castigating him. Even your advise to the man seem like you were begging instead and not advising
DeleteHmmmm Ohafia men!!!! They are not loyal, wickedness is in thier DNA. They can't help it, it is who they are. They can pretend for a while but that evil in them definitely comes out. They are abusive, controlling and nothing ever satisfies them. Run away from OHAFIA MEN! Thier women are rude, and very disrespectful. Ohafia people are not good people stay away..
ReplyDeleteYou're right about ohafia men. Shebi that gospel singer that divorce his wife and married his sidechick the next week is also an ohafia man.
DeleteNoted.
DeleteIf I’m the woman I’ll go drop them with their father. But wait o why five kids ?!! E too much na . So that tomorrow if something happens you won’t be overwhelmed with bills
DeleteMy sister you said nothing but the truth
DeleteNo need for generalization dear. Good and bad people are everywhere.
DeleteSee hw you personally concluded on ohafia people,for ur mind na,ur proud of ur comment,if someone says this about where you come from,I guess you will leap for joy, rubbish.proudly ohafia
DeleteTrue! My friend was married to one and she saw hell!!! Although she's from Ohafia too
DeleteI am the original poster of the above comment. Not good to generalize. Please disregard my above comment. Sorry.
DeleteInnocent children should not be be involved in all these couple brouhaha.
ReplyDeleteWoman, in this age and time, knowing ur financial situation, u stayed and gave birth to 5 children! Like 1,2,3,4,5??? Let me tell you women something, times have changed and kids no longer hold marriages together. If u born plenty, and u are not financially independent, in case anything happens to the man or the marriage, na u go suffer am, u cannot even move on cos of the man.
ReplyDeleteLet’s do a break down, let’s say u are given a job today, do u know that u need to have a very big job in a very good place for u to be able to meet the expenses of 5 kids in today’s economy and still be able to keep smth for urself??
Let’s say u want to move on and date/remarry, pls in today’s world how many men do u know that would willingly and voluntarily get married to a woman with 5 kids? Ask urslf if he was ur brother, wud u let him?
The point i am trying to make is, it’s high time women started taking charge of their life and took some responsibility too. Use ur head to plan ur life too, wen taking family decisions, also ask how it is going to affect u personally. It is not always abt the kids and the man, try to put urslf in the equation too.
They will never hear na, all they know is to be given birth like rats . Tueeh
DeleteYou have said nothing but the truth.
DeleteWomen should be intentional about the no of kids that they can cater for alone just incase of any eventuality. After all, it is your body that's undergoing this process.
Try as much as possible to be financially independent too. So that when shiii hits the roof, you won't be too overwhelmed. Your money should be a bonus to whatever he brings or vice versa, that is if he will.
So true.
DeleteAs a woman. Your life, mental health and future matters too.
Just look at what you write there, she was his wife and never planned for things to go bad like this. What about the man who abandoned her with 5 children, you don't have anything to say to him? I'm sure you did same too.
DeleteWill they hear? They will tell you "baby is hungering me". After my mum tried to advise someone in the village that she should stop having more after her 6th kid, especially since both she and her husband were struggling, she thanked her and left. Came back the next day and as they were gisting, she said that "money, dem no get, car, dem no get,...it's children that God is giving them free of charge (when others are paying millions seeking for one) that someone will be advising her to stop having". My mama packed her shade and minded her business.
DeleteAs a woman when you birth more than 3 you will literally live the rest of your life raising them
DeleteAnon 13:35 i am anon 12:45, my people say if ur dog and somebody’s dog are fighting, when u go to separate the fight you hold ur dog.
DeleteI am a woman so i can relate more with what women are going thru than men. If i don’t voice it here, she might make thesame mistake again wt another man. For him it is not a mistake it is a lifestyle.
Ask urslf, now whose life is at a standstill? Shebi he has moved on and even remarried, who is left with the whole 5kids? Is it not the woman? I am a lawyer and i know what we see in court, do u know what it takes to make Nigerian men pay for child support? Even those that got the order, ask them how consistent is the payment? Even if it is consistent, do u know that once that child turns 18 payments wud stop because they are adults.
Ask urslf, in the Nigeria of today how many kids get a job @ 18, have they even finished sch? So who wud continue to feed them? Abi 18year olds no dey chop?
It still falls bck on her. See forget, a mom is a mother all the days of her life, that is why i am pulling her ears and every other woman that cares to listen. Do not use ur hrt and privates alone, drag ur brain wt u to avoid fighting men upandan for crumbs.
All these stupid irresponsible men.
ReplyDeleteA woman with 5 kids living not very far from here is suffering. Her husband does not even live with her, he’s on “impregnating” spree. This woman has lost too much weight, they barely feed, drink garri everyday.
The kids don’t go to school.
The other day, hot oil poured on her son, he can’t walk for now. The useless father managed to come around and didn’t buy even bread for the kids. It will never be well with such men.
Sluttychic.
See what someone else is passing through after two came together and gave birth, one person is going through hell. God abeg o may we not be victims
DeleteMy love. Even though I will like to say amen to your prayers against the man but remember this woman knew she had nothing doing. Her husband is struggling yet she went ahead and gave birth to 5 children. You might see her pregnant again and she will tell you ...na God dey train pikin. Most times they give birth to plenty children to pepper their neighbors or complete with someone not minding the consequences
DeleteYou see what one anon said up there is true too many kids overburden the finances. I wish I had their contact to help out .may God see them through
Delete‘Stupid irresponsible men’ the woman that opened legs to get pregnant for the irresponsible man, knowing fully well her financial standing is what? Any name for her? Abi the man just ejaculated on the floor and boom!! Kids rose?
DeleteThe woman ignorant
DeleteThe man is evil
😲😲
DeleteVery stupid, lazy and evil men. The only thing that gives them joy is knacking raw and that is also the only thing they are good at. They cannot provide. This one is hiding under the cloak of pastor and perpetrating evil.
DeleteI spit at those who attend their churches.
The name pastor has become so basterdized. In years to come, it may be more honorable to identify as a police personel than the pastor identity.
ReplyDeleteImagine a pastor abandoning his own kids! What does he preach to his members?
Nawaooo. 5 kids and abandoned. Wicked, irresponsible father.
ReplyDeletePeople that glorify pastors I pray God sees through them and I pray he rethinks and do the needful. Stella there's one that's Dead as a result of DV she left 4kids behind. I honestly feel for those kids. Women' please let's take care of ourselves first
ReplyDeleteOh boy! This is a tough one. 5 kids and the man abandoned them? However toxic a woman may be, it is a failure of manhood to abandon your own kids.
ReplyDeleteThis one weak me.
I agree 100%
DeleteSo many marriages are going through tough times. Imagine divorcing a woman after 5 children. Where do you want her to go to?. Where do you want her to start from? Hmmmm. Madam drag his whole generation. He must take care of his responsibilities whether he likes it or not. Don't listen to anyone that will ask you to leave him to God and face your children. Drag him till you get what you want for your children. He must not have peace till he do the needful.
ReplyDelete!!
DeleteThey're both irresponsible, giving birth to five kids in this time and age, are they selling them? Women should give birth to what they can easily take care of financially Incase of situation like this.
ReplyDeleteCAN, PFN etc have got to set up standards and self-regulate before “outsiders” do it for them. Who is the woman that “married” an “improperly divorced pastor” with 5 children? Soon she will complain about the man’s behavior forgetting the flawed foundation of their relationship.
ReplyDeleteNext to corruption & greed by politicians, past military rulers, government contractors who inflate projects, their agents and cronies, the reason why Nigeria & many countries have the world’s poorest is the birth rate & population explosion. Nigerian population exploded from 87.5million in 1991 to about 250 million in 2023. UAE grew from 2m to 9million in the same time frame but their goverment is not as selfish or greedy. They looked out for every citizen with the same oil money Abacha & the rest looted for 50 years! He is still wiring money from the “grave” to Nigeria almost 35 years afterward because he was so greedy! Like all successive ones including the yatch buyer in the midst of extreme suffering & the Dubai residunhhFirst Lady. What is the matter with some folks that they breed anyhow? Then some become entitled and expect the older child/children to carry on their self acquired responsibility, perpetuating the cycle of poverty with 70 million Nigerians living in abject poverty according to statistics. Children deserve to be brought into a planned home, a planned life, you should not birth more than you can comfortably take care of (God forbid on one income). Financial advisers always advise that you should keep your household expenses low that in a two- career household, one income can cover your lifestyle in case something happens!
What is the matter with some that they just breed like they ask for the number of children at the pearly gates? There is no marriage or children in heaven. God the Father, Jesus the Lamb that was slain & the HolySpirit. The rest of us like the elders will be worshipping God in heaven and nobody will be anyone’s relative or child. Jesus said “in heaven they neither marry nor give in marriage”! The opposite exists in most US & western affluent suburbs where a house with a 3-5 car garage, 4/5 bedrooms has a family with 2 children & a pet! Why do we not think deep as a collective? From leadership to followers-hip, it’s about appearances. The British Prime minister owns no private jet or yatch but travels via BA, US governors & congressmen and women here have no convoys of imported cars while their currency is in free fall due to an insane appetite for imported goods! What is different in our brains? Nigeria was not like this! What happened reduced our self esteem to be so shallow as to only think flaunting imported luxury cars/purses etc without any manufacturing to generate the $ we so love to spend is ok? Many won’t even know our currency if asked but we are obsessed with theirs because of shallow, greedy leadership & poor followers-hip. A society where many measure a woman’s worth by the number of children she has, where pedophiles are in government in the north & openly brag about their latest teenage wife acquisition cannot PLAN for growth. Those of you always justifying mass polygamy should know that it is antithetical to the growth of a modern society because of its population implications. 4 wives with each having 3 kids is already a household of 17 people! Ask yourself why only 5% of Saudi Arabian adults practice polygamy. They know better though thmturning “visitor” into a title & justifying indiscipline & recklessness with every religion including Christianity.
I don’t know if it’s in the air but I know at least two top cabinet level officials who had good careers here, interacted normally, behaved normal while here but as soon as they landed on the soil in Nigeria, a “spirit” seems to descend on them, suddenly using 10-man convoy of imported tax payer paid cars instead of fixing things & not joining the looting. I don’t get it! Same folks that seemed to understand the issues. We need change as individuals. Having this large family in semi poverty & abandoning them is not ok.
what is going in in marriages!!!!!
ReplyDeletea pastor for that matter!!!!
this one called himself to ministry...
It is well.
ReplyDeleteMarigold.
These so-called me of god have turned Christianity into a stage play. What a disgusting creature to treat his children like that. He just used and disposed of this woman and used his church to perform annulment and forget this woman and their children. She has legal protection, and should seek help from the law. Matthew 24 is in full effect.
ReplyDeleteAhhh
Delete5kids
Hi mmmm
What was she doing before she got married and had 5kids
Even she wasn't doing anything before
After marriage wetin she come dey do kwanu...
Oga pastor come take care of ya children ooo..
So she should be blamed because she gave birth to five children as a married woman. And the father who was likely the primary breadwinner who walked out on her, the children and got married to another is a nonfactor?
DeleteThank God that the essence of God is nothing like humans, because if it was ever so many of us would be doomed by all sorts of judgments. Humans really lack love and empathy in these days. Victim blaming is now a sport than so many take part in.
She opened her legs and birthed 5kids,. 1-5 in this age and time. Mtcheeeeew
ReplyDeleteIt's well
ReplyDeleteSome men are just too wicked, that is hw my ex left me and 5 kids he never care for their education or what to eat . I single handed raised my kids with God by my side . I hated men like this.
ReplyDeleteNobody 'single handedly ' raises 5 children. Be appreciative of the support you had from friends and relatives (both gender). Until both couple accept their role in this issue, there will be no solution. Why continue birthing more kids despite economic difficulties?. Poor decision making. Running to another marriage is not the best oga pasitor. The church elders and spiritual fathers should call them and settle the matter. Madam, if you have to send one or two to live with a close relative for the time being, please consider it. Everything is not social media call out, sometimes it complicate things. Wishing you success. PCX
DeleteBaboni, why do you have 5 kids?
DeleteIf she be good woman, he for no leave am
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