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Saturday, November 18, 2023

Saturday In House Gists - A Memory That You Cannot Forget....

We all have memories that we cannot forget...


Some are traumatic...
Some are funny
Some are shocking
Some are tragic
Some bring smiles to our faces....
What cant you forget? Lets gist!

133 comments:

  1. One time I was at the Airport, and while coming downstairs, heading towards the plane, I saw this woman, like in her late 50s, helping her aged Mother, while struggling to carry her hand luggage. I told her to allow me help her with her box, and she just kept thanking me. Her Mum prayed for me in Yoruba language. We boarded, my seat was behind theirs. The Mum kept turning back to say e se (hope I got that right). I mean it takes nothing to be kind, but I felt really good that I could help them in my own way.

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    1. You're such a kind soul. God bless you.

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    2. As beautiful as this story sound, it also very dangerous, helping a stranger with their bag in an airport, especially international one has sent people to jail, please don't try it again..

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    3. You're such a darling, but please it can be risky sometimes especially on international flights.

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    4. Thanks loves. 😊
      @Mrs Sharon, and @Anne K, her hand luggage had already been cleared. We were walking towards the aircraft.

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    5. God bless you, it doesn't take much to show kindness

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  2. It was a huge shock when I lost my big brother. It was so painful and it did affect the family in a way we didn't recover from his demise.

    We never recover from the effect it caused us.

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  3. It's been 7 years and I still remember my father's death like it happened yesterday. I miss him every day of my life, it still hurts so bad.

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    1. It is well

      Mine is 2yrs and 9 months,not easy but Jehovah is our strength πŸ’ͺ πŸ™

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    2. mine is 10 this year, and he died in my arms, so its forever etched

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    3. Our loved ones forever live in our hearts. Their memories will never be forgotten. May his soul rest in peace.

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    4. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  4. My is kind of funny..there is this guy that we have been talking on phone for a while,then we decided to meet face to face on a Sunday.. I entered bike then i stopped where he asked me to stop as I was about getting down from the bike my village people just remembered me I dont know how come my flat slippers that i was wearing just cut...he came out and was giving me sign to start coming to where he was standing me to was giving him sign to come and meet me there..at last he gave me one of his palm slippers to wear and he was walking with one..shame finish me that day..

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    1. Awww such a sweet guy. Hope you guys took it to another level.

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    2. Ehyaah. He was a gentleman who understands.

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  5. The first time I got my salary
    I felt good, like at least I can foot some bill now
    Painful-when my last sister who is my closest sister, I'm her 2nd mom or so I thought, we were very close insulted me cos life happened and she use to help me out financially that I should go and make money and stop begging her and I always use my health challenge like it's a big deal, am hypertensive, I cried out my life my life that day, still do though, God, you Know it's because I am looking for a better job , I am a teacher and also cos of a terrible husband who doesn't even care about his kids, life wasn't like this for me, please give me a
    better job, I hate being dependent on anyone pls, sorry for any typos, am really hurt, never expected it but life goes on

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  6. My father in law of blessed memory( then my boyfriend's father) called me one afternoon when i came to greet his son... He asked me what my parents do for a living et al. I told him.
    He said am i expecting him to embarrass me for coming to there house.
    One big shame nearly swallowed me wen he said that.
    I replied no sir, msking up my mjnd say i no come there again
    He said he has bn seeing me with his son for more than 6years ( i never knew baba was counting years)
    He said. It's high time they came to know my family proper. Or i kno love him son ni? Or i no like wedding things ni? After all, his son is working and capable bla bla bla
    I just stood in front of him.like zombie.
    Lng story short, baba go drop me for my house dat evening.
    My inquisitive mum asked who he was.
    Our last born said my boyfriend's dad
    No b small family meeting dat night on top my matter for house...
    Seven months after we married after my service year.

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    1. Sweet story. Congratulations

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    2. He's a good father
      Congratulations

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    3. Congratulations πŸ₯‚
      Your father in law was a nice man.
      God bless his blessed memory

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    4. Father inlaw wey Sabi πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Congrats dear.

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  7. My fathers death 12/12/2004 its been 19 years just like yesterday.

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  8. How my late sister died 2015.I saw how she struggled for her life in the presence of my dad,mom and our little brother.

    She held my dad's hand while gasping for breath till she gave up.
    10.34pm sunday night,right on her bed,in our house.I saw how people exit this world.

    while she tilted her head towards the other side,i saw tears rolled down her cheeks.

    chaiiii none of us could help her.
    This memory can never go.

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  9. Losing my mum. The most gut wrenching. Wish I could bring her back. Couldn’t sleep yesterday despite all the alcohol. I never thought my mom could die😭😭I don’t wish my enemy to loose their mum. I miss you mama. Just 2 months ago.

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    1. I feel the anguish and pain. Lost my mum two months ago and am still in shock. Still feels like a dream.....

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    2. Accept my condolences.
      May her soul rest in peace.

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    3. My sincere condolences πŸ™

      It is well πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  10. From 2019 my sister,2021,my sister and my dad then 2023 my Aunt πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’” mentally, physically, emotionally I'm not normal again,I have seen 99 the one that hurt most is my dad,I was with him throughout, before my eyes he stopped breathing after giving him,his last bath.the pains and trauma is much on me,I cried it out whenever it come

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    1. Check the sequence. please pray more

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    2. Awwwh so sorry. May his soul rest in peace.

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    3. Afflictions will not rise again in your family. Please stand and cast spirit of death out from your life and family...

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    4. I decree Nahum 1:9, upon your family..

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  11. It was when i lost my elder sister after she graduated from the uni. It's was so painful and it affected my dad's health. Dear sis may your soul continue to rest in peace πŸ™

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  12. My father's death 2/2/20 feels like yesterday, he was full of life 😒, happy, easy going man, he was my everything, boom relationship of 6yrs just packed up jezz I died and woke up. My mom became my support system, but in all I'm grateful to God for how he's taking care of Us and watching over us. This just brought bad memories

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  13. Hiding someone been chased by my community vigilante. (He was visiting his family and accidentally passed through my village which had a communal disagreement with his, he had no idea there was a "melee" and planned a surprise visit). Popsy put him in the car boot at night, drove out, luckily no one bothered him. Dropped the guy off.

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    1. 😭😭😭

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    2. Wow.. He will never forget ur family

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    3. He will never forget the act of kindness rendered by your family in his lifetime.

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    4. Wow! God bless you and your dad. He will be forever grateful to your family.

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    5. Awwwww, your father is a kind and compassionate man. Wow. God bless him.

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  14. When I got pregnant few months after graduation, we just finished university. And my then boyfriend now husband started the process for marriage. Only for my FIL to put a stop to everything and declared that his only son is not going marrying me.

    Served with pregnancy in the North, and stayed put there. He got married to someone from their place as wanted by his parents. 5 years after, they divorced. FIL started looking for me, faithful God connected us back here. Today we are married with two more children.
    But those 6yrs were a phase I can't painfully forget, tearful memories.

    Today I and my FIL are 5 and 6, wonderfully so.

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    1. You say? 🀷‍♀️

      Haa, thank God for the end but it's unacceptable how he forgot you with pregnancy. What if you had gotten married to another guy Nkọ or died in labour.

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    2. You try, I no fit

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    3. Wow you're a strong woman πŸ’ž

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    4. You're a rare gem, someone like me will never forgive that family, mily in-law no do reach yours yet I find it hard to let go

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  15. I had come first again in secondary school and my father promised to get me a brand new sandals. He had been away for almost a month and I looked forward to him returning that evening. He was so proud of me and wouldn't stop showing my result to his friends.
    That morning he left for work, I was waiting eagerly for him to come back with my sandals... Evening turned to night, then midnight, then morning... I went to school feeling helpless, scared, worried... Why didn't my father returned last night... Just before the long break, I was called into my principal's office, where I saw my cousins, looking sad. I smiled at them but they didn't smile back, I was told to get my bag, I'm going back home with them. I asked what the problem was, but they said nothing.
    A crowd gathered in front of our house, I heard cries of agony, my mother rolling in tears...then it dawn on me, my father is dead! How?
    While at work the previous day, the crane he was working with got stuck mid air, been the supervisor, he came to check what the problem was, while he was working on it, it loosened and was coming down, the people around screamed and shouted his name several times, he didn't move, he didn't hear and the crane came crashing on him. By the time they separated the crane again, he was dead and mangled beyond recognition. The incident happened 4pm... My Aunt received a message from home that day that our grandfather is dead, he died 4am, he was waiting to break the news with her brother(my father), instead she received another shocker, he only brother is dead
    Father died at 4am and son died at 4pm.

    The effect it has on me: chronic commitment phobia, I can't loose another person like that again. I'm 43 and still a virgin, never fallen in love or heart broken.

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    1. What a painful death, so sorry about that.

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    2. 😭😭😭😭

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    3. So sorry dear. Don't worry your man will find you in Jesus name πŸ™

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    4. This is so heartbreaking πŸ’”. Please try to move onπŸ€—

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    5. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

      So sorry for this irreplaceable loss. May God grant you soft heart and healing.

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    6. Zaram, it's well with you..

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    7. May Jehovah the God of all comfort, comfort you, and grant you his peace that surpasses all understanding

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    8. I’m so sorry for this
      But you can’t continue like this please pray about it .

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    9. Please don't allow the sad incidence hold you down please, May The Almighty ease your pains and send you blessings.

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    10. Reading this comment with tears 😒 😭 πŸ’”
      This is really heartbreaking πŸ’”

      I am sorry dear.
      It is well πŸ€—πŸ€—

      Your own man will definitely locate you.

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    11. OMG!!
      So sorry for this 😭😭
      It's well πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    12. Oh 😳😳😳😳
      So sorry for your loss

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    13. May God heal your heart. You may want to go for therapy to work on this phobia.

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    14. Please don't allow the sad incident hold you down please, May the Almighty ease your pains a s send you blessings.

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    15. Jesus, why did I read this? My mood is messed up. What a harrowing experience. The Lord is your strength my dear 😒😒

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  16. I get plenty but na how to share it
    The most complex B

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  17. I remember when I was called that my mother was hospitalized, I ran to see her in the hospital and my sister in-law narrated to me that she finished selling her goods and my aunty (my mum's sister) brought her own so she could help her sell. So on the process of selling her sister’s own my mum started feeling dizzy, thank God she was able to call my brother that came and carried her to the hospital.
    We were still talking when my mum's phone rang and she asked me to help her answer the call. I looked at the name and saw "Chinedu"( my elder brother) not knowing it's "Chinwedu"my cousin. I started ranting immediately that it was mama Chinwedu that caused it oo, how can she be putting pressure on our mother every time, instead of her to sell her market she's always disturbing our mother. Is it our fault that she doesn't have "iru afia"( good luck or so) I was still ranting when my mum managed to tell me "mechie onu nwaa, o bu nwannem ka ina akpari etua" (Keep quiet this child, is it my sister you're insulting like this. I then kept quiet, expecting to here what my brother have to say only for Chinwedu to say "sorry I will talk to her to stop". Omo I looked at the name again and realized I've messed up. Chinwedu my favorite cousin has never called me since then. I don't even know how to start apologizing πŸ™†

    Fan Emmanuel

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    1. LOL πŸ˜„, but you can take the bold step na, call him who knows he might pick your call.

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ onu ugba

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    3. πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚
      Ajọ ọnα»₯. Onye iwe ọkα»₯.
      See what your mouth has caused you.

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ ikwuwala onuπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    5. 🀣🀣🀣🀣
      Onu ncha 🀣🀣

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    6. 🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  18. Hmdaddmm, that will be when I lost my father, that day I was outside checking on the market I was drying it was very late maybe around 12 midnight, I saw my father and he shouted at me to go inside the house, funniest part is I wasn't so scared of seeing him, when he died I had feeling of being lapped by him,I'll sit and my bottom will not touch the chair,but I'll be at peace for that few seconds.we weren't really close when he was here , guess he was trying to make up for those years,but daddy if you're reading this, my daddy my daddy,your baby need money, no be by carrying pikin for leg be caring o, drop suitcase filled with even if it's Naira I go manage am like that ,abi you no dey see the doings some of your ghost friends dey do? I dey read their update for Facebook

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  19. Loosing my sister 3 weeks ago …it cut really deep…I still can’t believe it! It wasn’t ordinary…she woke up blind…just like that even my dad that had diabetes never went blind then how come? It’ wasn’t ordinary…we know…she died in my mum’s hands…I miss her so much..it’s well

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    1. Jesus

      This is mystery. Woke up blind and died.. My condolences.

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    2. This is strange.
      So sorry πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  20. @ Chizaram, your story sounds very familiar. Sorry for your loss.

    The day I had my first child remains indelible in my mind. Had just woken up from the effect of the anaesthesia and the nurses brought her to me to feed her. She is a full grown woman now, conquering her world. God bless you baby gal for all you do for us.

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  21. Losing my elder brother πŸ’”. Can't forget. It really changed my family up till this moment.

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  22. Loosing my father, he was my everything. I was a teenager also a mother when I lost him. Few minutes for him to die, he looks at me and my junior sisters , he prayed for angels to watch over us bcos he knows that we are on our own, we suffered but we survived. I can never recover from his death.

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  23. I will never forget how 419 network from Edo State help my father to ransome for 8yrs.
    There is nothing they didn't do to him.
    Note my father was a no nonsense man, we were all surprised he could fall for such, cos he usually laughs at people who fall for 419, he was not an awoof lover. That was how we knew it wasn't ordinary hand.
    He was their pay master for 8yrs. He halted all his projects. He was working and paying to them. He never cared about any of our needs during this period, rather he would say he was doing it for our own good, cos he was going to get huge returns.
    Everybody in my family talked and talked, we cried, we prayed, nothing we didn't do.
    My father always claimed it was an investment.
    People will think we are rich, not knowing that this 419 network was taking it all.
    It seemed as though they threatened him, his only Brother and cousins talked but he wouldn't be moved.
    Whenever we searched his room or phone when he isn't looking we saw deposited receipts, debit alerts of him sending money into those peoples account. We talked, we even involved security operatives, but they said since he wouldn't give them info they can't do much.
    My mom pleaded, brought Pastors to pray, most nights I would wet my pillow begging God to save him from this situation.
    Until 2020 he realised it was all scam. He finally had a heart attack and he died after spending 1week in the hospital.
    It was traumatic for everyone in my family. We were helpless.
    When he passed, we were pained, but also relieved that atleast he is finally free from all the worries of this world. On his sick bed he even apologised to my mom for not listening to her or anybody, he kept pleading for mercy from God, mom told him its OK, God loves him and knows all.
    This we can never forget in a hurry.
    Wow what a life

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    1. This is soul-wrenching, watching your loved one being consistently deceived and not been able to do anything about it. May his soul find eternal rest.

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    2. Looks like he was being blackmailed.
      May his soul rest in peace.

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    3. 😭😭😭😭😭

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    4. Was he being blackmailed?

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  24. I will never forget the that accident I had while returning from My Preliminary studies. (shared it here sometime ago) Still gives me goose bump each time I remember it cos God was with Me on that journey. God really Loves Me !

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  25. I will never forget that woman who supposedly enter the polar bear enclosure at the zoo due to some kind of mental illness. When the bear bit her on the shoulder her brain came back and she was looking for ways to escape. The video is out there somewhere.

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  26. The first time I was went for shopping at Lagos Island. I mistakenly stepped on a woman leg, she was abusing me while I was telling her esee. πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜.
    I was new in Lagos then. My SIL that took me came back and met us, she had to drag me out of there while speaking Yoruba to the woman..

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  27. "Fidelia mummy don die"
    Nah, I'm never forgetting that.

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    1. It's unforgettable dear...
      I even cried this morning...
      Things will never be the same!

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    2. It's well Fidel.
      How's our baby girl doing.
      Pls my love to herπŸ’ž

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    3. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  28. The day that I realized that all my life savings/investment had gone with the wind. My eyes cleared fiam!!!

    The day that I fell in church with my legs raised to the sky cos I fell backwards πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. That day was both funny, sad and embarrassing. Chai! I don suffer🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  29. Most of the experiences shows that death is an enemy no wonder the bible said death is the last enemy Jesus will conquer may His name be praised

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  30. Losing my husband in his early forties in August this year. It still feels unreal

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  31. To all the bereaved, May God grant you and your families the fortitude to bear the loss!!!

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  32. Was so sad reading some comments. May God comfort the families of those grieving. Sending you lots and lots of hugs.

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  33. I just got clear eyes to see the phone screen and type. I have cried my eyes out while reading some comments. Comfort to the bereaved.

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