Where is that BV that is teaching us good English?You are needed in this post...Erigga wan kee us with grammar...
''Nigerian women has programmed us so bad that if we don't send them money or foot their bills then we do not deserve to be loved or to be treated with respect. Even a bus conductor that is struggling is getting depressed that he can't provide for His bae or she might leave him..
Nigeria women thinks because she's loyal to you then that's all that matters in a relationship while you as the man will go to hell and back to prove your love. In a nutshell if you are a young guy still trying to Get your lives together, Do not for any reason get into a committed relationship.
Its a bondage that you will lose a lot for. Really no benefit been in a relationship as a man 100 percent….
Oya let the dragging begin in this family times''
Vicky posh your attention is needed
ReplyDeleteHmmm...grammarly..he is using has for women, and thinks for plural form. Even where he suppose use it is he used its . You need to be flogged o
ReplyDeleteYou need more grammarly than him
DeleteTwo of you are a kind. Pot calling kettle black😂😂
DeleteIt is not Nigerian women that made it so, it is nature, just that so called civilization has weakened the men to the extent most cannot carry out their responsibilities anymore, some of these private schools in Nigeria actually contribute to weakening the men and feminize them, that's the reason old thieves called leaders still take charge of their destinies without challenge from the weakened generation, you are so lucky you are from a banana Republic, if you were from a developed or functioning country, you are expected to loose your life to protect your race, country or religion from being dominated or enslaved by others.
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DeletePray tell, how do the private schools contribute to this weakening?
DeleteAbegi, make we hear word!
DeleteWhen nature is quoted to impose burden and limitations on women, una or dem dey agree?
What he is talking about is the burden of patriarchy. In those days when men enjoyed the benefits of patriarchy, there were lesser vocal talks like Errigga's. Now, women fight patriarchy but want to enjoy its benefits. And there are men who want all leveled up - each gender should pull equal weights in relationships and get equal benefits. On the other hand, there are some women don't want that kind of equality. They prefer the subtle matriachy under which a man slaves till death for a woman in his efforts to prove his manliness.
There is not a single benefit in dating Nigerian women. My soap gives better benefits.
DeleteWhat else does the man bring to the table ? Date in your income bracket , foolish men say no , having big eye. Inferior men complaining about what their fathers did with pride, make princesses nowadays
DeleteScorned incel spotted 😒
ReplyDeleteDon't mind him
DeleteDon't mind him
Deleteis this guy not married? why is he still talking about single people or is it that he has no other talent than to talk about women
ReplyDeleteBcos woman have a lot on them, no their fault na so they created us
ReplyDeleteAbeg make una pardon Erigga grammar😄, guy man is smart and intelligent only that he skips a lot bcos of highness.
ReplyDeleteBut what he's saying is the truth tho there are exceptions shaa!
You no get money. Woman no suppose be your priority. That's basic common sense. It is called setting your priorities straight as a man and becoming someone of value. And value attracts its kind.
ReplyDeleteIt is not a crime to be broke. It is a crime to be thinking of love or women when your pocket puts a whistle to shame.
Lol..
DeleteI disagree with you sir..
Money has nothing to do with you having a babe or wanting to nack.
If you get the money and then get the woman, everyday you continue going hard to maintain the money because you have this fear deep within that if anything happens to you and it affects your financial stand, you'll lose your woman.. this is the reason some guys involve themselves in all sorts.
That's not life bro..
No man, whether rich or poor should prioritize any woman unless she has earned it..
Both rich and poor man also need women to satisfy the loope women fill just the same way all women also need men, and it's not only cash they need, there are other great roles men play in women life, any lady that's only after cash is an ahewo..
Your level don pass bottles own. Na carton.
DeleteSomehow, somehow, Stella go help courier at least half a carton to you soon.
Man no be pocket only. Real women know so. Na d novice and shallow dey think otherwise.
Oga you rant a lot because you gat no mulla..What Dog almighty said is nothing but the truth..guys that are broke are the ones that complain about money too much..sweetheart hustle more okay.
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DeleteNo vex,. Best in identifying broke guys.. no go hustle, dey find man to leech on
Every man is worthy of love.
DeleteBroke or rich.
Funny how na some broke guys dey carry and chop the fine babes (both from rich and poor homes) in some circles.
DeleteDA, you know that no man is happy when all a woman values him on the basis of his ability to provide ALWAYS. You personally know, right?
DeleteSome of these things are caused by men..
ReplyDeleteI have warned my friends to stop this habit of spraying girls money in the club cos the ripple effect is going to be disastrous on the long run..
Soon them go soon begin post say "na man wey spray us money for club we go rock"..
Men need to let women earn their shiii..
Stop S!Moving fam..
If you'll spray her, let her first earn it first..
Instead of wasting money spraying babe so she go dance with you, carry the money enter strip club, make you go use lap dance wound yourself
Degenerate business man
DeleteEarn it indeed
Mtstcheeeeewww
I'd let our dearest Vicky Posh do us the honours of flogging his grammar, make me I use my pidgin tackle him post in general.
ReplyDeleteHe is very entitled to his opinion but then who can blame him and many like him when a black beauty with 2 or more degrees and dual citizenship like Tolani Baj said (just last week) that all she is bringing to a relationship table is her "sweet succulent p#ssy" and nothing more. That podcast was beyond pathetic. So, if the popular, educated, beautiful, exposed ones from middle class families are all about the cheddar and how much of it their bodies are worth, you begin to wonder what's going on in the heads of the really downtrodden ones.
Where I have a major problem with men who think like this Erigga is that they will not sew the style that their 4yards ankara will permit. Later, they will be shouting "what I ordered versus what I got." Shey na Adesua Etomi wan dey bill boyfriend abi na Simi dey bill AG baby before dem marry? If you want a quality girl, be a quality man yourself and if na BBL, 24/7 champagne-popping club girls be your spec, brah, you berra get to working for that shi# to impress her. 🥱
Bus conductor wey go dey toast babe wey dey wear fibre blend hair with Android phone, na him wan commit suic!de na. Wetin do buka girls wey still dey speak their native dialects with shuku weaving? Commot body for where your hand nor reach make we hear word abeg. Nigerian girls/women matter kee una there!
Una no like dem but y'all won't stop talking about them either. Dem go still marry the white/akata babes now and still end up divored or in jail laslas because some go still cheat with the African/Naija girls they condemn😂🤣. That BBN boy Kess wey marry oyinbo wey dey baff am with money nor still dey cheat with Cbristy O wey be Naija girl? IK Ogbonna marry Naija girl? Abegiii!
Points made especially on the TBaj reference.
DeleteBut a woman's long throat for money no get class. Buka girl fit bill Agbero more than he can pay. Even the men who run with the BBL group complain too about the bills. That's why Dem they use demsefs as we read every other week
His point is that the typical naija gurl monitise relationship and affection. On that, there is only small, a very small margin of error.
The men want loyalty and kpekus while offering community prick in return and heartache in return. The street runs both ways , the men are complaining , urchins feeling entitled to sex and everything else while bringing crumbs to the table. Entitlement kee una there. Birds of a feather
DeleteThe men want loyalty and kpekus while offering community prick in return and heartache in return. The street runs both ways , the men are complaining , urchins feeling entitled to sex and everything else while bringing crumbs to the table. Entitlement kee una there. Birds of a feather
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ReplyDeleteAbeg which one is family times again?🤷🤷🤷
ReplyDeleteAyam asking for my neighbor's brother's wife's younger sister.
Do men give women money without an ulterior motive? You guys don't help women without wanting something in return. So pray tell, how they won't see you as empty if you don't have money to offer them? What will they be doing with ur broke ass? What will you bring to the table?
ReplyDeleteIf men can answer these questions without being vindictive or condescending, then we can begin from there.
Don't mind the noisy hypocrites, feeling entitled to wetin hand no reach ,lazy covetous users complaining exchange , wanting plenty things for nothing
DeleteMen made it so, their level of expectation from women self is brain tasking.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind them , hypocrites
DeleteNa because he no get na why he dey bitter
Naturally the bible teaches that the man is the Breadwinner. & our society spells it out that a man is the Breadwinner so what do you expect?
ReplyDeleteAnd why are you in a relationship again?
Is it not to prepare for marriage or find a partner?
If a girl is in a relationship and she doesnt ask you for money cos you dont have, you dont expect her to ignore another man that is showering her with gifts.
Even her sef will think its love and dump you depending on her level of reasoning,how much life(money and care she gets from her parents or her level of maturity) and you can't blame her. Whats even sure that you won't dump her?
It would be a better world if we all can just zip up and begin to practice strictly platonic friendship, agape love and then keep the bed undefiled before marriage.
Me I can't be f** you daily without asking you for money if I'm in need, even if im not in need i have to know that you are a giver, this is not prostitution.
Mind you lots of men out there give money or costly items as gift to ladies who they have no attachments with. I'm reminded when big sis first visited me in uni from another state, on her way to my hostel a man gave a a ride, he didn't know her from Adam, they got talking on a friendly place, nothing attached, this man bought her a new phone the next week cos her phone developed a problem. He didn't ask her out.
Is it the free flight tickets she gets from others while she was doing her internship?
People who are true givers don't complain, na una wey feel say una dey pay for commodity na una dey complain. Na wa.
I remember my first crush, I was in ss2. He was already a year 1 uni student and he always gave me gifts like wristwatch, money for break lunch, romantic notes, bracelets etc until he japa, and we only used to hug, that's all.
Spending is part of relationship, if you don't have to spend abeg getat. Wait till you have before you enter relationship and prepare for marriage.
Who says being single and living a cool sweet life is not achieveable without sex or romantic relationship being in the mix?
Me personally I don't demand from men mostly when I know your level.
And even when I know you have I don't ask excep I'm in serious urgent need, but I expect you to sometimes bring gifts.
If not there's nothing you will do to convince me that you love me and you are not akagum.
You guys keep complaining daily as if they tied you people to the girl that is milking you dry, man up and stop being a nuisance.
False doctrine.
DeleteNo where in the Bible is it said the Husband is the bread winner for a family.
If it is in the Bible please cite it.
Everybody is entitled to demand what they will give their "love" for and also decide what they will not give for "love"
It depends on how a man values himself. A typical Nigerian man has nothing to offer other than money. Last time I checked, no woman holds a gun to a man's head to pay up. In my case, I have never met a lady I cannot dump in a second. Nice house, nice exotic cars but I make them understand that it is a privilege to be around me and they behave accordingly.
ReplyDeleteYour first sentence said everything , the users are complaining that they no get free access to relationship "benefits" without paying
DeleteHit dogs holler , broke men feel the most entitled
According to you, A Nigerian man has nothing to offer except money but at the end of the day you ended up bragging with material things. Are you not the same after all? Thank your stars you haven't met me, I will be the one to dump you instead and that is if you were fortunate enough to date me.
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