Thursday, November 16, 2023
OAP Malibongwe Gumede Accuses Nigerian Woman Of Using Love To Extort Men
South African reality TV star and radio presenter, Malibongwe Gumede, has asserted that Nigerian women go into romantic relationships to extort money from their partners.
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When a lady do it they call it transactional love..
ReplyDeleteWhen a man do it, they call it love scam..
That is, it is business for women but fraud when it's done by a man😂😂
Make Una dey deceive yourselves, na fraudsters Una be..
Hook up/prostitution under the disguise of relationship
I wouldn't blame her. This is the impression that most of our Nigerian female celebs give to the rest of the world.
ReplyDeleteEveryday, we hear one celeb or the other talk about how a real man is one who is supposed to take care of her entire existence. How a man should provide everything she will ever dream of. Or how their kpekus is all they are bringing in the relationship, and every man should fall on the floor and worship them.
When we go through the comments, there will be hundreds of other females who will be supporting these crazy assertions.
People from other nations are watching. Nigerian female celebs are slowly rebranding the rest of us as the gold-diggers of Africa.
Talking like she knows every Nigerian woman/girl... I have noticed that the south Africans and the Ghanaians will always look for ways to speak shit about us at the slightest opportunity, . Like they are just obsessed with us.,even though they know we don't usually send them ... I guess when you are big you are just big.
ReplyDeleteObi for President
Wizkid FC
Proudly Tiv
Thank you jare.
DeleteEverybody wan use naija women trend
You're so spot on.👌🤝😍
DeleteNigerian men think they are wise with their ego problems. Only a fool spends money to get what other less qualified men get for free. Who are the fools?
DeleteNothing new. It's old story jareee
ReplyDeleteWetin Nigerian women do this world na 😪😪
ReplyDeleteE reach to ask.
DeleteWe have suffered.🤯
Just say you are jealous of Nigeria and her women, every damn time, Nigeria this, Nigeria that yen yen yen and bla bla bla.
ReplyDeleteShe talk truth ..... Nigerian women go fight her , but they know deep down that she talk truth ....
ReplyDelete🤣
DeleteI'm using my binoculars to find the lie in this statement.
ReplyDeleteIf it works for you please do it. Yes i said it with my full chest Na the independence woman ish way i claim land me full responsibility of two kids. I have no regret having kids but you see love without money i no do again. Keep your love, the love from God and my kids is enough already.
ReplyDeleteNa so Una dey do .
DeleteYou no go talk the part wey you play wey make the relationship end.
Na so one babe sef dey drop this your kind takes till we discovered that the man left her after she was caught cheating...
Ashé werey has been forming "after all I did to his life".. aunty you be won end him life with cheating oh😂
Leave blame aside and face the responsibility to the welfare of the kids produce from the marriage. Please dont come for me because you will not like it. You dont just come for people because you have things against female. You lots think it is a man world and can dish whatever you like. Women are standing up and refused to be shut up and you come here to spill rubbish. Please look for your independence women in peace and allow those that have refuse to be independence anymore to be.
DeleteLol,.
DeleteLike you have things against men bah😂
Does your love without money, covers the lady too or you talking of a rich man getting involved with a broke lady 😂😂😂
No go hustle
You can as well look for the one that suit your budget pray to God to increase you to continue to flourish your budget.
DeleteResponsible men that are comfortable to foot the bills of their partner are not complaining, or have you see the likes of FO complained the bill is too much. Open your mouth wide to spilled rubbish
😂😂😂
DeleteIn other words, you're a commodity that can be purchased right?? And when the man has so much funds, he can add more of your kinds to his harem😂😂
See her mouth like pray to God to increase you, you wey dey find man to leech on, na you need the prayers pass😁😁
Rich man bla bla bla, who tell you say them no dey complain? Do you know any rich man?😂.. go and hear how they describe your kinds
Madam Dante
DeleteYou don't know everybody's story. Respect yourself a little.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
I think it's time Nigerian women stopped defending themselves in this matter.
ReplyDelete1. So, do Nigerian women like/love money? Yaaaassss!
2. Do they like men who spend good money on them? You bet!
3. Do they give you attention if you don't have money? No. Because they understand that you need a job more than a relationship.
4. Should they abandon a comfortable nigg*r who spoils them with material things for a struggling guy whose motive they cannot vouch for? Well, let each woman decide because you can never trust the loyalty of a broke/poor person.
Abi no be these same people wey dey borrow money from loan app and credit from hemteehen and refuse to pay back? Instead of paying, they will dump the old sim and get a new one and continue "prouding" on how smart they are on top gbese😒.
Nigerian women over the years have developed deeper trust issues with the men. In the past and in the African culture, a man made his intentions known to a lady and her family and waited till after marriage before enjoying the dividends of marriage. Since the days of sim cards, Blackberry, social media and human hair, the game changed forever. Everybody wan meet up socially so the onus falls on you to find your square root in relationships. Shoe get size, designs and quality. Na you go dey find original Milano shoes inside Aba market with 20k. You come get mind dey ask for guarantee join. If you carry the matter go court sef, you no go win.
Ask important questions like who will be financially responsible for the relationship. Will he, she, both of you or none of you be? Your friend is having a party on the Island and you want your partner to attend from the mainland. Fine. Na who go finance the trip? I am talking about a babe and dude who are both gainfully employed now? Without you in her life, she probably wouldn't have met your friend and incurred "enjoyment gbese" na. If a South African babe would pay her way to the venue, buy the dude a present or even finance the party, we applaud her and will duly ask the Pope to canonise her in due time but don't involve Naija girls/women on that saintly trip if they don't wanna go. Many Nigerian women are tired of dating or marrying "potentials" that will later turn them into eternal breadwinners. That load dey quick age woman, so she needs to know you can hold your own before she chook head put. I am not talking about the ones that are only attracted to yah** boys and ritualists o. There are so many legit great jobs and businesses that people do successfully these days. Find your niche.
If se* is the problem, there are commercial se* workers everywhere in the world including the "holy" cities who charge for their services. If food is the problem, learn to cook or order some. If companionship is the problem, gist with your homeboys or therapist. BUT if you want a standard relationship with a partner who will be a 10-in-one performing all manner of roles in your life, it is not cheap (for both men and women). Just decide who go dey pay/finance that part fess before relationship start. Nor be Angel buy Soma diamond wristwatch yesterday so? Is she not a Nigerian girl? Hian! Angel may be richer than the dude today but she knows he can comfortably feed her and pay rent at least. Now, that's potential and partnership enough for two responsible adults. I no wan open South African babes file today abeg🤐. That one pass can of cobras. Naija girls better pass them one billion times. Dem nor reach samsam.
You typed this? O boy!
DeleteSadly it is this kind of mindset that we raise our daughters to remain subjugated in their quest for relationship.
DeleteBoth male and female need a job more than a relationship. You cannot tell me any woman was created without a destiny they need to fulfill.
Not in this time where a lot are excelling at the in different industries, making and leaving their mark
When as a woman you don't see that as a creation of God your life carries a value, whose purpose needs to be fulfilled. You will spend your lifetime being a subject to another person who might be happy keeping you without a purpose. And that's where a lot female find themselves, when they hit rock they will then come crying blue murder.
The chronicles we read on this blog is a good pointer to this. A higher number of the females posters, believed they needed a relationship more than a job and end up being totally dependent on a man who is happy to keep them under his authority. Subjecting her to all sorts because he knows, she had traded her purpose for peanuts.
Amenbonawork how can i recharge your network hahahahahahahahaha.
DeleteA girl state what she want you call her materialistic but you want 100% commitment without nothing to show from your side. Everyone do what please you enough of this judgement.
Para 3 @12:39
DeleteAll telephone charges debts of Nigerian "broke men" no reach one quarter of the debts owed AMCON by Nigerian rich men - "the small gods of big Nigerian baby life girls".
Woman go school to the best level finish. All you hear from her mouth "my husband" "my boyfriend". Take motor pursue husband around town to her death?
When we talk, Dem say wetin be man without money. So wetin be woman wey follow man only because of money.
Broke men no loyal. Next time a woman cry in chronicles about man ask weda her husband broke before commenting.
Lol.
God abeg let my girl grow meet me alive when we can both discuss as adults.
Thank you Ebony Oge.
Oh, this lady, you dey always Burst my brain.
DeleteWell put together.👏👏🙌🙌😘
@Binam: Yes, I did dear. For me, it's easy-peasy. No stress at all. I have my strengths and weaknesses like everyone.
Delete@Oge: Let me first say that I enjoy reading from you a lot and you've made great points yet again. However, this post is not just about grooming the girl-child and I also believe no one here can accuse me of supporting a wayward lifestyle for girls or boys on this blog.
When we correct and comdemn our girls/women for certain mindsets and actions, let's not also forget to not let the materialistic tag stick on Nigerian females in general. Besides. If Nigerians were to be morally adjusted, it shouldn't be by south Africans and I know enough about them to draw that conclusion.
Just this week or last weekend on the Erigga post, I totally condemned Tbaj for her shameless comments about what women bring to the relationship table. There are bad eggs and many dirty impressions that we are trying to correct. However, let men also learn to be intentional about the ladles they date or marry. They can't keep blaming "Nigerian girls/women" for their relationship mistakes in perpetuity. I'd give you 5 random names:
Nancy Isime
Tolani Baj
Ayra starr
Tems
Asisat Oshoala
If you were a man looking for a solid relationship with an uncontroversial, homely, Nigerian lady that might lead to marriage, which of them would you date? I can tell you for free that over 90% of the men always complaining would not pick Asisat as their first choice and I believe you know why. The people complaining like the set of people they are complaining about. They only have a problem with it if their bank balance puts these women out of their reach. Then they keep ranting as if the materialistic ones are the only ones available. And the fact that Asisat is not flashy does not also mean she'd like to settle for a struggling guy by the way. My point is: let them let our women breathe.
#Amebonawork
Anon 14:23: That is a mindset that many women (single and married) on this blog strive to correct on a daily but we should also be honest enough to admit that the society made it so.
DeleteYemi Alade is a beautiful and successful Nigerian artiste but she came out recently to talk about the preasure her family and friends are putting on her to marry. Please search for that post on this blog and read the comments. You'd be proud of many BVs. I know I was.
Many Nigerian ladies are not desperate for marriage but their families and the society force marital desperation on them. It's a multi-billion industry for fashion vendors and christendom in particular. One female preacher even told them to cancel natural hair for expensive wigs so they can find husbands. In her words: "who natural hair epp?" So the 250k to 3m human hairs will be paid for by who? Any typical lady that does not know her worth has been automatically activated from the pulpit, no less. Those are the problems and until they are solved, these females will keep choosing materialism and "any marriage" to fit in socially.
@Apple: 😉.
Ebonyoge and Amebonawork
DeleteI love reading your different perspectives on this topic. Nice one intelligent ladies.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Anytime Nigerian girls, what's their obsession with us?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteIn the post-1994 era in South Africa, 44.6% of children live in single-mother households that are predominantly dependent on government cash transfers . The single-mother household rates in nigeria is only 9.5%.(as culled from google).
ReplyDeleteMy sisters, Dont go loving broke men like SA women, you dont have govt cash transfer as a fall back like they do.
What about paternity fraud index?😁😁
DeleteNigeria women are number 1 in Africa, number 2 in the world.. (as culled from Google too😁)
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ReplyDeleteShift abegg 🛌🛌🛌🛌🛌
DeleteWhere is the lie? Show the money but don't spend on her. Keep her hopeful. That's a game plan that works all the time. By the time she figures it out, you don chop her tire.
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