In this post she lits interesting reasons why she she rejected him...
She wrote: “This man that I refused to marry decided to send me a wedding video of him and his small wife today at 6 am Was I pained? Yes, a little bit can’t lie But did I regret my decision? No!!!! The lady even looks exactly like me, same shape, same complexion... Men are funny”
In an update on Thursday, after going viral, she gave reasons why she refused the marriage proposal citing the age difference, toxicity, and others as her reasons.
She wrote: “Wasn’t expecting my tweet to go viral but since a lot of people are curious..
Below are the reasons I rejected him
1. He was 30 years older than me
2. He wanted me to be his second wife which I’ve vowed not to ever be
3. He was toxic (won’t go into details)
4. He has a lot of money to take care of me which he was generous about can’t lie but that’s not enough reason for me to marry him, it’ll be very bad of me to marry him because of money because what if the money goes away?
And I was/ am not ready for marriage so…."
5. I believe in my abilities a lot and I believe I can be a millionaire too in the future so why marry someone I don’t like cuz the the love wasn’t there no matter how hard he tried ”
from The Nation Nigeria
30 years older, toxic....nah! I jump and pass
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteAm happy for her because she knows what she wants
DeleteOkay, so this is the reason she trended on the X app. Very well
ReplyDeleteI guess you dated him or you gave him some attention. Why?
ReplyDeleteSending you his marriage video was childish of him. She said “his small wife” lol
Sluttychic.
You need to read the man's side of this story, the man made his intention to have her as his second wife known to her, he was sending her on vacation to different countries, she has a good car courtesy of Alhaji, her mum has been promised to go to Hajj.
DeleteShe was leaving large on his money but refused to marry him.
Felicity
Na only she know wetin she see
DeleteNa only she know wetin she see
DeleteShe has good reasons for turning him down.
ReplyDeleteTruly good reasons , if only many young women would be this confident
DeleteWhy were you dating him?
ReplyDeleteNo mind the barawo
DeleteDated and even said he was very generous with his spending! Good enough to date and spend his money but bad for marriage.
DeleteIt's the hypocrisy for me...
🤣🤣🤣 barawo🤣🤣🤣
DeleteNa waooo
It's the same hypocrisy with men so nyansh down with the faux outrage.
DeleteGood enough to fcuk, but big food enough to wife.
Did he smash or not? He did! You dated him but refused to marry him. So, it's a win too for him. The only caveat is that he didn't get the opportunity to smash until he's tired of it. LOL
ReplyDeleteValid reasons
ReplyDeleteOk madam, but you chop him money na pain the man. He must be really pained to have sent you the video
ReplyDeleteSometimes men can be petty
DeleteZainab for just lick her wounds quietly bcos the way they dragged her on X ehn, they said the man even took back the car he gave her. You didnt know about the age difference and toxicity when he was spending heavily on you.
ReplyDeleteBTW how is it possible for a 22 yr old to be living large without any source of income? What do they tell their parents?
He was trying to woo her
DeleteShe didn't like what she saw and called it a day
The people dragging are idle, frustrated, envious or malicious trolls
17:09, the people dragging her are envious, frustrated and malicious? Lmao.
DeleteHe was trying to woo her but she accepted gifts from same toxic man she says is older than her with 30 years. Joke is on you.
Sluttychic.
Anon, she was dating him mad he funded her lifestyle.
DeleteJoke is really on her miss Aboki.
DeleteMiss Aboki, your question is not for parents in this generation, parents that want to eat the fruit of their labour right from the child's pregnancy stage. They said her mum was enjoying Alhaji money with her.
DeleteThere is an 'abroad' on my street, a man that should be in his late 50s or early 60s, who just found a babe of 24 years, my mum was shocked when he told her, he said he dates only young ladies, he has married abi dated two who gave birth for him but none is with him now. He said mother-in-law is his problem, he doesn't have good luck when it comes to having a mother-in-law.
He has warned his new catch mother to behave.
Felicity
My dear their parents benefit from the wayward children these days too. Ots a big shame truly.
DeleteThere is no joke
DeleteToxic has gotten too many women killed, maimed or traumatized
Generous and wife beater is a combination none of you should ever encourage.
Her reasons are valid. Won't advise anyone to enter a toxic marriage.
ReplyDeleteTruly
DeleteShe has been outed.
ReplyDeleteHe is too old.
But his money was not too old for her and her mother.
"Small wife". A caseo of sour grapes. She too is small. Apparently the man like them petite. She confirmed that fact herself in her post.
This is what Dante wrote yesterday. He is married. She was chopping his money. Tomorrow, she will litter the net with posts about her husband staining her abaya if he too do looks for a younger woman after their marriage.
They believe in polygamy
DeleteYour point is moot
😂😂
DeleteNa their way..
Always forming victim..
Even when they're the fraudsters (Yahoo girls)
From what was discovered, she promised the man marriage and was chopping his money like it's going out of fashion, she was going on vacation abroad like it's her backyard and her loving mother too was also in the picture pushing her to get married to the man so he can fulfil his promise to send her on hajj 😂😂
The man got her a Lexus, accommodation and all, she was always flying in and out of Abuja..
She go dey post vacay pix but wouldn't show who sponsored the trip😂😂
Even the work she claims to be her business was the man's doing..
She lucky say the man even dey calm,. Him suppose collect all him sweat, especially his car, then use court follow am, after all there was a promise to marriage and defamation
To think she's only 22 years😂😂
DeleteImagine the kinda things she's ready to involve herself in..
Kings,. If Una like no investigate the past
Chronic poverty mentality , bitterness and wickedness Dante full your comment
DeleteHer reasons are good enough
ReplyDeleteDey play but you can date him,you can receive gift and live the babygirl lifestyle.
ReplyDeleteTwitter was on fire yesterday!
ReplyDeleteBut you knew you weren’t going to marry him but you were enjoying the luxury lifestyle he gave you, meanwhile people thought it was hard work.
Never believe what you see on social media.
Heard the Alhaji collected the car he bought for her.
Whatever makes you happy baby girl,her reasons are not bad,me too I nor do o.... Josaria
ReplyDeleteHer choice her life, life goes on.
ReplyDeleteWhy call her "Small wife 🙄
Look at this young cute woman to go take her fresh virginal body give to some man who probably hasn’t seen his penis in two decades because his belly is so big. She puts a value on herself and I support that.
ReplyDeleteThe most important thing she said was that she believed in herself and her abilities. Having that mindset alone will take her to the top of anything her heart desires. I love her for saying this.
You too no well.
DeleteShe overlooked his “big belle” all for the baby girl life.
DeleteMan has moved on and she’s pained, she don turn inspirational speaker 🤣
Fresh “virginal”body in the mud. Continue with the self deceit.
Sluttychic.
Well you took a great decision by not marrying him.
ReplyDeleteIn as much as she ate the man's money she still has right to back out if he is not the type of man she wants so I don't understand why people are dragging her.
ReplyDeleteThank you @la belle (Emerald ) she dated the man and discovered that he's toxicity what is the heck, so she must die there baa
DeleteShe should not have brought it online when she knew she dated him and chopped his money.
DeleteSilly girl.
ReplyDeleteWhatever makes her happy jare
ReplyDeleteHer life, her choice me self I no fit.
ReplyDeleteI love her believe
ReplyDeleteThe girl na ole. While I was in the Uni one biz man use because of say he started training the girl from secondary school & the girl was in the uni when she told the
ReplyDeleteman say I no wan marry him again he come kpia the girl.
The most complex B
Unlike the animal who killed a human being out of bitterness and evil. This man moved on and sent a video to say he had done so. She said she isn't doing again what is the ole for? What kind of chronic poverty and wickedness mentality are you displaying ?
DeleteTHERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR MURDER
NONE
Thank your Allah that he did not used you for ritual.
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