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The most common regret is choice of career
ReplyDeleteOpportunities lost.
DeleteNot spending enough time with family and friends.
DeleteThe most common regret people have, as they grow older is choice of a life partner.
ReplyDeleteMarrying the wrong partner in life.
ReplyDeleteI was on phone this morning and my guy was telling me, his wife just served him papers from the court. It's a divorce papers after two children and marriage of over ten years.
He told me his only regret was setting her up business wise and financially and today she has money more than him to the extent of telling him she can afford traveling to any part of the world and live.
He's earning less than 100k but took loans millions of naira to set her up for life and this is what he gets. When I asked what is the problem and reason for her act? He said, wify is accusing him of cheating. Though he admitted he used to cheat earlier in the marriage but over three years now he hasn't but wify still feels he does due to he usually stay away from home most times.
Sometimes, marriage gets so scary to me and I have come to understand and believe that, love is truly never enough.
To be honest with you, I do not blame her for thinking like that. If he didn't cheat, and she was suspicious of him, it's a different thing.
DeleteOf course.
DeleteHe wished she will stay with him, endure his infidelity because she doesn't have na.
Why didn't he take the loan for himself. Unku thought he could play.
Mtcheww.
Have you and your friend thought about the 7 years damage from infidelity? He hasn't cheated in 3 years my foot.
This is a bad experience but i don't think it qualifies in the context of the question of lifetime regret. Your friend is young, can still remarry and can still succeed in life. His life is not over.
DeleteOn the other hand, he is not a good financial planner, how can a man be earning less than N100K and take loans of millions?, how will his family be feeding after monthly loan repayment, who even approved the loan as his cashflow can't support it; except he has other sources of cash.
How can he be staying away from home most times? A married man o,him sef nor serious,I like what she did
DeleteI don't believe him. No man will take millions of naira in loans for his wife's business just like that. The story is not complete. No woman will divorce a man who did so much for her. As for his cheating, I believe he only stopped cheating due to covid. He resumed once the pandemic was over. That's where the millions of naira loans went.
DeleteShe knows that he has stopped cheating. Most women serve their revenge cold. She did not like the cheating but liked the money from the cheating hands. She is leaving now because she has become financially independent, and knows her departure will empty the man or even kill him if he does not get a grip of himself.
Delete10 wasted years I'd say!! Where was he when she became more financially stable than him? Is he not the source of the numerous loans? Why didn't he use it to make himself more stronger as the man of the family? So, he was cheating with an empty pocket okwa-ya? He didn't believe the woman would make it, he spent the time he was supposed to use in building himself for future challenges he choosed to spend it on non-profitable Punani ABI? He should goan sit down Joe! He got what he rightly deserved. Men inside looking for what they didn't keep outside mmtttttttccccchhhhheeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwww
DeleteTJ, so that means she married the wrong partner.
DeleteProcrastination, it kills time faster than anything.
ReplyDeleteNot taking better care of themselves
DeleteNot living their biggest dreams; so consciously of what people say and living to suit the world's narrative but then it will be too late
ReplyDeleteChoice of a life partner
ReplyDeleteI think its procrastination and wrong choice of future partners.
ReplyDeleteNot saving for old age
ReplyDeleteFrom what I have seen in life and understand at my present age, is that the most common regret people have as they grow older is; not spending enough time with loved ones and not discoverying/finding oneself early enough to impact ones life.
ReplyDeleteThis is true!! My boss just discovered some months ago how much his children love, care and respect him, said he didn't know they could be caring and talk smoothly with him, they replied him 'Dad, you spent 60 years of your life on your work and not us, so, you don't really know us that much" the 85 years old man broke in tears!! Since then he now prays and begs for longer time so as to spend more time with them,, sadly because of his age he is not fit to fly, his children are scattered all over Europe so, all he has now to see and communicate with them is WhatsApp video, zoom, etc .. I feel really sad for him.
DeleteSo true.
DeleteMarrying the wrong person
ReplyDeleteChoice of career
Not listen to a good advice from once parent when he/she is young
Not learning a certain skill when one had the luxury of time. Also the regret of marry the wrong partner.
ReplyDeleteNot taking advantage of either getting an education or learning a skill when they had the opportunity to do so.
ReplyDeleteFor some
DeleteBad investments
I am an elder so I can say that my greatest regret was marrying the wrong partner. Marry someone very very kind and generous. Marry a true friend and be very very patient with one another. Another regret I see in others is not reaching their full potential due to fear, lack, laziness or ridicule. A particular regret I see in some of my fellow men is procreating indiscriminately. Many such men become so lonely and abandoned now as some of those children curse them for being lousy and non existent fathers.
ReplyDeleteBaby daddies, neglectful fathers and absent husbands will hear ween in future , they forget old age is coming and money is not everything
DeleteHaving sex before marriage. I wish I kept my virginity cos it was not worth it loosing it to the thieves I gave it to. Not knowing Jesus on time by reading my bible myself and serving God better.
ReplyDeleteNot spending money wisely
ReplyDeleteMarrying the wrong person
Not saving up when the money was flowing
Marrying d wrong partner
ReplyDeleteChoice of career,life partner
ReplyDeleteNot taking decisions at the right time mostly especially for life partners
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B
Thinking about what people would say when you want to take certain actions, not knowing no one is even thinking about you
ReplyDeleteI did not know my Dad will die early. I wish I spend more time with him 😠I wish I celebrate him more.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the memory of the little times you did spend with him
DeleteDo charity in his memory
Thank you
DeleteMarrying the wrong person....... Josaria
ReplyDeleteOpportunity lost
ReplyDeleteMarrying the wrong partner
Not investing your money wisely when the Morey was flowing
Wasting time and energy on useless Waka outside while neglecting spouse and children
ReplyDeleteAs I grow older, I regret not spending enough time with my children.
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