Wednesday, November 01, 2023
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Make them come insult me this night wey I won relax, watch movies and be happy..
ReplyDeleteDo you abeg..
Your body is body, dress naked.. do body positivity, insult men always, don't talk bulshiit from those narcissistic gender, ask your ex for money, date married men, put all your eggs in one basket, never ever apologize even when you're wrong, it would make men start demanding accountability and you know, you are a queen, you should never be accountable to any baga, wear loud make ups, expensive wigs, even though you don't have a job and might be begging for giveaways, make sure you use iPhone 11 pro at least, any man that cannot buy you your dinner dress , pay for your make up and Uber fee doesn't deserve a date, remember you are a queen, seeing and spending time with you should cost lost of money.. and make sure you ask for the most expensive food on the menu, and take takeaways too, if he can't do these, it's prove he cannot take care of you, so he shouldn't be talking of relationship let alone marriage, don't ever put all your eggs in one basket, never! No man deserve such, doing so means you are making him special,. A perfect relationship is when a man is calm and the lady is dramatic, you are the only one allowed to be toxic, always remember this. You are free to insult, slap and hit him, but he dear not, if he tries to insult or hit back scream mental/ emotional abuse and domestic violence.. do fake yansh, mess up your life and live anyhow, then later blame men to be the cause that you did the yansh because they where insulting your small bum bum and going after big bum bum.. always play the victim card. Insult Dante always and if he dares reply, call him a woman hater. Free the nipple and kpekus, then wear a light see through gown so they can both be dangling.. remember, body positivity
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Make sure you have a hig body count, men do it too, if they can, you can.. you know what a man can do a woman can do better, but don't apply this rule is supporting and spending, your money is your money and his money is your money, I said his money is YOUR money, not 'our' money.. things have changed now, the 'our money' is past, everything is now yours, that's the new update. Don't cook for him, let him get a chef if he can't cook, but he owes you provision and protection. He came to this life to worship and serve you. Don't ever submit to a man, you are not your mother or grandmother, you are wiser than them and this is 21st century. Be ver entitled, expect someone husband to give you 10k dollars for doing nothing,. god's blessings comes mysteriously, some people used such money to start their hair business and they say it proudly.
Lastly, if you catch or suspect he is cheating, make sure you cheat back and bang his friends and brothers..
Blessings 🙏
Ignore typos biko.. I no proofread..
DeleteIf you no fit ignore, na your wahala still be that one🙏
You never disappoint.🤣
DeleteDante 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I don't agree with you tho.
DeleteYou have said everything out of bitterness, we have read all your wrote.
DeleteAll this epistle on top women matter, nawa
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Chai!!! Baba himself don finish work @Dante! You have typed more than I could have so, now the cat 🐈⬛ is out of the bag 💼, make I enjoy my lemongrass tea 🍵 with you while I read comments (if there would be any because you have said it all).. lol 😂
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DeleteWhat did I just read? 😳
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DeleteMy dearest Dante.
DeleteI'm honestly waiting for your advice.
Not to rile you, but because your advice are always wise and applicable.
Thank you
They will not hear. Upon all they read from this blog, Nollywood they watch, things they hear and see happen, some still make and repeat mistakes people have made. Some don't even learn from their own personal mistakes.
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is to wish women luck in relationships or marriages.
Where do i start from? In a post stella shared yesterday of that woman pastor who was speaking against women wearing natural hair, there is a statement the woman made which is shocking to me. This is part of her quote.
ReplyDelete"Natural hair is not selling market. When you marry you off your wig because you have entered, there's nothing they can do about it."
See that mindset? The one that says that do all you can to get a man into marriage and once you are married, you don't need to bother anymore because there's nothing the man can do about it. I don't know where to even begin.
If you can't remain the woman you were when you were dating your husband, don't even bother thinking about marriage. If you can't keep doing the things that attract him to you, you are sowing seeds of trouble. Yes, a man may not outrightly work out if the marriage. But that thing he sought initially in you, still remains desirable to him. Should he be forced to get it outside?
I'm not in the dating pool anymore. I'm married so I talk marriage. Yes there are men who probably can't be kept. But whatever it is that has to be said, let the reason for his philandering not come from you. I'm of the belief that we should constantly keep wooing our partners even in marriage. See finish has killed a lot of homes. There's nothing worse than just being together because of the kids.
Marriage is not the goal, it is just the beginning of a journey. A constant dating process. Never take your partner forgranted for any reason. Till death do us path is physical. Emotional checking out has turned many marriages into corpses. The spark is no more there. That's the worst position to be in.
Be actively engaged in loving, nurturing, supporting, caring, fucking your spouse. It is work. It has to be worked. You can't afford to take your hand off the wheel.
Very valuable piece. Thank you.
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Delete4th paragraph.
DeleteExtremely important.
I hope you practice what you preach.
Delete1) A simple "how did your day go" does a lot in his life;he would be able to pour out his heart to you regarding work or Biz struggles and that helps clear his head..
ReplyDelete2) As much as gist dey sweet,don't expose his financial challenges to your extended families;see finish would surely enter and that would bruise his Ego,next is resentment towards you..
3) Don't cheat and expect to be forgiven,plus everything forgotten;if he cheats and it's your deal breaker;divorce please..
4) Don't throw it to his face that he is useless because you earn more;the day he gets more than you;he would always remember how you treated him when down and probably vanish or pack enough sidechicks outside..
5) Show your in-laws your true colour from day one;let them see from day one what you can tolerate or can't,they either accept you or stay far away from you..
This also saves lots of issues in first three years of marriage..
6) If you are not ready to respect and submit to him as the head of the home;don't ever get married..
Two captain can't sail same ship;perhaps he is to love you while you are to respect him..
6) Avoid abuse of Contraceptives(morning after pills) except you don't cherish your life and health..
7) If he isn't communicating with you always;you arent the most important woman in his life at that moment..
8) You aren't in competition with his mother;play your role and enjoy your benefit..
9) Kindness in your spouse is very important;always look out for kindness in their heart before saying "I do"..
A kind Man consider your emotions in all their decision..
9) Work together as a team;two good heads will always remain better than one;marriage is not a competition of who is better than the other.
10) IF he is a good husband;give back same energy..Nobody has the monopoly for being an Ogbanje;hold your own side respectfully make peace reign
@MARTINS
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DeleteIf he isn't communicating with you always;you arent the most important woman in his life at that moment......💯
That number 5 is so me
DeleteWell said Martins.👍🏾
DeleteThank you Martin's.
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Delete🔨🔨you hit it right on the head! Thank you so much @Martins.
DeleteAll of you saying thank you will make same mistakes if given opportunity again.. Waste of advice
DeleteMartins, 9. is obtainable ONLY if he sees you as a team!
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Deletei love number 5
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DeleteDate people with family values who understand that life comes with sunshine and rain and that family stick together in all seasons of life.
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DeleteVery important.
Deletethanks for sharing black slimzy... my blog crush
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DeleteAbeg I no dey listen to any relationship advice again . For this side of the world, it is just as if women are created to satisfy men . Make all of Una gettaaat .
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DeleteWell put Martins
ReplyDeleteThank you
Thank you @Martins. Weldone @Dante, you no dey carry last.
ReplyDeleteWait o. In this thread, there's Dante(area scatter), there's Teejay and myself. Where are the other men in this blog? Shebi na only during give away or in-house hailings una dey show una sef?
ReplyDeleteComments during give-away in the in-house news section reaches over a hundred. Plenty guys there. But time for intellectual contribution, una dey loss.
Come on guys, our perspective matters don't it? We can't keep blaming the ladies when we can't even voice out our positions.
wait o, where did you see Teejay abi Ur eyes wear brassiere
DeleteYou are right. I am a man and have been a Bv for at least 6-7 years if I recall. Now I have made my first comment. 🤣🤣🤣 Hopefully I will make more in the future. Women, please listen to Dante - you may not like his approach but he is speaking from a place of love and genuine concern. Stella, thank you for your great work. Well done
DeleteSorry anon 06:59 I conflated Martins with Teejay.
DeleteHey @DogAlmighty, bro, a lot of us steer clear of these discussions because the ladies here can be ruthless with their insults.
DeleteThey'll tear you apart just for speaking your mind, especially when it involves a guy. I often wonder what men did to get on the wrong side of so many ladies here. Even when it's clear that they messed up, these ladies never own up to their mistakes, since they know there's always a crowd backing them up. It baffles me to see the SnM posts dominated by the same ladies who seem to enjoy hating on men.
Take the recent Chronicle about a woman claiming her husband was making her sleep with his friends. I took that with a grain of salt because I know how protective Nigerian men can be, even if they're not well-off. The poster expected us to believe her husband willingly shared her with his friends.
Even if, for a moment, we buy into her story, the lady refused to take any blame, and the comments bashed the man without calling her out for her own actions. Before the day is over, you’ll still see hundreds of man-bashing comments.
It's frustrating, and it's why many of us just read and move on.
Props to Dante, though. Bro always speaks the truth no matter what.
Noc whatever you call yourself......next time dont post any comment at all instead of posting to insult me becos you did not see this comment that went into spam..... Stay on your lane, i dont need your silly rude comments, I enabled this one to warn you!
DeleteYou are actually the hypocrite you claim others are. Look at how you are making excuses for the husband saying there is no way a man would allow his wife to do this and that despite the poster saying that her ex-husband is lazy and irresponsible you just want to twist everything on the lady's head. Or was it not here a man wrote a chronicle and said his wife was sleeping with the landlord of the house they rented and he knew about it but kept quiet and was enjoying the largesse because he was jobless and his family disgraced his wife for cheating even though she has been the one taking care of the family responsibility, they came and sent her packing and he has been begging her to come back?
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