The drama continues ....
Sunday, October 15, 2023
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Speaking as someone who has recently gone through an awful divorce, from someone who had done unspeakable things to me, there's absolutely no way that I would put these things on social media. My daughter could someday read it and the shame would kill me. In my case, communicating with my ex's family didn't help so I let it go. You pay lawyers to fight these battles. Keep quiet. You owe no one else any explanation.
ReplyDeleteHow do pple get to this point? Just how?
DeleteSo long as the man is not molesting his kids or exposing them to danger, or putting them in harm's way, pls let him!
So long as the woman is not overly exposing her kids to inappropriate behavior or wrong pple, or her new husband molesting the kids, pls allow her
Child custody battle na only the children dey suffer am pass. Immaturity to the peak!
Co-parenting in peace doesn't take anything away from both parties.
I hate all this
Q.s🇫🇷
Well, that's you. Dotun started it! My heart breaks for her. Dotun is a narc. Poor lady went through hell with him. Those of us who know him, believe her every accusation. Their marriage was fine as long as she entertained his excesses. I can tell you that he only married her because she was D Banj's sister. He has always been a social climber.
DeleteUnfortunately, not all lawyers are adept at the type of cases they accept to handle. And some (or most) do proxy gender wars in matrimonial matters. These guys have lawyers. Yet the matter got bent like this. The lawyers should have called and discussed amongst themselves to an amicable solution, but the typical Nigerian lawyer thinks settlement is weakness or failure. They don't want to know that clients essentially need beneficial results even if not what they planned at the beginning of the case
DeleteIn this case, both sides have lost so much before wisdom prevailed.
Before any lawyer will come talk, please their ways are well well very well known to me.
But you just read that she is not denying access.
DeleteNumber 16 was not necessary but the guy has a history of abuse and being unstable with victims lining the block . I get she has a lot of hurt which is near impossible to prove but she shouldn't let a person with no upstanding background to bring her down to his level.
So Dbanj, you see how e day pain abi? Those of you going about drilling holes in the hearts of women using your clout and cash to take advantage of the lawlessness in Nigeria to silence your victims , you see am? May God forgive us all.
It's well I pray that they are able to resolve this issue and the children don't suffer too much
DeleteOmoh! Stella you gatz open Gate for these guys ooo! Dotun don reply him own again!
DeleteIs not about who is right or wrong but about DOING THE RIGHT THING BY THEIR KIDS. It takes two to make the kids and unless the other parent is abusive or a molester, there is no reason for one of the parents to use the kids as a pawn from seeing the other parent because of his/her anger or personal animosity with the other parent. There is a place in hell for any parent that denied their kids from seeing the other parents. I didnt want to get involved in their drama but upon watching the video that Dotun posted, i feel like Taiwo is using the kids to punish him and that is very cruel, unfair and unnecessary after all those kids deserve to be with their father too. Dbanji should know better and talk to his sister to do the right thing by allowing Dotun to have access to his kids.Only in Nigeria will such nonsense of going against court order regarding joint custody will happen.
DeleteIs not about who is right or wrong but about DOING THE RIGHT THING BY THEIR KIDS. It takes two to make the kids and unless the other parent is abusive or a molester, there is no reason for one of the parents to use the kids as a pawn from seeing the other parent because of his/her anger or personal animosity with the other parent. There is a place in hell for any parent that denied their kids from seeing the other parents. I didnt want to get involved in their drama but upon watching the video that Dotun posted, i feel like Taiwo is using the kids to punish him and that is very cruel, unfair and unnecessary after all those kids deserve to be with their father too. Dbanji should know better and talk to his sister to do the right thing by allowing Dotun to have access to his kids.Only in Nigeria will such nonsense of going against court order regarding joint custody will happen.
DeleteDo not be unevenly yoked with unbelievers, if you marry an ungodly person walahi you go pay the price. Marriage is for good people with a good heart, so that they can navigate through this turbulent life. I feel for the lady, I know God will console her. But it was so obvious the guy is not the type to give you a healthy marriage, only his dress sense has exposed him. You can easily detect some people's orientation and beliefs from their dressing, the guy looks like the sex, drink and way ward life type.i have seen decent OAPs like yaw but I would never get close to this just from his dressing you can easily tell.
DeleteWish people will put their anger or hate aside and be civil towards each other when children are involved
DeletePoint 16 carry so much weight🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteHmmmm dotun,na you block her still came online. Hope you are not being manipulative. Thank goodness you both are ready to work it out. Ire oo.
Hope he isn’t being manipulative or he actually is?
DeleteUseless men who won’t grow up and expect a woman to cope with their nonsense
See ladies, when marrying a man in the media, or with interests in media, politics and other industries that make or will make him a public figure, bear in mind that he’ll expect you to look as glamorous as the women in his industry.
DeleteAlso, sex is very important and dynamic. It’s 2023 very few men would be okay with their wives not giving them BJ. What do they say? Men want a church girl with ash*wo vibes.
Now, to their custody and other matters. I remember their wedding so well. She tried to start a style trend with her traditional wedding dress (using a statement necklace) that didn’t quite work. And some comments referred to the groom as a gold digger.
I thought he was he was an OAP in good standing and making as such as the others also portrayed. And now I’m reading that their wedding was sponsored, and even their children’s births in US were sponsored, oh even house rents were paid! Wow!!! He should look at his mate; Ebuka! (Or isn’t he a good OAP? I have never listened to him)
This Dotun should be ashamed to even call out Dbanj and his family.
As for the lady, for the troublesome person you say he is, you should know to go by stipulated court orders. Do so for a full year or two and see him losing interest in fighting.
I read your screenshot where you used the word “irresponsible behavior” in reference to him sharing the children’s pictures online.
Don’t talk to him like that. He will just keep frustrating you.
Now this explanation looks more like it!!
ReplyDeleteDotun the matter is simple, take it back to court, if the court deems you fit, they will make amends.
So much going on in marriages, may God help us.
If the kids are in boarding school, what is he taking back to the Court? So they will stay in boarding school and then spend the whole holiday with their father? The court said the holidays should be shared, why does he want to take the whole holiday?
DeleteWhy should 5 and 7 year olds be in boarding schools? What proper relationship would exist between them and their parents in the future? Damn! 5 and 7 year olds! No one should do that to children.
DeleteSo much going on in marriages contracted by evil people or with evil people. If you are lucky to mingle with good people you will enjoy marriage.
DeleteThis lady is so calm, looks like she doesn't have strength for trouble, no wonder Dotun had the guts to insult her family. If I were her, I would have asked the unruly Dotun to apologize to my parents and brother before allowing him access to his children.
ReplyDeleteDotun needs to be taught a lesson. He has no regard for his in-laws.
Dotun has something over Dbanj, I suspect the Gabriel issh. He is being childish
DeleteKids are involved for God sake
May you never meet some kind of in-laws. I assure you it is not an experience I'll wish on anyone.
DeleteMay God bless them with someone like you. This is my prayer always. The day they will complain may them be judge just the way we were judge by them. May God bless this lady
DeleteYou can’t fight damage people like Dotun. They will kill your self esteem completely. I’m in one and I know how draining it is. Best thing is to separate.
DeleteThank you so much for granting our request. I’ve always known you’re a very nice person my darling. Don’t mind Dotun, God will give you a better man.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
You’re impossible one min ago you insulted her now you dun change mouth
DeleteMy dear I’m only being sarcastic here, the point is that she has agreed to shared custody so every other rant is irrelevant to me.
DeleteFan Emmanuel
Which kind long essay be this? Allow him see his kids , that's all he is asking.
ReplyDeleteDid you read the write up anonymous 20:03
DeleteGbam!!!!
DeleteReading is extremely difficult if not impossible for some people.
DeleteIti
DeleteBut if you read, you won't die now. Gosh!!!
DeleteAll I see is, all of a sudden, she wants to grant him access to the kids.
ReplyDeleteWhere was this energy before???
He always has access
DeleteBut he likes drama so here we are
Dotun,Dotun,Dotun how many times did i call you? leave this woman alone and behave your self that No 16 point she made could cancel your access to those lovely girls.
ReplyDeleteStop listening to low lives who has been advicing you otherwise
He looks like a low life, probably no one is advising him to go negative, he looks like a negative person.
DeleteGood one
ReplyDeleteAre you sure this guy is not virgo?
ReplyDeleteE too plenty I no finish am.
ReplyDeleteBut una go dey alright soon.
This drama could have been avoided if both parties behaved maturedly and stuck to the rules.now years from now d kids would read Abt dia folly.abeg mk una go settle outside SM.we arent interested in knowing who is wrong or right but for d sake of those innocent girls who didn't beg to be born,do d right thing.and stop this show of shame.
ReplyDeleteI’m a beautiful, successful, unmarried. outspoken woman in my 30s. In my 20s, I used to think I had a problem because many of these men would tell me how I’m not this or that. Seriously, that messed with my mind about why I wasn’t getting the ring.
ReplyDeleteAs I’ve grown older, I’ve realised that the problem is not me or women like me. Most of these men are toxic and abusive and would naturally have a problem with a person who doesn’t appear to be a ready victim. When you know what you want and don’t take their nonsense, they see it as an issue. I am a very petite woman so they assume I am easy to walk over, until they’re realise that I am not. One of them recently tried with me and I washed him dry, fire for fire. You know what his response was: “I sensed you were trouble from the day I saw you”. To which I admitted that if responding to your nonsense with accurate nonsense is trouble, then I sure am. He kept away after that.
I stopped going for weddings, when my spirit doesn’t agree. As you get older you see through the fanfare and just pray that a good woman is okay and knows what she is getting into. We see these men find preys and label them wives to make the public see them as responsible. That’s why many of them cheat. The women they have at home are the ones they easily show their abusive side so they can appear like saints to the public. They are the ones who will take insult, lies and defamation. Such men don’t ever marry the woman who is too good for B.S. they don’t want someone to challenge them. And that’s why when I see pretentious women who act nice for the ring and show up later, I laugh back in their faces because they get what they deserve.
Mr. Dotun continue. Don’t check your attitude and keep talking crap on social media. You think this makes you attractive to your friends and lovers and business/industry partners? You sound and act so immature!! Maturity is about learning dialogue. We know men in worse situations who have found a way around it. But it takes a level of maturity that jokers like you don’t want to have.
I wish I could like your comment a million times. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Delete💯💯💯
DeleteI'm laughing so hard hereooo...they likes of cece.
DeleteGuessmeey
Wisdom!!
DeleteYou blocked someone, yet you want the person to reach out to you.
How????
You blocked someone and complaining you don't have access to the kids.
So if the kids are ill how do you know?
If they want to share their day, how do you know?
When last did you celebrate the children on their birthday?
Very useless somebody.
There are many toxic women too, wait till you meet them then you will know women can be very bad.
DeleteAnon 21:42, Spot on 👏🏼
DeleteNeesolah
Dotun is the worst kind of person. I know we like to throw around the word 'gaslighting', but this is the text book definition of a gaslighter. They will do things to push you and when you react, they make you seem crazy. Imagine blocking her and yet you want her to reach out to you so, you can speak with the kids. He clearly likes to be in control.
ReplyDeleteThose epistle is not necessarily again. Taiwo you've divorced him, please move on.
ReplyDeleteOur issue is, grant Dotun access to see his kids. Period.
All the episode the both of you are writing will only affect your kids in future.
I'm shocked at some of the comments here. So he has to do an interview before she finally agreed for him to see his kids. Her lawyers just reached out two days ago! She was using her kids as pawns
ReplyDeleteWhat’s there to shock you
DeleteIf you haven't had such experience, it becomes easier for you to doubt her. Good one Taiwo.
ReplyDeleteSeen his response to this. With pics and witnesses.
ReplyDeleteSo far, it appears like she lied.
There are pics of him with 2 public figures that visited them in Houston when they had the first child (contradicting what Taiwo wrote up there).
He also posted his visa page showing he had a valid visa contrary to Taiwo saying he didn't have a visa at the time.
Why do we assume that because she looks calm she can't be the one Lying?
Pathological liars exist. And they can be any gender.
We wait for the other parts.
Okay, for me I am do not believe this lady. I don't know why.
DeleteI didn't see where she wrote that he molested or maltreated his daughters. Why did you block him from having access to his children??
This life is simple we are the ones making it complicated for ourselves. I love my peace of mind, Very very important.
It is well Taiwo, just do what you can for the kids sake. Men can be vindictive esp if their ex easily move on from them
ReplyDeleteNawa o, love and war
ReplyDeleteHmmmm, if you doubt Taiwo for a second it is because you've never met someone like Dotun in your life. My late father was like him, he would lie to my mother, and poor her would believe whatever he told her, he would have receipts to make my mum a liar. We the children believed my father until we grew up and saw through him. My mother is the quiet type who doesn't know how to articulate her facts against my father. Dotun would show receipts to make Taiwo a liar or even mad but my prayer to all those saying she's a liar is may you or your children marry someone like Dotun and you would understand what this poor woman is going through now. My poor mum ended up being drunk, while my father continued with his lies and numerous girlfriends, thank God for Christ, they both became born again, making restitution and begging for forgiveness from my mum. Their marriage damaged us the kids, am sure that is what Taiwo is trying to prevent by not granting him access to the children. Sorry for any typo error because this brings back bad memories of my childhood.
ReplyDeleteYou can make your point without projecting or casting aspersions on people who don't share same opinion with you. Why mention their children..It is an unhealthy way to look at things and shows your type of person.. Just stop it already, even you don't know the full story
DeleteSo because of your bad memories you are now laying curses on innocent people who may believe or not believe her, do you realise not every case is exactly like your parents? And do you also know their are women who have that attitude of your dad too. You need to take it easy and work on your attitude or else you will end up being exactly like your dad to someone else.
DeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteIs this life