ADVICE NEEDED
Stella, I have a naughty chronicle. Lol.
So my family and I relocated from Nigeria earlier this year and we are not doing badly even though I am out of job for the first time since I was 25. I busy myself with my kids and family since we don't have domestic help anymore. I also have courses I am taking online.
So, one day I noticed a new boutique not too far from where I live and decided to check it out. The white lady inside said the boutique will be open to customers in 2days and she was just putting finishing touches but I should come in and take a look. Na so we begin gist o. She was nice and and I said I was Nigerian. Her face lit up and she asked my state, tribe, where I lived. It turned out she was newly wed to a Nigerian man from my state! We screamed and hugged but she said her husband was out of town on business.
For one week, we were obsessed with each other; she showed and told me where to get stuff I needed cheaper, I promised to teach her to cook Nigerian food, planned to register gym, family hangout when her husband gets back, she was also happy my husband is a gynecologist and had a lot to talk to him about etc.
A week later her husband came back and she gave me her phone to say hi. We got introduced and realised he was from my mum's village and I was so so happy. Suddenly, communications stopped! I would call, text and she would either take 2days to reply or not reply at all. I am the type that makes excuses for people and I don't cut people off. I still bought stuff from her store and patronized her salon.
Then one day I saw her and she told me she was pregnant almost 3months.
I said this must be the reason she's been keeping to herself but she said no. Hmmm...she said her husband told her not to relate with me, that Nigerian girls are wayward which is why he never married one. He went on to say we are so terrible that he is sure at least one of my kids may not belong to my husband if DNA was tested!!! That he doesn't want me to currupt her. Imagine a man that has only spoken to me once, never met me in person came to this conclusion.
She started ruminating on everything he said and on a day they had an argument, she told him to go do DNA on himself cos non of his siblings look alike! Na so sh!t take hit the fan o! He erupted and hit her for calling him the son of a wh0re!! She threw him out. He begged and she was considering if she should take him back since she is pregnant asked my opinion.
Hmmm...lol, bush meat don catch hunter. I told her it's up to her but she too should do her thorough findings about him and make sure he doesn't have a wife back home in Nigeria. I promised to connect her to people in my mother's village to do the findings.
She has been begging me for the connection. I did the finding and yes, he has a Nigerian wife with 3 kids. He is also on the run for duping some business associates.
Should I give her the connect? Cos, even I isn't even keen on the friendship anymore. The excitement has been tainted and I can't even trust her. I won't gain or lose anything if I connect her.
She started ruminating on everything he said and on a day they had an argument, she told him to go do DNA on himself cos non of his siblings look alike! Na so sh!t take hit the fan o! He erupted and hit her for calling him the son of a wh0re!! She threw him out. He begged and she was considering if she should take him back since she is pregnant asked my opinion.
Hmmm...lol, bush meat don catch hunter. I told her it's up to her but she too should do her thorough findings about him and make sure he doesn't have a wife back home in Nigeria. I promised to connect her to people in my mother's village to do the findings.
She has been begging me for the connection. I did the finding and yes, he has a Nigerian wife with 3 kids. He is also on the run for duping some business associates.
Should I give her the connect? Cos, even I isn't even keen on the friendship anymore. The excitement has been tainted and I can't even trust her. I won't gain or lose anything if I connect her.
WOW!!!......He is married with kids in Nigeria and that is why he didnt want you to be friends with her
Please give her the contact to find out or you tell her....See how his rubbish talk backfired on him...Hahahahahahahah
Please give her the connect and cut off from her..
Hmmmmm please dont let her do her finding her self. Get yourself out of their life for your safety. Thanks
ReplyDeletePoster, your tribe's man read you well.
DeleteBut because of his limited knowledge, he went about removing you from his wife's circle the wrong way.
Good you said what you want to do. You just want the expected validation of your intended action from female Bvs.
Have you discussed your planned action with your husband? The man on whose documents/ticket it appears your relocation is based, at least on paper?
Since his actions has had consequences. Have you thought about yours having consequences and what they may be?
Methink, the man feared you right.
Please double your job search or put more of your time in your online courses.
Best wishes and regards to your husband.
This poster is terrible for the following reasons: 1. No white woman will gist with you this way, especially you being a black 2. You just arrived and you are already separating a family, imagine asking the woman to do "findings" on her husband, how dare you mess with a marriage like that? What do you know about your fictional white friend, are you sure she is better than her husband? 3. Julie O. is this you? Are you still in your satanic habit of rumours and character assassination?
DeleteI am a Dr and a lot of white people dey give me unsolicited gist especially during breaks
DeleteReally? But he snitched on her first?
DeleteThis world is strange, someone left Nigeria for a better life but is about to regret the day that Visa was issued. I just pity your husband.
DeleteAll of una no serious. He has a Nigerian wife and is deceiving another woman and even having babies with her.
DeletePoster, please give her the connect.
All you women that connive with your husband's abroad to use a woman for papers without her knowledge are as evil as yahoo boys and will reap every evil you and your man sow.
It's not in her place to spill you know what all these secrets must spill one day or the other that one it's a must for the poster to go this length to find all these about the man true true d poster character no good
Delete19:30 lol you don’t know white oriole
DeleteThey tell their gist to anyone. Tomorrow they’ll act like they don’t know they same person
Poster has already finished what she want to do by telling the woman her husband may have a wife in Nigeria. She dropped it knowingly. The man saw ahead that she is a danger to him.
Delete00:38
Apparently she relocated on her husband's application. In her very detailed post, she omitted what her husband said on the matter. That is important. Even that man sef suppose fear the Poster henceforth. That is if she is not the one in charge of the marriage.
The man is scared of you opening his wife's eyes . He's probably hiding alot from her and scared you'll know the truth and expose him.
ReplyDeleteOnce he knew poster was from his mother's village, he was afraid his secret would come out. He deserves whatever is coming to him. Is he a Yahoo man or what?
DeleteHe is a scam
DeleteTell her so he doesn't drain her and destroy her
He is a scam
DeleteTell her so he doesn't drain her and destroy her
ReplyDeleteDid you at least try to find out if his Nigerian wife is aware he is married over there?
I lack empathy for this guy, give her the connect.
But be prepared to face real trouble.
Sluttychic.
Please don't say anything.You don't know how the man will act towards you.Leave them to o their matter o.Before it will cause trouble for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteI hate when ppl do evil like this. So because he has a sordid history and is on the run he chooses to throw all Nigerian women under the bus to hide his disgusting life.
ReplyDeleteOn behalf of every Nigerian women born and unborn, dead and undead please give her the connection. That scoundrel needs to be caught.
I agree
Delete15:15
DeleteBut we think all the negative "Nigerian men" and "Nigerian women" are this, that, and those comments some of us say here everyday do not amount to throwing Nigerian men and women under the buses of other Nationals who visit this blog daily?
Atink we don see how e be. Until the hearse is packed in front of a person's gate, it is any other motor vehicle and even the most expensive in the town.
18:23, what you on about? Anybody who loves or protects a liar is just as much of an abomination as they are. Lie on yourself, but never ever tell a lie on anyone.
Delete22:15
DeleteMaligning general comments are made here. Same thing the man did about Nigerian women. Okay, let Poster do a DNA test. Nothing short of that can prove the man lied. It is like the man touched something unknowingly.
Poster walk away from that family,they will eventually get separated,let her do the findings by herself.
Deletesupply the contact to her and end that friendship, he should have treated you nicely but not talking down on you thinking you are there to spoil his show. If you tell her that means you go explain tire but if you allow her to figure out herself then you are only going to talk once.
ReplyDeleteNo need for hiding anything, just save your follow gender. Is called women helping women.
Poster pls cut off from the lady and her husband. Don't tell her anything, he may harm you. She will definitely tell him whatever you tell her or do for her.
ReplyDeleteJust stay far away from them. Don't connect her to anything, leave them and dey your dey.
I am out of words, just tell her that you thought about it and don't want to get involved. That would give her a clue.
DeleteAnd stay away from her.
I think I agree with you, expect she's 100% sure the man won't harm her then she should go ahead. First thing is to think about her safety and her family.
DeleteYimu, if your husband has a whole family elsewhere without your knowledge, would you give the same advice? Na only women that connive with their husband to dupe an innocent woman that will want this to remain hidden because they worry that they may also be exposed.
DeleteFoolish idiot 😒
ReplyDeletePlease give her the connection. Let him come back to stay with his family.
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DeleteU are wicked oh..
This is deep, this is the same reason why he doesn't want the relationship with u.. Na ur brother so don't tell her anything , let her do her findings herself
There is a reason why God took you to that store and you connected with that lady the way you did. Abeg give her the connect. All yahoo man and boys don't deserve to be enabled by hiding their shenanigans.
DeleteThere is no brother
DeleteHe is a nasty scammer
One good turn deserves another.
ReplyDeletePlease pity him 😂.
ReplyDeleteNo use Evil pay evil.
Some people are mean like that.😎
Abi ooo
DeletePlease do not give her any contact oo
Just cut off yourself from her finally o
Nne Biko no be your mouth Dem go hear say nah ojele
Kill Willie willie
Abeg before the matter
Escalate to some else
Avoid
The
Avoidable 🙏🙏
Than you
God bless you 🙏🙏
Pity the scam to drain the oyinbo woman ? That is how we enable, cover up crime and demonic behaviour
DeletePity the scam to drain the oyinbo woman ? That is how we enable, cover up crime and demonic behaviour
DeleteHmmmm this one tie wrapper come wear koikoi sitdon with welder shade........ My sister the ball is in your court.
ReplyDeleteSeek your husband opinion on the issue
ReplyDeleteShe won't because she knows what he would say or may start seeing her as.
DeleteSee her as what ?
DeleteWhy?. Isn’t it clear what is right and wrong here?. Some of you love crime on the low key
DeleteI would give the connect if I were you.
ReplyDeleteSome naija men are demons personified.probably married her for papers pls expose the bagger
ReplyDeletePoster I think you should give her the connect, white women don't have the mentality of the black women Incase of you thinking she will say you broke her home.
ReplyDeleteGive her the connect let her decide on her own and I think she will be so great full to you
Grateful
DeleteIt is not about breaking the wife's home.
DeleteIt is about her and her husband's regard in the Nigerian community of their tribe's men and women when the news filters to that community. Before she would have the chance to put in her words, their reputation would have been damaged.
It is about the safety of her family in Nigeria if the man is returned by the country of residence
It is about knowing why she and her family left Nigeria.
It is about keeping quiet when God has fought your battle to your victory without your lifting a finger.
It is about knowing when to let well alone.
And the man did not say anything we don't say to ourselves even on this blog
A typical non-Nigerian would be easily tempted to give the Nigerian person a wide berth especially on romance /marriage matters after reading some comments here.
If she knows alot about you and your family,please becareful because that man is a terrible human being but if she knows nothing,you can give her the connect and end the friendship.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteShe found him out easily. Right?
DeleteReverse that.
The man didn't want her to relate with you because he has skeleton in his cupboard. Please give her the contact.
ReplyDeleteWhen some people think they are wise, it's just something so little that will expose them. .
Poster can you give her the link anonymously?if yes, pls do!
ReplyDelete~AnonymousButterfly~
Yes! Poster, give her the info anonymously but in one year’s time. Stop talking to her and let everything die down, do not pursue any friendship, just no contact whatsoever. Let her have her baby and in one year share the info by simply sending a pic of him on his wedding day or with his family. Better if it comes from a Naija number. Then never contact her again or go to her store. She can do with the info as she chooses.
DeleteIf he has been hiding that secret and suddenly she brings it up;don't you know he would realize somehow you were linked to the exposal?
ReplyDeleteAnd let's say you are not initially and she brings this up with him and it ends his marriage;shey you know he would still say it's you and come hard for you?
People like that don't joke with where they eat from;and for him to have an abroad and Nigerian wife screams desperation;plus desperate people can kill(including you) to cover their secret or as a revenge..
Remember,na prison term he go serve if he kpai you;but deadbody no fit rise again..
Wisdom is profitable to direct;Zere Ekwensu Zere oru ya Nile..
Give that woman space and face your life;you are joking with a desperate man here..
People wey dey push you to talk no go follow you carry the consequence for your actions;also no be everything eye see e dey talk,for your life sake..
You wan love your neighbour pass yourself? Torr
@MARTINS
Hahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahha
DeleteThanks Martins. I pray she listens. The man can kill her.
DeleteLet her just block the woman and distance herself from her
If I were the poster, I would have distanced myself since I found out what the man said about Nigeria women.
Distance ke? Why? Is she not the defender of Nigerian women's virtuous nature?
DeleteThose nursery rhymes are true. One says the idle hand is ... Wetin e talk again sef.
Yes oooo
DeleteI just hope she will take this advice ooo
Poster abeg face your Own Family ooo
No be investigation carry you go abroad Biko...
19:11
DeletePoster has even found a job without knowing. She should quickly join the Nigerian Association of her tribe there and start investigating the men married to foreign women. Surely the women will pay to know if their husbands have wives in Nigeria. She may also consider joining the police as profiler of Nigerians there.
Thank you Martins. I pray she takes this advise and also take her job hunting seriously. Upcoming David Hundeyin.
DeleteWhy some of you don't feel sympathy when oyibo people are being duped is beyond me. If your sister was in the oyibo lady's shoes, is this what you will advise someone that wants to help her?
DeleteWhen kidnapping started on oil rigs in PH, Nigerians said "na oyibo people dem want" and went about their business. When the oyibo people fled to Lagos and their number in PH reduced, did they not start kidnapping Nigerians? Since then, more criminals have joined the game to the point that people are now being kidnapped for 50k.
Let's call evil evil.
Poster give the lady the connection. Let her make her inquiries. There is a reason why you were led to that store. He even tried to paint you as olosho when he is the real olosho. If he didn't bad mouth Nigerian woman, would it have occurred to his wife to ask him to go and check his DNA? If he was ok with saying that at least one of your kids do not belong to your husband, why did he go crazy when the same was suggested about his mother?He was painting Nigerian women black without realizing that his mother and sisters are included. Yahoo man
My sisters pls let’s know these men to their homes before we marry them
ReplyDeleteThey are lying in this America and carry girls in different states
Please don't give her the connect, let sleeping dogs lie. Let him be exposed in another way cos he will use you as the cause of his down fall.
ReplyDeletePlease say something. Don't listen to the people on this blog telling you not to say something
ReplyDeleteBusted 😊,he was trying to paint nija women bad,Satan come punish am,bust e smell smell yansh😂😂
ReplyDeleteWith the comments I have read from women on this blog, If I'm married to a white lady, I'll also tell her to be mindful of Nigerian women, even though I have no skeleton in my cupboard.. before them negatively influence my baby with bad unsolicited advice
DeleteDante you have shown you are exploitative and feel entitled to using women deceitfully thinking you are superior
DeleteWhich baby?
May you marry your type say amen
Anon did you think he had integrity before?.
DeleteWhat a life!
ReplyDeleteHe was trying to hide it from the wife.pls do not give her contact nor say anything to her.simply stay away and let her make her findings herself because she may later make peace with him and tell him all you ever told her.he might come after you for a revenge.
Fear Nigerian Men, especially those wey dey "Jand", many of dem get wife for Naija but still dey scope akata women.
ReplyDeleteThey are gigolos and male yahoo prostitutes
Delete@MichoHay no lies at all,if I start counting from people I know growing up, from school, I will name about 10 guys I know married to White women abroad and also married to naija women without the oyinbo wife knowing.
DeleteWhen it got to her mother and the guy is from the same village, I knew yawa go gas. Please don't pay evil with evil. At the appropriate time the truth will be unveiled.
ReplyDeletePoster for you and your family safety remove yourself from them and do not give her anything, let her do her findings herself, don't bring unnecessary trouble to yourself. You don't know the level that guy can go to hurt you if you do.
ReplyDeleteI guess his fears became real. Lol
ReplyDeletePoster don't get yourself into trouble pls.
Whatever you tell her, she will tell him eventually. Meanwhile, he already know so much about you. Down to your village ooo.
Think about your safety and that of your family both in your village and with you.
Avoid this trouble and advice her to keep searching for the truth.
I'm sure she will find eventually.
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There are some people. The day you meet them is the day you know they don't mind their business or will bring you trouble. Poster is one of such people. The man saw it. Look at all the efforts Poster has put in the outing the man. Other women would have walked away from the day the wife told her what's up.
DeleteThe problem is the man never expected to meet Poster. He was unprepared and he responded very unwisely.
From Poster's narrative, she would have still found out about the man from gisting with her family. Then, only God knows what she would have done with the information.
Well done Scammer enabler
DeletePls poster expose him to his oyinbo wife , he deserves it.
ReplyDeleteSend her all the evidence through an email address. Open an email that cannot be linked to you and give her all the evidence.
ReplyDeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
I would say enough to give it away to the wise
ReplyDeleteMadam i beg dont give her because that guy can harm you and your family members please
ReplyDeleteTell her to do the findings herself and that you don't want to be the one to give her clue.
ReplyDeleteTell the wife to do the investigation by herself and discover what she needs to know about him, the man is a very despirate man, hope he doesn't know too much about your family.
ReplyDeletePoster, kindly mind your business. Do not say anything to her. People like her husband are very dangerous and from all indication when push comes to shove that lady will spill that na you give am info ooo.
ReplyDeletePoster, please give her the link, Nigerian men abroad don't deserve pity, even if the man gets pale he will still dump his wife and be carrying different babes.
ReplyDeletePlease stay far from them for your safety and that of your family. Do not tell her anything, Let her find out by herself. Be very careful.
ReplyDeletePoster,distance yourself from the white lady,let them settle their difference as couple because if the husband find out you connect his aboard wife to the wife in Nigeria,Madam poster that man will deal with you because you don remove bread from him mouth come put stone.
ReplyDeleteDestructive Nigerian man exported his toxic user and exploitative behaviour abroad
DeleteDestructive Nigerian man exported his toxic user and exploitative behaviour abroad
DeleteMadam, I do not have skeleton anywhere and I am always careful of getting close to Nigerians. One of the hardest things to do as Nigerians is to mind their business. Not justifying his actions. He was trying to hide his secret and said terrible things/lies about you/your culture. I am pretty sure you did same to the woman and that resulted in the fracas between them. You don’t need to hide that part of the story. Before I got married, I dated two whites and had one as friend, so I understand how they think especially the ones that like you and interested in your culture. The issue between that woman and her husband was because of what you told her.
ReplyDeletePoster's behaviour proves you right about the not myob angle. So much efforts in the matter. To prove her children are her husband's or what. Why does she need to prove that. Is she hiding something like the man?
DeleteClearly the man saw through her from their telephone conversation and reports from his wife.
Anon 18:07 youre ev**. You are basically looking at a wide beater, scammer, liar. Yet you found a way to blame this poster. Na wa for you oo. I dey fear who no fear you
DeleteHe had to paint Nigerian women that bad because of the skeleton in his cupboard...that serves him right!
ReplyDeleteI am not keen, NOT I is not, therefore not 'I isn't keen'.
ReplyDeleteDon't reply her enthusiastically again. Take days before you do. Give her exactly the same treatment. If she finds what she wants from you, she will dump you again as she would group you "Nigerians" together. That's how they behave...very polite but wicked. Oyinbo women can ignore you and they have plenty sense and only reach out or act nice when they need something. Yes, I live in the UK so I know.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, if the wife knows and tells him even if they come back or not, he will know it's you. Even if you don't tell her and she finds out, he will say it's you. The guy has been in UK before you guys, forget what you or your husband does professionally, that guy is street and fit create problems for una. Even the fight go reach Nigeria and his parents and extended will be involved and may give you guys serious problem. My advice, avoid that woman. She will dump him at her own time and in his own time he also plans to end that marriage.. His wife in Nigeria knows everything.
As person wey just come, my advice, don't make close friends with white girls or even black girls. But black people you know them, these white people, they are not your friend. It's the gyne advice plus details about Nigeria that she wants from you. If she no need you, she will so bone you. Those people are not nice. Final advice, avoid her. Make she sef know say you get self respect and self pride.
I pity all those saying mess him up, don't listen to them. Avoid the woman . So long he is the father of that child and she delivers that baby, anything wey he dey find, he's one leg in already.
Like play the woman go want mess the man up if she feels gutted and police and court fit enter please you don't want to be called to give witness statement. You just come o.
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Please listen to this advice poster
DeleteC'est fini!!! A lot of them are not out for genuine friendship, they won't hesitate to do you dirty at the slightest inconvenience.
DeletePoster avoid this woman and her wahala like a bad habit, dey your dey before they pour sand into your garri.
Thank you! Poster thought she has found a friend. She just wanted to get information about the culture and that was all. I remember one was being nice because she wanted someone who would be braidng her hair. Like! when did I tell you I was a stylist? Most make friends with you to use you and you gain nothing in return but fake smiles.
DeleteI don't even see the white woman in this story as a good woman generally. Her husband told her something bad about you and then she went ahead to reveal it all to you when she could have come up with a different reason on why she has been avoiding you. If your husband told you something bad whether true or not - about a person would you go and disclose it to that person hereby throwing your husband under the bus? You think that kind of a person would not hesitate to tell her husband you gave her all his secrets about him having a wife and three children? You think someone that exposed her husband to you will help cover you tracks?
Give her all the information she craves and watch her blow your cover. You think she sends you?she would gladly mention your name as a witness.
Even you, you are not doing this on a moral ground. It is not as if you want to expose the man because you feel he is betraying his white wife but you are simply doing this out of vengeance. Vengeance for what exactly? Because he said Nigerian women are this and that? You know fully well he said that so she would avoid you totally. Yes, it was bad for him to have said that but a desperate person can say and do anything. He had to malign you and whomever to keep his secret from being exposed not that he truly feels that way about Nigerian women after all he has a Nigerian women as a wife at home. He was simply desperate and wanted you out of their lives and that was the cheapest method he could find. Better keep your distance from them now before he employs even more deadly tactics to keep you away once and for all.
Poster, don't put your husband and the kids in trouble. Focus on your life and avoid the woman her husband and her boutique.
Does your husband even knows about all of these? What is he saying?
She neva hear of make we kuku spoil everitin from the mouth of a man wey tink say im don lose everitin.
Delete@18:39 You've said it all. In this life, I don't know why people can't let go.
DeleteFor me, I think the man was only trying to save himself from what you just found out now. The marriage will end at due time cos they are already fighting. Please don't ruin his plans for him. Just avoid the white woman, she's not your sister or good friend. She just wants to use you.
You blacks abroad knows the reason why you left your country to live abroad. Please don't pour sand, sand into his own. You are lucky you went legit, he might not be there legit but for the sake of what took him abroad to leave his family back and remarry, please let him achieve it.
Questions if her husband knows?
DeleteWe can see clearly he doesn't know
The Poster gives the vibes of women married to middle class men they are in control of. That's why she is so pained.
Poster, don't forget to do a court evidence type DNA test to prove the man wrong to his estranged wife. Otherwise, she would never be convinced that what he husband said about Nigerian women is not true.
Shyla, you’re basically protecting a wide beater and a scammer,???. Okayyyyyy
DeleteChai naija men.
ReplyDeleteHe is not smart at all.
He made all the wrong moves.
Good for him.
My dear poster abeg give onye-ocha connection so that the idiot will never again have access to her again.
Yeye dey small
"Naija men"?
DeleteRemember what the man said to his wife? "Naija women".
You too just did what you say the man did wrong.
It is our way. Right?
Sad story, poor woman😭. I don't know what advice to give. People are heartless and wicked in this life. Lord God please help and protect my girls🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteMadam you just put yourself for trap…avoid that family,anything goes wrong the man will blame you remember he know you reach house…the thing is even if she finds out on her own her husband will always link you to it..stay far from her very far.
ReplyDeleteSince DNA test is too expensive, just insult your wife's best friend, you will hear everything 😂😎🙆🙂😂
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteMadam please do not get yourself involved in this matter any further o. You never can tell the turn it might take; the safety of your family should be paramount to you!
ReplyDeletePoster pls mind your business before they will use you to settle their marital issues.
ReplyDeleteThat's how you will go and expose what's of no benefit to you, only for the man to press her mumu buttons then she reveals her source, you might get 'keed' for being an amebo .
Focus on your family,sebi she boned you for months due to what her husband told her, now she wants to use you to investigate her husband cause they are having issues. biko steer clear from her path, she's a user.
That's how women put their husbands in trouble. Okay assume you go ahead. The woman and the man eventually get back and she tells him you were the one who gave her the data. And don't day they can't get back. The man looks for your picture or your husband's own,and sends back home. Una go dey fight unnecessary battles. Minding your own business is sooooo underrated nowadays.
ReplyDeleteYou people can fear
DeleteThis thing that I would have told the woman since
Poster you re not serious o you travel legit to abroad and you re already in this mess in btw whether to supply contact or not, see the length extent you went to have you thought about your family there, the one in the village ,I don't even understand this friendship you re doing up and down that the guy is already in trouble cos of his family in Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteIf they kill you or your family nko so you think you ll supply information and it will go all smoothly for you better mind your life,business and that of your loved ones shebi they put razor for your tongue for tatafo make that ezazor no cut your life
You never make money you never enjoy abroad na tatafo call you dey do ,you re not seriius , pple son go abroad since na this year you go trouble don dey your dormot like na you sabi o
Wow! Nigerians and double standards. If this was a case of two naija women with one living in the city and one in the village, I bet this will not be the advice from you lot. I can’t even believe some people are boldly supporting lack of integrity, saying “let him get what he wants “. Honestly, I also stay away from Nigerians, hardly will you find one that has integrity.
ReplyDeletePoster, whatever you decide, make sure you’re doing it with a pure heart. Not as vengeance against the man or to gain the appreciation of the woman. You talk or you don’t, you’re already fingered in this issue. Just act with wisdom and discretion. And like others said, ask your husband because when the whole thing boomerangs, it go reach every one.
I’m ashamed of you lot supporting injustice and immorality though, what a selfish and callous culture we have….tueh!
I’m legit shocked. Tufiakwa. Some of us are really terrible people when it suits them. Cos what am I just reading. I know it’s one scammer anon that’s running mouth up and down this post. Even if you feel the man in question can harm her family, how about asking her to report anonymously???. Talking about how she’s putting her husband in trouble. How exactly???. You think it’s everyone that’s scared abroad ?. Some of you are terrible terrible people. It’s ok for him to deceive a woman and have a whole child based on lies. Basically destroying that child’s life. Cos that child will maybe grow up feeling unwanted cos his father basically had him just for papers. Make una dey fear oo. Tufiakwa.
DeleteThat man is a red flag on all levels. He married with kids, he hit his wife and he is a liar. Look a picture of him with naija wife and send anonymously to the white lady, then cut her off too and move on with your life.
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