Tuesday, October 24, 2023
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I don't see anything wrong with it.
ReplyDeleteCool. It's not a bad idea.
ReplyDeleteMy religion recognises the man as the provider. If I have my way I will not sharing any bills.
ReplyDeleteBut we all know how life is,not everybody gets them marry a billionaire. Even my mama shared bills with my Papa by addition
So I will be using my own money to pad(add to what Oga brings & he must bring something reasonable In the first place).
My money also will be used to give myself soft life and paying for domestics staffs that will help ease my stress. Just incase I didn't marry billionaire 😌 😏
My neighbour wey be barrister since her maid no gree come back after holiday she come dey do her house chores by herself with a toddler and 2 small girls btw 8 & 5, na so stress wan kill her, we suggest give am make she begin pay person montly to dey help am but akagum somebody, she say the pay too much, this na person wey dry work amd her salary big as per barrister wey dey worl for federal parastatal o.she come lean eh, carry big head everybody dey complain why she dey look like sick person she dey open mouth talk say na house chores, I like wetin one of her friends tell am, for my mind dey play stress go kill you for this house one day.
Normal as it should.
ReplyDeleteNo issues.
The woman is a help mate so nothing wrong contributing in the home.
don't see anything rough with it
DeleteAs it should. As long as both are working and very okay financially, then it's no big deal. When couple(s) split bills, it helps them save more and also reduce financial loads. And as a man, if you really want your wife to be contributing, but she doesn't have any reasonable source of income, it's your duty to establish her so well that she becomes financially useful to your home. Except if the man is a billionaire or doesn't like splitting bills with the wife, or wants a housewife, then it's justifiable.
ReplyDeleteI don't fancy it, are men not the head of the family?, When you you call yourself the head then head with your full chest, I don't mind in supporting in paying bill though.
ReplyDeleteIt's a big NO for me!
ReplyDeleteGod made it clear from the beginning.
As far I'm concerned, a man should be the sole provider. It doesn't mean the wife cannot support, She can, but a man should provide for his family.
A man should be 100% ready to pay the house rent, the children's school fees and feed his family.
The wife can assist in other things, like buying snacks for the children and some little things like that.
Men should buckle up and act responsibly.
Once there is understanding and transparency.. Wife should support their husband.
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ReplyDeleteNothing wrong with it, the rate at which men are dying of high blood pressure this days is too much. Let's less the family burden together. But if he is wealthy, bills to him alone.
ReplyDeleteIt's not a bad idea,infact couples in the past have been sharing bills In one way or the other.
ReplyDeleteWhere i have a problem, is when the man is earning higher than the wife and still wants equal sharing of bills
Or a Man who have excess money to throw around on frivolous things,no way am I sharing bills with such man.
It's the responsibility of the man to provide for his household. But considering the situation of things these days, I think it's cool for couples to share bills so that the stress won't be too much on the nan.
ReplyDeleteSharing has to be based on income. Half and half cannot happen when one person’s income is so much higher than the other. Let them share realistically and based on their individual incomes.
ReplyDeleteChoose what works for you ni oooo. But this generation,no woman should sit idle.
ReplyDeleteI am a hausa woman, so this sharing of bills is very alien to me. Not part of our culture, he pays the bills 100% even though i work and earn. In fact that is his pride and for me i am very proud to say that he is the head, while i follow right behind him.
ReplyDeleteNot sharing no damn bill
ReplyDeleteHahahaha you must share o
DeleteNothing bad in sharing bills when two of you are earning well
ReplyDeleteHusband and wife can share bills but not equally. Even in a family where the woman earns higher income,the man is supposed to be the sole provider. The woman will only contribute. Can
ReplyDeleteNo big deal
ReplyDeleteAnd I will make him an help mate...
ReplyDeleteThe Man Is designed to be the head, and so should lead n take responsibility. The Woman should support if the need arises . Afteroh na human being too
Nothing bad in a wife helping the husband.
ReplyDeleteDepends on their financial situation and agreement while dating.
ReplyDeleteBut I believe in man providing and wife supporting when what the husband provided isn't enough.
It's the norms and beside we are helpmeet as long as there is understanding and he is not taking me for granted.
ReplyDeleteNothing wrong with it. But the man should also be involved with chores and looking after the baby
ReplyDeleteIt's a normal thing to do nah
ReplyDeleteNo big deal as long as they also share house chores
ReplyDeleteAs they share bills, they should share chores too.🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteWill the man share in carrying pregnancies and caring for the kids too? Just asking innocently.
If the woman is earning well
ReplyDeleteThe bills can be shared equally oo
But if she's not make she just assist small
I tried it and it swallowed me and i am still paying for that singular kind act of me. I dont think i will share bill in my next marriage that is why i am scared of getting committed cos the trauma of the first one is still playing out
ReplyDeleteThe man is suppose to be the sole provider but as the economy is now the woman can contribute too also if we are sharing bills then we are sharing house chores too
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