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1) she hasn't met the right man for her.
ReplyDelete2) being married is not on her list.
Characters..
ReplyDeleteSpirit husband..
Curse..
Generation bondage..
Rude..
Arrogant..
Who do Africans? See how you reason in this age and time. God help us.
DeleteYou are married is because of time, chance and mercy of GOD
DeleteYou are not better or superior to an unmarried woman
What if she just doesn't want to get married?
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely no problem.
ReplyDeleteHer choice.
There is no problem,She is only waiting for the right ma.
ReplyDelete...she neva see person wey she like....
ReplyDeleteIt's not yet her time to marry.
ReplyDeleteMight also be her character.
She is viewing life from the wrong prism. Time is the greatest asset. If she hits menopause, it is over. If she dies, enemies go follow enjoy her money. Most accomplished ladies like OKonjo Iweala, Michelle Obama, Hillary Clinton, etc are married and still maintain their relevance. Most often than not, it is women who grew up in poverty.
ReplyDeleteWhat's over at menopause?
DeleteWooow! It is over at menopause. Are you for real? You know there are people that do not want kids, right?
DeleteTime for????
DeleteThis is the unexposed view that the ultimate usefulness of a woman is only as a wife or mother
When you bring GOD in you will understand that you are ignorant,ea h woman was created for a purpose that is beyond those things, that is why it doesn't determine if she makes it to heaven or her quality of life here on earth. Barrow minded produces narrow thinking
*narrow
DeleteWhy should there be a problem? Not everyone is cut out to be in a relationship. Not every one is going to get married. Singlesness can be and is a virtue. It can actually be empowering. There are people who chose to be single.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, it bothers on crass rudeness to even posit on the likely cause of anyone's single state.
Bad character! Dem plenty for Lagos. Their god is materialism. Beyond that, they have nothing else. But God always has ways of humbling them.
ReplyDeleteIn a generation of many toxic, thrash , selfish, rubbish "men", many women can see that marriage must never be an idol. Osinachi is a testimony of how being single in peace is better than being married to a very destructive enemy. Many men are not husband material.
DeleteBeing long suffering and tolerating low value "man" shouldn't be a choice all women must make. You are a bitter , toxic , insecure man, you are definitely not marriage material, talking about humbling, you this hypocrite.
10 minutes on a date with her, you will definitely find out why
ReplyDeleteIt might be:
ReplyDelete1. Bad Character
2. Men are too insecure to marry her
3. Spiritual
🤔 hmmmm
So many factors might be responsible for this: high standards, focus of career, inactive social life, geographical location, even luck sef follow join. This matter is a very sensitive one so it needs to be approached with caution.
ReplyDeleteRon.
You got it.
DeleteFoundation
ReplyDeleteSpiritual husband
Character
Waiting for the right man
Not yet time.
She may not be actively looking out for a husband.
ReplyDeleteShe is looking for but hasn't met the one fir her.
She might be looking for someone more buoyant than her (financially).
She might be proud.
You are also right
DeleteShe may probably not be interested in marriage. No be everybody wan marry.
ReplyDeleteShe is probably looking for an unmarried Richer man
ReplyDeleteOr maybe she lacks good character
She is not interested in marriage
Plenty women with nonsense character in "marriages" it is not by that at all
DeleteIt could be spiritual. It could be that she wasn't ready when suitors were coming. When she got ready, suitors became scarce while fuckboys became her chasers.
ReplyDeleteAnd she doesn't want to settle with AGBAKO fuckboys
DeleteA better decision for her then
As if marriage is a trophy. She will marry when the married ones are happy in their marriages. Stupid question.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is an idol to many
DeleteNa village people.
ReplyDeletePlenty men have shown her shege barawo banza, hence the decision for her to remain single.
ReplyDeleteYou had to go there 🤣😂🤣🤣
DeleteWhen a woman has money and at an advanced age, her pool of suitors is considerably smaller compared to a lady in her 20s. For the woman, that pool will majorly contain divorced/widowed men and the few single guys will likely have k-leg.
ReplyDeleteThere's a reason why women are advised to not wait too long before they get married. A key reason being the good guys would have been snatched up, Which is why you''d tend to see advanced single ladies with men they would have looked down their nose at dating.
That said, a woman that is truly beautiful - not the ones that are referred to as beautiful but are either just there or attractive - will always have suitors (single and married)
As funny and commonplaced this question is, it's essential to approach this with sensitivity and not make unruly pettiness about why someone is single, as everyone's situation is unique. It is also important to remember that being single at an advanced age is not always indicative or inherently a problem; people have different life paths and priorities. What's most important is that an individual is happy and fulfilled with their choices and circumstances. Where they are not, that's when this question becomes germane. Otherwise there's absolutely no problem about it.
ReplyDeleteNevertheless, there are salient possibilities which we can adduce for such situation from situations we have been witnesses to, and stories we have heard or read:
1. High Standards: The person may have specific criteria or standards for a partner that are not easily met. Or high expectations for a partner, making it harder to find a compatible match.
2. Career Focus: A strong focus on career or personal goals might leave limited time for dating or finding a partner. Or they may have prioritized their career or personal goals over romantic relationships.
3. Emotional Traumas: Past direct or indirect relationship baggages could affect or shape someone's willingness to enter a new one. Or may have influenced their decision to remain single to the extent that they have become comfortable in it and see altering that as a difficult space to fit back into.
4. Social Circles: Limited opportunities to meet new people due to a small social circle or busy lifestyle or nonexistent social life could be a factor too.
5. Environment: The area they live in might not have a large dating pool or may not be conducive to forming the kind of relationships they desire or want to nurture.
6. Timing: Sometimes, it's a matter of timing and not meeting the right person at the right time. And circumstances may not have aligned for a relationship to develop nor progress.
7. Personal Choice: Some individuals choose to remain single for personal reasons or due to a desire for independence. Or because they are content with their current lifestyle.
8. Personal Preferences: Their personal preferences or lifestyle choices may limit their dating pool, such as wanting to marry someone of a particular religion, ethnicity, tribe, background or class.
9. Health or Family Issues: Health problems or family responsibilities can sometimes hinder one's ability to pursue a relationship for fear of abandonment, abuse etc.
10. Dating Challenges: Even in this digital age, online dating can be challenging, same goes for in-person dating, and finding a suitable match can take time.
11. Unpredictable Circumstances: Life can be unpredictable, and sometimes, despite one's best efforts, the right opportunity for a relationship may not have presented itself.
12. Other Factors: The peculiarity of our upbringing, culture, tradition, religion, spiritual connotations, ulterior motives, peer profiling, societal and family pressures etc.
Above all, it is important to remember that finding a partner is a complex and personal journey influenced by individual circumstances, personal choices, and compatibility with potential partners. There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as we all have our different timelines for relationships and marriage. So the reasons are depleted in so many other micro forms we might not agree to, due to our background or foundation.
Very correct 💯
DeleteThe problem is,
ReplyDeleteInability of other people to mind their business and focus on their own imperfect lives.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Stella please ask why some men have money, are single and advanced
DeleteProbably has very high standards and not likely willing to settle.
ReplyDeleteHas a lot going for her and may not be interested in marriage
Nothing is wrong with her
ReplyDeleteAssuming she wants to be married and involved in seeking to be married
ReplyDelete1) Fear by men
2) Fewer men of or above her standards
3) Men of her standards and above generally prefer women on slightly lower rungs because most men like to be Oga on top wella in marriage.
4) She has not seen her specs among her suitors
5) If She has seen her specs man but he is not willing to ring her finger, check out numbers 1 and 3 above before thinking of any other matter.
I be man. I pass dis road befor.
Many men marry for control not love, so the many insecure men in this toxic Nigeria feel :
Delete1. they won't be able to "control" /financially manipulate and abuse her
2. because she is beautiful, other men will be attracted to her and their insecure selves won't be able to bear it
3. they cannot use her to level up,aka male gold diggers are not her preference
4. She doesn't want to marry down and invite problems into her life
5. many men marry for womb fruits not love, so assume she may feel she cannot produce children due to her age
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DeleteWaiting for the right man
ReplyDelete"It's only women with good character that are married." 🤡.
ReplyDeleteE reach to ask?🤨
DeleteAll the comments about wanting to live a single life et al are yimu raise to power 3, lol. Show me a man or woman who loves to be single without a partner to share their life with and you have seen a liar. Show me a lady who truly never wants to have a child and you’ve also seen a liar. Imagine someone gave birth to you and you decided to not procreate, ain’t that selfish? A lady having all the qualities outlined above and still single can be due to a lot of factors but the ones I outlined are not one of them
ReplyDeleteKeep your limited thinking to yourself,many people are damaged because they assumed they must reason like everyone and had children when they had no business having children
DeleteStop projecting, people are different, stop being so narrow minded and terribly ignorant
You are actually right
Delete@Anon 00:01...So Oprah Winfrey is a liar? Cos Stedman Graham, her long term partner of over 35 years proposed to her back then and she said No cos she didn't want marriage. She also doesn't have children because she doesn't want to.
DeleteIt's people like you that make lousy parents cos you refuse to adjust your mentality and understand that times are changing and people are no longer bound by ideals you hold dear. Upgrade your mind, my dear, not everyone wants the same things, doesn't make them liars.
It may be her choice or she never met the man that she thinks is right for her.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteShe's busy , our men want independent woman for paper, practically they prefer the jobless, because they have low self esteem on rich women, she has not seen the type of man she want,cos a rich lady needs a man with good behaviour who's not too autocratic
ReplyDeleteDon't mind them
DeleteNigerian men are often too insecure, controlling, limiting to be accepting of the type of woman listed above except he is a user and gold digger and will wickedly, ungratefully and coldly show her shege
A wise woman will rather stay single than settle for such doom on two lehs
Many women have started learning not to settle for the toxic petty insecure dross that is many Nigerian men
ReplyDeleteMany women have started learning not to settle for the toxic petty insecure dross that is many Nigerian men
ReplyDelete