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Saturday, September 23, 2023

Saturday In House Gists - Caught 'Redhanded' Cheating And The Reaction That Followed.

 Hearing someone cheats and catching them in the act or seeing receipts that are undeniable are different things....



Have you ever caught your man or woman red handed cheating? what was your reaction?

This post was inspired by the Interview that said a married woman caught her husband cheating and she cooked his favourite food and sent him a love letter instead of an altercation...
If you have caught your lover cheating what did you do?
If you ever catch your lover cheating, what will you do?

Lets gist!

62 comments:

  1. Whether I heard it from people or saw it with my eyes, I will forgive the shameless woman but that relationship or marriage is over. It will be difficult to rebuild the trust and love again.

    Some things in life doesn't deserve contemplations.

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    1. Some things in life do not deserve*

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    2. If you have truly forgiven her, you wouldn't break up with her. The break up means you have not or did not forgive her.

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    3. 17.28

      The break up means choosing peace and caring for his mental health..
      He has forgiven her

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    4. Definitely not in the WhatsApp group of writing love letters and cooking delicacies as a response. 🙄

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  2. Caught my husband cheating, confronted him, and he looked me from head to toe in a very condescending manner, and says “I no blame you” and walks out on me.

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    1. Eeweeeee, come and complete the story, what happened after this? Serious see finish.

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    2. Sorry about that,he is trying to put the blame of cheating on you.

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    3. The nerve of him
      Hope you have packed out of his house?
      If you are still there with him then I don't know what to tell you cause more heart breaks are in the pipelines for you

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    4. Chai!
      Are you jobless?
      Is he the one paying the bills of your parents or siblings?
      Did you hook him with pregnancy or forced him to marry you?
      No man, I repeat, no man can treat me that way.

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    5. Nawahoo I hope u walked out of that relationship

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    6. WOW

      The utter disdain he has for you

      Madam he doesn't like you, was barely tolerating you and has shown you CLEARLY what he thinks of you
      The next action is yours
      Don't cry
      Chin up
      You are valuable, he is just to stupid and arrogant to see your value
      Lock Up and decide without useless sentiments, what next to do

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    7. WOW

      The utter disdain he has for you

      Madam he doesn't like you, was barely tolerating you and has shown you CLEARLY what he thinks of you
      The next action is yours
      Don't cry
      Chin up
      You are valuable, he is just to stupid and arrogant to see your value
      Lock Up and decide without useless sentiments, what next to do

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    8. Gaslighting raised to power infinity

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    9. didn't see Ex attached to the horseband so probably you are still married to him. I have nothing to say to you 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

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    10. Hope you have packed out of that house???

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  3. If I caught you red handed cheating what will I do?? I will act like I didn't notice. You will be the one to be reporting yourself and confessing without being told . Don't expect me to go low on a fight, if they 'blow my eyes' what will I do.

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    1. Lol @ if they blow my eyes ! 😆 🤣 😂

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    2. Thank you for making me laugh...no be small if they blow my eyes

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    3. You must be a woman
      It's only women that use that line "reporting yourself"
      A typical man will end the marriage or relationship

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    4. She desperately hopes he comes to his "senses" grovels in apology (real or fake) with the hope of forgiveness

      Many Nigerian men who barely tolerate their wives talkless of love them , see women as lesser beings and easily replaceable interchangeable , the next thing is to chase her away and marry another

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    5. My own since February no gbesh make she dey, make I dey my own abeg I no fit shout

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  4. Afternoon people. Happy weekend
    Here to to read comments

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  5. Caught an ex cheating. I raised a stink as expected. She offered a ton of apologies which I pretended to have accepted. Kept the relationship going for 2 years. Shocked her with my wedding pictures on facebook.

    Looking back now, it probably wasn't the best thing to have done. It meant I was cheating on my wife to be with a woman who had cheated on me. I became the very thing I was angry with my ex about. Not one of my proudest moments.

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    1. I hope your.wife is not cheating on you too now? Do you think your wife didn't know you were cheating on her while you were dating? She may just be preparing to serve you your own revenge cold.
      You must be a very vengeful and wicked person to plot your revenge for two years, while making the other person believe you have forgiven them. You are evil. Mind you, what goes around, comes around.

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    2. Ask for forgiveness from GOD, because that is a seed you sowed

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    3. Ask for forgiveness from GOD, because that is a seed you sowed

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    4. Dogalmighty I like your candid comment.

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  6. Coming back later, it will be interesting.

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  7. I honestly don't know what I will do if I find myself in that situation, I might raise hell or maybe not and just serve my revenge dish cold?? I hope to never be in that situation.

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  8. Iv told my wife that if she catches me cheating,I will be remorseful and apologize and forgives me it’s on her and if she doesn’t,I’ll understand but if she cheats and I catch her,it’s OVER.cheating is a no brainer for me.

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    1. Hmmm!it's a no for you but she can choose to forgive...Men

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    2. It's a dirty mentality and yet they kick up dust when women dash them outside babies. Who is fooling who?
      Cheating should be a no-no. Play the field till you are ready to hang boots, then find the one and settle in for the long haul.
      Is that so freaking hard?

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    3. Yes it’s hard because everyone has a price.some it’s money,some it’s attention,some it’s big ass,boobs,some it’s tall guys etc.

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    4. It's the entitled hypocrisy of mediocre Nigerian men who lack self respect

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    5. It's the entitled hypocrisy of mediocre Nigerian men who lack self respect

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  9. Si far so good, I haven't caught my hubby cheating. But if I ever do, he will automatically lose my respect and trust for him. You can't expect me to be faithful to you while you cheat on me. One good turn deserves another.

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    1. Even the fear of disease or the other person being diabolical or mentally deranged sef

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    2. Even the fear of disease or the other person being diabolical or mentally deranged sef

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  10. God forbids bad thing; but then "never say never."

    If my wife ever cheats and I catch her, either by investigation, or in the act, the marriage will be "downgraded from "exclusive" to "open marriage."

    I will not divorce or be separated from her; she will be around to co-parent our children until our last born (girl) is old enough to get married. She would enjoy the privilege to leave if marriage if she wants.

    I have seen enough in this life to worry myself about infidelity. Do your thing while I live my life.

    Proudly Foodie

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  11. God forbids bad thing; but then "never say never."

    If my wife ever cheats and I catch her, either by investigation, or in the act, the marriage will be "downgraded from "exclusive" to "open marriage."

    I will not divorce or be separated from her; she will be around to co-parent our children until our last born (girl) is old enough to get married. She would enjoy the privilege to leave the marriage if she wants.

    I have seen enough in this life to worry myself about infidelity. Do your thing while I live my life.

    Proudly Foodie

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    1. Male version of me @ Anon 15:07

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    2. NEVER allow anyone drag you to down to become a dog when you are not one , it serves no purpose but to bring chaos into your life and future
      Never join in playing dirty games or stupid lifestyle
      Keep your quiet dignity

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  12. Caught my ex red handed, infact it was action film cos I stood watching them for almost 39 sec before they realised I was in the room. Next thing Baba said was, but he called me and I said I wasn't coming that day that he cares for me and doesn't want me to see this ,that was why he was calling to make sure I don't come. Anyway the scene actually made me horny and after begging I took my own dose release the tension from my body,but I ex him that very day

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    1. You r disgusting

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    2. And to think i thought i was weird. Ma. You take the cake.

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    3. What did I just read

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  13. Hmmmmmmm,remind me of my cousin's husband that was caught cheating, he came back home that he wants to gently pack his load as he knows the wife will not forgive him for cheating,so he's willing to go, the wife drag him back that he goeth no where, Baba wan use style go hibernate with the side chick . Wife said he's forgiven without even asking,the man insisted that he want to go so as not to offend the wife's spirit cos if he's the one that caught her she'll have to pack out,but since he's the one that erred , he's willing to punish himself, wife hold am tight sat he goes not o.

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    1. The guy used reverse psychology on your cousin. Men can be so smart. So your cousin was now begging him not to leave instead of the other way round.
      Chaiii!!! There is God oooo

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    2. The wife did not have the financial strength to stay on her own

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    3. Is you cousin a JW? Because I know for JWs d only ground for separation/divorce is adultery. So the guy may have deliberately committed adultery to be freed of the marriage, but unfortunately the wife decoded him and refused to grant his desire.
      I just hope he doesn't go AWOL on your cousin oneday.

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  14. na wa the man is so smart ...reverse psychology make the victim to beg ..

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    1. Nothing smart about manipulativeness

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  15. Cheating is a deal breaker for me cos I am loyal to the end. I will not manage a cheating partner neither will I cheat too.

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  16. The question include "if both parties are financially buoyant". Women that are financially dependent on their husbands usually have no choice but to tolerate cheating men. My mum was a typical example. Tolerated my dad's cheating with multiple kids.

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  17. So I cheated on my husband and I am not proud of it. Infact,I hated myself for quite a long time cos my husband didn't deserve that from me at all. It was with an ex-lover that I knew loved me so much but distance and life happened. We met again and I didn't ever believe things could get out of hand,but It did. My husband would never know as I don't ever intend to burden him with that knowledge. He hasn't ever cheated on me to the best of my knowledge but if he did,I would forgive him even before he asked. I don't know if he would ever forgive me if he caught me or found out.

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    1. Your honesty is refreshing. Here's cheers to knowing that you'll still do it again. You know what they say, once a cheater, always a....

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    2. Dog Almighty, that means you are still cheating on your wife like you were doing while dating her. (Read your comment up there).

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    3. 08:55, he is still doing it as per cheating is their birth right. When a woman does it, e dey pain them die.
      Anon madam 20:12, don't mind Mr Doggy, I feel good when a woman also does what our men do without batting an eyebrow. Nonsense

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    4. You see? The only exercise most ladies are capable of doing is jumping to conclusions. In all i i said there, where did i mention cheating IN my marriage? You people just descended on me as if you caught me in your kitchen stealing meat from a pot of soup. Haba!

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