This Narrative is so shocking
The story begins thus
In 1998, a 21 year old Nigerian soldier named Hassan Adeyemo from Ibadan met and fell in love with an 18 year-old beautiful Hausa girl from Bauchi called Sarah. It was love at first sight
They got married in 1999 and God blessed them with a beautiful daughter in 2000. After her, they had two other daughters and one boy, making 4 kids. Hassan loved his wife so much and told her not to work because of stress. He was providing everything she ever wanted for her and the kids…
In 2014, Hassan wanted a better life for his family, so with his wife’s agreement, he decided to send them to the U.S. Sarah and the kids entered the United States in 2014.
Before they got there, Hassan already arranged a rented house and a car for them. Sarah wasn’t working, Hassan was sending big money to them for upkeep from Nigeria every month. Despite the distance, Hassan bonded with his wife and kids. Everyone was happy.
In 2017, Hassan, who had missed his family so much, decided to relocate to America and stay with them.
Before Hassan got to America, Sarah had started hair braiding just to keep herself busy when the kids were in school. Everyone loved her and the way she braided beautiful styles. Gradually, she became a household name in Orlando, Florida. Ladies flooded her to do their hair.
The unfortunate victims of the tragedy
What she was doing for fun became something big overnight. Hassan entered the US, and things were going smoothly. Hassan who was a big man in Nigeria, left everything and came to America to start all over with menial jobs. He had no papers yet, so he was doing jobs that paid him peanuts.
God blessed them with a baby boy in 2018, making their children a total of 5. Sarah was making at least 1,000 a day with the help of her daughters who she had trained. She was very fast and efficient in braiding. With this income, she was able to support the family with all expenses because Hassan’s income couldn’t meet up with the expenses/bills.
Hassan got his papers and started Uber and delivery jobs. He worked from day to night and started contributing his quota to the family, but his contributions was like change to his wife Sarah, was making. In effect, Sarah became the breadwinner of the house.
Issues started because Sarah was always complaining that Hassan couldn’t afford her lifestyle. She became the children’s favorite because she gave them everything they asked for, while their dad could not meet up. Sarah entered the house whenever she wished. She became the boss, always calling Hassan lazy and useless, while Hassan always appealed to her for peace to reign.
Hassan, a gentleman didn’t like trouble in any form. Sarah and the children formed their own group in the house, and abandoned their dad to always sort himself out. Sarah stopped cooking for him.
Hassan became depressed and was always begging friends and family members to help talk to his wife. Hassan was always crying like a baby, saying Sarah made him feel less of a man in the house. His friends encouraged him to persevere and ignore whatever she did.
In January 2022, Sarah announced to Hassan that she had bought a house. They moved into the new house, and she continued to treat him very badly. She disrespected him so much, “Leave my house if you cannot obey me, you irresponsible man,” she would often say.
She locked him out in the cold so many times and threw his things out. The children were on their mother’s side because she was the provider. Hassan became very depressed, and started having suicidal thoughts. He told his friends how life is unfair, and that he would kill himself. They advised him to leave the marriage because it was obvious that his wife was no longer in love with him, but he kept on asking, “Where will I start from? I love my wife. A woman I have invested all my life in. The only woman I ever loved. What did I do to deserve this from her?”
April 2023, Sarah told him she had bought another house that this particular house is specifically for her and her customers. She told Hassan to hold onto the boys while the girls followed her to the new house. Hassan was like, ” Why do you want to separate the family?” She said, “If everyone followed her to the new house, it will disturb my customers. She then told the husband that he could bring the boys over for weekends, but he can’t come with them, “because I need my privacy.” People tried to talk to Sarah, but she wouldn’t listen. Hassan agreed, hoping that his wife will change her mind.
On August 21, 2023, Sarah informed Hassan that she would like for her sons to move in with her, while Hassan remains in the old house. She instructed Hassan to move all of her remaining property, and that of the children from the old house where Hassan was staying to the new one, where she lives.
She then told Hassan that whenever he wished to see the children, he should let her know, so she can arrange for the visits. So, Hassan told her he would do as she had instructed, and take the remaining property of hers to the house on Friday night, which he did. Sarah didn’t let him enter the house. She took all the belongings he brought and the boys and left Hassan outside. Hassan remained at the door for almost an hour knocking, Sarah refused to open the door for him.
The following day, August 26, was Hassan’s 46th birthday. Early that morning, Sarah sent him a message, “Happy Birthday friend, we are better off as friends than lovers.” “You need to look for where you’ll be staying, because I have to get rid of the old house. I wish you well in life, I have moved on.” A few hours later, the children called their dad to get some groceries, and he told them he would bring them in the evening. At about 6:30 PM, he called the kids, that he was on his way to the house with the groceries. When he got there, he knocked, and the children opened the door for him.
Hassan then asked for their mom, they told him he was in the shower. He entered, and went to the bathroom, brought out a gun, and shot her in the head, in the chest, and in the leg. He then called 911, “Hello, I just killed the bitch.” This is the address, I am waiting for you.” He sat down on the floor beside Sarah’s body.
The cops came, and the first responders rushed Sarah to the hospital, she was still breathing. She died two hours after she got to the hospital. Mr. Adeyemo is now at the Orange County Jail in Florida. He is most likely facing a death sentence or life in prison without parole.
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This is so touching. May God bless every woman who stood by their men in trying times and never gave up 🙏. I hope such men too would love and show appreciation to their wives. May the soul of the departed rest in peace.
ReplyDeletefirst of all, this was written with bias.
Deletesecondly, a 46 year old really ruined his life because of the end of a marriage? a 46 year old in america can recover all his losses and be in a better position by 55. he just finished his life for no reason. I don't condone the woman using and dumping him, but please, this happens to women all the time and we don't hear of sho*oting. he didn't think of his children? he will now spend the rest of his life in real suffering. may GOD have mercy on us all and help us to not give up on ourselves. may we not answer the call of the devil in Jesus mighty name
You don't know the power of rage.
DeleteAnger is dangerous.
This is pure evil! How did he lt s feelings get the best of him like this? He didn't even think of his children that will be rendered motherless and fatherless by his act! He didn't live his children enough not to kill their mother. They will never recover from this trauma. I really pity the children. May God the father of the fatherless and motherless protect them.
DeleteToo many lies in this story; he didn’t have papers but he got a house and car for them even without papers, while living in Nigeria and on the salary of a soldier? No US credit history, no immigration on business grounds, just like that? Or did they immigrate illegally? Also, there’s no way Sarah was making $1000 a day, except if she had experienced staff braiding with her. Her daughters who are under 18 and in school can only provide limited support. Whoever is narrating this story is trying to paint Sarah as a monster to garner pity for her killer. She’s not here so we will never know the true story.
Delete0:33 na pesin wey never leave im village go believe this drivel.
DeleteI'm sure it is the same person who wrote that rubbish on saint Obi before he died.
Yulzless men that theue prick cannot rise unless they inject it with their daily dose of hatred for women.
He really messed up! He should have shot her in the pússy (her main business-district)
DeleteI beg this story get as e Dey. It’s a lie from the pit of hell. To one sided. So Hassan is a saint???
DeleteWhat kind of PR whitewashing is this? I hope the wife made a will so at least her children can have an inheritance and that they let the older kids keep the underaged ones.
ReplyDeleteNo matter, do not kill anyone
DeleteYou didn't create them, he is an animal a very destructive one
Evil truly useless man who has denied his children both parents
Oh, this is the narrative now because the dead isn’t here to defend herself?
ReplyDeleteAnd what if this is the truth!!
DeleteAnd what if it isn’t, how will u know?
DeleteMy dear, that is it o. She's not here to defend herself so they will spin the narrative to present the beast as a saint.
DeleteAnd see all of them swallowing the story. Women! We can never win. Na she dem kill. Na the man even fellow women dey pity
DeleteIf that female BV did not come here to say she locked her husband's shirt within 4months? of arriving abroad and he also had a film of her previous performance even before then that made the police invite her, nobody would have believed his story.
DeleteNkan mbe inside matrimonial homes. Na only God know what happens or goes on between husbands and wives. Even some children can TRULY swear that their parents never had any aggro or verbal spar or beef till they left home. That fit be true. That fit be incorrect because they do not know what was happening before their very korokoro eyes..
But Eka, why are you surprised.? We have many of such women who are gate keepers of patriarchy on this blog. One just replied you. Any of the sexes can be at fault but the way these women defend the male folks first without thinking..it needs to studied .honestly.
DeleteVarey B, I know I shouldn’t be surprised but I keep getting shocked all the time
DeleteIf this is truly how it happened. Justice for Hassan. She’s truly evil. He’s alive but dead cos of her actions. May God almighty forgive her and their poor innocent children she brainwashed .sorry Hassan . God will make the judge lenient on you
ReplyDeleteI will go under Anon to share my own story.
DeleteI was based abroad for over 10 years, I met my ex in the course of my travelling back and forth between Nigeria and my base then. She got pregnant and bore my first child, we applied for her permit but she was denied, I left my comfortable life in Europe and decided to relocate back to Nigeria. Coming back to Nigeria I had something I was doing and was steady with my income and was doing my bits at home. By this time, she had become a big Boss at her working place earning 7 figure digits per month. Someone that was submissive before now became extremely argumentative and stubborn. She spoke to me at home like she is talking to her subordinates. Cut long story short, marriage don scatter! The truth is this, when a woman earns more than her husband, most of them become uncontrollable and bossy.
I will share full story over the weekend... Gat to go now
Eyah . Take heart dear it is well with you.God will give you a better woman
DeleteOga,abeg . if you had something great going on for you in the abroad, you won't shift base. You thought she'll be enslaved to you,like working while you reap. Thank God she's wiser
DeleteAnon 17.19 you’re evil hearted ehhn. May God have mercy on you
DeleteGbam @17:19. Please which country rejects a legally wedded spouse from joining her partner?. Oga check this your story and write it well
Delete@15:57, she wasn't submissive anymore bla bla. When its more likely she wasn't allowing you to dominate and bully her anymore..
DeleteThe insecure men crave dominance and control
DeleteThey want power and not love
That slavery is their idea of submission
I read this story few days back and I wept. It is a sad story. Unfortunately, we can't hear the wife's part of the story. He may have maltreated her at one time in the Marriage. Maltreatment comes in different forms, not only beating or financial abuse, he may have cheated on her at a time in their marriage and she decided to pay him back after several years, even after all the good he supposedly did.
ReplyDeleteWomen don't really forgive cheating, they wait for when they can pay you back. If you like buy her a private jet, cheat on her without remorse and see fire at any given opportunity. This woman waited until she got to a country where the law favours women to pay him back. I hope lessons are learnt here.
May her soul rest in peace.
Heartbreaking.......... 💔💔💔
DeleteI think cheating is part of her grievance. So sad.
DeletePleeeeeeeeeeeeeease, we should stop justifying this evil of payback to men after years of alleged event and after years of enjoying the benefits of the marriage. Plenty naturally wicked women are hiding under it to destroy.
Delete17:44, yes we should stop. We should justify murder instead
Delete@18:36
DeleteDo not justify evil by a woman or by a man.
We read here of the woman who vowed to abandon her husband to move in with her son after graduation because her husband refuse to give her money to start a business of her own. She did not add that she was lacking financially in the marriage. How many single women here would want to marry her son with her? I have seen women drive a man's family and her step children away from him only to abandon him with stroke to the care of of house keepers and, ironically, his nieces. But as it turned out maybe she would be alive today if she stayed home with him. She met her fate in one of such acts of going way.
Hope this is the real story sha?if it is,then its sad. 5children all on their own all of a sudden. Meanwhile,their are hundreds of other tribes in northern nigeria all of them are not Hausas.
ReplyDeleteWould you doubt this story if tables were turned?
DeleteShe forgot so soon how he was taking care of her. But then, we don’t know if he was also saying get out of my house if you can’t stay. She for just divorce the guy and settle him with the old house peacefully rather than frustrating the poor guy. Now the kids will grow up without both parents. He should have thought of them.
ReplyDeleteSettle the man with house why?.
DeleteI hope you keep this energy when tables are turned
14:45. Points made. A Bv said here that she quickly paid her husband the money for her relocation and nurse training to free herself after the man wen Shylock on her. Smart move. Half a loaf is better than none.
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ReplyDeleteSarah, you did not deserve such a death. May you rest in peace. May your children be protected. What a weight they now have to carry, so awful for them.
This is so sad, she could have just asked for a divorce, was there any need for treating the man shabbily. God help us all
ReplyDeleteStoopid man
ReplyDeleteYou were that estranged and the kids let you in to the bathroom. I’m not believing this story
Florida is a good place for this so he can get the DP
Don’t mind the writer
DeleteChildren that call their dad to buy groceries sef.
DeleteDon't mind him and people that believe his story. She even had another child (5th one oh in abroad) when he joined them, suddenly she became a monster unprovoked. Someone as bad as she's been painted will never open leg to have a 5th child in abroad with a man she wanted to discard. All these insecure, narcissistic men who has refused to seek for help. Snatching her life from her no matter what shows the kind of person he is. Evil soul.
DeleteMay God never make any man to be useless before their useless wives in Jesus Christ name AMEN
ReplyDeleteThe heart of most Nigerian women is cold. I don't advice men to sponsor their wives abroad nor invest in them. Nigerian women are built to rely on me, once they think they can stand on their own, there is problem.
ReplyDeleteNa them. Foam for shoulder , foam between the ears
DeleteThis here thinking is the problem. You get what you expect.
DeleteKeep your pathetic building to yourself as if you are GOD
DeleteWicked empty very very insecure destructive disloyal users no love in your heart only seeking oppressive control
Only few have conscience
Lete hear what our vocal female BVs would say concerning this matter. Men, men, men, make una work hard and have your personal savings, different from joint account o! E get reason why. The two shall become one, doesn't hold sway with women's own funds o!
ReplyDeleteHardly do men ever not have their personal income, so what are you saying? Some of you are here as agents to sow discord even in peaceful homes by pushing your funny and biased ideologies. Continue.
Delete@16:00: "Hardly do men ever not have their personal income, so what are you saying?"
DeleteYou will be surprised to know that some men hardly have anything left after making sure they bear all financial responsibilities of their wives and children to avoid the proverbial see finish. If such a man falls on hard times, it quickly shows and he quickly becomes dependent or troubled.
Did you read the male Bv who says he earns N1.4m monthly but does not count on his wife in doing the family needs though she earns N4m monthly?
There are men who are just above broke because they do not want any room for their wives to say she is feeding or maintaining them.
The counsel given is wise and solid. Even women now give the same advice online - for men to think about and financially plan for their old age care without reference to their wives being there no matter what good they believe they have done for their wives
17:58 what I am saying is that such men are so few as to be negligible, when compared with women. Women mostly use the little they have for their families. They must ensure their children feed, but many men still reserve money for girlfriend and beer parlours. They will say they don't have money, some their kids would be starving but you still see them drinking and womanising. Most of them are not even happy when their wives are doing better than them financially.
DeleteHmmmmmmm. Sad. Who watched Bolanle ninalowo old interview with BBC Yoruba? Omo you go shock,if what he said was true, then Nino really tried. Some women are the one that gave other women bad name,but the man shouldn't have gone to the extreme by killing her
ReplyDeleteNino cheated on his wife
DeleteThat’s where he should have tried
Chaiiii 😭😭😭 Nawaoo. This is just sooooooooo sad. He really did invest his life providing and loving that woman and she let the small money she made get the best of her😒😒😒. Who will now take care of their children at this point🥹🥹
ReplyDeleteVery sad story. If na so e really happen, this woman no just try at all. Na wa! This is the reason many men are scared to empower or educate their women. And stories like this will only embolden their decisions. Very sad indeed.
ReplyDeleteIn all of this madness and wickedness, the kids will always be the victims. Now, no mum, no dad. Sad on all levels. This marriage matter, God go epp us.
This story breaks my heart. This Situation could have been easily avoided. Both parties are at fault 😭😔
ReplyDeleteThis used to be VERY common in Texas. Especially Houston and Dallas. They even have associations they belong to. Bad influences etc. may God help us all.
ReplyDeleteYes, finance gives confidence and freedom. You can’t control a woman that has her own. Either you see her as your partner or leave the marriage . Encouraging women to stand up for theirselves against abuse is not bad influence
DeleteThis is very sad to read.
ReplyDeleteThis is so heartbreaking,actually he was pushed to the wall by his wife
ReplyDeleteThere was no pushed to the wall, he is a destructive person with no self control, prison awaits his toxic self
DeleteSo Sad. In all our doings, let us have conscience, learn gratitude and fear God.
ReplyDeleteA lot of such stories abound among "japaed" couples. Know your spouse and know what you can take before making that big move.
Nothing is worth taking another life. It is well.
Sorry. Nobody can know another man or woman. Only God knows the hearts of mankind.
DeleteI feel bad for him.
ReplyDeleteCrime of passion.So sad,the man had reached his limit and snapped!It would have been better if he walked away.
ReplyDeleteNot a crime of passion
DeleteIt was premeditated murder
Not a crime of passion
DeleteIt was premeditated murder
This is crazy scary. Why would this woman turn completely against him? She never loved him or what??? Was there something he did that made her act like a devil himself? I’m a woman and I’m just so angry about how things went down and how she mistreated him not even considering the kids.
ReplyDeleteThis man could have also walked away and take time to really heal and co parent and wait for her karma. Marriage no be do or die affair naw. Na wa for this type of love oo. More like a co dependent type of love.
Now kids are left without parents and lifetime trauma. This is so so sad mann.
Karma for what?. What did she do?
DeleteI wonder what the writer wants to achieve with this one side story. So, in essence, they had separated amicably but the man couldn’t handle the separation?.
ReplyDeleteWhere soldier see big money dey send every month, how come the money dried up once he entered the states?.
So, in essence a woman who turned to business to make ends meet was now termed as braiding hair to keep busy?.
It’s clear their marriage broke down, but this write up is rife with holes and statements that don’t match up.
Only this couple knows what caused their marriage breakdown.
This story get as e be! Stella, did your investigation result in this story?
DeleteHmmmm. Lots of loopholes. The man should have left and moved on. Obsessive love from either gender is not worth it. It is usually deadly. If you are in this boat please kindly look for a solution, try counseling and prayers rather than kill yourself or commit murder. No matter the cause of this story, the outcome is gruesome, with victims left behind. I am even thanking God the kids were not killed, as happens in some cases.
DeleteAs in...pot holes sef no ne only loop holes. Sent for their father to buy groceries after ejecting him from the house? Lolll.
DeleteThe mother who is eading 1000 dollz a day couldn't buy groceries? Nobody could buy from the store. They couldn't order online. Abeg make dem arrange story properly so those of is exposed and widely travelled won't spend the time rolling our eyes.
If women start unaliving all the men that they struggled with, that made it and forgot or abandoned them, naija men go finish oo.
ReplyDeleteYou dey mind them?
DeleteCreatures wey no see women as human beings
If women start unaliving all the men that they struggled with, that made it and forgot or abandoned them, naija men go finish oo.O
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. Most times most men cannot take what they dish out anyhow to women.
DeleteDon’t mind the nonsense
DeleteSo I should go unalive the guy that borrowed my money and now doesn’t answer my call
Hmmmm, the woman sha
ReplyDeleteDon't believe that write up they put there, just because the dead cannot speak, thank God the children are alive, the real truth will prevail soon.
DeleteOh my God! If this is true, then Sarah's actions should be totally condemned.
ReplyDeleteIt is still not enough reason to commit murder.
5 children have lost their parents forever. The children will find it difficult to forgive their father if they ever do..
Sarah didn't do her husband right at all. She didn't remember yesterday. May her soul rest in peace
If you know you have a fragile ego, don’t japa oo. Abroad values women and sees them as human beings. You can’t carry nonsense priding and japa successfully.
ReplyDeleteSomeone once said, if the marriage was good in Nigeria and breaks down abroad, someone needs to check their egoo.
This is so painful. Women have suffered since time immemorial. You can’t even separate in peace anymore
@15:20
DeleteSomeone once said, if the marriage was good in Nigeria and breaks down abroad, someone needs to check their pride and foundational values.
Until it happens to our brother/male relative or to our sister/female relative, the other gender is always at fault only on gender basis in all relationship/marriage breakdowns.
Which simply means that na many animals dey Waka up and down here pretending to be men
DeleteSee how this writer just called a murderer a gentleman. Na wa oo.
ReplyDeleteYou can imagine.
DeleteWhat can l say ?You wrongs can not make it right.
ReplyDeleteDisrespect and offending people is not good
ReplyDeleteThe man is at a BIG fault here. What did she do exactly that warrants getting shot?
DeleteSo the result is to kill abi?
DeleteAnimal behavior
Not to justify what this man did but this same pattern happens in the US a lot.Men will toil for a better life and while they are at it,they make sure their wife is going to school and betters herself and then once she is done,everything changes,especially when they become nurses.Worst part is most of them end up becoming sad and lonely after they’ve used arrogance to chase their husbands away,both young and old.smh
ReplyDeleteIt happens because the men see their wives as properties. There are many families thriving in the us. But some naija men will carry their controlling mean attitude abroad and expect their wives to worship their feet. E no dey work. Be a better and kind husband and watch your home thrive mba. They want to bee controlling and authoritative. E no go work. Women are human too
DeleteToil my arse
DeleteIf it’s so easy to go why don’t they go to the school too
They invest and then want to sit back and eat. It doesn’t work like that
Big fat lie. The men that kill their wives when they become successful and want to move on are those that married them to come and slave for them, while they act like "big men".
DeleteI know a lady whose husband would collect her salary every 2 weeks and hand her $50 as pocket money. Imagine having your kids in the car, running out of gas, and begging people for money at the gas station to buy gas. If she asks for more, he will say that she is a gold digger. "Afterall, he brought her to America."
She struggled to go to nursing school. He would give her money to pay her fees for one course and decide that she should go to hell for the next. Another friend would bail her out by paying for her. She is now a nurse and he is still dependent on her money. If she decides to divorce him tomorrow, he would tell people that he brought her to America, housed and fed her, and even paid for her school fees.
You see all those abroad based men (especially the US) that some home to look for a nurse or pharmacist to marry, na them! They are looking for wives to come and make money for them and be grateful and "submissive" aka mumu while at it. Another one came back and claimed to be a professional athlete. Na taxi e dey drive and was living in a room in a shared apartment! He promptly sent her off to work and she was the one that made the money for their first car and a better accommodation. These women would not mind the hard work if the men appreciate them for their efforts/contributions and treat them well. The annoying thing is that these men will reduce their work hours once their slaves aka 9ja wives starts making money, instead of continuing their hustle so the family has more resources. If the wife decides enough is enough, they go mental because they don't want their cash cow to walk away because they'll be forced to go back to work or become homeless.
Everyone one should always know when to stay and when to let go. It’s tough cos I’m in the same situation.
ReplyDeleteHe should have just moved on with his head held up high. But I’ve come to under that a lot of me. Don’t know how to manage their emotions esp when it affects their ego
RIP to the dead
Zendaya
I am so happy,that he offed her! Coming from a woman 👩! Do you know what? Stop assisting anyone, male or female! The children of these days are 😈 demons! You stood by for your mother to treat your father like dirt? God bless this man and grant him mercy and compassion! Nigerians stop using and discarding human beings!
ReplyDeleteDo you really know what happened? Children are not fools. They also have eyes to see, ears to hear and brains to think. Also it is not good to be happy at people's destruction, even your enemies.
Delete@ 20:02 I have a friend going through this right now . She turned the children against him.
DeleteDo you know what? The guy emotional intelligence is high! So he took a walk! This woman here don dey do for outside! The guy didn't have a good moral support! He for just pack him suitcase, move to another estate! To start his life all over again. I pray he gets a good Attorney to plead mental incapacity, so he can get manslaughter!!! This is a lesson for everyone out there, to be careful how they treat others.
If she was your sister, will you be hoping he gets a good lawyer and gets man slaughter instead of premeditated murder? He did not consider that his kids will end up in foster care. He thought only of himself. It says a lot.
DeleteAnyone supporting his actions isn't alright in the head
DeleteNo matter what, he didn't create her HE HAD NO RIGHT TO END HER LIFE
NO RIGHT AT ALL
SELFISH ANIMAL DIDN'T PITY HIS CHILDREN
As e dey for woman, na so e dey for man
ReplyDeleteI struggle with mine, held the home front for five months after we married, when he got a better job that's when he remembered the age gap he use senior me small, I no fine reach the women he dated, I no get flat stomach after three kids oo...😂😂
Long story short he married another woman, filed for divorce and still expects me to share bills for the kids with him... I thank God for the growth he and his family didn't envisage. All I hear now is you earn more than me. Before it was I am useless, always asking for money.
If I wasn't strong, shebi I for don poison am or spoil him life for him mama? The pain I feel is the unrequited loyalty and the tag on my kids because they don't deserve it. But I believe God has great plans for me and my kids. I also believe he get wetiñ he dey keep me and my kids from. It's painful and I feel cheated and betrayed because I stay chop insults from even girlfriend sotey I con dey believe am. I thank God for my friends and family that made me see value in me.
People, let's be kind especially to people who have been kind to us. It won't cost anything to be nice with our words .. some people can't handle rejection especially when they have invested..
Hugs 🤗. Please invest in anything that will restore your esteem and confidence. You deserve it
DeleteThank God you are able to stand on your own. He is a wicked man and will reap what he has sown.
Delete"As e dey for woman, na so e dey for man"
DeleteThank you for your balanced comments from a place of knowledge.
It is not a gender thing but a person thing.
This's really heart breaking.
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B
Story, story? Story
ReplyDeleteWhat a mean woman! She actually frustrated that man and allowed the devil ruin her home.
ReplyDeleteAmerican life
DeleteVery mean woman o.
DeleteHe ruined his life himself by cooperating with the devil
DeleteToo long. I no fit read.
ReplyDeleteRIP to her,in her next life may she have a better luck
Hmmmmm
ReplyDelete😭😭😭😪
ReplyDeleteHe should have walked away. This story is nonsense. He is selfish and did not even think of his kids. Why did he not return back to Nigeria? He is a jealous and bitter man. Now those kids are motherless and will be in foster care. Very selfish man
ReplyDeleteVery selfish and wicked man. Imagine 5 kids being scatter in foster care. The trauma of what they experienced ...What will become of them?
DeleteThat man is evil, let even say this is exactly what happened why didn't the man just divorce her and move on, he was busy saying where will he start from, he has invested in the woman yen yen , but he still eventually gun down the same woman he claimed to love and invested on. Abeg may he rot in hell nonsense evil man killed someone 's daughter someone's mother.
ReplyDeleteWhat did I just read 😳😳😳.
ReplyDeleteThe man nah military . Shooting no go be problems wife should have known dat .
ReplyDeleteomg!!!!
ReplyDeletesuch a very sad story!!!
This story has to be for image laundering in Nigeria cos it holds no place in a court of law. The US constitution will not let you get away with murder, except in self-defense. Sorry that you were maltreated, but murder cannot be justified because you had choices. You can either get away from a toxic environment or practice self-control. How is killing her better? You'd probably go to jail for life and your kids will be taken to social services. Even if you leave jail early, finding a job or even an apartment for an ex-convict is difficult. The hatred you had for her was stronger than the love you had for yourself and even your children. This is like shooting off your head to spite your nose...
ReplyDeleteExactly! It was written in such a poetic and overly sympathetic way even Stevie Wonder could detect its intention. I hope he gets the electric chair.
DeleteNa really stevie wonder. You kill am ani you know kill am. They can kill their wives but their bosses that steady disrespect them multiple times s say ,they will be shining eyes like constipated monkeys.
DeleteWhy are people this wicked. What is difficult to love back the person that loves you and is married to you? He treated you well when he was financially bouyant so why turn back against him simply because you are now doing better than him?
ReplyDeleteNothing justifies his actions
DeleteGOD Himself said vengeance belongs to only Himself
We don’t know the truth however using myself as an example, sometimes when hubby upsets me and I think I’m done with the marriage, considering how long we have been together, I think of splitting our assets including those I own.
ReplyDeleteI will never leave someone who I have shared a life with for years with nothing regardless of what they have done.
I trust in God so I know that the money I have today He can multiply so I don’t care for material goods but this is me. And this is life, sometimes for peace to reign, you have to do what everyone else might consider foolish
This is extremely sad. He definitely looks depressed and sad in that photo. May her soul rest in perfect peace
Another thing, life is a movie. If you earn way more today, you don’t know if tables will turn so let’s treat each other how we want to be treated
If ds story is true, d lady no just try. So ur husband made a mistake sending u & ur kids abroad? That’s how one stupid young man committed suicide bcoz his fiancé that he trained in secondary & University refused to marry him , after graduation. He died for nothing , while d lady will conveniently continue her life with another guy. Makes me remember Saint Obi, who went from an A-list celebrity to a nobody, bcoz he married a more financially stable woman. Ds story happens both ways, sometimes it’s d woman that’s at d receiving end & vice versa. May God other our steps & genuine heart’s desires rightly.
ReplyDeletePoorly concocted one sided story.
ReplyDeleteNot the first and won't be the last. Who is 6ft under? She is! Not her advisers. Patapata advisers go follow type RIP on your head.
ReplyDeleteHis life is ruined because he lacked sense, self control and was destructive
DeletePrison awaits him
People who believe in thus story are the ones ego believes in tortoise and the rabbit stories. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteWomen are human beings
ReplyDeleteMen are human beings
None of them are your property
Stop the destruction