MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS.

  Hyperactive Monday Hailings.....

IN HOUSE MEMO

Welcome to an engagingly awesome and beautiful new week..... 

Wetin dey happen?

God bless you today!

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BV TRENDY CELEBRATES BIRTHDAY

She says

''God gave me life against all odds and it has been a story of grace and mercy, so I give glory to God because I have never looked like what I've been through. I will always put a smile on my face and won't ever let the troubles of life get me down. Happy birthday to me. Please this loving blog family should join me in celebrating God's abundance blessings in my life.''

Happy Birthday to you Dearie!

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PINKYS CORNER 

I am not happy talking about this but I just need to do this because I feel so bad and hurt but anyway, this life has taught me alot of things and still teaching me. I will continue to learn in as much as I'm still living.

There is a woman who uses one of the shops where I am, the building has over 15 shops. Her's should be number 10 or so. She sells biscuits, soaps, sweets etc. She sells in wholesales. I have never asked her for cash though because i have never had any reasons to ask her for cash. Whenever she has sold alot and she has too much cash at hand, she will bring like 50k or 40k and ask me to send to her account. 

It has become a service which she must pay for but she will never pay. She is used to saying "sebi I'm helping you", naturally, I don't mind because I know it's useful and I need not charge her to transfer it to her account but last week, she did something crazy and I was so so angry but I didn't show it. I pretended like I'm cool with it.

A customer came to me and they needed 65k but I didn't have much cash. I only had 10k in my POS pulse and 60k in my Opay Merchant account. Because I didn't want to lose that customer, I quickly inserted his ATM and withdrew the money into my account because I charged him 1300 but he insisted he is paying 1k and I accepted. 

 Now, i needed 55k to add to the cash with me ,so I could give it to the customer. I quickly went to this woman(an Alhaja ooo that prays regularly). I spoke to her that I needed her to help me with 50k or more, so that I can make transfer to her bank account. She asked me the exact amount I needed, then I said 65k. What she said swept me off my feet.

She said, ''I will have to put charges''. I was surprised, I thought she was joking until she repeated it and said she is not joking. I said "ha Alhaja, sebi I do transfer to your account free of charge when you bring cash? why now?'' then she said, it seems I'm not ready. 

I was so angry then I asked her how much she needed for charges and she said #500(don't forget I charged the person #1000). Then I sent her #65,500 and collected the cash and don't forget that POS company has also deducted #100 from that transaction. Which means, I only got #400. I have evidence of this and since then, have told over 4people who are close to me because I felt so bad.

 Though it won't stop me from doing good but one thing I know is, no free transactions for her again. I will treat her the way she treated me.

Why do people make good people look stupid?…I believe we all are one for the fact that, we are using different shops on the same land and the same Landlord. What a life. Last week has been so interesting because have learnt alot of things shaaa.

Please let the woman breet...You are the one who didnt take your business serious by not collecting charges...She did the right thing and I am glad you learnt your lesson and will apply it henceforth...Know that you are carrying the matter on your head and Judging in vain, she does not owe you anything at all.

Stop trying to be a goody two shoes, it doesnt always pay!

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UPDATE ON TWO FRIENDS THAT THREATENED TO KILL EACH OTHER OVER MARRIED RANDY MAN

Good day Stella,  this is the update concerning my two friends  Joyce and Benny, remember that Buike met Joyce first but Benny discouraged her and later took over the man, called  a fool and told her she won't  anything-

 Well, Buike has dumped Benny and she's back to beg, she said she kept seeing him with different women,  and he has zero respect for her and one day when she confronted him, he bluntly told her that he never wanted her from day one, that she forced herself on him and he don't enjoy anything about her including her kpekus be she no de gbaa mmiri (na me add that one oo... Lol), so she came back and blamed all her actions on the devil,  as for Buike, he's been trying to get Joyce back, no matter how much of a good woman you try to be to a man you stole, his heart will still be with the one he wants, he may dig you for sometime but will definitely go back to that person he yearns for.

  Buike even promised Joyce that he would leave his wife and kids ( Another  lie, some men can lie shaa ) and be with her if she accepts him back, I have told my friend Joyce to stay away from him or Benny, yesterday I heard he went to her shop and when dustbin people arrested Joyce for throwing something by the road-side, she said he immediately jumped into the matter and settled them, told her that he'd rather be dead than see anyone hurt her, I pray she stays away from this man,  I seriously don't feel good about this man, I hope I won't be called bad and jealous again later shaa but me no fit gbensh gbola wey don gbensh my friend shaa... ko possible 

Advice your friend to leave married men alone!

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FROM FRIDAY NIGHT POST

''Is so long ago I visited this site maybe like 4yrs ago b4 I left naija, I remember many things about this site ooo... When we created Abuja WhatsApp group, Hangout, Las Vegas, go out in groups to have fun...I remember SALT, Tosin, one yeye old ngweke then and one girl wey dem dey form les 🤣🤣..

 My looks change and too fresh to even make my brother confess at the airport when he came visiting.. God u big oooo🙌🙌. I remember how them try bully me then say I no get money, say I drink for club drop 1k...chai this life is funny oooo.... I remember when them go dey open people chapter for the WhatsApp group, how them even won take the group of Stella... this life ooo.. chai! 

The beautiful story is that life is a journey... Now am a Lecturer in an International University abroad doing absolutely great and a BIG ZADDY😁😁.. God don butter my bread ooo...Chai! STELLA GOD BLESS UR HUSTLE.

Congratulations......Sorry about what you went through in the Whatsapp group...I am not Innocent oh, i get my own for body and I know and sometimes try to check myself..I am happy that you are doing so well...Are you still single? message me privately, i have the perfect wife for you.

Congrats BIG ZADDY.......LMAO

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NOT A CHRONICLE

''Great time of the day Stella. This post is not a chronicle per say. I just want to ask BVs how to manage this situation.

My first child is scheduled to start school this September. I will say I have an exceptionally strong bond with my kids. So him beginning this new phase of life, will be new ground for us. For those who have walked this path, how did you handle it? I know he is going to cry and maybe throw tantrums a lot. But watching him cry really gets to me. Monday is coming and I'm dreading taking him to school and walking away.

He really can't talk and has never really been around children before. For the first time, he will be alone without his mom.

 Are there anything we can do to ease the transition?
He is 3years and 3 months and just starting Nursery 1
Parents in the house that have walked this walk, please your input is welcome.

Just have a strong mind and drop him and dont look back....

You need to pay special attention to your child.....He cannot talk at 3 years, 3 months?Hmmm that is not normal at all and you need to seek help.....I have seen a lot of kid snd three years is the talk talk stage where they question everything.

Why has your child never been around children before at 3 years? you didnt register him for play groups?such things are really important

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Sophie's Skincare Corner

 Body Butters Vs. Body Oils

Hey there, skincare enthusiasts! Let's dive deep into the world of body butters and body oils, weighing their pros and cons for your precious skin.

Body Butters:

Picture this: body butters are like a cozy, warm hug for your skin. They're thick and creamy, perfect for those extra-dry days when your skin is craving some serious hydration. They're like that comforting, chunky sweater you can't wait to put on during dry season or winter. They are thick and heavy, making them perfect for dry skin. They provide deep, long-lasting hydration that can combat even the driest patches.
The thick consistency forms a protective barrier on your skin, shielding it from harsh environmental factors. Applying body butter feels like a pampering spa treatment. It's like wrapping your skin in a velvety embrace.

Cons:
Heavy Feel: Some may find body butters a bit heavy or greasy, especially in hot weather.
Longer Absorption Time: They take a bit more time to absorb compared to oils.

Body Oils:
Body oils are like your cool, laid-back friend who's always up for an adventure. They're lightweight, absorb quickly, and leave your skin with a beautiful, natural glow, without feeling greasy.
Body oils can often multitask as massage oils or even hair treatments.

Cons:
Less Intense Hydration: They might not provide the same level of moisture as body butters, making them less suitable for very dry skin.
Regular Reapplication: Oils may need more frequent reapplication to maintain hydration.
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N50k BUSINESS GIVEAWAY RECIPIENT GIVES UPDATE

The Recipient bought a bag of ground nut with the Business giveaway fund.....

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