MONDAY In House News..

Motivational Monday hailings to you all!!!

IN HOUSE MEMO

I Salute and hail and greet...

I hope you had a good weekend and started off the new week in a positive motivationally inspiring mood? IT IS WELL!!!

So the goodies continue this Monday and then we move!

If your name is on this list, please send your acct details with proof of your comment to luvundying@yahoo.com

THE N50k RECIPIENTS ARE......

Justyswt

Daddy GO pikin

Esther Okoro

Acenene

Chilove Peter

Exco

LilyAngel.

Rhapso

Beautiful Soul

Arike

Stella maris baby

Neat cut and designs

Iyaa kosi

Poshscents

Rose

Sisibrowniecakes

HF Beddings

babyboosky

glossymart

Gladys

The list is complete for 20 people, and the next giveaway will be in October. I still have about 17 names from the last list and removed the names of those who got the 100k each............

We will settle that when we get to the next giveaway.... If you remember that your name is on the list, then dont apply again....

The giveaway ends in December so i will definitely ask for more names.. So 66 more BVs will get 50k each

N100k DONE AND DUSTED ......

1- BV ChardeyAlde -money sent and acknowleged
2- BV Game Mistress - money sent and acknowleged
3- BV Nezzy Nwachukwu - money sent and acknowleged
4- BV Mide money - money sent and acknowleged
5- BV Fatee- money sent and acknowleged
6- BV Pinky- money sent and acknowleged
7- BV OkiRoyalty
8- BV Joy- money sent and acknowleged
9- BV Flawless  -money sent and acknowleged
10- BV Metoyou - money sent and acknowleged

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.

Phew!! It's crazy in my household this period, I am experiencing motherhood on a totally different level. Kudos to every woman.

Finding out I was pregnant came as a shock and really rattled me because I had  found a working routine for my household and having a new baby would  change everything and it really did.
I took a long break from homeschooling and tried my best to prepare my kids for the arrival of their sister by showing them birthing videos and videos of new born babies.
My first day at home after the arrival of the baby was very emotional, my kids were excited to see their sister at last ( the hospital did not allow children in).

My kids had a lot of questions like "mommy was she born with clothes on", " why is she yellow", " why is she a girl", " why is she crying", " where are her teeth", " can she play ball with us now" and my 2 year plus was more concerned about why the baby had no blood on her like the birthing videos we had watched.

I answered all questions to the best of my ability, allowed them carry their sister while they were sitting and I settled in, this marked the end of the first day and the beginning of a new dawn for me.


WOW; congrats!!!!

Welcome to Motherhood on another level....

Wait, you showed your kids birthing videos? How? You showed them just the bloodied baby or the birth channel? ha!!!

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CHARACTER ASSASSINATION

One mistake you should never make in life is to allow yourself to be recruited by someone, to hate another person who hasn't wronged you.

Hear this:  “ We must avoid taking hasty conclusions because of what others are saying about someone else.."

What people say about others, says a lot about them. I am repeating this more directly: The things you say about others, say a lot about you!

 I can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to see in others.

Character assassination is a pervasive and destructive phenomenon that is found everywhere.

 You find it in families, places of worship, organizations or workplaces, etc. 

 Character assassination is the deliberate, malicious, unjustified and sustained effort to damage the reputation or credibility of an individual or group. 

Character assassination is the slandering of a person or group usually to destroy public confidence in that person or group. 

 “Character Assassination” is the act of lowering one’s character in a bid to ruin the character of others. 

Some people take maximum delight in ruining others' reputations. This set of people has what I will like to call *‘Destructive Tendencies’*. They oil their ego by pulling other people down. PhD (pull him down). 

False allegations are the most chronic form of mental abuse. When people can’t kill your dreams and purpose, they will try to assassinate your character. There are some people whose spirit will always irritate their demons! Once they realize hating isn’t working they start telling and spreading lies about you. People are assassinated once but ‘Character Assassination’ kills daily! Character assassination is a form of emotional violence against others.

Someone once said, “A friend of my enemy is my enemy.” One of the things that hinder us from living a fulfilling and inclusive life is bringing past biases and sentiments into present relationships. A friend of your enemy is not necessarily your enemy; it all depends on intentions and contributions

Jehovah God can use your enemy’s friend to bless you!`

 The 7 critical ‘DON’Ts' you need to guard yourself against.

Refusing to get trapped in them will help you live an unbiased, productive and fulfilled life. and they are;

1. Don’t conclude people for reasons others say of them: Never draw up conclusions based on what others tell you about someone. It is a lack of social intelligence that makes people conclude others based on what other people say about them. I know you’ve heard about emotional and financial intelligence, but there is something called social intelligence. This is the kind of intelligence that keeps you sane even when others are trying to pollute your mind against someone else until you have thoroughly confirmed the veracity of the claims before you. Judges are trained to have this kind of intelligence to avoid biased judgments.

 2. Don’t inherit other people’s enemy: It is a total lack of education and enlightenment when you automatically make your friend’s enemies your own. Don’t make people your enemies just because they are not on good terms with your friends.

3. Don’t use your children as weapons of war:

Yahweh Elohim can use your enemies to bless your children Stop using them to fight those you don’t like. Your children will need to discern their enemies for themselves; never use your parental influence to make your children hate others. You may often need to guard them with their choice of friends but never plant the seed of discord in the heart of your children against someone else.

 4. Don’t gang up with others to hate someone: Don’t join the majority to hate someone – you may realize that the person has no offence. Someone said, “If you don’t see it with your own eyes, or hear it with your ears. Don’t invent it with your small mind and share it with your big

 mouth”. Never join the multitude to hate someone else.

5. Don’t be used as a weapon in other people’s battles: It is not every battle that you must involve yourself in. Refuse to be used as weapons in other people’s battles. When people fight dirty, refuse to take sides. Observe deeply before concluding finally.

 6. Don’t hate people just because they don’t behave as you: That someone is not your tribe doesn’t make them your enemy. It is a waste of education if the only people you like are those that are like you. The greatest proof of our education is in how we respond to people whose opinions are different from ours. People who think their opinions are superior to others are most prone to overestimating their relevant knowledge and ignoring chances to learn more.

The people who don’t think like you are your greatest source of enlightenment. It is normally people that are not like us that help us grow the most. Companies that had maximized growth are those that value diversity and inclusion.

 7. Don’t judge people until you know the whole story: Someone once said, “Beware of the half-truth. You may have gotten hold of the wrong half”. Don’t judge other people’s choices without understanding their reasons.

If people say something bad about you or judge you as if they know you, don’t easily get affected. Remember this, dogs bark if they don’t know the person. People who are intimidated by you talk about you with hopes that others won’t find you so appealing. 

Stay away from people who talk bad about others daily; this kind of people carry a negative spirit, and a negative spirit is contagious. The real problem is not that they are unhappy with others, but they are unhappy with themselves.

Stop the destructive habit of talking about people behind their back. Talking badly about someone else while they aren’t there to defend themselves says more about you than the person you’re talking about. When you have issues with people, try and discuss them with them. Stop discussing it with others. Someone once said, “Don’t talk about me until you have talked to me”. Stop spreading false information and rumours about others. 

Rumours are carried by haters, spread by fools and accepted by idiots! Stop creating walls of contention, rather help build bridges of understanding among people.

You will get there.

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