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Friday, September 01, 2023
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Some may not like the idea of dating a single mom while some may see it as no big deal. I once dated a single mom with a child of about 7yrs. Though at first, she told me it was her younger brother but the striking resemblance is so strong not to believe it's her son.
ReplyDeleteIt was friends who drew my attention saying, do I know my woman is 'After one'? Even though I had suspected, I gave her the benefits of doubt. So when she came back from work that day, I politely asked her to be truthful to me that it won't change anything about the way I have loved her. It was at that point she started by saying, ''Well, a child is a child and I couldn't have aborted or thrown him away. He's my blood and my son.''
I embraced both her and her son. I took good care of the boy and his schooling. The young boy respected me so much and sees me like a father.
One day, I came back from work and she said to me that her boy said ''if we don't get married, he won't be happy and won't accept any other person''. I asked her if he really said that and she answered yes. I asked again, what was the reason for saying so? She said, he told her he loves me & how I am taking good care of them and all that.
I smiled and wondered how a boy at that age could be talking about marriage.
What did he knows about marriage?
Though our path later came to an end and we both took our separate ways. This is one memory in life I found so difficult to erase from my heart for the so many reasons associated with it.
Few months ago, a friend of mine who later found out his fiancée he's about to get married to is a single mom, categorically told her never to mention anything about the boy in his presence or bring him any day to his house if she really wants the marriage to go on.
His woman though wasn't happy at that decision, took the little boy to her parents and kept him there while she visits and take care of him by providing his needs.
Eventually, they got married and a year after she conceived and gave birth. After few months of nursing the new born, my friend told his wife that it's now time to go and bring the young boy into their family. The wife couldn't held back the joy of hearing that.
Apparently, my friend wanted his own child first before taking care of another man's child. His choice and I respected that and have no issues with it when he finally told me it was his reason.
So currently, he's taking care of both boys and like he said to me, he told the wife on no account should there be preferential treatment on them. That both of them are now his kids and will be treated nicely and equally.
Finally, in all I had written so far, this is my candid advice to men who have chosen to date a single mom. Please see and treat her child like your own. A mother will never throw her child away cos she met you.
Every child need a father. It's no fault of theirs not to have the presence of one in their life at the moment. Remember, you weren't forced to love or date a single mom. So why try to separate them????
If she's sweet and good for you, why disassociate yourself from her offspring?
When that child eventually grow up, he or she will never forget who fathered them and how you treated them. They will surely know the story and what really happened.
Little error above on that line in paragraph 8, *few months ago a friend told me......
DeleteThank you for sharing
DeleteThis is a very beautiful piece, I love it
DeleteYour friend is a jerk
DeleteSo kind of you. Humans are different. If I have a child. No man will choose me and leave my child. If you love me and don't love my child. Gbago agbago.
Delete*Dissociate
DeleteNo be today you begin live with woman wey you never pay anything on her head.
DeleteBetter don't have a child and think one man is going to marry you with that child! Is your cross to bear not any man's perogative! I am a woman, and I will not be accepting anyone's baggage in the name of love.
DeleteGood evening
ReplyDeleteNothing much is happening here jare but I am sure gonna make the best outta it
Btw, I have finished Wura and patiently waiting for its new episodes
Make I kukuma try finish this secret invasion jare
I like that the episodes are not long sha
Goodnight!
TGIF Baybie 🥳🎉
ReplyDeleteGot home a while ago and I'm currently doing laundry 🧺🧺 and making small pepper sauce with fried turkey
I will prolly meet up my goons in one local joint when done,this lady does wonders with dried catfish and vegetables sauce,so yummy 😋😋
It's EPL Friday night football Luton town vs West ham also it's Roma vs Milan in seria A tonight
Smackdown live comes later tonight, John Cena returns to the blue brand tonight,also the tributes continues for Bray Wyatt! RIP Bray
Get groovy jiggy darlings 🥳🎉🍾
Enjoyment mistress 😍😍
DeleteEnjoy yourself enjoyment babe. Just hearing about Bray Wyatt's death. Sad! May his soul rest in peace.
DeleteThere are many different times of prayer. Among all of them, midnight prayers effectively handle all forms of issues that can affect you as a believer. No matter what you are going through in life, it is essential to take some time to do effective midnight prayers over that issue and seek God’s breakthrough
ReplyDeleteThe power of midnight prayers can never be overemphasized. The midnight hour is a very sensitive time to pray. It is a time when you can take charge of situations and circumstances. At this time, when everyone else is asleep, find time to speak to God.
Off to vigil.
GOOD NIGHT MY SDK FAMILY.
Thank you big mama. Be safe ❤️
DeleteSluttychic.
I agree with you, Big Mama. Have a nice time in God's presence.
DeleteThe Bible didn’t put anytime for prayer
DeletePray whenever you want
Someone prayed at midnight and goes round preaching same to others
I don't joke with midnight prayers o,e get why?
DeleteIs this biblical? Are you making traditions of men truth of God? Prayer is a form of communication and God wants us to communicate with him anytime day , midnight activities was primarily for unbelievers which has been brought into Christianity, stop making it look like it’s Gods way, it’s not
DeleteWe should be having church services at midnight then.
DeleteMy God is same at all time of the day and able to hear and help me whenever I call on his holy name.
My God created time BUT He is not limited by time. He answers prayer of faith offered anytime of the day. It is to each and everyone of us according to our faith.
DeleteIf you believe that your midnight prayer will be effective, then pray it with faith and you will receive answers. If you believe that your day prayer will be effective, then go ahead and pray it with faith, you will be answered.
Without FAITH it is impossible to please God, not the TIME of the prayer pleases God.
There is also the idea of Importunity prayer - constant and insistent demand in the place of prayer. If you have an issue stealing your sleep and joy, engage in this type of prayer. It is based on the scriptural verses of the wicked judge and the poor woman coming to him for justice (read it up).
You embark on this prayer in watches i.e 6am, 9pm, 12am, 3am, 6am, 9am, 12pm. It is either you receive speedy answers or the prayers changes you to align with the Will of God .
First Friday night in the month of September, just back from work. Just here reading old posts and looking at some pictures.
ReplyDeleteThis uniabj must be a crazy school, in the era of renewed hope a federal uni is collecting 286k post a postgraduate diploma course. Certificate that one cannot use to get a job mtcheww mtcheww mtcheww. Everything is so fake , the online design fee is different from what you are asked to pay when you go for stamping of receipt.
ReplyDeleteI will leave this money that I jave paid and leave this program. With such gees one is still not understanding what lecturers are teaching 😂😂😃😃😏😩 SDK please post
Stella, I'm sorry I'm the anon that dropped the comment, please find a place in your heart to forgive my foolishness.
ReplyDeleteI don't even know what made me drop that silly comment. And I promise never to do that again to you or anyone else, please forgive me . It's just a reflection of my bitter self
Nice!
DeleteBitterness is never an option at all
You are forgiven obviously
Bitterness that is not her fault? You sha have mind and entitlement mentality mtcheww mtcheww mtcheww
DeleteIf you also troll The Lecturers or Columnists in the morning shouting 'copied copied" you better apologize.
DeleteChange your ways because it's not just a blog, colored candles dey corner here too.
I have lots of materials from The stable Vicky Posh brings the teachings from, basically when I was learning how to fix in my sense of humor into contexts while delivering motivational speeches as a grand side hustle that time😂💃
but I'm pretending to be a student too.
From lagos to Port Harcourt,I have deets.
Even many jokes and relationship 😂 super stories👆, I know the arena, will never yab or cast anyone who dubs.
LET THE GOODIES AND KNOWLEDGE GO ROUND.
Be good 🤗🤷
Use your id maybe I will help you beg SDK, Una go dey hide under anon to write rubbish because you know SDK no dey vex for long, make I just no talk wetin dey my mind
DeleteQuit being bitter. It will do you more harm than good.
DeleteWhat you posted is so wrong, maybe you're new here but too many of us have benefited a lot from Stella, she's a giver, get to know people before judging them, may God forgive you
DeleteImagine if Stella did not curse you. That is how you will continue this your bitterness here. Use your ID for this apology. We all know Stella. Kind and forgiving. She will reverse the curse tomorrow. Go and sin no more.
DeleteAh.....thank God you've maybe truly repented.
DeleteStella, Continue being you momma with the heart of gold. I'm a testifier through your good heart and the beautiful angels on the blog. God bless you real good Stella.
Zaram and game mistress, wetin be Una own! Na everyone get ID? Or are you guys Stella's mouthpiece??
Delete20:21: It is poverty, hunger and miserable unfullfilment that made you drop that comment mai dia, since you say you don't know what made you do it. Because if you have achieved anything in your life you wouldn't be hanging like a cobweb chooking mouth in how people choose to give or not give THEIR OWN MONEY!!!!
DeleteThe smelling entitled audacity.
Schools are resuming,my mind is beating,may God provide for us single parents and all parents.It must end in praise.
ReplyDeleteAmen. Parents too should endeavour to take their kids to schools they can easily afford, not everything be pepper dem, my kid is going to British Columbia international school,but Una dey owe school fees, Una go want pay school fees Una no go dey rise. My neighbor has been running around because of school fees, she confided in me that she would have changed the school as they're not even teaching them more than what other schools they termed as mushroom school are teaching, but becyshe doesn't want her sister in-law whose kids are also attending the school to laugh at her, dem dey use am do pepper dem, I that God for my child's school o, they're really trying and school fees is very moderate, it's even own by a church but my neighbor said it's like public school
DeleteGood evening y'all
ReplyDeleteIt's been an emotional day for me. Just on my bed now watching bbnaija All stars.
🤗🤗🤗
DeleteOn the queue for some kiddies' back to school stuff, was supposed to have been pushed out 2 weeks ago.
ReplyDeleteGuess, logistics failed them.
Me wey no dey queue before🤔😤🤨
It's alright.
Will read comments.
Raining here since this afternoon. The weather is so cold and at a time like this, I miss my home and bed. Sleeping on a double padded cartons in one of the rooms at the site for the past one week is disturbing. I hardly sleep cos I feel so uncomfortable. The tiles are even too cold to sleep on but I'm used to this lifestyle when works calls.
ReplyDeleteAll we're hustling is for the money to make a better living and family, most importantly to save our children from the sufferings and poverty we ever went through in life.
Teejay, you told us last week of the serenity and how the environment is just wonderful, that you will even retire in that part of the country.
DeleteIt sounds like you did not prepare properly for the trip. Use the experience as a learning opportunity. I hope things get better.
My niblings came to spend d holiday with us
ReplyDeleteThese few days hav bn noises upandown
I came baq from.journey dis evening and i forgot they were around n dropped my wig on bed, the youngest ones among them Were about to cut it with scissors and d eldest one stopped them
Little was cut though but not dat obvious.
Immediately i heard them shouting u hav cut aunty's hair, it never occured to me it was my wig. I could hear one dragging dat it is nt aunty's "head", that it's granny "head"
It was wen they brought it i knew it was my "head" they wanted to cut, without seeing d damage they had caused i started crying
They were just watching me
I gathered all three of them, sat on the floor with them, i instructed them to start crying with me dat they have destroyed my wig
Walahi, no b small cry
They cried for almost 1 hour before i released them.
My mum and my sis (their mum) that went to market met all of us crying that they hav spoilt my wig oh
My mum had to beg me to release them and they promised never to use scissors to cut anything again
As i am typing now, there is peace in d house and neighbors asked if they hav gone baq to their base
All of dem don sleep by force
They didnt even eat supper
Ps: I must cook delicious food for them for breakfast tomorrow
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DeleteU be agbaya aswear
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DeleteMay God forgive u
Haha.
DeleteSweet Comedy.
Include sweetened cereal with lots of peak milk.
The love will be loud.
Chai 😂😀😂😄😂🤣. Who won the crying competition
DeleteYou mean you made those kids to cry for almost one hour before releasing them? Chai🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAgbaya buruku🤣🤣🤣🤣, see me rolling on the bed.
Delete🤣🤣
DeleteThis got me laughing
Delete@morayo
DeleteI did oh
Their wahala na pro max10¹¹
Lol
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂
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DeleteI laughed ooo😂😂😂 chaii ,you na OG I swear kids ehh , poster yesterday look at this sometimes methods like this works , if you beat them with they do you ll kill them, meanwhile I can't stop laughing ooo😂😂
Delete😀😀😀😀😄
Delete😂 😂 😂 Very funny
DeleteBeen using Knorr for a long time, and I decided to copy my friend Maggie,omo my husband has been complaining of my food I had to switch back asap, I wonder if it's cos he's used to the former taste
ReplyDeleteMaggie Star + Larsor 🐔 chicken seasoning = Ordinary knorr taste.
DeleteShhhh🤫
Knorr chicken is good but try Chicken flavour, you won't touch know again, that thing is so underrated.
DeleteChicken flavor is not underrated anything, it's too sweet and hard like brick, ordinary knorr do it for me.
DeleteAnon 21:20 true
DeleteSwitch back to Knorr recently too,and I can say it's worth it.
Deleteyou and me na same oh. I don't know the best alternative to knorr. a pack is now 1k, I want something cheaper
DeleteI am slowly moving away from these types of seasoning and just sticking to natural herbs and spices. The chemical taste was messing with my taste buds. I figured if our ancestors cooked without them and their food was good, then why do we need them.
DeleteTerra is underrated sha
DeleteAnon 4:30, me too. I wish we weren’t both anons so we could discuss natural herbs and spices. I have learnt so much in 6 months of using them. What blends are your favorites?
DeleteI was Standing under the scotching sun looking for keke, i had spent almost 30mins stil keke no fit carry me, some almaajari children came to beg me for money and i snapped at them. I felt bad though, but they came baq again begging for money.
ReplyDeleteI told them if they could stop keke (tricycle)for me i would give them money. They must work for d money fa
No b small thing, like six of them come dey help me find keke o
I didnt stay long n keke stopped for dem and i entered, the keke think say na all of them they go...
I sha gave them 300naira for the job done
Children are spirits.
DeleteKnow this and know peace.🤗
Thanks. You try. At least dem work small
DeleteAwww
DeleteGifty
Nice
DeleteAt least they worked for the money.
School will be resuming soon, God please help us.
ReplyDeleteDon't entertain fear, what you are scared of will come to pass.
DeleteStart making declarations of faith, what you expect in faith will come to pass. Read these: Psalms 23, Phil. 4:19, 2nd Cor. 9:8, 2nd Cor. 8:9.
Say after me:
My God has supplied all my NEED according to His riches in glory.
He has supplied the N500,000 I need to pay my children's school fees, books, clothes and food.
He has made all grace, every favour and earthly blessings abound towards me, so that in all situations, I have everything I need.
The works of my hand is blessed and multiplied.
Let this confession be your companion morning, noon and night. Each time that fearful thought come up, counter it with the confession of faith. You will testify.
Thank you anonymous, I will do as u say God bless 🙏 u.
DeleteI am just here jare..
ReplyDeleteI am back from work..
Loneliness want finish my ass..
Ohh God I need a real companion..2023 pls don't pass me by..
I have being celibate for almost two years now..
My missing rib biko bia osiso🙏🙏🙏
Goodluck. I have given up. I had another heart break 3 days ago. My heart is so heavy I haven't been able to cry. Just lying on my bed for days, not eating, not working, just trying hard to breathe. I am exhausted. I'm finally broken. I wonder if I will ever be normal again. God please, if you won't give me a man of my own, can You at least give me a child. If you are not tired of hearing me cry, then maybe you should harden my heart because I have zero zeal for anything anymore.
DeleteHow you be woman and asking for kissing rib? You better mind a woman show up for you🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI hope this Christmas is a joyful one for you.
Stop crying over a man. Not worth it. I can understand you wanting a child tho . God will wipe away your tears it shall end in praise for you.🙏.
DeleteI guess we're all built different.
DeleteMan is the last thing I can ever cry for.
Far more beneficial to cry if my phone spoils or my dress easier.
Man ke?
Pls who knows how to blend natural spices for stew and jollof. Im confused on the right ratio for coriander, flennel, ehuru , bay leaves to use. If there are other spice combos I can add, kindly share.
ReplyDeleteThese things depend on the amount of food you are cooking. The rule of thumb is to start small and add progressively as you taste to gauge the flavour.
DeleteRemember that dried herbs are stronger than fresh ones.
Ehuru for jollof rice?
DeleteActually secrets to the best barbecue or stock
DeleteGrind them separately and store in different cans.when u cook experiment with the ration you will find your result.this is so because everyone has different tastebud.find what works for you and calculate from there….I don’t blend my bay leaf because it’s has strong flavor and can overshadow the taste of other spices.
DeleteNo where to go enjoying uninterrupted light for the past three days.
ReplyDeleteLucky you
DeleteGosh. In 20fckn23 no less. If ppl on Antarctica can have internet and uninterrupted electricity, why the heck can’t an oil giant nation like Nigeria have the same. They acting like consistent electricity is freaking rocket science. How many countries are now doing space exploration and much of Africa is still in the dark. Gosh, I just despise African leaders, no vision and no strategy. Like a fart in the wind, just useless and then it blows away. Mtsscchhwww
DeleteHonestly it's so annoying making things difficult for people, see wifi in other countries very cheap but here you spend money that's it's not even enough for you ,you stay awake from 11 pl to enjoy YouTube it's so annoying
DeleteEkale gbogbo Ile oo. Someone should watch this kdrama "The good bad mother The movie is so interesting . See you guys tomorrow got some movies to watch here byebye 💃
ReplyDeleteHere thinking what to do since I slept almost all day.
ReplyDeleteAvoiding screens as I have been disturbed by headache all week long.
My eyes dey shine like touch light.
Excellent day peeps 👌
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DeleteBonsoir Blogfam! Just feeling Soweto remix featuring Rema! I can't get enough of the beat and flute, what a masterpiece ❤️
ReplyDelete💃💃💃💃
DeleteThat’s exactly how I feel about Mnike by Tyler ICU and Burna Boy’s Sitting on Top of the World. Those have been my summer jams all summer long.
DeleteEnjoy your song!
I'm crazy about Burna boy! Love his songs,my hubby is crazier.
DeleteSeptember already. Soon it will be Christmas. 2023 has been a rough year for my students. I pray a breakthrough happens for them. May God have mercy on us all.
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