The Brouhaha between them seems to have a soft padded history but I dont know how it degenerated to her questioning his gender and he referring to her as an ahewo with the words ''has been known to be courtesan in her political and business dealings''
It is mess!!!
His memo reads
" In human interactions, two factors are sacrosanct, age and authority and even more so in the African context.
On both counts, Mma Florence is my senior"
"Indeed, if she were family, she would qualify as my late 94 year old mothers immediate junior sister, as none of my aunties are anywhere near her age and I don’t take that lightly. I recall a former federal minister, telling me that when he started secondary school at Lagos in 1952, Mma Florence the same year commenced training as an auxiliary nurse at Aba. Indeed, Mma Floxy as I fondly and respectfully call her, had aspired and contested the Ms. Nigeria pageant, while I was still a foetus, (she contested in April 1961 and I was born much later in September of the same year)"
"Earlier last year, she scoffed at a meeting I held at my residence to harmonize southern aspirants under the platform of the PDP, she was vexed she was not invited. I apologized to her, but made it clear she did not qualify to attend, as 1. She’s not a member of the PDP and 2, although she bears the honorific title of “Eka Iban”, in the strict sense, she’s neither Efik nor of southern Cross River origin. (She’s paternally from Atabong in Akwa Ibom State and maternally from Umuahia in Abia State).
That notwithstanding, she has served Cross River State, her State of residence, diligently to the acknowledgment of all, Mma Floxy has also served Nigeria well. At the onset of the Nigerian civil war in 1967, when I was barely 6 years old, she was already serving at the front lines. She was one of the few brave ladies reverentially referred to as the 'Commando Girls' for their exploits and services in times of a national crisis.
Thereafter, she’s been in the front lines of business and societal struggles, in Abuja, Lagos and of course Cross River State. Her resume in this regard is wholesome.
She has represented Cross River State at the Federal House of Representatives and the Nigerian Senate. She has been a Special Adviser to the President and has diligently carried out several responsibilities most of which remain classified.
Recently, she queried my gender, frankly, I’m pleased she’s not in a position to confirm as that would have been sacrilegious, but I am indeed a proud father of 3 biological children.
On both counts, Mma Florence is my senior"
"Indeed, if she were family, she would qualify as my late 94 year old mothers immediate junior sister, as none of my aunties are anywhere near her age and I don’t take that lightly. I recall a former federal minister, telling me that when he started secondary school at Lagos in 1952, Mma Florence the same year commenced training as an auxiliary nurse at Aba. Indeed, Mma Floxy as I fondly and respectfully call her, had aspired and contested the Ms. Nigeria pageant, while I was still a foetus, (she contested in April 1961 and I was born much later in September of the same year)"
"Earlier last year, she scoffed at a meeting I held at my residence to harmonize southern aspirants under the platform of the PDP, she was vexed she was not invited. I apologized to her, but made it clear she did not qualify to attend, as 1. She’s not a member of the PDP and 2, although she bears the honorific title of “Eka Iban”, in the strict sense, she’s neither Efik nor of southern Cross River origin. (She’s paternally from Atabong in Akwa Ibom State and maternally from Umuahia in Abia State).
That notwithstanding, she has served Cross River State, her State of residence, diligently to the acknowledgment of all, Mma Floxy has also served Nigeria well. At the onset of the Nigerian civil war in 1967, when I was barely 6 years old, she was already serving at the front lines. She was one of the few brave ladies reverentially referred to as the 'Commando Girls' for their exploits and services in times of a national crisis.
Thereafter, she’s been in the front lines of business and societal struggles, in Abuja, Lagos and of course Cross River State. Her resume in this regard is wholesome.
She has represented Cross River State at the Federal House of Representatives and the Nigerian Senate. She has been a Special Adviser to the President and has diligently carried out several responsibilities most of which remain classified.
Recently, she queried my gender, frankly, I’m pleased she’s not in a position to confirm as that would have been sacrilegious, but I am indeed a proud father of 3 biological children.
On the issue of me being indigent prior to being elected governor, I needn’t remind her or anyone my pedigree and that I self sponsored my elections even at that time of political uncertainty.
On a personal note, I stood in as her person of contact when she did liposuction, breast implant and upliftment, so I consider her somewhat of an aunt, a next of kin. Contrarily, Mma Floxy, has been known to be courtesan in her political and business dealings. All said, it will be a betrayal of my upbringing to be abusive or cast aspersions on such a personage. Politics should never be a platform that denigrates the ethos of respect to our elders. Thank You.
Donald Duke...
Former Governor, Cross River State.
On a personal note, I stood in as her person of contact when she did liposuction, breast implant and upliftment, so I consider her somewhat of an aunt, a next of kin. Contrarily, Mma Floxy, has been known to be courtesan in her political and business dealings. All said, it will be a betrayal of my upbringing to be abusive or cast aspersions on such a personage. Politics should never be a platform that denigrates the ethos of respect to our elders. Thank You.
Donald Duke...
Former Governor, Cross River State.
All shades of wrong,from both sides,these are grandparents 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteWhat with all these age shaming?, is she older than the President, abeg let 'Mma Bakassi be"
DeleteSaid it here yesterday on the Prof. Soyinka's Post. Older people should learn to avoid insulting younger people expecting no reply as in the olden days.
DeleteTimes have changed.
Me, I am counting towards 60. I dey let younger people be o. Some can even add beating to their replying insult.
Word.
Mama has been there done that! Liposuction and breast implants? So did she also wear faja and did the post op massages? Wow!!! They must have been very close if she chose him as person to contact while having cosmetic surgeries!
DeleteIf Mama say she no go give pikin food, the pikin go cry loudly.
DeleteMao Akuh
🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦
ReplyDeleteNa family issue, Dem go settle am
Exactly...
DeleteNah so. We are minding our business
DeleteDem use big grammar sey abuse themselves. Una go dey alright last last.
Delete😲 serious mud slinging! Toh, it is well.
ReplyDeleteSee somebody father, mother ,
ReplyDeleteGrandad and Grandmother
Mama bakasi 1
Donald Duke 5
Just wow! Why will these old cats takes a dig at each other? Let them settle their ish mbok!
ReplyDeleteIye! Iye!! Iye!!! Though I enjoyed the brief biography of Mama Florence but why use these kinds of condescending words to describe someone! Na wa oh. I expected more from Donald Duke, e fall hand abeg
ReplyDeleteHe no fall hand. Florence should have respect her age when engaging him.
DeleteTake me low and we both go lower. When we are done, I jump into the pool and then the shower.
Lol..
DeleteDo you know what it means to question a man's gender?
That's calling him gay..
Straight men and men pretending to be straight won't take such lightly
It is a case of gbas gbos
DeleteShe’s not entirely wrong in calling him gay. The word is bisexual actually because he swings both ways. Just like her, she swings both ways. They will settle it in their secret cult meeting.
DeleteAnon did he swing with u?? U don’t say such unless u can prove it!!
DeleteOmo you look for insult, small pikin go use respect insult you real good.
ReplyDeleteWahala
ReplyDeleteWahala Wahala Wahala
Delete🤣
Ife onye cho ka ofu!
ReplyDeletePerson insult you, like him no insult you be this response of Mr Donald Duke. Next time Mrs Florence should respect herself.
ReplyDeleteYou see Donald comeback now not good at all, ,"courtesan" na high class ashewo. He also saying, she's not from cross River.
Respectfully insulted
DeleteFlorence na big time ashewo. She pimp girls to politicians. Abuja people sabi now. It's an open secret.
DeleteReminds me of when we lawyers say "with all due respect..." The next thing that follows that statement is not always good. Donald Duke be acting all civil while throwing jabs. But I guess she asked for it. All is fair in love and war after all.
DeleteWo na who don chop beleful dey join matter with these ones
ReplyDeleteGrandma and grandpa behaving like teenagers, na wa ooo
ReplyDeleteWhy did she had to question Mr. Duke's sexuality in the first place? Mrs Florence Ita-Giwa threw the first punch and the man gave her a smack down.
ReplyDeleteThat's what you get when you go looking for people's trouble. She should have respected her old age.
Well, they both knew what transpired between them leading to this public insult from both parties.
Wahala no dey finish
ReplyDeleteWhat a subtle way of shading an elderly person...lol
ReplyDeleteSo subtle ehn 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAs in eh, this is finishing.
DeleteAn example of if you drag me to the mud, I will dig oil on your case.
ReplyDeleteLet them bring it on, they are both people I personally admire in different aspects and this won't stop it. Sometimes, we go through some things and another side of us shows up...that being said, I'm here for the drama.
Courtesan.. noted ✅
ReplyDeleteBaddies won't hear the last of this word from my mouth moving forward..
I go just dey hail dem..
"My one and honorary senior courtesan..."🙌
Greeting them as per espirit de corp abi?
Delete"All said, it will be a betrayal of my upbringing to be abusive or cast aspersions on such a personage." This, after that low blow... Donald Duke you be respectfully mudded our own Ita...cheii
ReplyDeleteHahahaha na that line off me.
DeleteWhy did she question his gender? But calling a woman an ashewo.... especially an accomplished lady to me does not make sense.
ReplyDeleteShe went for him first, she deserves any response. An accomplished lady should be mindful of her words,two can play the game
DeleteFelicity
And questioning his gender makes sense abi...just dey play.
DeleteShe that questioned his gender has forgotten that words on d street has been that she doesn’t have any “biological” child of her own, & d ex governor subtly shaded her by saying he fathered “3biological “children .well , she started it , so should be ready to take whatever he throws at her.
Deletelol see high class insult. Not supporting mama Ita but why do men find it so easy to call women Ahewo?
ReplyDeleteWhy do women find it easy to call men gay?
DeleteEven here on this blog I have been called gay cos I had a contrary view to some ladies, and it's very funny cos I'm one of the few here if not only one, that have declared myself a polygamous man.. but agenda must 'agend' anyway Lol
DeleteMakason,
DeleteSee. Na women dey call demsefs d name pass weneva dem quarrel.
Examples:
The name echoed during the brouhaha between Mrs. Bianca Ojukwu and Mrs. Obiano (that Anambra State ex Governor's wife. No man was involved in that incident.
Watch two women fight. They always want to strip each other and then body shame and ho shame the more naked person.
Majority of women verbal fights start or end with the A..., B..., H.. words.
Next time two women have verbal spar. Listen very well.
This is shameful!
ReplyDelete🎶 *rapping* How low can you go, how low can you go............
ReplyDeleteTwo adults,let the real drama begin
ReplyDeleteChai this is what I call hailings with insults.
ReplyDeleteAnyway,they're family so they'll be fine.
They should settle their differences out of social media abeg..
ReplyDeleteThey should not oo. They should continue on social media. Nigeria hard already, we need to be entertained by dem agbalagba entertainers
DeleteLane Milder, God bless you. We need the entertainment.
DeleteWomen are generally pretty but for a man to go this low hmm! Well old age go reach Everybody.
ReplyDeleteWhich low? You people are joking! If she went for his sexuality, then she deserves whatever she gets. Women don’t have the monopoly on being petty. What he even said is mild!
DeletePetty you meant? Pettiness is not an excuse for a woman of her age, she should know better.
DeleteWell, if you question a man's sexuality, you deserve any response you get.
ReplyDeletePolite insult
ReplyDelete'He wrote 'All said, it will be a betrayal of my upbringing to be abusive or cast aspersions on such a personage' but that was exactly what he did. What has liposuction, breast implant and all the other kekerike you wrote got to do with your quarrel? You should have stopped at she is nomore a member of the PDP and therefore cannot be invited to a PDP members-only meeting.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, two of you now belong to the same class.
She insulted him first simply because she was not invited to a meeting.
DeletePlease greet Onari for me. That woman is beautifully beautiful.
ReplyDeleteAnd yo say the list ould be embarrassed by the nonsense
DeleteHmmmmmmmn
ReplyDeleteThats how it's done. Not "idiot, bastard, thunder fire you there" your papa nor born you well" etc 😉 🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteWhen the going goes wrongly, this exactly what you get.
ReplyDeleteWhy shade to make a point
Hmmmmmmm. This is why like another BV up top said, I leave young ppl and their business alone. Poking nose in what does not concern you and lacing insults on others will come with any number of possible reaction. Mind your business and others will mind theirs. See this old woman’s business now on front street. Busybody old ppl are of the worst kind, just because you get long life doesn’t mean you have to be a part of everything. Take pleasure in watching the show and keeping your thoughts to yourself.
ReplyDeleteHe was only repeating what is a common knowledge.
ReplyDeleteMadam does not hide her lesbianism. But this man hides his homosexuality and that’s what’s paining him.
ReplyDeleteThis is a classic example of what is called "polite insolence".
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