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Monday, September 25, 2023
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This is the truth.
ReplyDeleteWhen people show you who they are, believe them. When a friend or trusted one becomes an enemy, acts like an enemy and talks like an enemy, that one was never a friend or trusted one to begin with. Treat them as an enemy that they are. Avoid them at all cost.
They only apologize when they realised that they are at the loosing end not because they are genuinely sorry. Forgive if you want to but give no access or friendship again, just wish them well and keep it moving. Give them a second chance at your peril.
Speaking from experience, this one was a trusted family member,who I trusted with my whole life, I never believed he could lie to me, let alone hurt me(I mean physically assault me, beat me up). He later apologized when he was warned by a much powerful person who was ready to deal with him. I still saw the hatred in his eyes while he was apologizing, I realized this one is apologising because he's scared of the person standing up for me not because he was remorseful. I forgave him but cut him off. When he wanted to forcefully establish contact, I made it very clear that forgiveness does not mean friendship again. Ogbeni stay your lane.
Once I move on from a thing on person . There is no looking back . I just forgive from a distance
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DeleteAllow an enemy back? Are you mad? Na question I ask o!
DeleteThe worsyis they can be persistent and forceful, looking for your contacts by fire by force.
Can't be overemphasized 👌👌. When someone shows you who they are, just take it that way no matter how they come pleading, crying or try to make up. They'll definitely strike back when they see they've gained your trust. Be watchful!!!!
ReplyDeleteOnce an enemy always an enemy no way back
ReplyDeleteStory of my late inlaw who was killed by his best friend. Always forgive people from afar e get why
ReplyDeleteI wish I can practice this, but I'm a softie. My weakness though.
ReplyDeleteI always forgive from afar, I will forgive you but I won't give you room to hurt me again. Whether you don repent or not, na between you and God.
ReplyDelete#facts Repent with God and pay it forwaez
DeleteHmmmm!God help me.
ReplyDeleteHmm , wisdom
ReplyDeleteI forgive & keep my eyes wide open & will never give you another opportunity to strike
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B
I think they are all rules to live by. I keep an easy disposition. But anyone who crosses me gets crossed out. The only person I'm mandated to forgive and still relate with is my wife. Anyone outside that, I can forgive you but that will be the end of ANY relationship you and I may have ever had.
ReplyDeleteI look out for the best in people. But when you turn out to be a disappointment...
The person you think offended you may have put up with worse offense from you and tolerated you. It’s not always about you. I had a huge business opening party with the congressman, chamber folks present. None of my so called friends showed up. When they have a non chargeable, non livelihood generating thing they get upset if you don’t show up but I remember thinking “so these folks don’t care enough to show up for me” but will show up if it was an Owanbe party. They hold grudges when you miss owambe but miss business openings and don’t see it as a big deal.
ReplyDeleteI try not to hold a grudge and avoid those who easily do. I stay away from unforgiving people. The sample prayer in the Bible makes it clear how serious it is. I am not talking of those trying to harm you physically or spiritually, those ones should be avoided in every way. I’m just talking of the “offenses will come” situations that don’t hurt anyone.
So what exactly are you saying? That you recall your friends not showing up shows that you are upset. Shush!
DeleteTelling someone you don’t know to “shush” says more about you than the Anon. It’s an open platform and everyone is free to express their opinion but wannabe dictators tend to have a pattern and manger of speaking!
DeleteAnon 18:55 it does not mean she is upset, just that she forgave but reevaluated the “friendship”. There are acquitances many mistake as friends until maturity sets in. Like we have clothes for gym and church and outing, some people are just in your life for your parties! Telling someone voicing their opinion just like you voiced yours to “shush” is classless and shows the kind of person you are. You can forgive without forgetting. Actions have consequences. If someone shows you who they are, better believe them for your mental health else you will invest in a situation-ship that is one sided.
DeleteForgive but never forget, that is wisdom and profitable to direct.remember one bitting twice shy.
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