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This is an update after this RIGHT OF REPLY
''I'm truly sorry for the insensitive call-out which l made sometimes ago, by calling you a scammer. Pls l am so sorry. I regret my actions by the choice of word (scammer) which l used, It was not intentional.l mistook you for someone else. I thought you have forgiven me. I didn't know you were still mad at me. Before God and man l can't call you such name. You are one of coolest people l have met in life.. it was when you didn't want to do video call that l became suspicious that the person behind the ID might be a different person entirely or a scammer.
If you had given me the opportunity to see your face at least to be sure of who l was talking with. I wouldn't have become suspicious to the extent of bringing it here.
I'm not a bossy lady as you pointed out. I'm afraid that you will snubbed me, that's why l didn't reached out to you all this why.
Pls forgive my mistakes on this apology. The grammar and spellings.
Pls find a place in your heart to forgive me. I'm truly sorry ''
Apology wearing coat and kork shoe..
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What do we call this now.
ReplyDeleteOGA OH 😒😒😒
All because of relationship. God abegii 😪😪😪
Babe you have low self esteem.. guy man no want you
DeleteBabe you fall my hand! What's with this apology? So that he will give you a second chance? Hmmm... If I'm the guy I'd pull an Alex Ekuboh on you.
DeleteGirl, dust yourself and keep it moving! He called you broken and a number of suble insults, are you blind?
Kai, love yourself please, you deserve better! Haba!!!
Are these back and forth replies written by someone trying to whine us because this doesn't make sense anymore? Madam shey kosi? You be small pikin? Please move on and stop acting desperate.
DeleteDo you know the meaning of being broke?
DeleteWait, I didn't even read where he gave reasons for not doing the video call. Madam calm down. Why didn't he do a video call with you can you guys explain?
DeleteMadam why so desperate?even this your right to reply reeks of desperado! Haba man
DeleteAwwwwwww
DeleteSomeone is in love. Bros on her behalf we equally ask you to forgive, and move the relationship from friendship zone to relationship zone. Reciprocate the love Ogbeni
ReplyDelete"Reciprocate the love ogbeni"
DeleteNa by force?
Abeg the Repliers should go and rest after this one. E don do. We don hear
Which kind love na by force you manipulate people to enter relationship with you and if they don't you call them scammer and still says he is the coolest person abeg Mr man better run for your life
DeleteThis zero self-esteem speaking not love.
DeleteMadam, move on. Don't force it
ReplyDeleteAbeg we are tired with this back and forth. Someone you have not even seen what he looks like is still one of the coolest person you have met...if it's not working no need forcing it please,two of you should just move on from this so that you will have peace and even us the bvs will rest from future chronicles. Oga please it have do like that,no reply ejoor
ReplyDeleteHahaha no reply oo, else na another epistle we go read. 🤣 Why does she want this uptight and too serious personality of a guy anyway??? Dude won’t give you his time oo so you better move on this woman.
DeleteOya,it haf do on top of this matter. Kilode gan? You people should go and settle this matter offline but pls,invite us to the wedding. 🥰🥂
ReplyDeleteBoth Parties Should pleaseeeee Forgive , Forget and Move on. If Anything dey, you guys will still reconnect. 😍
ReplyDeleteThis is messy 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
ReplyDeleteVery messy and the girl cannot even hear the disdain in his reply, she's apologizing.
DeleteDear poster,please rest love like friendship is not by force,the man no want u,is it untill he bathes u with hot water b4 u will receive sense?
ReplyDeleteMadam poster, give yourself small pride and move on gracefully.. all this apology this, apology that..
ReplyDeleteThe deed has been done. The young man feel pained even though he has apologised, he has clearly moved on. Didn't you see it from his epistle?
Pls move on and dont be too bossy and combative, control it on your next move when you chose to hunt on a dating platform.
You’re very very desperate contrary to what you claimed and also a clown 🤡 …
ReplyDeleteGbam. Imagine her cringy reply. Mtscheww
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣 una no go kill me for this blog 💀
DeleteI actually wish you both can drop your egos aside and intentionally work something out if you choose.
ReplyDeleteNo they shouldn’t. It’ll be a messy relationship. He already sees her as this bossy and combative woman. He has fragile ego. It won’t work out.
DeleteSinging @Davido's " I no fit beg for your love..."
ReplyDeleteDear poster. Please let this go. I didn't read all the post yesterday because it's too long so I can't tell if the man is right or not but babygirl, at this point; you are doing too much. If this man has an atom of bad boy in him, he will "chop you for free".
ReplyDeleteDear, I know you might be lonely and among all those coming your way, he's the only that you could consider. But please let him go. You are practically begging this man at this point and it makes you look extremely needy and desperate. Take time off everything dating for few months to regain yourself because you seem lost.
I really hope the right man who will adore you beyond your imaginations finds you very soon.
Worddd and Amen.
DeletePlease you guys should just try and see each other's face. That's how I was madly in love with someone online, the day I saw her face the infatuation died immediately because she wasn't my speck. Forget all those baritone and melodious voice over the phone. The feelings both of you are having fir each other is probably due to loneliness.
ReplyDeleteStella what now 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDelete😆 🤣 😂 😹
Apology wit plenty code.
Poster and her online friend please move on.
There is nothing really here for both of you.
Ifu ife mmadu na afu in the name of relationship. Stella make I borrow your words
"God abeg o"
Stella the way I usually really read and imagine the sound of your "God abeg o" in my head ehh I go jus dey laugh out loud anything I see it.
Just go knack am
ReplyDeleteMr man better run for your life she is not the kind of woman you wanted,don't let somebody manipulate you into a relationship it doesn't end well at least you have known ber now regardless of apology,apology my foot
ReplyDeleteLack of communication was the major problem.he probably didn't understand what you really wanted.its well.
ReplyDeleteYou spoke well and have acted mature.
ReplyDeleteAccepting responsibility for your actions and being accountable.
He will reach out..
I believe he will..
You guys might begin to engage in stuff after but please, don't force commitment/love.. let it grow..
Most men that promise love or marriage quickly are liars and deceivers..
Men are intentional being (logical), we're not controlled by impulse/emotions like women,. Our falling in love is a decision, it's a logical decision, it is why it's also hard for us to fall out of love after,.
Please, enjoy the process.. but make sure you don't displease yourself too.. do it because you want to, and cos he might probably do same for you..
Blessings
👍
DeleteBut still I will advise her to control her emotions for now because the relationship has not been defined. She sounds like someone that is already heartbroken over a relationship that is yet to kickstart.
DeleteGod forbid this level of desperation. I'm a divorced woman, parenting 3kids and I wear my hat with a feather in it. How you present yourself is how you'd get treated. Have some self respect, not pride... but self respect
ReplyDeleteLook for peacock feathers join too.
DeleteNo be only hat with a feather.
No vexes
16:54 Please wear that hat with jewels, with feathers, with gold dust, with everything, BECAUSE YOU ROCK! 🌹🔥💥
DeleteSelf respect is the GREATEST form of self love.
Hahahaha Mao Akuh you dey crazeee. Una too get mouth for this blog. 🤣🤣🤣 anon 16:54 is absolutely right about her statement.
DeleteThat man doesn't want you but you just don't get it. I hope when he succumbs out of pity and later leaves you high and dry you won't come back here with a chronicle and call all men scum like some of you do.
ReplyDeleteYou leave so little to be desired at this point. No mystery, allure or hunger left for a man to even desire a chase. Why are you so persistent? Why are you treating him like a treasure chest?
Take it from me, when a man wants you, he shows it and you, a woman will know. Men are very simple and not as complicated as some of you make it seem.
All the talk about you being bossy
and his keeping boundaries are just an excuse to move on easily from all these.
A lot of bossy ladies are married to men who adore them. If he likes you enough, people will call you bossy and he will tell them you are assertive, they will call you talkative he will tell them you have great communication skills. For all of the flaws, other people nag about, he will make excuses for you. They will tell him you are stingy he will say you are frugal.
That is how someone in love reasons. You can't tell them anything They would know your imperfections and still make excuses for you when others try to bring you down then maybe discuss it with you when you are both alone to address how to get it down.
This man couldn't care for a discussion or you both meeting each other to talk or see. You would do better to avoid him else you find yourself trying to make yourself small just to fit in with an imperfect being like yourself.
If you met online, chances are, he has other ladies in line he met on that site whom he talks to who might have caught his interest so he is focusing all his attention on them.
Wise words. You are indeed wise
DeleteNo need to drop further comment on my end. You’ve said it all @ words on Marble. 🙌🏾👏🏾 you’ve said it all. Such an intelligent write up from you. Poster read and digest this comment and read over and over whenever you feel the urge to reach out to him. Let that man go. He ain’t into you. Period.
DeleteWords on mable, thank you for this.
DeleteOn behalf of the man I say apology accepted but BYE BYE to you.
ReplyDeleteYou come run your mouth and lie here.
Ishhhh ,shior.
Welldone Poster.
ReplyDeleteIt is good you have apologised. Few people do so.
Whatever is said of what you and the man had going, it is good you have apologised. If you both get together again, best wishes. If you both don't, learn and use the experience in your next friendship, relationship, and marriage.
I am going to say this as respectfully as possible, but the two of you are weirdos!!
ReplyDeleteHow can you describe someone that you've admittedly only talked to online, and never met in person - in this manner? The man said you hardly converse, yet he ticks all your boxes and is the coolest person you know??? WTF!!!!
As for the man, yesterday's reply was so unnecessarily long-winded. You can just tell he is anal-retentive! You are weary of online encounters, yet willingly on an online dating site!
The both of you are exhausting!!
Hahahaha @ anal -retentive. 🤣🤣🤣🤣😁 Never heard of such words. God abeg oo. I’ve been laughing reading comments.😆🤣 same on you poster if you reach out to that guy again. Big shame on you.
DeletePoster, i guess you did not state everything in your first chronicle or maybe i missed that part you initiated a video call and he turned it down. I did not agree with you in your first chronicle of been heartbroken by who you never met, i also mentioned in his right of reply that he should keep it moving and avoid you. My darling let me tell you the truth, if you had initiated a video call and he turned it down like you stated here. Please avoid this creature. After examining his right of reply and you stating that you initiated a video call that was turned down by him, all i can smell is a narcissist and a time bomb. Please don't let anyone crush your self-esteem, SAY NO to any relationship that does not give you peace but stress. You must not remarry oh, it is better to live happily in your singleness than to be in a relationship or married to an emotionless, selfish and narcissistic being. Please enjoy this beautiful life, you even have
ReplyDeletekids. AVOID THIS GUY EVEN IF HE TRIES TO REACH OUT TO YOU, this is coming from a psychologist. I pray that God gives you a man that will love and cherish you as you desire. Stop beating yourself for nothing Nne.
Very well written
DeletePoster pls read and absorb this comment.
Another comment to read and process poster. Read this weller and drink water and close this chapter. There is NO relationship. And stop getting attracted to men who’s not available. This is something you shd look into and really work on. Why do you attract emotionless men??? He’s not into you yet you’re stressing yourself and in love with a man you’ve never met. Na wa for some of you women oo sho. If na me, I for don block am since. Self esteem and self respect is very important!!!! Work on yourself!!
DeleteThis is the sweetest thing to read today. I love it when people take responsibility. I really wish this man can accept her and they start their friendship gradually.
ReplyDeleteImagine life surrounds by love.
DeleteNa wah o, why are you forcing yourself on him? Trust me you need to move on, I know it's loneliness, but keep moving until you see someone that will love you genuinely.
ReplyDeleteThis guy doesn't have any iota of love for you, he probably has a lot of ladies he's interested in online that are taking his attention, a lot of online dating is scam.
Oh boy😄 See desperation at the top abi lonely at the top. Somebody play Asaka for me oooh
DeleteApology gone wrong.
Poster don't mind me.. I'm just catching fun. Don't take it personal.
Thanks for this new word.
ReplyDeleteAn anal retentive person is a person who pays such attention to detail that it becomes an obsession and may be an annoyance to others.
adjective -
excessively orderly and fussy (supposedly owing to conflict over toilet-training in infancy).
Well, I like people that pay attention to details.
DeleteSlim shaddy, his own is too much. You’ll get tired of people like him and resent him. Imagine the ridiculous long messages he wrote. Why can’t he just get straight to the point. He has a stick stuck up in his ass I swear.
DeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteMany ladies here are just mad cos poster apologized and took accountability..
Something they'll never do..
They're mad that she doing it might make men start demanding it and they rather die than be accountable for their actions Lol..
Make Una dey Una dey, poster chose to be wise, she don see say blind person no fit lead blind person from the comments in her first chronicle..
Let it go! Learn from this experience and use it for your future relationships/friendships
ReplyDeleteBia this woman, wetin you dey reply for? After the epistle the bobo wrote? Didn't you read it?!
ReplyDeleteAbeg who get oraimo cable for there!
Don't mind her, she wants to defend herself. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 You don enter one chance today
Delete...Everyone has spoken truth to you, but will you heed? For both the male and female in this situation, "When the flag is visible but RED is y'all's favourite colour"...
ReplyDeleteLeo inspired!
chai.
ReplyDeleteoh lady where's your self esteem? A man goes after what he wants with so much gusto, instead you re the one forming what I don't know when it's glaring that HE DOESN'T WANT YOU.
You both ain't compatible at all
Medicine after death.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous @17:24. May I have your contact? Preferably email.
ReplyDeleteApology wearing coat and kork shoe..
ReplyDelete😁😂🤣🤣🤣😁😂😅🙆🤦
Poster you are very funny.
Madam poster, I think I know who the guy in question is (I may be wrong tho)
ReplyDeleteYou met him here on Stella’s single and mingle abi?
Divorcee with 2 kids?
Anyway if he is the person I am talking about,
Dude is not the usual conventional kinda of guy ( very weird)
but Highly Intelligent ( Which could be why, he ticks a decent amount of boxes on your list even without meeting him in person)
I won’t lie to you, Oga is very addictive ohhhhh (lol)
Biko, for your sanity…..
Let him go!!!!!!!
In my opinion, if you must continue with him…..
It’s best you remain platonic friends,
And that is because he has a lot to offer (Not necessarily money, but he is well grounded/ knowledgeable)
But you see relationship matter, just forget about it (hahahhahahahah)
I wouldn’t want to cast aspersions on his person, because I am not certain he is the one you are talking about and also, irrespective of his flaws,
He is a good guy!!!!
But Truthfully…..
that guy’s plenty Baggage can make you go Nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And yeah, I understand you which is why I am taking my time to tell you this
Just came back from the previous post from the guy. Many comments said the guy doesn't love her, there is no chemistry, bla bla bla. Please how do you people espect someone to love a person when they have not seen physically. How do you people even fall in love? They are yet to establish common friendship and you guys are talking of love. No na. What we should be talking about here is likeness. Does he like her vibes? From their little interaction so far, does she appear/sound interesting to him? If yes, then they know what to do next. For now there can't be anything like love. Anyone one of them who thinks he/she is in love right now is simply experiencing what I call 'blind love' How can you love someone you know nothing about? This is even someone you met online and it is natural for one to be cautious when dealing with people they met online and that is the stage they are now , hence all the misconceptions that led to these call-outs and replys. Now that he has explained his self after the call out, I believe they now know where the misconceptions are coming from. Now this is the time to get to know each other better and not the time to manipulate him with strange feelings of love that you are displaying here madam. This is manipulation. If you act so weak online like this maybe you will faint when you get to meet him one on one. I don't think your physical meeting should be a guarantee that the relationship will sail. It should be a time to know if you are truly compatible; so bring down those high hopes and allow his feelings to grow naturally before you will end up like that poster on Monday who said she wooed her husband and the end result is a life of regrets
ReplyDeleteNa she dey in love na not the guy!
DeleteThey shd just move on at this point. It’s already stressful and complicated at this point.
DeleteWho self esteem ep when love dey scatter person head.
ReplyDeleteMake una settle abeg. Na happy ending I want to read again.
What I am saying is this .....the lady in question is really Love 💕💕💕, and the man is loving also,but seems like the lady have had a lot of heart broken 💔💔,and she sees all she want in this man,but from the look of things ,the man seems to have them plenty,that makes him to be doing guy.but one thing for sure is that they wiil settle and come back fully in love 💕💕💕.
ReplyDeleteWhat is this one saying??? Mtscheww
DeleteI said it. The reverse psychology worked.
ReplyDeleteFree vagina over to him.
Well done. He has you where he wants you.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Gbam. And he will fcuk her and still dumb her at the end of the day because he never liked her. He’s not into her. Na you sabi poster.
DeleteKING XOXO, you know this. Free V is even better than the emotional torture she would be subjected to. I left a comment above as 17:24, if she loves herself, she should be intentional about her mental health.
Delete😂 the perspective from which you are looking at this matter may be true because in this life, people are mean; but still I believe he is not what you perceive him to be.
DeletePoster, after all these wise comments from sensible bvs like Leo inspired, words on marble, SMH, Anon 16:26, Anon 17:24, if you don't fly away from that man, anything wey your eye see later, swallow it with pride.
ReplyDeletePersonally as a woman I think this her reply is the right thing.
ReplyDeleteShe apologised and kept it simple, due to the guy’s reply yday because he actually went INNNN and as a man that was abit much.
You did well lady, if he reaches out to you make peace and follow his lead and if not my sister use your tongue to count your teeth and move on.
Shalom
So after all what we wrote about moving on, this is your feedback??? You’re so desperate and lack serious self esteem like others mentioned. This guy is not into you!!! Gosh!!! He is not the only man for Gods sake!!! He does NOT like you and I’m sure this is why you keep making relationship mistakes. The red flags are there but you continue to ignore them and you will continue to get hurt!! Let him GO and move the hell on with your life! Do NOT fcuk this man oo else you’ll feel hurt the more. You’re annoying at this point abeg. Someone needs to slap some sense into you and reset your brain!
ReplyDeleteSounds like TeeJay
ReplyDeleteDesperate woman kill the desire before it destroys you.
ReplyDelete