HURT BY LOVE
I Met this man when he came to my office to purchase somethings and resolve some issues My supervisor asked me to attend to him. He was a bit pushy but I kept my cool at the end he asked for my number and I gave him.
I Met this man when he came to my office to purchase somethings and resolve some issues My supervisor asked me to attend to him. He was a bit pushy but I kept my cool at the end he asked for my number and I gave him.
We got talking some days later and I got to know he's a single dad in he's early 50s, never married and his only child a daughter lives in Canada with her mom.
I've not been lucky in love, i am in my mid forties, never married and can't have kids ...when he asked we have kids together since we both aren't thinking of marriage I told him the truth about my medical condition.
It took some time before he could convince me to spend a night with him. We've been seeing off and on since last year cos he travels a lot. Called him Saturday and he didn't pick up and didn't bother calling back so I let go.
I was in my office yesterday when he walked in with a pretty young lady,and said he needed me to attend to her. From their body language I just knew she's he's latest catch ,I wonder why he brought her to my office, there are other people who render the same service as we do so why bring her to mine,why ask me to attend to her ?why not give me a little bit of respect and go somewhere else.
This really hurt me.
So sorry about your medical condition, he brought her to your office because he is trying to pass a message across that he has moved on and he did it in a wicked way....Just forget about him and dont tryto date any of your customers again and if you do date anyone at all, dont tell them about medical condition of not being able to get pregnant.....
You will be fine and dont worry, love will find you when you put yourself in the right places.
What if she’s he’s daughter
ReplyDeletePoster you could be right, but you don't know for sure. But since he is no longer interested it's best you move on. Just like Stella said, when you are in the right place, what is yours will not pass you by. Maybe he came to your place because your service is topnotch. 😉 Don't worry you will be fine. Just be kind to yourself. 🤗
DeleteJust whao. If he didn't explain why your call wasn't returned, just ignore him , treat him like a customer but act like you two never had a thing. What nonsense
DeleteAny man who is 50 and never been married has an issue. Poster the man is the problem not you. He is petty and has commitment issues and insecure. If he wanted to break up he should have jst told you. He is mean. I know it hurts but you will be fine and you will find love. I got married at 42 after many bad experiences. Try not to react to him or call him or reach out. Thats what he wants. You will soon move on
DeleteNever ever shit where you eat please e no dey end well.
ReplyDeleteThe man is immature and so childish.
ReplyDeletePlease, move on from him because he is not worth your pain. Block him in your heart and contacts.
He might have lied about not being married. That must be his MO to get ladies sleep with him.
Na so one man lie for me. He goes around saying he is single and has single on his Facebook. But later found out he was married with a kid. He was always disappearing and saying he spent Sundays visiting his mother. Never available on special days, even his birthday. When he told me he gets bored eating just one type of soup, I didn't understand exactly what he really meant till later. Make una shine una eyes 👀 ooo.
DeleteImagine 50 year old man acting like my 30 year old ex kaii!!!! I ran from his immaturity this proves they don’t change!
DeleteWow!that man is heartless,if he wasn't interested in you again,he could have told you instead of showing up at your office with another woman.
ReplyDeleteI know you're deeply hurt but don't focus too much on that, God will send your own man to you and I don't think you did anything wrong by telling him about your medical condition.
As regards your medical condition may the Lord heal you completely in Jesus name.🤗🤗🤗🤗
Sorry about it dear, love Will find you,don't discuss your medical condition, moreover God of miracle is never tired. All the best.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry poster, I would be hurt, he is obviously immature. I pray love finds you ❣️
ReplyDeleteSo sorry ma'am
ReplyDeleteOr is she his daughter?
Even if she was what about not picking calls ni?
DeleteOmo this one hurt me, poster just try and move on,do not loose hope please.is well don't forget to block him .
ReplyDeleteHe still behaves this way at 50something
ReplyDeleteYeye abeg move on madam.
You will be fine and lucky next time
The reason you are this pained is because he convinced u ‘to spend a night with him’, now you are one of his long list of girls he had sex with.
ReplyDeleteIf u had said No, it won’t hurt this bad, by now, he would have been one of those short relationships that didn’t work out to you.
Next time, avoid premarital sex, it would save u a lot of heartache. It never goes out of fashion, and we would never stop preaching it.
You lie, whether she slept with him or not ,the fact is she like the guy and wish they had something going, it is not all sexual relationship that end badly
Delete17:47,
Delete@15:44 wrote plain and about why the Poster is so pained on this relationship. If the sexual part is not a factor, Poster would not have written about it.
We understand how touchy that subject is here, the truth is.
Generally, women are only better after the end of a sexual relationship when they leave for a much better man
You are wrong
DeleteSex or not the fact that you liked a liar, still hurts. I know this
Poster this has nothing to do with sex. Its about being open and vulnerable with someone and them treating you badly. It hurts. Esp when we are older and we think we finally found the one. Poster is mid 40s single and cant have kids. U know in africa they will make her feel bad about herself even tho theres nothing wrong with her. So she prob has insecurities (we all do). And this man hurting her like this will reinforce some negative self beliefs. Pls lets not make sex a bigger than it is
DeleteDear Poster, I'm so sorry for the pain you're going through .
ReplyDeleteThe man is a beast. It's well
No na.what a wicked way to break up with someone!he may be married for all we know sha and claiming single just to get innocent ladies to sleep with.poster,don't worry your pretty head over him.Him cup go soon full.
ReplyDeleteMe I still maintain he's married. He's wife may not be with him in naija but it's giving married man vibes
DeleteMy darling 💕😘😘💕💕🤗🤗🤗.
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine.
It was good you told him about your health condition. Honesty is a virtue don't let it go.
What he did is wicked and so are many people... Just look at the brighter side of him not wasting your time or taken advantage of you.
Someone that is meant for you is still out there searching for you, and will find you soon.
Just keep being the best of you.
💕💕💕
Honesty is a virtue yes but poster please is not everything dem dey tell man even your fellow women sef is not everything you disscuss.
DeleteIt is well. Just look up to God from where Ur help comes from ❤️
ReplyDeleteOnly God understand how you feel, please move on poster. I pray you heal quickly from this breakfast.
ReplyDeleteDear,God will be your strength cos human being will always disappoint.Focus more on your work and never ever look down on yourself or give up on love.
ReplyDeleteI feel bad for you, but you never give out your details to clients. Always stay professional on the job, no matter how tempted you are. Another thing he had no busibess knowing about your medical condition, that is your private business.
ReplyDeleteI fear you got heady over the attention and because of your age made it more than what it was. Treat it all as a learning experience and move on. He brought the woman to the shop because he is an asshole. No matter how you feel put on a brave face and be nonchalant. Just act unbothered and ignore him. At his age and still playing games he is only hurting himself.
Kaiii that age is paining me. Truly truly maturity is not by age.
DeleteAbeg date clients oh
DeleteMy friend is getting married to someone he met on her 65,000 Naira job and he’s a millionaire in Naira at least. Is it 65k job that you’ll be protecting by not dating client
Lol
DeleteYour friend is getting married means absolutely nothing. Let her enter the marriage and live in it for five years if she make it to that, then she can come and testify.
Delete🤗🤗🤗,way forward, be careful of customers. Its not good for you,neither your organisation.
ReplyDeletePoster I'm sorry about your medical condition but that man isn't mature and not good for you. you deserve better.
ReplyDeleteWhat he did was painful but trust me you'd be fine.
Yours will come.
ReplyDeleteThat was wicked.Seriously,was he expecting you to break down in tears? Pls smile and let go.
ReplyDeleteGod saved you from accumulating problems.You will find a good man.goodluck!
Just move ahead, wear a brave face, don't show him you're hurt. Whenever he comes to your office, attend to him very professionally, he should wonder why you're not pained. Whatever health condition you're having isn't the end of the world. Love will still find you. Sending you lots of love and hugs
ReplyDeletePoster put the experience behind you and focus on your future, a good man will find you
ReplyDeletePele dear, what God can not do does not exist. At times some of my gender behaves stupidly.
ReplyDeleteDear poster take your health issue to NSPPD altar of fire there is nothing God can not do.Mon-Fri 7-8am Nigerian time
ReplyDeleteBlack men! Tueh! Yes, I said what I said! Can you imagine the immaturity? What about just communicating with her? You don’t deserve it sis, and you need to put premium value on yourself.
ReplyDeleteNigerian men now have company. Lol🤣
DeleteThat's still very married man sha and you are so lucky! This kind will be leaving babies in his wake. You were honest to share your condition and be open. He's not the one for you. I am sorry about the hurt. It will pass. Your perso is out there. Hang tight
ReplyDeleteYou just dodged a bullet sis, let him carry his immaturity go, you deserve better. True love will find you and you shall be happy.
ReplyDeleteYou should know that the man has serious issues, if you had gotten pregnant for him, you would end up like his baby mama. Dust yourself up, and like Stella said learn from your mistakes, don't date your customers, if you must ascertain their IQ level.
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