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'CORPER' RELATIONSHIP
I am about rounding up my service year,I met this corper here,though he came in like 4months ago,he immediately took a liking for me,at first I discouraged him from having any feelings for me,but he didn't give up,.
I decided to give him a chance even though I wasn't too interested.now I am madly in love with him, my fear is,will this relationship stand the test of distance and time?
I'm so heartbroken now only the thought of leaving the state soon,will I be okay,?why do I have this feeling he will move on and forget me,does corper relationship amount to anything at all?
Just want to pour out my heart.
Dating a Corps member does not guarantee anything..Some of these relationships end up as good ones and some end up as sad ones...Everything in life is a risk...Dont give all of your cookie jar oh cos you are passing out soon, let there be something to make him run after you....
I remember my boyfriend that time during serive year,his name is Banji and despite all the promises he made, the day i waved him ''Bye see you next week'' was the last time i heard of him...I have not seen his name anywhere else and i dont know if he died or just ghosted me..No one else that we knew him together has heard of him....I was not heartbroken and moved quickly because no cookie was given, he was a church boy and didnt want at that point and said he would only do it if we ended up married, i found it strange but that was the only terms he agreed to be with me, HE was one of the hottest in our batch, hot and rich and everyone wanted him, I got him but got nothing......Mscheeeeew!
My dear plan ahead , relationships with respect will come when you are well settled and placed
Stella your story made me laugh 😂 😃 😃 😃
ReplyDeleteLovergirl just play along, don't force anything and don't raise your hope
From my experience it doesn't last oooo. University lovers do marry each other a lot, I have a lot of them married now but you see this Corper stuff Nne don't expect anything and as Madam Stella advised don't give the cookie jar. It might work for you but from my own experience don't expect anything.
DeleteDating a corper, he will vamoose soon. Guard your ❤️
DeleteEnjoy it while It lasts and if he ever come back for you then you can be assured he's yours, until then, please keep your feelings under wrap so you don't get hurt at the end
ReplyDeleteMadam, you have your future ahead of you that you should plan for and sort out. A corps member shouldn't be the object of your focus. If he wants to build something with you, he'll come for you. Don't keep your hopes up though. Time and distance can be the best exposure of intentions.
ReplyDeleteFocus on making something of yourself first. The labour market isn't smiling in Nigeria right now (when has it ever?). Find and hold your own as a woman. Then and only then can whatever assets you already have become both a blessing to you and indeed your future spouse.
Forget corper.
Gbam. They can however keep in touch until further notice. Nothing wrong in keeping in touch. If it’s meant to be, it will be poster. Good luck.
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DeleteMadam corper, i will advise you face front and just move on with your life. You still have beautiful life ahead of you to be bothered about this feelings with your fellow corper. If you haven't given him the cookie, good and fine, but if you have, just take it as one of those experiment you did in school and and move on.
ReplyDeleteI bit you if the reverse was the case, uncle corper will not bat an eyelid, he won't feel this way for you.
My 2 cent.
Got him and got nothing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteEnjoy it,while it last,believe that,your instinct,that made you,send this chronicle. 😉😉
ReplyDeleteAfter service should be job or legal source of income not how to keep your stranger bf hooked.
ReplyDeleteLife is more than relationship.
Focus girl.
Abi naw. Hope she listens and focus on her future.
DeleteJewelu Which one be you got him but got nothing naa🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteLaw school relationships
ReplyDeleteCamp relationships
Corps member relationships
At that material time, they feel like the best thing that can ever happen to you, but most of them don’t last. However, some survive, but honestly, a good number don’t. Why? Because after u leave ur priorities would definitely change. Good luck though
We should launch a find Banji campaign.
ReplyDeleteSender, Stella has said it all. The world is your oyster, do not tie yourself down with the first person who showed you interest. It is time spent together that build closeness, so choose wisely those you allow yourself to get close to.
She probably has given him the cookie Jar already
ReplyDeleteShe don love up o.
ReplyDeleteMy sincere advice is move o.
Follow him with the same energy he gives you.
Personally I feel corper love doesn't go into the future although some people married their corper lover.
It is well dear, no long thing.
Dear poster,please keep your eyes open and your legs closed,look for a good job and just have peace of mind,marriage is not competition,but Peace of mind and good sources of income is worth something.Love will find u just relax and upgrade yourse,yes am a lady
ReplyDeleteWell it worked for me I met my wife in nysc 1992 and despite the distance after service I got a job before end of service year in kaduna and we were married 2001 and she is still with me in kaduna with 4 young men and women on top of the matter ,the first being a 22 yrs old female medical student in Bingham university jobs.
ReplyDeleteWow poster you fit try your luck. Life is about taking risk
DeleteWow na when corper love be love. Now na hunger corper love. Everyone dey find food now.
DeleteLolllll🤣🤣🤣🤣 this Mao Akuh person sha. You’re a funny somebody.
DeleteMove on emotionally but keep the friendship doors open. When the time is right, the picture of a future with or without him will get clearer. My husband and I did NYSC together but only became friends after the service year. Good luck!
ReplyDelete"I got him but got nothing..."😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteBanji o wrong nah?😂🤣
But Big Stellz, if Banji had visited Jerusalem, na you for still talk say him na Yoruba demon wey chop clean mouth 🤔
How do we celibates please you people sef🤷🏽😂
*Removing Banji from the names of Yoruba demons
Aawww what a strong feeling.You must have had good memory to remember . So far you have his contact distance won't be problem. What should bother you most now is to get a job.
ReplyDeleteEach time I hear 'madly in love' ,India movie kinda love comes to mind.
Aawww what a strong feeling.You must have had good memory to remember . So far you have his contact distance won't be problem. What should bother you most now is to get a job.
ReplyDeleteEach time I hear 'madly in love' ,India movie kinda love comes to mind.
Well, my friend met her now hubby at camp, and they have been married going to 12 years. If he is really into you, he will come for you. Just relax poster.
ReplyDeleteJust enjoy it while it last, do not expect too much so that when nothing comes up you will not feel bad. Remember that your cookies is not for this, kill that feels so that you can be strong when everything end.
ReplyDeleteI will advise differently. Young love is one of the purest love. You can do career and love. I don't know why people think you only need to face career only. Now you know he likes you for you and you like him for him.
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