Oh Dear!.....Big Brother Naija winner Phyna is being accused of abandoning her family since she won N100million from the show.....
He said;
"I haven’t seen Phyna, my daughter since she won BBNaija ‘Level Up’ edition last year. She hasn’t returned home since then. I don’t know why? I am a professional hearse driver, and when she won the reality TV show, she asked me to do away with all my old cars, promising to change my life. But since then, I haven’t seen her. And I don’t have a car again. Once in a while, the Vice-Chairman of our association will allow me to drive his own car.I sold all my four cars because at the time , my daughter won the show. I thought that God had finally answered our prayers. I called her on the telephone, and she said God has blessed us. She asked me to do away with all my old cars, or she would give them out to Aboki, any day she returned. So, instead of allowing her to dash out my cars to scavengers, I decided to sell them as scraps and used the proceeds to renovate my house.
And that was the beginning of my suffering. I stopped doing my business because I had no car again. And my neighbours thought I was either stingy or pretending as if my daughter just won a N100 million grand prize. I was the Vice-Chairman of our association, but when I couldn’t show up at our station for some time, they replaced me with another person.
From that moment, things started getting tough for me.I am even looking for somebody that will give me a car on hire purchase. I need help, it has come to that point. I don’t want to die in silence."
from Vanguard
No be this same Phyna post pictures of car she bought her dad? Oya Phyna’s fans, come and see how real your mentor is oh. Make una show love to your mentor papa.
ReplyDeleteSame fans want BBNAIJA to make the same mistake again?
DeleteThe world is waiting for them.
Phyno is all shades of razz,the fire from her eyeballs is a summary of so many things I can't type here.
No be me go talk am.
Imagine the level of humiliation on her own daddy,the man wasn't smart too,he would have hidden some of the 4 cars in an unclosed deal till he receives the brand new car.
I know about 4 Nollywood actresses who forced their parents to act a skit or stunt happily receiving a non-existent Jeep.
The level of stupidity is high.
Ehya
ReplyDeleteBut my kind of person, if I don't see the new one and own if. I'm not giving up what I have
You are SMART🤝
DeleteIn this case, the father trusted his daughter.
DeleteHnmm na family matter i no dey like put mouth at all
ReplyDeleteLike seriously,?
ReplyDeleteBut she said on Chude’s show that she helped her father buy a new car and ditch the old ones. So who is telling the truth?
ReplyDeleteUnbelievable!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmm
I would love to hear from both sides….
Chude's show that celebrities sit boldly and lie with their 2 shining eyeballs.
DeleteHave you watched the NonsMiraj interview?20 lies.
Have you watched Precious Chikwendu interview? 20 lies.
Same lady people signed petition online for.
Rocking life right inside FFK's house.
Some their own has like 50 lies sef.
I’ve not watched any listed Podcast…
Deleteit’s shocking that she did not gift her dad the car she showed online.
Things Dey occur
Here's hoping that Phyna will do the needful after this call out by her father.
ReplyDelete😅😅😅😅 Abeg make una no blame me but this is funny to me Phyna Phyna
ReplyDeleteAnyin….
She needs to crawl out and say something. Imagine telling your dad to sell his 4 cars. Like seriously
ReplyDeleteMao Akuh
And the man couldn't think for himself? He's just want to be a free loader. Reminds me of when our gateman retired without giving us prior notice because one of his daughters fiance told him to stop doing that job because he's ashamed of telling people he's the in-law, guy man rented apartment for him ,paid for,3 months, a man that was living in a free house , doesn't do much o, we normally give him free food,. The man couldn't even resign well,he gave us just 2 days notice. Anyway not up to 2 months he came back crying that they've abandoned him, if not that he's old and we pitied him because landlord of the rented apartment already asked him to move out as the rent has expired
DeleteWhich apartment do they pay 3 months in Nigeria.
DeleteNa brothel den name for am.
Some apartment is monthly rent
DeleteGame mistress please tell us the area.
DeleteWhat is this!
ReplyDeleteLet's even assume it's true, why should you not work cause your child(ren) is financially okay! If he was indisposed or very old that's another story,
Please read again.
DeleteThen watch her video online boldly stating how she helped family.
The Daddy works in fact the degree of suffering can be smelt from afar.
His appearance shoes he battles sunrays on a daily,man works hard na,what are you saying?
It seems you didn't read the write up miss ess
DeleteTomorrow he’ll deny he never had any interview , why wash ur dirty linen in public?
ReplyDeleteNne na wa o but I read somewhere that she bought a car for her dad.
ReplyDeleteHow some people will blow and turn their backs on their family baffles me but see someone here uplifting people she doesn't even know. It is well.
You've joined Nne na wa o. 🤭😂
DeleteStoopeeit.
Phyna is a rough neck. Her parents would have known.
Thats why we want Ceec to win tomorrow.🤪
Different chic,neck well screwed for future endeavors.
Ceec money N120m
Maybe them wan use bill choke the poor girl
ReplyDeletePhina made the mistake of buying her dad an SUV knowing fully well the level of poverty in her family. The safest thing to do would have been to strengthen the family business so that the financial burden will be reduced for her. But out of peer influence and showoff, she ran straight to make a showoff by buying the dad a Lexus jeep....is it easy to maintain the Lexus jeep. Even the said car she bought for her mum is also a jeep and an unknown brand. Where will these poor people get the money to maintain the cars. Even fuelling a car in nigeria for employed people isn't easy. She should have thought about the associated bills before running to social media to showoff cars. I always say this...there's no point to prove in this life, live within your resources and always go for what will provide lasting solution. The father didn't do well calling out the daughter in this manner. Family issues like this cam be resolved out of SM. He has succeeded in bruising the daughter's ego and she would never be joyous doing stuff for them. I pray God helps them so that everyone will heal and also learn lessons from this. There's no need for SM showoff. That validation from sm if not probably rooted will come back to haunt one. Phina Doo!
DeleteA picture was show last year that she bought a new car for a dad
ReplyDeleteHmmmm!!!
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The dad may be blackmailing her into doing more things for him & maybe others…
ReplyDeleteThat jeep wasn't a necessity for the man. Building his business would have been the priority. How he go take fuel car when he has been made to sell off his old cars with a promise for better ones. In nigeria, we tend to set our priorities wrong because we want to do want Mr A did. Na copy copy de kill us.
DeleteThis is so wrong in all ramifications 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteFamily public drama, I jump and pass.
ReplyDeleteNa wa!
ReplyDeleteWhat about the car she bought 4 him
ReplyDeleteMaybe na audio.
DeleteSluttychic.
I don't like phyna but her dad sounds entitled. Phyna owes you nothing sir. It's her choice to help as a child.
ReplyDeletePhyna owes her father nothing? Make una dey try get conscience na.
DeleteSluttychic.
@Shyla did you read the write up. Abeg the father did not sound entitled
DeleteYes, you're right but where is the compassion ? If she can't fulfill promise you made to her own biological father then I'm afraid how she will treat strangers....
DeleteBee jay why will he sell his cars without getting new ones first
DeleteHow many cars will her 100m buy
100M if not properly invested, is not a lot of money and a family can easily find itself back to square one instead of escaping generational poverty. Same reason many lottery winners end up broke or in debt in a decade after their win. Cos people will take and take and never stop taking. I remember she said her parents didn't raise her. But there are pics of her buying her Dad a car. But pls its unfair to grant interviews Sir ,public bashing will hurt her brand which is basically where the money you seek comes from..
ReplyDeleteThank you for staying this angle. Your daughter cannot just hijack your property and sell it as she is not the owner.
DeleteEven cars used for business are liabilities as they still have running costs and need repairs. Your child winning a once in a lifetime gift with no business or job and fading fame is not a reason to renovate your house and be waiting to be fed forever. It's to give you relief so you can plan your life better knowing she is not going to be a liability to you.
Poor people have a way of quickly running through any funds won and retuning to the same or a worse status especially if that money comes with fame. Lottery winners and people in entertainment are a perfect example.
Hometown girl wins 100 million from a tv show that produces famous people every year. She rents a duplex in lekki and has to maintain a certain standard for her brand: cars, driver, PA, gateman, cook, 24 hours electricity , Instagram worthy furniture, 2-3 relatives or friends living in, clothes, bills, trips, etc for the first year: at least, 40 million gone in the first year.
Relatives, hangers on, bad business deals, growing PR to compete with new faces and winners the next year in light of dwindling income from endorsements and growing demands from fam, fans, fellow housemates, freeloaders etc, keeping up with the level of luxury expected of them will cost another 30 million in year 2.
What is left is but enough to become a house owner in the areas of Lagos they are expected to live in and they are also panicking so they don't run out: risky business deals from vultures well practiced in duping this cohort, acting roles that pay next to nothing, podcasts that they don't have the discipline or intelligence to make impactful (woman this, breast that, sex this... it gets boring unless you are daft).
Without skills, a passion for improvement and a decent education, it's not going to end up like Ebuka. It's going to be the urgent 100k level for most participants. A lowly bottle of champagne at Quilox could set you back about 2 million and you want to put your name out there constantly.
Now imagine having a mother and father who abandoned their full time jobs to be waiting for a brand new car or house you also have to maintain because they have nothing as assets.
The only way to make quick money last is to slow it down. Put it all in a portfolio generating about 9-10 percent annually and compound it, maintaining your current lifestyle for about 5 years. That can then guarantee an income of about 1.2 million a month as a life salary for yourself alone in a currency that depreciates or 7 percent in a foreign currency with the new economic reforms we have now.
1.2 million is like the average salary of a high skilled worker in Nigeria and it's not a lot especially since they also live in the city and have to source their retirement from it. Anyone earning less than 4 million a month has not arrived and cannot be responsible for their siblings, parents completely not to talk of extended family and fans.
The real money in big brother is the ownership of the show itself that rakes in tens of billions from poor people who think cheap fame and a hundred million will change their entire LGA forever and that's a gold mine for those who are shareholders of that business with a very financially rewarding model.
It's not just the average Nigerian that lacks a basic understanding of math. Watching Dave Ramsey, I see it is an international problem with grave consequences.
19:58 👏🏼🌹
DeleteDon't forget that the team that got her entry into the house and managed her to victory are also taking at least 20-25 percent of the prize money before taxes.
Delete19:58
DeleteFinancial Literacy and Intelligence is lacking in a lot of people truly it is an international problem
The 100m isn't entirely cash. I guess the parents had false impression about their daughter's fortune. She also gave out false impression not knowing the challenges ahead. A friend says " making money easier than sustaining it. The money used to procure sustaining just to pepper dem could have been used to resuscitate the parents business to avoid them being permanent Leeches. Ike gwuru!
Delete@19:58, I really enjoyed your take. I don't blame the parents though, Nigeria is basically a poor country and it's the cultural expectation for children to care for their parents especially when they 'blow'. Then for BBN stars the pressure is ridiculous and the money doesn't last. But there's a lot to learn for all of us from your comment. Financial literacy is key... @21:57, as in.. team oh, social media handler, manager, everyone must be settled and paid.
DeleteAnon 19.58 Thank you! It’s the reason for generational poverty in Nigeria! Your child who “blows” by winning less than the gross annual salary of many in the west, (N100m is barely $100k), one year pre tax, pre deduction of some here and you ditched your livelihood? Oprah Winfrey’s dad was a barber till he retired, why do we think the way many of us do?
DeleteIt’s the reason many who succeed get pulled down by entitled relatives who fail to think of your future. Yes it’s good to help your parents & family but N100m is no longer a lot of money & by merely living upper middle class she needs at least N25m of whatever is left of the N100m after the agents take their cut. It’s the views expressed by of a lot of educated folks that is concerning. The widespread sense of entitlement in a society where everything is reversed. A child is to fend for able bodied parents, rich government officials are the ones with free cars, free houses, free food, the ones on welfare, not the poor citizens who need a safety net like normal societies do. Yet folks see it as normal. A society put on reverse gear with numb folks who don’t see the lesson/teachable moments about population & birth control in many scenarios like. “A good man leaves an inheritance for his children” but if you don’t, please don’t brag about leaving them a deficit or being entitled to what they may have compromised their conscience to make due to your situation! It’s no wonder some push their kids into Runz & yahoo to reverse the order of nature. I don’t get our mentality again, it’s bizarre. It’s more than Dave Ramsey’s Financial University. It’s a culture of entitlement from the wrong people (right being looters in government who owe everyone) and numbness to the natural order of responsibilities. It takes humility to accept failure of your efforts, your government etc that your child is not responsible for you, an able bodied man. Where is our collective sense of normalcy? Even if your child or relative is fending for you or you want them to, be humble, it’s not your right.
I remember Oprah refusing to pay about $300k or so her entitled late mother racked up in some stores where she went on shopping sprees because of her daughter’s money. Oprah called out her sense of entitlement. She must be of Naija descent! Her dad & mom were opposites. Her mom was a typical Nigerian entitled relative while the dad was a contented barber who was not suffering but had a sense of dignity and pride, earning a living till retirement though he didn’t have to.
Population control & national policy making will be a problem even if we get good governance with this mentality of not taking responsibility according to the order of nature. There is dignity in labor & depending on a young lady who hasn’t even started a family is so unbiblical. You wonder why they all do Runz? Do these kinds of families care if they kill their conscience as long as the money flows to them? Well, give birth to 6 or 10 kids as they do, hope one or two succeeds and pull them down to generational poverty by saddling them with bills of the 8 so by the time they want a family, they are struggling no matter how hard they work. This issue shows the audacity of being wrong & not even realizing it collectively as a society. This is not to say don’t help family, parents & anyone you can. The Good Samaritan is our example. Nobody is entitled to anyone’s sweat. The order of nature is to birth & care for them as they didn’t ask you to, if they do the other way, be grateful. DJ Cuppy is human, so are Dangote’s kids. Some Nigerian parents never look in the mirror. Why did you not come first or do this some ask. Why are you also not Dangote or Adenuga or Adedoyin?
What could be the reason for all this? Could it be that the reason she abandoned her dad was because he chastised her over a bad lifestyle?
ReplyDeleteBut then sold his cars and folded his arms, hoping to be rewarded by money from the same lifestyle?
DeleteThat's their family problems . E no concern me
ReplyDeletePhyna go and read 1 Timothy 5 v 8.
ReplyDeleteIf after winning so much money and you abandoned your family, it's very bad. I just remembered Bright Chimezie's song...o bu mgbe nnanne gi wuru, iga eyeri ya aka?
Where bright chimezie?
DeleteIf he still dey , a collabo with phyno or flavour would be great
Sometimes, the comments we read here can be annoying. It’s mostly pretense anyway.
ReplyDeleteYou asked your father to sell off his cars that you were going to get him a new one and he did just that. He did that cos he trusted his child.
Now she has abandoned her family and you say her father is entitled.
If the reverse was the case, you would have called her father unprintable names for abandoning his children.
Sluttychic.
Don't mind them. In a bid to sound woke they display their inner true character. Let's learn to call a spade a spade...
DeleteAnon 16:48 Don’t be annoyed. Many are not pretending. I’m very contented & work so I can pay my bills not depend on anyone God help me. The culture of entitlement from the wrong sources in Nigeria is bizarre.
DeleteThe ORDER of God (that order is reversed with Ruth who took care of her aged MIL because her husband & BIL died)) is you birth kids, you care for them, not that you expect an unmarried daughter who won a year’s salary in the old Nigeria. N100m is big to folks who don’t know how to adjust for inflation or are simply ignorant of the concept. I left 25 years ago from a top management job with a multinational, made about N7m/year. That can do a lot more than N50m today! The oldest uni in Naija where I got my 1st degree charged no school fees & N90 per year for the dorm! I got N25 pocket money per semester. The total my parents spent on my education is less than N4k as in N4000 & I attended the best schools Naija had to offer at the time. This is all to put the N100m in perspective! School fees in the then exclusive KC, QC & FGGCs were N60 to N100/term! Do you now see that N100m in today’s Naija isn’t enough for an able bodied FATHER (provider) to abandon his job especially as the daughter is unmarried & has not started her own family yet!
It is entitlement when you are not disabled & have a functioning brain, to allow your kid tell you to ditch your source of income & live off her. He is supposed to be the wiser. Poverty affects the way people think making N100m seem enough to lift them all out of poverty. Contentment is biblical. If she told him to jump off 3rd mainland will he? He sold his cars because of her promise? Really? He didn’t want to work again! She probably didn’t get the entire N100m as agents & other “helpers” will take their cut considering she is from a poor background & it’s not like a real talent show so how much did she get out of the N100m? He is supposed to be wiser but his entitlement took over. He wants to up his standard of living! I have met people who inherited $millions here still using their 8 year old car because they want to leave some things for their children & grandchildren! LA RAZA or for the race, for the collective, the ability to think about our descendants or our collective is lacking among many African leaders & people hence we sell our country to Chinese, Caucasians etc.for nothing but bribe enough only for their family, not the nation. We engage in conspicuous consumption draining others to subsidize it while others are building societies that their great grandchildren will enjoy. That’s why we lack many true heroes. The social construct became warped & distorted after the first republic heroes.
That the abnormal is the normal in Naija doesn’t change normal. He should actually encourage her to invest, take whatever she gives him with gratitude if she does, not hope to up his consumption & change career & status!
He like some naijas are entitled from the wrong sources. Relatives they can bully & call out! Give birth to the no you can care for, no child asked to be born, stop pressuring the girl child to drop their morals due to the poverty you brought them into, stop child labor, yes that is a stretch but if she was younger that is how they justify making kids earn a living to fend for families & get sexually molested hawking goods. FACE the looters from WHOM you are entitled to jobs & social safety nets. In Naija, everything is upside down. Those who don’t need welfare (politicians & cronies) are the ones on welfare with free house, free cars while young girls in some cities are pimped by their own parents😳to get money with their body for the family in Dubai or Italy.
Nobody is saying she shouldn’t help her family but he gave birth to her not the other way & he is NOT sick or disabled so why call her out? You teach many to fish but they never learn or want to fish, fishing is work so pull you down. A yoruba proverb says “oloro kan larin otoshi mefa lo toshi julo”…. One rich person among 6 poor is the poorest!
19:16, thank you for the solid points made 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Delete"If" she really did that the SHAME on her. on the other hand, her father is old enough to know better if you ask me. Selling your source of livelihood when you have not gotten delivery of the new ones. Daughter or no daughter I blame the man if you ask me.
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ReplyDeleteNaija people una too strong
If this story is true then it is horrible. Why tell the man to part with his livelihood if you had no plans for him. Now he doesn’t even have the means to earn a living. Now I understand why some old folks stay in their old homes and continue working their hard jobs even after their children have become successful. Depending and hoping on someone else’s promises is a huge risk.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for her robust reply on IG live...
ReplyDeleteMy sibling did something similar to one of our parents. E tell am make e no work again say e go come carry am go America. No attempt was made after e stop work. You know how you go string person along that before they know it, 5 years done pass? Na that type e do.
ReplyDeleteThis should be an eye opener to Nigerian parents am not saying you shouldn't trust your children but pls. don't let any child make you throw away your source of income because of any promises.
ReplyDeleteWhy would we be so proudly wrong and loudly so! The man is not diasabled, a child wins something, tells you to sell your cars and you did? Many kids make more annually and give birthday, Mother’s Day and Christmas gifts and one is still so grateful because you want them to build wealth and have advantages you didn’t have. Why do many Nigerians lack contentment, that’s the thing many other Africans have that we la k, as a nation! Always wanting to live at the level of income of your child or relative us called lack of contentment and godlessness. “Godliness with contentment is great gain says the Bible”. I don’t plan on my children’s income, I advise them to build wealth and work as long as God allows me and manage. If they gift me anything I thank them, most times if they take you out you are grateful. Relatives including your children are not ATM! Unless you are disabled and there are 75 year olds working! Pelosi, Fauci and tons of folks who are cashiers and greeters at Walmart and other grocery stores could burden and guilt their kids or relatives. They have more sense of dignity.
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