A sad reality that gives room and hope for a brighter and more fulfilling future!
A reality that is SAD for my loving and adorable children but necessary for a peaceful and loveable future.
A sad reality i prayed, nutured and worked tirelessly hard never to experience for the sake of all.
A sad reality i now have to accept as i realize that my kids are much grown with better sense of understanding and knowledge of my pain & struggles regarding them!
A sad reality that screams that i wont live or be around forever and must take care of my health andmental state for the goodness of all.
May God help me and reward me with all i truly deserve or punish me for all i have done wrong if that be the case.
In the end we will all live with the consequences of our actions.
Sad but real and true!
Now i have to do and be better for the sake of the same children i fought so hard never to be seperated from.
The journey thus far only makes me stronger as i come to terms with what i truly need and deserve for all my relentless hard work and efforts in life.
Heart broken but not shattered yet i stand tall as i break this sad but true news to the same world who adores my beautiful family and I.
My wife and I have decided to go our separate ways and headed for an irreconcilable marriage dissolution.
Please respect our privacy and pray for us during this process as we heal and move on with our independent lives while jointly taking care of what we love most, Our children!
God bless all 🙏🏾
Privacy respected......
May God help them.
ReplyDeleteThis is painful o. After their first breakup their comeback was so sweet to watch. They were always a vibe. What happened like this!
ReplyDeleteTruth is coming back after a break up is hard. When you do, the survival rate is slim.
DeleteRelationship is a lot. I have tried getting back after a break up(dating though). At first it was OK, but then again it just ended in a way I can't even explain.
My dear, the reason it ended the first time, most likely will end it again.
He came back, but she didn't come back. He was the one making all the moves, efforts and show off..
DeleteIt take two to tango..
One sided effort is unhealthy..
He probably thought his sacrifices would win her heart back, it's unfortunate he had to learn from experience that women are loyal to their emotions and not your sacrifices
Maybe her boyfriend is back from prison 🤔
Delete14:03 or maybe he cheated again
DeleteDante, you men think you can eat your cake and have it! When a woman who genuinely loves you checks out because she has reached her threshold of crap received from you, nothing you can do to “win” her back!
DeleteBoss Dante, you are right. It is obvious the young man tried his best. Lesson to all men that live abraod and shuttle back and forth. Once your abraod wife gets the upper hand on you 1) doing better Financially 2) more educated and/or 3) find someone more romantic and richer, it is only a matter of TIME before she servces you breakfast.....Our boy got served today but thank God he walked away to protect his mental health.. Men, please Learn to walk away. Be careful what you say. I am currently serving jail time for domestic violence.. Nigerian women test you but dont fall for it. I will be free in 4 years. Praying for all Men to stay safe... and don't do back and forth with abroad wife. Stay abroad with her and focus or come back home. Stay close to your woman. The gap will test you
DeleteWriting from Jail.
Keep holding it down Boss Dante.
Married and divorced
Thank you Anon 14:28. That is one thing very few men know. A man may come back after a breakup and tries his best to make it work, but once a woman has reached her limit and checks out, the chances of her coming fully back is very slim.
DeleteWomen can endure for so long but once they check out, that is it.
Anony 14:03
DeleteHahahahahahaha
Like that akata babe version.
"I'm sari I'm nor gana go this way with ya allava again".
AND SHE QUIT THE UNION.
She fxckin quit.😭
Ninalowo ndo.
Ehen, when is the other celebrity coming out openly to announce that news.🤭
There's no smoke without fire is a stonggggg axiom.
God be una strength o.
14:28 & 16:43
DeleteDante, is still right by your comments. She was not there second time.
So, why did she agree? Because of her selfish interest in getting the children easily trained? Or as a Bv said, somebody has returned from marking time? In either case, Dante's general assessment in his comments here still holds true. A woman is generally the female version of a male. No matter how a typical woman likes to up and present herself, as most tend to do on this blog, the woman is still bound by the base desires of mankind.
In solidarity with my brother in Jail- (married and divorced), I'll drop this orientation that has helped me below:
Delete"While men keep records of friendly conversations as proof in case they are accused of rape or abuse, Women keep records of nasty incidents as proof in case they need to blackmail you or fix you."
Be smart. Stay in control Gees✌️.
All this una gender war na una sabi. You guys don't really know what actually happened or do you? If both parties were doing the right thing there won't be problems. So either one of them or both of them are at fault. When you get the real gist let's know. I was rooting for them esp with all the social media paparazzi.
DeleteThis is so sad to hear.
ReplyDeleteAgain?i thought they sorted it out ?nawa o
ReplyDeleteDevil is really working hard .
ReplyDeleteSoo sad, the way marriages are breaking up this days, I'm afraid for the coming generation.
ReplyDeleteI admire this man because of how he handled their previous marital challenges. I wish them well
May God heal them both
ReplyDeleteChai🙆this one pain me o.
ReplyDeleteWhy oh why?????
Eya. Sad reality indeed..
ReplyDeleteHa! I thought everything was fine with the lovely pictures of them in the internet.... this is so sad............ Josaria
ReplyDeleteAnd I really thought their marriage was going on fine after their breakup. May they find peace in their separate ways.
ReplyDeleteNo need staying together with unhealed heart. Better separate as friends.
DeleteHmmmmm, some marriages sha, i thought their marriage will work this time around.
ReplyDeleteThis is why one should never envy any couple. Tappers, get sense.
ReplyDeleteNinalowo and wife. it is well.
Chai this beautiful couple.
ReplyDeleteOnly God knows what goes on behind closed doors, it is well with them.
Why do they always beg for privacy ?
ReplyDeleteChoi! Sometimes, it's better to just remain friends or simply try to co-parent in peace. The problem that made someone your ex the first time hardly ever disappears. I wish them all the best going forward.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe this.
ReplyDeleteI heard their first breakup was a lie to push his acting career in Nigeria when he newly arrived from the US.
On top divorce una still come up with conspiracy theory?
DeleteThe thing is they are tired of pretending to the world, doing pepperdem on the gram.
ReplyDeleteThat come back shouldn't have happened,once a woman taste gbolas for outside,e dey hard to come back to one gbola. The man can taste ponyors and still like his wife own because their gbola get mind of his own. So na the matter be that. It is better to go separate ways than die in a loveless marriage.
Lol..
DeleteWould they listen..
How can you even go back to an ex that has fvcked someone else..
There are only very few exceptions against this rule, like say, you guys dated when you were young and maybe sex never happened then you separated and met years later when you're grown and all, you can decide to rekindle and get married.. but not when you guys were grown up and in a sexual relationship, then you separated, she fvcked other guys and you still come back won marry am, Asin this one is even that they were married before it happened.. who does that nah??
It doesn't matter if you were the cause of the break up, just count it as gone abeg, e no go work..
Even the lady won't respect you for accepting her back after she has screamed under/ontop other D!cks and she'll punish you for it..
If you like be forming woke or because you don't want them to call you misogynist and go and accept something you know is too much for your mental health
Boss Dante, you are a principled man and all men MUST live on principle.. This is the problem with men nowadays. Once they hit that pum pum, they forget the principle.. Like you said, they fact they are married is the brightest of all red line. Once she bodied a negro, never go back....
DeleteDante no near Hispanics chaachaa.
DeleteYou see Brazilians,they can remarry each other TWICE. As in triple honeymoon in one lifetime.
They're that crazy.
That is why I usually use side eyes to look at couples that are always doing pda on social media
ReplyDeleteYou don't need someone to tell you that most troubled marriages where the woman is holding on by the whiskers is the one that shouts "I am blessed and happily married".
DeleteLook well,you'll see it.
Hmmm, may God heal ur home
ReplyDeleteOh this breaks my heart. I love the way he celebrates his wife. May you both find peace.
ReplyDeleteYou see men that are constantly posting their wives on their status and SM? Fear them! All the married men that have tried to cross boundaries with me do this. It's to create a false sense of security for their wife that her position is secured while he seeks out ladies (especially married women) that don't that he is married.
DeleteKai! This is sad! U both knows what is best for you. I wish you both well as you move on
ReplyDeleteIt's well with you and yours.
ReplyDelete💔💔 I was rooting for these 2 people. Well I wish them all the best 😢😢
ReplyDeleteMe too 😔. It's well
DeleteIt's well.
ReplyDeleteOh oh
ReplyDeleteThis is sad
Chai..... It is well with them. I guess it can't be helped.
ReplyDeleteChai! This one pained me sha! I have always loved them.
ReplyDeleteomg!!!
ReplyDeleteFor her to be back in the market with that type of shape
ReplyDeleteThat huge ass
Hmmm
Na wah
And with kids almost grown
Omoh, na she be the market.
On a more serious note
What happened? This couple were so in love.
What is going on?
KING XOXO MYSTERY
King...look well.
DeleteMethinks it's that price you pay to cross over to Hollywood.
He schemed into Extraction lately, remember?
Whispers are on, the Pastor that is about being buried, his son has done same.
Let's wait for clarification from his end.
This life.😭🤦
XP..
DeleteHe wasn't in Extraction..
The whole thing was just a PR for another movie he stared in
Yeah Dante, the actual movie was Distraction, something about a Don but he sailed on the wings of the hit movie Extraction.
DeleteGoogle trends had his name and image trending for weeks.
His PR team are good.
He got some negotiations and successful bidding for future cast in other movies.
Good thing, they made him do a recall video, detailing what happened but not the ensuing benefits.
#smartmove
Wetin she dey sell?
DeleteI’m so confused guys…extraction in what sense? What’s really going on?🤷🏽♀️
DeleteI never saw the chemistry between both of them in any of their videos, especially from the wife. Even in their reality show, it seemed like they were forcing things. Maybe they weren't supposed to come back as a couple. I wish them the best.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad.
DeleteTruth of the matter is, women need attention. Nino’s always traveling, neglecting his wife emotionally and physically. Why won’t they outgrow each other. He’s in naija having all the fun, meeting new people, and getting outside attention and all. It’ll be tough for any woman abeg. No one wants to feel second best.
DeleteDante,so when they were separated, nino too no fuck other ladies, pls use ur sense nah
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't exist.
Delete@14:33 That is why he said he should not have gone back and be making the most efforts. The wife was gone in heart and mind. Reminds of that song "In my mind am gone Carolina".
DeleteA man who goes back to a woman after a break up should do so praying that the woman would say no. It pleases the woman to reject a reunion proposal. From the day of the woman's rejection, the man is freed and she perpetually boast of it.
@15:24
No matter what, a truth told out of malice is.
A truth told by an insane person is.
If yours is the truth, it is.
If his is the truth, it is.
Opinion is limited by knowledge and how open the mind is.
But truth is constant. It may appear false until the mind is knowledgeable and or open enough to grasp it. And truth is false to the mind that refuses to accept it, but that does not change truth to falsehood.
Truth is there are couples who should not reunite for any reason at all again in marriage after a break up or when certain events have occurred after the break up.
Truth is not what we see or what we want to hear as truth. Truth is truth.
I pray that God will give you both strength to carry on.
ReplyDeleteIt is well ooo chaiii
ReplyDeleteOmo I have always felt like this man was doing too much.
ReplyDeleteIt was broken beyond repair amd he thought he could fix it.
Guy man move on just like your wife did.
You all will be alright.
He really wanted it to work, but the wife wasn't in it wholeheartedly again. Nino eyes go always stray, and madam is not someone to cry or beg, she's a tit for tat kinda chic with a great shape.
ReplyDeleteAh ah! After all the perfect relationship show off on social media? Hey God o o o. People!
ReplyDeleteThis is sad.The woman left that marriage a long time.She was just waiting for the kids to come of age.
ReplyDeletePeople take all kinds of bullshit from their workplace, even from their own immediate family but still find a way to work things through but when it comes to their spouse they want out.
Thank you for saying it as it looks. The Children and their related financing was the key. It has been so for ages. When women who know say it here, the younger ones rubbish the statement. How many people be school fees, house rent, and food money mates. Even if the woman has a full pocket, she looks at better quality that the man's additional pocket can fetch.
DeleteYou can sense from their pda displays that the wife was not fully back. You people will be alright las las
ReplyDeleteMay God uphold the children and comfort the entire family. May he give the couple the needed wisdom to co-parent and care for each other from a distance.
ReplyDeletePerhaps the lady found it difficult being a housewife -handbag kind of wife in Nigeria. She seemed to have her life together abroad and for most women, that matters after having kids even if they don't say it.
Children are never too old to be heartbroken about their parent's split. May God be with them both.
Chai.
ReplyDeleteThis one pained 😒 me
ReplyDeleteYou carry matter come social media and asking for privacy. Olodo!
ReplyDeleteI’m wondering why Stella didn’t post my comment because I asked why they keep asking for privacy
DeleteBeing married is not a child’s play. It’s happiness for some while sadness and endurance for most, mine inclusive. Am already planning on how to walk away, for my mental health first for am already looking older than my age.
ReplyDeleteHnmm it is well with them 💔
ReplyDeleteThe news was sad. I watched Nino on YouTube about 5 years ago. He was down to earth and a Nigerian American that loved his roots. Many are trying to insinuate because he cheated in the past and the wife never forgave him, women never check back in etc making excuses for her but I beg to differ. I Cor 13. If she loved him and saw his serious efforts at making amends, she would have forgiven him. I can’t believe I agreed with the “resident misogynist”, no offense, on this blog, but he is right. Once she tasted another guy (s) during the break, there was no way she could remain the same.
ReplyDeleteI’m speaking as an outsider so no offense it’s just my opinion. She used him for fame. He was the famous one. He said in an interview that he wanted to “pull her up with him as she knew him when he had nothing”. The folks blaming Nino excused Adekaz, asking why Funsho stayed in Minnesota with the kids, saying Adekaz is a Muslim etc. Nino too is a Muslim. One of those that seem to just want a good family like most Saudi Muslims and some Nigerian Muslims. Only 5% of Saudi Muslims are polygamous but go figure the % in Nigeria using religion as excuse. Someone here in the comments section said “her lover may have been released from jail” … you really could tell her mind was not as into him as he was in those videos. We know the stench that’s going on among so called married men and women in Houston, Atlanta. MD and those places where these folks tend to allow their wives to settle while they hustle in Nigeria. I doubt she is a saint herself. If he was cheating, she may have been too unlike the homely Adekaz wife. Whatever be the real story, I liked them together but it is RARE for a Yoruba man to curse himself publicly that if he caused it God should reward him! That was the deepest part of his write up. I’m a woman, Favor is deceitful, beauty is vain but a woman that fears the lord shall be praised. I know people tell
Me I look ten years younger than my age but my bones do t feel the same! Beauty and hot shape will fade and if you discard true love because of distractions or gender equality if he cheated, “I’m free to do so”, (I’m not saying she did), when younger girls come on the scene and your toasters reduce, he may not take you back like he did before as he may have moved on too!
Somehow for the first time in a while I feel the man tried to make his marriage work and that this was the woman’s eyes still outside and not contented. I hope my assessment is wrong and they both find love. Don’t be deceived by beauty. In 30 years time the toasters will reduce. Bbl May have been deflated and we see her before and current photos that he has been taking care of her. He just bought them a home in the US. He literally cursed himself or swore that if it was his fault he should face repercussions, that’s a man who I think deserves a good woman. May they both find peace. Nino is very down to earth, struggled and helped get her fame. It’s like Anu, Tobi Bakre’s pretty wife who is getting famous with his acting fame. Tobi is also a Muslim but hopefully he doesn’t deviate when he grows older invoking his religion to marry a side chic. In all, though I didn’t see the girl putting in the same love effort into the videos, I wish them the best.
On a lighter note they made so many uniform clothes called “andco” that I wonder what happens to all those “andCos” because they wore matching clothes a lot.
*Nino is from a Muslim background but now a christian*….. apologies
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