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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
PREGNANT;CONFUSED AND CRYING
Hi Stella. .
Please help post this before i lose my mind and please forgive my typos. This is written with eyes blinded by tears. I'm pregnant but unsure who the father is.
Had s#x with my boyfriend on a Tuesday night and had a very bitter breakup the next day. Please note that he didn't come inside of me.
My ex from 13 years ago called on the Friday after the Tuesday and I cried bitterly. He came with ice cream and wine to cheer me up. I don't drink at all normally but I drank in pain, then slept off. I woke up to my ex touching me and I let him. Anything to get over the pain of the break up.
He penetrrated but didn't ejaculate at all because i changed my mind somewhere during the act. He is married.
6 weeks later, I hear I'm pregnant. Called last boyfriend in tears and he accepted because he knows I never stepped out on him. He apologized and we kind of made up and I told him I was keeping it.
Then I tell 13 year old ex bf so he could be happy for me but his face changed. He asked how far gone I was and I told him then he started acting weird. Then he confessed that pregnancy might be his because that Friday night, he might have released a bit. He wasn't sure at first but thinking about it now, he was 100% sure he did.
I believe he is just scared and trying to take precaution that's why he is saying he released a bit. I asked why he didnt tell me so i could take contraceptives not he said he didnt know or that he thought i was safe. i dated him for 3 years and never took contraceptive because his pullout game was strong. I have been crying for days and haven't agreed to speak to my bf.
plus I am a bad liar and will definitely open up. My Ex and I are both AS and I'm so over him but he's still in love with me.
I don't know how to tell my bf that I'm not pregnant for him. I want to kee my ex but we are in the western world and I will definitely be caught. I am so confused.
The Scan can't tell me anything because the dates are too close. I definitely can't deceive my bf into thinking it's his. I feel like my life is ruined. I'm in love with the baby already but can't keep it if it's my ex. I'm 36 years old.
You and your ex both are AS? meaning the baby might be AS or SS?
Please help post this before i lose my mind and please forgive my typos. This is written with eyes blinded by tears. I'm pregnant but unsure who the father is.
Had s#x with my boyfriend on a Tuesday night and had a very bitter breakup the next day. Please note that he didn't come inside of me.
My ex from 13 years ago called on the Friday after the Tuesday and I cried bitterly. He came with ice cream and wine to cheer me up. I don't drink at all normally but I drank in pain, then slept off. I woke up to my ex touching me and I let him. Anything to get over the pain of the break up.
He penetrrated but didn't ejaculate at all because i changed my mind somewhere during the act. He is married.
6 weeks later, I hear I'm pregnant. Called last boyfriend in tears and he accepted because he knows I never stepped out on him. He apologized and we kind of made up and I told him I was keeping it.
Then I tell 13 year old ex bf so he could be happy for me but his face changed. He asked how far gone I was and I told him then he started acting weird. Then he confessed that pregnancy might be his because that Friday night, he might have released a bit. He wasn't sure at first but thinking about it now, he was 100% sure he did.
I believe he is just scared and trying to take precaution that's why he is saying he released a bit. I asked why he didnt tell me so i could take contraceptives not he said he didnt know or that he thought i was safe. i dated him for 3 years and never took contraceptive because his pullout game was strong. I have been crying for days and haven't agreed to speak to my bf.
plus I am a bad liar and will definitely open up. My Ex and I are both AS and I'm so over him but he's still in love with me.
I don't know how to tell my bf that I'm not pregnant for him. I want to kee my ex but we are in the western world and I will definitely be caught. I am so confused.
The Scan can't tell me anything because the dates are too close. I definitely can't deceive my bf into thinking it's his. I feel like my life is ruined. I'm in love with the baby already but can't keep it if it's my ex. I'm 36 years old.
You and your ex both are AS? meaning the baby might be AS or SS?
Hmmm if i say what is on my mind eh, bvs will chop me raw and then i cannot give advice that i am against eeeeeeh
Let me just read and chew in lips in silence..
You sef let me ask you, ARE YOU A BABY THAT YOU WONT KNOW AFTER NACKING IF THAT DRAW DRAW THING IS INSIDE YOU OR NOT?DIDNT YOU WASH UP?I DONT GET IT.....you no sabi opvulation?I tire for you!!!
Let me just read and chew in lips in silence..
You sef let me ask you, ARE YOU A BABY THAT YOU WONT KNOW AFTER NACKING IF THAT DRAW DRAW THING IS INSIDE YOU OR NOT?DIDNT YOU WASH UP?I DONT GET IT.....you no sabi opvulation?I tire for you!!!
Are you not a woman? you know what to do, stop this nonsense and confess nothing.... I go whooz you!
You just dey chop raw both left and right. Abeg carry your cross
ReplyDeleteNa serious wozzing she needs, I just part tge baby isn't for your Ex, because it will be wicked to bring a sick child into the world.
DeleteAbeg whooz am correct one make e dey western world Watch Superstory for NTA. Imagine what a 36yr old woman is saying. 😏😒
Delete...with whips and Roman soldiers?? Abi, it's not that type of cross
DeleteBetter remove now that it's still early because you have put yourself in a wototwoto situationship, As + As ke, abeg ooo, abort mission.
DeleteAt 36 you are behaving this way… hmmmm naa waah oooh!! Leave that child do not abort it but stay away from your boyfriend till after the child is born, then go for a DNA. There is a high probability that the child is for your current boyfriend and not your ex. Tell your boyfriend that you need time for now.
DeleteI’m not slut shaming the poster or but I wonder how some lack self control. Your ex is a MARRIED man, you still had the kind of relationship that made that happen, you slept raw with two men within a few days and you are saying a married man’s “pull-out” game is strong? Do people not care about serious STDs? You are in the west maybe you don’t know that in some areas some STDs will shame you as some require you to go to a county center to get certain meds. Just going there for those meds tells the what your diagnosis could be.
DeleteYou & your married ex didn’t even consider his wife🤔 I hope this is fiction but if you are in the US depending on your state, you can no longer get a pregnancy terminated easily, SS or not. I wonder what advice you want. Mine is that you should repent, practice self control & discipline. It’s not food or air.
Reminds me of the woman that nearly ended late Kobe Bryant’s career about a decade ago by lying that he rap*d her. What saved him was her loose nature as defense forensic analysts found the DNAs of FOUR men in her undies within a few days. I thought that was not possible with non s*x workers but reading this? Get a grip on your libido, ladies & gentlemen. Stop sleeping with married exes & stop sleeping with multiple partners raw! Raw is meant for marriage which isn’t even safe with men like your married ex! It’s a pyramid, you are spreading STDs which is a public health issue.
Thank you for this write up. I am happy reading this 🙏 #TSays
DeleteGet dna test in utero sister
ReplyDeleteLet them test your blood now. They can tell you certain things about who’s the father
If AS guy is the father , then you should remove it unless they have a way to confirm if it’s not SS. That life is not easy at all
The way you people nack carelessly makes me believe HIV is a scam. Please I don’t support abortion but I think that’s your only option oo wait, a married man is also involved? Zuzuru si ebea puoo osiso
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
I don't support abortion but in this case ,what if it's actually your AS ex that is the father? Your will probably bring an innocent SS baby to come and suffer
DeleteSMH 😪.
ReplyDeleteThey never learn.
The product of sex is pregnancy. Even if you did not ejaculate, the pre-ejaculation fluid contains sperm. This is enough to fertilise an ovum.
*Even if he
DeleteLolll, maybe they told them the product is TV because their shock is always hilarious!!
DeleteOh boy! Just when you thought you'd heard the craziest thing, another drops.
ReplyDeleteFirst OP says she wants to kill her ex if she can get away with it. You want to kill your child's father?
Secondly, what kind of dumb woman doesn't know how to calculate her ovulation days?
I'm not buying what you are selling up there. You are a mentally weak woman and you are on the path to ruin the lives of others. Stop thinking about just you and think about how you've potentially messed the life of that child up. If you aren't going to abort that baby, then you have to come clean to your man.
Killing your ex is a road I assure you, you don't want to take.
No sympathies here. Just a schemer who didn't think far enough in her schemes.
Kill kwa? Re you reading the same piece?
DeleteLolzzz...Stella
ReplyDeleteThe stress that comes with pre-marital sex ehn, no be here at all.
ReplyDeleteJust so many consequences 😞
Honestly, sometimes when God warns us to stay clear off some sins. It’s for us.
DeleteMtcheeew!!!
ReplyDeleteYou better confess to your boyfriend,tell him to wait,that after the baby is born,DNA will ascertain the owner of the child.
Try and check for the child's genotype at the end of your first trimester to know what you're getting yourself involved in.
***Don't know why some women keep making this type of mistake......
No need to wait
DeleteCan test now without telling him
The test can at least confirm if it’s the married ones pregnancy
If it is then no then no need to tell boyfriend. They had broken up and she owes this her boyfriend no info at all
What kind of yeye talk is this now? You were sleeping with bf and ex raw almost at the same time. You are not even scared of STD! what were you expecting? A gold medal? if the baby turns out to be your ex's i pray he/she is not an SS , that is when you will know what the hell you got yourself into, na so karma take visit you oo. You ran into the arms of a married ex for succour instead of you to run far from him. oshisco...long hisssssssss
ReplyDeleteAdopt mermaid style , una go say na old school. Isokay o. All the best.
Na the way you are chopping different Raw Gbola upandan that is somehow..
ReplyDeleteCome ooo,una no dey fear diseases??
Your kind person na why I go make DNA mandatory and free especially for first born kids when I become president..😀
Jokes aside;So anytime you are emotional,your Kpekuss becomes emotional too thus becoming an expressway where anything can zoom in and out??
It is well,you don’t need advice but self discipline and improved morals..
Have respect for yourself and for your body;not everyone you come across deserves to see your nakedness..
Congrats on your pregnancy😏
@MARTINS
Haa this is a Savage Martins.
DeleteSavage 💀😂
DeleteThe harsh truth 💯💯💯
DeleteShe didn’t say it happens every time
DeleteNo kumbaya advice today😌😌😌
DeleteMartins I honestly do not understand. Like, anytime they are emotional the become very open to having sex with anybody that is available to comfort them in their down time. I keep thinking about these things all the time. See the other chronicle poster of last week that is a born again. How can? Are you sure people like this will not equally be open to lesbian sex if the only person that came to their rescue during their trying time is a lez..? Na only knack knack knack knack knack knack full people head nowadays ai*
Delete"Na only knack knack knack knack knack knack full people head nowadays ai"
DeleteBuhahahahah 😂😂😂😂
It’s as if they have nothing to think of than “knack”! You are feeling low it’s a married ex that brought wine to comfort you? Why not light a fire & put under your bed? When did self control & discipline become a rare commodity? I’m against female circumcision but it’s now easy to understand why the olden day folks who did it may have felt the need to curb promiscuity or felt justified it reduced promiscuity in girls😳
DeleteHow did the MARRIED Ex know about her "low-ness" situation if she didn't inform him?
DeleteSperm no be anointing oil.
Wow 36years old and this naive?! This ex raped you abi is this playing? Cos I don't get the drift of this chronicle e get as e be. You are an adult if you don't want to keep or you want to keep the baby, you decide...You are suppose to report that mudafcuker to the police going by what you typed.
ReplyDeleteInfact I am confused
Report him to the Police for what? There is no where in the Chronicle that she said he raped her.
DeleteThis is what she said, in case you missed it "He came with ice cream and wine to cheer me up. I don't drink at all normally but I drank in pain, then slept off. I woke up to my ex touching me and I let him. Anything to get over the pain of the break up"
There is no crime here. Purely consensual knacking. Tone down with the man-hat.e.
This Anonymous E be like say bomb dey your head. Which one is man hate. Is everything all right with you? You could have explained without being silly
DeleteThere's no rape anyway, she is just playing herself or in disbelief.
DeleteI am the Anon and everything is okay with me. However, look at the mirror and ask yourself the same question.
DeleteUnprotected sex 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the gbolas and you are crying? Why crying? Keep the baby you are a big girl.
ReplyDeleteYou can do DNA test for your baby (pregnancy) as early as 7 weeks.
ReplyDeleteYou demand a DNA test from your ex. If you feel like he'll decline, do it codedly.
Don’t get one from ex
DeleteGet it with married lover
If he’s not the father, there’s no need to tell the ex what happened cause he’s the father
What's next after the DNA? Will it change the fact that she is pregnant?
DeleteYou honestly could be pregnant for either of these men, only a dna test will confirm. Like someone else said you can do the test in utero or wait until the child has arrived.
ReplyDeleteDid you subconsciously sleep with your ex to get back at your boyfriend for the breakup? And the ex must have known you do not drink so why bring you wine? You both had your ulterior motives and now your eyes don clear and realize the utter fckry of it all. If you play with fire you either get burnt or the house burns down. May wisdom and discernment find your doorstep as easily as your ex did. May wisdom and discernment enter you as easily as your ex did. May wisdom and discernment plant a lifelong seed in you just like the seed of life growing in you.
Unprotected sex left and right. STDs must be a joke to you. Like you reconnected with someone from 13yrs ago n you just had unprotected sex with them just like that n you are 36. Wow,
ReplyDeleteKeep your baby irrespective of who the father is. You ll be ok.
If she has an SS baby (if it’s the married guy’s kid) she just altered the trajectory of her life forever and not in a good way.
DeletePoster you did flesh to flesh without thinking about your time of the cycle.
ReplyDeleteHmmm
Hmmm
That is why it's not good to jump on the opposite sex immediately after a breakup or even to have sex when you are not ok emotionally cos you end up messing things up.
If you were 23 yes now I will understand you are naive.
Now see your situation;
the owner might be a married man, and you don't want to break another woman's heart, and the other suspected owner is AS that means you risk have a baby with SS anaemia
God have mercy on you
Poster do what your conscience permits you to do
After chopping raw back to back, u are now thinking of who to kill. You are not serious. You better tell that ur bf the truth. Technically, you were broken up when u had that sex so I can’t say if that’s actually cheating but he needs to know there’s a chance the child may not be his. The decision to stay or not based on this should be his choice
ReplyDeleteIt’s not cheating
DeleteThis “modification of the truth”, “alternative fact” stuff is why a woman had the guts to say on SM, she was “promiscuous” but still a “Virgin” though she had done “everything imaginable” with men aside vaginal penetration with her “pastor” husband by her, a few days ago. As if the hymen is what makes a virgin. We are speaking of doing it with two men within a few days here, so it is worse than cheating in my opinion!!
DeleteI wonder why people will be meddling with ex, You are really a confuse person. You messed up yourself and if you are not really careful you will mess up the more. Receive sense and pity the unborn child.
ReplyDeleteThe way some people complicate their lives needs to be studied, bikonu what is this?
ReplyDeleteMy dear please take out the pregnacy
You want to kill you Ex? For what exactly? You really need help dear Sis.
ReplyDeleteHonestly some people's action really amazed me.🙆 You want to kill your ex. Okay, go ahead and kill him so that you can go to jail fast😫
DeleteIf I catch my guy with his ex chatting or even hanging around anywhere eh.
ReplyDeletePlease, who invited the EX to your house? He just showed up from 13 years ago, is that where you were living 13 years ago? Sebi you don see small pikin for our blog now! You think say you wise? Anyway, 36 years old woman, no be small pikin o. If you want to take the risk, keep the baby, you may never have another one.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I advise that you break up with both men! Don't string them along. Stay without man small, let your body rest.
Leave her let her be whinning us, so poster you don't have any female friends or family members you can cry to, na ex of 13 years your phone first dial ehn weldone sis, you're doing well.
DeleteDo you people have sense at all on this blog? I think what she meant is that she and this ex broke up 13 years ago not thay they haven't seen in 13 years.
DeleteThe baby could either be an Aa(a healthy child), As(a carrier) or Ss(a sick child).
ReplyDeletePoster, you weren't suppose to have gone back to your ex? He is married. Now, you complicated the issue by telling him you are pregnant.pls avoid your ex, do not cause another woman pain nor break her home.you can take the risk of keeping the child and be hopeful he/she comes out to be an healthy one cos genetically,the child might either be an Aa, As or an Ss.
Good luck to you dear but above all,be more closer to God and he will guide you through all difficulties.
Which kain hopeful and hope, this is like sleeping with a hiv person and hoping that that you won't contract it , una no dey fear diseases
DeleteAbort and rest
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts. Having a child with sickle cell is no joke. Don't take the risk.
DeleteLoL 😂! Jeweluchi, you be real case o! You don't want to say what's on your mind but you said it anyway.🤣
ReplyDeletePoster,🤐🤐🙄😏🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
You see the stress with unprotected sex.
ReplyDeleteIt's usually not worth it.
Poster you are pregnant with twins,one for your boyfriend,one for married ex.
ReplyDeleteViolaaaaaaa welcome to preek-a-thon and the consequences.
You are abroad,36years nack raw
Look at what a full human used to sleep with you ice cream and what again, probably in your house
Stella we need your eslap today
Where e dey sef
Twins bawo,na triplet one go be for us on this blog
DeleteShe needs the e slap 36 years for that matter , baby dey hungry you to keep na this unclear eye you wan keep, so if they leave you now you ll pin this pregnancy on boyfriend chaii I pity him
DeleteGo and abort this pregnancy and rest, don’t bring an innocent child into this mess, don’t complicate the life of an innocent child
ReplyDeleteThe deed has been done, but you can actually know the genotype of the unborn baby, although expensive...
ReplyDeleteIf nature decide to punish you and you birth SS... Omo... You'd so regret keeping the pregnancy. You not even scared of STDs chopping raw D up and down, at your age! Getaat.
ReplyDeleteJust go and get rid of the pregnancy if you're not sure of who is responsible, next time stop nacking one monday another friday.
ReplyDeleteYou have been dating your supposed married ex for 13years and got pregnant. He told you he doesn’t want it and you are asking for advice. That’s the real story.
ReplyDeleteWell don’t abort it
Go and do a dna test while that baby is in the womb or else sorry will be your name
ReplyDeletePoster the mistake have already happen so i won't say much. Considering your age i would say if you have money do a dna test first, i won't advice you to terminate it because what if this is the only child you are going to have and another thing what if the child is for your married ex you woundn't want a child with ss. Now is not the time to be crying o sit down and do the needful fast.
ReplyDeleteWhich kain contradictory advice is this mtcheww
DeletePlease do not kill the man.
ReplyDeleteIt's bcos she wants to hear Bvs response: leave the baby , don't touch the baby, yes we re don't abortion but you see this gbege wey you wan enter so nne your beat bet is abortion.
ReplyDeleteMy problem with you pple is that they always come with I'm 30 sth years old I'm considering the baby cos of my age nonsense, una no dey born with clear eyes? It's always keeping baby of lackadaisical knack mistake,
Maybe we LL take a census of how 30 years old makes sexual mistakes, the circumstances suppose to make you run collect post pill what is wrong with women , if you keep doing this what are you going to advice teenagers, mehhn I don tire for una oo
So all these while to get belle no dey hungry you na clear eye , future karma pregnancy you want to keep madam na that your ex get the belle, so you will now pon his pregnancy on this guy , imagine future DNA awaits you
Terminate and have a clean slate you see this belle e go torture you soon
I'm pissed how una dey get mind dey knack anyhow during heartbreak why you call your ex , fish brain adults in the body of teenagers mtchewwwwww