Hmmm....
SERIOUS ADVICE NEEDED
Hello Stella and BVS....
I am in a real deep shit and i need advice on how to quickly fix this...
I planned with my Friend to seduce my husband to know if he would fall for it since he always swore no woman could make him look her way long enough to date her.... He kept assuring me of his love but the devil toyed with me and i went too far to seduce him.
My friend was supposed to get him to toast her, record the evidence and show me but this friend has practically cut me off and it seems like she is secrtly seeing my husband now...
He is now telling me to forget about her that she is a bad friend......Isnt this the profile of dating? She no longer picks my calls and i visited her twice and she was so cold and told me she tried but it didnt work out....
My husband is a big spender and does not hold back when giving...
We are a year married and have no kids and I am scared my friend may snatch him.....
Should i confess what i did to my husband so that he can end whatever he has with her?
Should i also report this whole thing to my mother in law so that she can help me talk to her son?
I am so confused!
What do i do?
Hmmmm you 0lanned with your friend to seduce your husband and now it looks like she has passed behind to date him and now you want to scatter the relationship? Wahalaaaaaaa who send you to seduce your husband?
Please by all means confess to him and get this over with but also know that she may also have told him.....
Na wa oh!
Why can’t you ever leave well enough alone
ReplyDeleteDon’t confess don’t talk to your mil
Just focus on being a good person and a good wife
What is wrong with you. Are you bored
Madam, if am your friend en! If I leave your husband make I meer
DeleteNtoi!!! Serves you right!!
DeleteSome of you be out there playing games meant for children even as adults, I no get advise for you, if your hubby wan go, make e go.
Confess now before it escalates.
ReplyDeleteI don't think he fell for her gimmicks, she's only cold to you because her plan to snatch your husband didn't work in her favour, if it did she would have kept pretending to be your friend while still sleeping with your husband.
I think your husband heavily humiliated her for betraying you without him knowing you were in on it from the beginning. It's enough reason why he's warning you to stay away from her.
She's bitter because she realizes you have real gold and not "wash"
Confess and have peace ✌️🕊️
Twins ♊ Squared
You don’t know why the friend is bring cold towards her
DeleteAll this my friends is better excuse don’t let talk search your hearts and admit wrong
Stella, you forgot the other 2 "wahala". Na 3 "wahalas" we dey use for Nigeria na o!
DeleteThis is what Wafi pipu dey call:
"Trobo sleep, yanga go wake am"
Or
"Over sabi kpuff monkey"
Poster, continue to be the good wife you are. It is well with your marriage. Though you don't trust your husband at all.
Confessing to your MIL will only evoke a denial and anger if your husband is truly involved. If he is not involved, he would be double angry at your betrayal. If he is involved and his mother brings him out, you would lose your standing in the family and be seen as an original trouble finder.
Ahead of any consequences, accept that you numbered yourself by yourself in the marriage.
Welcome to the club of first wives or senior wives.
Please, how is she a good wife? Someone who, rather than focus on her year old marriage, is testing a person's resolve with the intention of pulling him down. Seems a lot of you Do Not Understand the gravity of what she does... including the obvious background informations and all. I hope you don't get what you're looking for Sha. Your friend is probably ignoring you cos she got embarrassed and has realised how bad a person you are
DeletePoster, honestly ehn, I don't want to say what's on my mind, but what I will say is,
ReplyDeleteYOU ARE REALLY NOT FEELING FINE.
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Delete🤣🤣🤣 which Merici we go give her now ooo🤣🤣🤣 chaii poster Udo ooo get well soon oo..
DeleteYou have to deal with this situation o
ReplyDeleteI refused to comment, I always see people doing that as childish and brainless, I used to think it's it's joke. It's better I keep mute because I have nothing good to tell you
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
My dearrrrr, such childish behaviour.
DeleteYou did what u should never do, you even chose the worst friend to do it with. Come clean to ur husband and he may just come clean to u. Awon testers isonu
ReplyDeleteGood for you.
ReplyDeleteSluttychic.
Exactly, good for her, nonsense! Don't involve your mother in-law.
DeleteCome clean with your husband and give us feedback
Same marriage people are praying to have is what you decided to toyed with, so sorry if you find this offensive, you're immature and probably really young.
ReplyDeleteWhat are your reasons for marrying him if you don't trust him that much, just a year marriage.
It's better you report yourself to your mum than your mother-in-law except if you trust her that much.
Felicity
Good for you. As in very very good for you. You haven't seen anything. What is all this rubbish na?
ReplyDeleteSomebody already pledged his faithfulness to you, but no you must do this rubbish. How bad were the men around you that you don't believe your own can be good.
You are forgetting she may be wishing for a partner, and you just delivered your own to her. She could even jazz him and have you kicked out.
Common sense is not common.
Seduce your husband. Like you don't know the sacredness of your union. You want a third party to seduce your husband. Oya na
Aunty, anything you see, collect it with your full chest. What you ordered vs what you got
I feel like pressing konk not any kind of knock, but konk on that your head. Long hiss
Rooting for his wedding invitation with your friend. How can you be looking for what is not missing. Congratulations to your friend.
ReplyDeleteMy dear! Mtchew...this wan na real congrats to her friend, if I say what is on my mind to the poster, she fit bleed! You are not serious, you got what you deserve!!! Yeye dey smell.
DeleteWhat do you guys take marriage to be? Abi na nollywood loading be this?
Loool
DeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteWomen
Confront your friend first before any other decision
ReplyDeleteConfront? If you were the friend, what would you tell her
Delete#flipthematter
No o.please allow your friend to finish the mission by giving him one child.oponu ayirada
ReplyDeleteIs like some women don’t like peace they like problems always
ReplyDeleteWomen appear happier when they defeat other women for a man.
DeleteWhy will you tempt your husband just why? That was very silly. He is a man. A human, only God can help a man. So you should never have tempted your hubby with yout friend even if he was boasting. That is so wrong.
ReplyDeleteYou better pray for him and come clean. What if he tempted you and you failed?
Do unto others what you will wish them to do to you
All the best.
How do one play gamble with heart?. You know this will give you heartache ,you go ahead and do it .
ReplyDeleteIs your husband still going out with the girl,why are you nervous?
Nobody snatches anybody in a relationship , Is either the both catch feeling and fall in love. Poster, you made your friend betrayed you, now you are feeling guilty. Even if you confess, will both of you trust each other again??
How do one play gamble with heart?. You know this will give you heartache ,you go ahead and do it .
ReplyDeleteIs your husband still going out with the girl,why are you nervous?
Nobody snatches anybody in a relationship , Is either the both catch feeling and fall in love. Poster, you made your friend betrayed you, now you are feeling guilty. Even if you confess, will both of you trust each other again??
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ReplyDeleteFire down friend😄. Play silly games and win silly prizes.
ReplyDeleteWhat you call temptation may happen just once . When it continues , is no more temptation but intentional. She seduced your husband , from there they fell in love. They know what they are doing. Your confession won't stop your husband from seeing her, unless he decides to stop.
ReplyDeleteYou just assumed that the man fell.
DeleteDid you read where Poster said he called her friend a bad friend?
That he called her a bad friend don't mean nothing happened between them. The husband might just be feeling guilty and wants to use that to put the girl away. I'll not advice poster to open up to her husband oh, because if I were to be the husband, I'll go after her friend and finish the job if my wife open up.
DeleteWhat you call temptation may happen just once . When it continues , is no more temptation but intentional. She seduced your husband , from there they fell in love. They know what they are doing. Your confession won't stop your husband from seeing her, unless he decides to stop.
ReplyDeleteLet your friend have him. Young lady your marriage is gone.
ReplyDeleteYes,confess to your hubby and let him know everything.pls don't try such again.May God heal all troubled marriages.
ReplyDeleteThis the case of trouble day sleep iyanga go wake am up..just clear your mess cause you created it yourself..
ReplyDeleteVery childish behavior.
ReplyDeletePoster sope Otilo.
ReplyDeleteThe devil will always find things for idle hands to do. Go ask the devil what you should do since he sent you on this mission.
ReplyDeleteYour last line tho 😂
DeleteSo in 2023, a healthy man that can have an erection and plenty money in his pocket and freedom to move around, told you that he can never date another woman after u, and you believed him?
ReplyDeleteAs for you, if stupid could fly, you would be a jet.
For ur friend, never ever trust anything that has a brain and can think for itself, if u cannot see where it keeps its brain.
Jk Rowling.
You have been married for just a year or did I read wrong? You have made your bed! Lie in it. May be worth seeking a counsellor quickly to deal with your insecurities. Why would anyone want to deliberately seduce their husband? What did you intend to achieve. Case of Yanga dey sleep and trouble dey come wake am. Ever heard the phrase let sleeping dogs lie. How would you have felt if your husband did the same to you. Your mother in law should not be your point of call. Find a counsellor and both yourself and your husband need to see a counsellor. What would you do if you found out though that he has had a relationship with your friend? One you orchestrated. After all of this please get busy as this is simply a case of an idle mind being the devil’s workshop/factory.
ReplyDeletePlay stupid game and win stupid prizes. Good for you poster since you don't like peace.
ReplyDeleteI pity the dumb and unfortunate friend that will use me to test their spouse. I really pity you
ReplyDeleteDear poster. When will people learn that any interference in marriage is the beginning of its downfall? Your first mistake, you discuss your husband with your friend. And then you want to make another mistake by involving your mother in law??????
ReplyDeleteYour marriage is only 1 year old. And you already have doubts. He MARRIED YOU! What else are you looking for? Did you catch him with another woman? Or did you find evidence? Do you not know what if your mind dwells on something negative, it eventually happens to you? You should have used this time to build your home, build your connection with your husband, get to spend quality time with each other, do things together, instead of plotting evil.
What you should do? Own up to your foolishness and promise him that you will never doubt him and try such again. I hope he forgives you.
Chai, but you really went far. I have said a word of prayer for you. If he truly loves you, he will forgive you.
You really need to have trust in your marriage, else you will not get best out of it. That is why they say “marry your friend”.
In Fela’s voice
ReplyDelete“When trouble sleep
Yanga go wake am
Waking him dey find
Palaver, he dey find
Palaver, he go get-e o)
Palaver, he go get
Palaver”
Better confess to your husband and never dare him again. Please come and update us the outcome.
Eezi
Most of you blaming the wife and not her husband and are completely corrupt and you all lack integrity.
ReplyDelete01:56, don't mind them. They all think everyone must be as matured as them. Poster is probably young and naive, she needs counselling and not bashing. Poster, confess to your hubby, tell him how disappointed you are for even fallen for your friend (if he did) when he Promised that he will never cheat on you, then apologise to him. You need to trust your spouse until he shows you reasons not to. Focus on how to spice up your marriage and being happily married than seeking for assurance of your spouse's faithfulness. Enjoy your young marriage.
DeleteYou're as retatded as the poster to type this shit. What did the husband ever do wrong? Just point out one thing he did that deserves bashing
Delete08:11 Don't you test products before you buy them .So if you can do that for a mere product why not a marriage that is far more important.
Delete08:11 Don't you know many people pretend to be faithful.The only way to unmask this people is through this test.
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