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''GOOD MORNING STELLA AND MY FAMILIES….PLEASE POST IT FOR ME PLEASE
I WAS THE ONE THAT POST CHRONICLE ON TUESDAY, AUGUST 15 2023....She came on Wednesday, and she is staying in my female friend place…I took them to the market yesterday to buy food stuff for them, so that she can be comfortable, later in the evening I took them out…
There are some things she asked for my advice, and I told her why not her husband to be.. She told me, that her man is not mature enough to handle some issues. That is why she can’t discuss some things with him.
MY FELLOW MEN PLEASE ..LEARN TO ACCOMMODATE YOUR WIFE, GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE TO BE…THEY ARE BABIES TO US..
LADIES PLEASE DON’T MARRY BECAUSE YOU ARE GETTING OLD PLEASE…
My friend called me this morning,. That it was my matter, she discussed with her all through the night, that its like she still loves me. She is going back on Tuesday morning..
MY SDK FAMILY WHAT SHOULD I DO ? I NEED HELP
SHOULD I STOP SEEING HER, TILL SHE TRAVELS BACK…''
LOL.... why are you shaking`? Why are you so bothered? Or you think you might fall? lol.
If you continue seeing her, what do you think will happen?Enjoy yourself and watch her torture herself with allegedly still being in love with you...Maybe she even came to stay around to show you she still loves you...Why assume she is desparate to Marry?
You even took her shopping and out to dinner? Oga you still like her...
Read through the advice and take the one that suits you best...She is not yet married, you can still try if you are ready.....Or you chop clean mouth if she agrees...hahahahaahahahahahahhahahahahahah
Well time is going so if you love her shoot your shot and stop bothering us lol
ReplyDeleteDon’t have sex with her though. That’s just not good for your own mind
As long as you guys are not alone what’s the fear, she’s staying with your friend and Tuesday is almost here
DeleteWhy is she getting married when she obviously doesn’t like the guy?
You seem to have some kind of feelings for her, if you do why aren’t you both not together?
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It’s like u urself wants something with this woman. You have put her up in ur female friend’s place. Let her finish what she wants to do and go back from there. Why are u so involved in this?
ReplyDeleteIf you still Love her, tell her
DeleteI just taya.
DeleteThey like each other, poster is just trying to hold it and respect himself which is good though.
However, poster if you feel you aren't emotionally strong enough to resist that temptation of falling headlong into a situationhip with her, then try all you can to not see her till she leaves, limit your communication on phone to the barest minimum too.
If she wants to dump her fiancé to give you both a chance let her do it with her full chest and come for you afterwards rather than this corner corner she's cutting.
Poster have you read all the comments from the last post? I have seen through you, so because she said she is still in love with you. It is sounding like a mantra and echoing in your head..
ReplyDeleteYou don't need any help. Just bang her already so that you can rest; you just want to feel those mushy mushy feelings that you used to share. Continue entertaining her conversations you hear.
Please bang her once again. Mtsheeww
Last last una go f**k each other.
ReplyDeleteWhile at it,make sure you wear raincoat,make she nor carry your seed go dash this new man she wan marry,later una go dey find DNA test upandan 🙄🙄
DeleteThe question is, do you still love her?
ReplyDeleteIf yes, she has to call off the engagement if you want to try dating her again.
If no, don't see her again avoid her throughout her stay. It's not enough to flee from temptation, you have to flee from anything that could lead to the temptation. Don't even try to 'chop and clean mouth', she could trap you with pregnancy or guilt trip you.
@ Fabulous onyx, so you want her to call off the introduction.? I don't really know what and what they do during courtship. Some focus more on s*x and sharwama and get carried away.
DeleteIs she supposed to be engaged and dating someone else?
DeleteSame opinion I have Fab Onyx. Anon why can't she break off an introduction? She is obviously not very okay with the choice she's making, it's better late than never.
DeleteOga obviously you’re the interview that lady came for, and she’s already getting her pass. So you blame her fiancée without hearing from the young man? A woman that’s engaged to be married scheming to go back to her ex and you believe she’s trust worthy?? I pity her fiancée
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Fan what if she found out something about her fiance after intro and is confused about getting married? Let's not be quick to judge.
DeleteWell said.
DeletePlease we also need to note that Poster has not declared his current relationship status.
Unless you are ready to marry her immediately, please please please I beg you in God's name, leave her alone and let her go back peacefully. Don't invite curses into your life!
ReplyDeleteIt seems she doesn't really like who she's currently with. I agree with Stella but not on the chop and clean mouth part. You said she was good to you when you were dating and she's a nice person. If you still love her and ready to marry soon, then definitely try pursuing her again. I will advise that you put s*x aside for now in other not to cloud your judgement. Don't ask her to break up with her man, just let her know you are still interested in her and if she's not sure about her man then you will like to give a relationship another try but she should take her time to think about it and get back to you in a month. However if you are sure you don't like her anymore then avoid her
ReplyDeleteTo me it Seems the woman wants the knack more than the poster
DeleteThe one you bang in the past never do you? 🙄
ReplyDeleteIf body dey scratch you do the do and let us have peace in this space bikonu
Seriously you spoke my mind o... What's with all the questions when you know what your mind tells you.
DeletePoster do the needful like advised here
Why do you all believe every relationship must involve illegal sex, you all forget there are people who still love God and try to keep his laws.
DeleteHahahaha Stella oh, advicer of the universe.Poster, the way you are sounding, you still love this babe. My advice is marry who you sure love and the person love's you too. E get why.
ReplyDeletePoster why did you break up with her ? You said that she told you that her man is not mature enough to handle issues, that is like she still loves you. Maybe she thought she would see the same qualities she saw in you in her fiancee. Abeg poster they have done introduction, leave her before she will change mind and start cheating .
ReplyDeleteStella nothing is wrong being kind. Taking them out to shop doesn't mean.
Poster why did you break up with her ? You said that she told you that her man is not mature enough to handle issues, that is like she still loves you. Maybe she thought she would see the same qualities she saw in you in her fiancee. Abeg poster they have done introduction, leave her before she will change mind and start cheating .
ReplyDeleteStella nothing is wrong being kind. Taking them out to shop doesn't mean.
Why are you both not together? You're not ready for marriage while she is? I feel she came to see if you both can kick off from where you stopped. If you still love her, move forward with her please
ReplyDeleteBros, no listen to Stella o. By now you suppose know say she dey whyne you as you dey whyne yourself
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I advice you to be firm with decisions.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is no joke. If she has the qualities you desire in a woman then go ahead.but if she doesn't pls take your time to find the right one your heart desires.
Please let that girl be, don't chop her, don't see her again till Tuesday and if you must go, go with your girlfriend.
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Oga, what she told you about her fiancé is as true as what men tell new target about their wives at home. See you even advising men, have you spoken with the man to know he has not been accommodating her? What exactly do u want him to accommodate? Things like she is travelling and wants to lodge with her Ex? May be those are the kind of demands she makes and if he says NO, he becomes ‘immature’.
ReplyDeletePlease face front and let her face her life, if she wants to have anything serious with you again, she should be willing to break off what she has officially, then you can start, else, she isn’t serious about anything. She wants to juggle you guys. She is enjoying the attention from both of you and if you don’t stop it now, even after she is married, she would keep manipulating you into still being in her life.
What you dnt want another man to do to ur wife/daughter, please don’t do to another man’s wife/daughter.
Thanks for this piece of advice.
Delete@ KSP TRUTH
Dear Poster, from your chronicle both of you are still much in love with each other. Please to avoid story that touches free her. I see set up.
ReplyDeleteI heard it is not uncommon for folks to start rethinking and getting cold feet as it draws closer to their wedding date. Apparently, the reality of the monumental decision they are about to make triggers something in them, this means nothing, and is purely a physiological and emotional response.
ReplyDeleteThis woman is not your responsibility, she is committed to another. Let her work out her issues on her own without any interference from you. In all things we do in this life maintaining a spotless character should be paramount. Never make yourself an interloper. God is enough and capable to bring forth our own without tampering with another’s to get for ourselves. We are told that not even the dog in our neighbour’s yard to covet. She gave herself to another, he accepted, please let them deal with themselves and mind your business. Do not let nostalgia and what ifs cause you to go do the abominable. She seems like she is looking for one last hot f&@k for her memories before walking down the aisle. Do not get wrapped up in her mess. You are more than a tool to be used in her box of possibilities.
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DeleteShe's not engaged yet, or if she is, she's having second thoughts or the relationship is shaky. Sometimes when you do intro you start seeing the person differently and start deep introspection if you want to be married to this person for life. Apparently she is at this point.
ReplyDeleteDon't start what you can't finish. Don't let her call off a relationship if you are not ready to marry her or she will resent you if she loses the other man and you don't wife her. Why did you leave her the last time? And do you think those factors are still valid? If they are, dey your dey.
Or maybe you guys didn't even date long enough. How long did you guys even date that a break up was easy and smooth. Do you know her very well because if you guys kick off, you need to date her and know if she's the one for you. If she misses a great man/marriage then you guys don't work out, it wouldn't be this nice.
The heart of women is very deep. She may not even know what she's doing and looking for a sign. Don't be that sign. Don't mind those telling you to get laid with her. It may have far reaching implications that you wish you never did. You have started rightly by keeping her at your friends house, keep being right and be the respectful, responsible man that you are.
That guy in her town maybe a great guy, she's just calling him immature because she's not sure of him. If Na you she keep for that side dey check out previous relationships, would you like it? She may have dated other people after you and have interviews there too.
If you ask her to stay an extra day, and she agress, find out what lie she will tell the guy. You may have second thoughts about her after hearing her. Let's pray she's not a BV here who is seeing all this.
Once again, don't start what you can't finish.
On a personal note, I want to start using a name to comment because I don't always comment here but the few times I do, the feedback I get from other BVs who say listen to this person, I think I may have some useful thoughts to share here.
Bro, please be sure. Best of luck.
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If she breaka off the relationship because of him and he doesn't marry her, she will start cursing him whilst naked at midnight 😏
DeleteEh ya! , its obvious you are still in love with her . Please let her know your intentions and give her time to get back to you.
ReplyDeleteThis your eye on her maybe your greatest undoing ;perhaps she is pregnant and want to fix it on you hawuf dey run Belle
ReplyDeleteShe holds one man in her right hand. She is interviewing Poster with her mouth. Is there another man in her left hand?
ReplyDeletePoster, you are dealing with a very selfish woman who believes all is for her taking.
She would very likely leave your location for another interview.
If she is truthful about her man, she should have left him. She doesn't have to leave from one man and immediately to you. A woman calling off a planned marriage and jumping back quickly to an ex has a spirit of fair weatherness in her.
But it is always sweet to a man to be wanted by an ex. So, kontinue.
By the way, you did well on the alternative accommodation and food arrangements.
Poster, so if you are in a relationship, this woman would just return and destroy it like that. If your partner writes a chronicle on it here, what do you think all the female Bvs prodding you and the rest would say about you/ men?
ReplyDeleteI doubt she has had her introduction. Maybe she told you someone is coming to see if you will be pushed to do something. If I'm wrong, then she is not happy with the person she is about to settle down with. She had to pour out her heart to your friend because she knows you will definitely get her message.
ReplyDeleteIf you are still interested in her & intend to marry her soonest, make your finding to establish whether she has done intro or not. If she has, move on with your life but if not, both of you can start off again..
Me laughing 😂 🤣 😆 😹 😂 🤣 😆 @ ,"why you dey shake" Stella u r funny & brutal🤣 😂
ReplyDeletePoster obviously cares so much for the ex.
Infact the two ex loves still love eachother.
If not for the advice he for allow am stay for him house and dem.for knack tire.
What a wow.
Poster bia can you both get together and ditch that alleged engagement?
Cos maybe this whole thing was a setup by her to get back into your life hahaha 😆 😂
Inside life.
You are a nice guy sha.
You spent your money took dem out on a date.
Una go dey alright.
You both want to nack, nack again and let us rest
ReplyDeleteI said it in previous post then that she is hunting for a child in agreement with her future impotent husband, simple as abc
ReplyDeleteGuy man, you no talk about your own current love life,
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