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Sunday, August 06, 2023

Actress Mary Njoku Says African Women Are Petty To Each Other

 Who disagrees with her?



22 comments:

  1. To an extent she is right but not all- just a few.

    I have had bad friends but I have also had good friends too, that he fell out we sort it out.

    A friend called one time like that but I was at a clothing store. I do take my time when I go shopping and sometimes I leave my phone at home not to get distracted because shopping is a form of leisure for me. By the time I got home and I called back to explain she was not having it and said I purposely ignored her. That was not the first time. She reads unnecessary meaning to things.

    There was another day I waited for her in church before I went in so we could go in together and sit side by side but she did not show up on time so I decided to go though my messages to while away time and when she got close she said I saw her coming and pretended like I was pressing my phone. I just weak! considering she was the one I was waiting for her. I wondered why she would always have a negative perception but I watched her and noticed she silently competes with me.

    The one that broke the camel's back was when I bought a pair of shoes and she asked for the price and I told her. There was a look of disbelief on her face, maybe she felt I couldn't afford it but she insisted I gave her the address of the store I bought if from. I was shocked because she wasn't a shoe freak( she likes bags instead). She told me she likes the shoes and wanted to buy it too. I gave her addresses of stores closer to her vicinity where she could easily get the shoes but she insisted she wanted to buy it at the store I bought mine and pressured me to take her there.

    Anyways, I took her there and she asked the store owner how much the shoes were and the man gave her the same price I had already told her before. He brought he shoes out but right there she gave an excuse of being in a hurry and told the man she would go back for the shoes. She never went nor did she get the shoes at other stores near her, like I envisaged.

    Friendship with some women can be competitive and full of back-biting, envy and cattiness. Just choose your friends wisely.

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    1. That one no be friend!

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    2. This is why I have no friends again because most of them envy me secretly or they turn me to their problem solver, therapist and relationship adviser abeg I got tired and blocked everybody because me too get my own for body I’m dealing with!

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    3. This advise she is giving us easier said than done, the last "friendship" I attempted, I won't even call it a friendship cos we worked together, I carried her along in everything on the job, assisted her the best I could and so on ended when she started ganging up with the other teammates against me.

      It seems she even went spiritual because I used to go with her to meet clients, after a while, she started going with other people and all my clients stopped responding to me, she will now be telling others how I'm very lazy. Life is much better for some of us when we walk alone.

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    4. Choose your friends wisely, especially those you call close friends.
      @anon: 12:36. The ones you called bad friends are not really friends. Is either you are a friend or enemy. Friends are always friends.

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  2. She hit the nail on the head. I totally agree with her.

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  3. Mental slavery is generalising about women of your race. Some people are petty irrespective of their gender or race.

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    1. Yup

      My friends are not petty and they are mostly African

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    2. The same way you people say men are generally cheats,women are also generally petty.

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    3. 14:08 I don’t say men are generally cheats
      Some men cheat and some don’t

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  4. Pettiness is not gender based,or about race or religion.

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    1. @Blogbrity,it is not, but you see the one with African women, na top notch, competition, envy, jealousy, bitterness and the list goes on ..as for me I gat no time for that sh**t!

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    2. How they added me in one women 's group I don't know what they do. As in, you must be part of the group by fire by force that all the women in that group will see me and start claiming I'm their friend. I'm surprised maybe they don't know what friendship means.
      What I do with friends, we talk, gist , laugh and catch fun. I haven't done any with them ,know them or have their numbers.
      who added me in that group? I can't explain.


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  5. This is for people that keep petty friends I guess. Cos I'm a woman born and brought up in Nigeria and I've never experienced this amongst my friends.

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    1. No don’t blame the victim
      Thank God your friends are not like this
      Those that have experienced this probably didn’t do anything to cause it

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    2. Not everything misfortune in life is spiritual. There are those devil uses to hinder your blessings or scatter your plan . They may be among the circle of those you call friends.
      To be a friend is not same as being a good friend. Choose them wisely, and guard your circle.

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    3. Not everything misfortune in life is spiritual. There are those devil uses to hinder your blessings or scatter your plan . They may be among the circle of those you call friends.
      To be a friend is not same as being a good friend. Choose them wisely, and guard your circle.

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  6. You won't know who's deeply petty until you hear some things. Shioor.
    I apply a Dey Your Dey situation immediately,no time to waste time.

    I remember that Friends skit years back by 2 babygirls.
    Big baby was in a cot, venting about her so-called friends while her lil sis acted the hype girl right behind her.

    Baby girl: friends that don't like my vibes. Hmmm.
    Lil sis: WONDERRRRR!

    Baby girl: They're my friends but they don't like the way I'm doing things.
    Lil sis: DELETEEEEE!

    Baby girl: they're my friends but they're not happy that I'm successful.
    Lil sis: MOVE AWAYYYY!

    Baby girl: Time no dey wait for somebody...I say Dey Your Dey make I Dey My Dey!
    Lil sis: It's a "Dey-ing something"!

    Baby girl: they're my friends and they go behind my back saying things about me.
    Lil sis: BUT IM AT YOUR BACK?!🤷
    hahahahahahaha 🤭

    They are at the *back" they better remain there before they mess you up.
    Every woman can't be your FRIEND.
    #Malife
    ✌️

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  7. Truth is not far from what she said. We are to petty compared to guys.

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  8. See all of them “Saints” so who is the bad friend , all of you be killing ceece meanwhile you’re worst than her , crazy people

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