Thursday In HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings....

IN HOUSE MEMO

It is a beautiful day.....Look for the good in the day and be happy.
I just watched a video on whatsapp about a man who kept defiling his daughter until she was sensible enough to report him to the Police...It was heartbreaking.....Some women need to stand up for their kids!

I am about to go into the city to do something...... who wants to come with me for a glass of cappuccino? you will love it and after that you will enter KFC to check something...lol

Have an Interesting day, if you day is boring, make it Interesting......
Catch my hug
PS- Gladys can you send me the names you collated for the thingy? Thank you
 Something great is about to happen!

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UPDATE FROM LADY WHOSE DAUGHTER WAS MOLESTED IN SCHOOL

''Good day Stella,  

 I carefully read through the comments and I am so ashamed of myself,  I am not a bad mother,  you needed to see how that old man was accusing my first daughter vehemently and I actually believed him only to find out later that he is a cursed liar...

  I sent a few evidences to you on WhatsApp to show you that I was not lying,  Stella I fear troubles,  I don't have money for case, every organisation in Nigeria is so corrupted,  that was how I contacted a popular activist about my marriage then, he was to out to help until I told him that I don't have money for mobilisation,  he went cold immediately,  I don't want to go through that again.

 I am a single mom and I don't have,  besides this people do indigene things too much,  somebody called me and told me that the school has the backing of a recent past governor and every case about that school is always swept under the carpet,  she even told me that her own daughter was molested too, she said she poured the director's wife a bowl of pepper, gave her enough  beating  and changed her kids school.

As for people suggesting I go to a hospital,  there was no penetration,  he only bruised that part beneath the clit,  I only bought antibiotics incase of infection,  and for the hotness of her body,  I no get who go stand by me to do case, Stella  I don't know this city so well,  I only moved into this city from a far place just last year,  I really don't want troubles,  I don't want to die and leave my kids,  it's hard enough for us already,  I don't want more,  I am not a bad mother....

I love my kids,  I devote time for them and bringing them up decently  with the help of God,  I'd rather beg you things than sleep with any man to get it,  this house,  their school,  you Stella paid for it all..... I don't even know what I'm explaining anymore,  I am weak and very sick,  may God see me through,  this will not happen again by God's grace... Amen .

Anyone that feels the need to help her can do so through me....May God bless you as you reach out in Jesus name.

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PINKYS CORNER

This life no balance at all and I don't even know where to place this one sef for my head.
There is a man who died last week and I don't know him and have never met him once. I heard when some of the market women for my stand dey discuss about am. Then I just asked one of them what happened and after like an hour after they finished the discussion and she explained to me

She said, the man was happily married with three kids but after some years, the wife was sick and the test result stated that, she is suffering from Breast Cancer. She began to visit the hospital regularly until the day she was operated on. Her left breast was cut off to prevent the cancer from killing her. After the operation, the husband began to misbehave and after some time, he left the wife stating that, he can't cope with one b**bs(who does that?, nasty reason). 

He left the wife and began to live on his own with another woman who didnt give birth during their relationship. Exactly 5years after leaving his wife, he began to have issues and later realized he has Prostrate Cancer.
He began to treat prostrate cancer but the treatment was too late

He began to spend money until he needed the help of his children and it was too late. The wife whom he abandoned then is still alive, strong and healthy and has even traveled out once to do omugwo for the first child. I was told that, when the children finally decided to help their father, they gathered money and sent the second born to do all necessary but the man died few minutes before the second born got to where he stays in Oyo state

What a life, we all need one another to survive, I'm sure if he had foreseen ahead what would have happened , he wouldn't have neglected his wife ,using the nasty excuses. The children on their own side didnt do well at all....They should not have taken sides.

 I can remember when I was growing up, my mum said alot of bad things about my dad to me, just to make me hate my father. When I got to know my father, I was in secondary school when we met, he on his on side also said alot to me about my mum but I was so smart to listen to both and drop whatever that was said to me immediately after meeting each one of them because I hate to inherit people's enemies.

I have my life to live and I can't be hoodwinked to believe someone is bad except I have an experience with them.

 So, the children especially the primogeniture should have been so wise to put those things aside and take care of their father. Now, their father is dead and they are planning for the burial in a big way.

Na wah!!! This life no baöance at all...


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RE /FROM MY INBOX ON WEDNESDAY

''Good afternoon ma'am Stella,

I am ardent reader of your blog, and I will say that you are very good at what you do,I love you and your bvs so much, keep on with your good work to humanity and I pray that the good God will continue to uplift you in Jesus name Amen.,

 After reading about the woman that says that her child (4years) was molested at her school,then I decided to write my own story, so that we parents should always pay attention to our children.

Two years ago, one of my twins (3years old) came back from school and as i was about to shower them, she told me that someone touch her boom boom,I draw her closer to me and asked her to tell me what really happened, before then I have been teaching them s#x education,I always tell them don't touch someone breast boom boom and armpit, and they should not allow any one to touch their own---

So that day as she told me that,I went back to the field where the keke (that keke that the door is normally close) that the school rent out to drop the children (the school was in my area before the government demolished it,so the owner of the school rented another place far away from my area and rented a keke to convey the children from my area to the new place). I went back to that place and met some of the teachers that follow them including her class teacher and told them what my daughter told me and I told them to all watch the children carefully,then one of the teachers said that it might be the boy that "lap" her that touched her boom boom and they promised to query the boy.

By the time I got back home she was already sleeping and my elder sister that came to my place told me that when she wanted to bath her that she was crying and saying that her bom bom was paining her, at this point I know that it was a serious matter so I woke her up and told her to lay flat and open her bom bom for me, and I found out that someone fingered her and with tears in my eyes I called my husband and informed him of what happened, as God may have it, the owner of the school stays around my area so we took my daughter to her the place .

 I and my husband were so angry that we told her to provide the boy that lapped her or we will go and report at the police station, that evening she called the class teacher and the other teachers and they were all begging us not to make police report, that she will investigate the matter first,so the next day after school she came to my house and told me that I and my husband should come to school the next day that they are through with their investigation. 

We went there only for the proprietor to invite her lawyer and one of the parents that claim to be working for girl child whatever, the proprietor told me and my husband that from their investigation that boy that lap my daughter is just a 9 years old boy and therefore he is too young to do that, that it might be infection, and the other woman claiming to be a girl child whatever told me that why didn't I wear her popsocks that she has three girls in this school and she always wears them popsocks and that I don't have any evidence because I had bathed my daughter and also washed the pant she wore that day.

 At this point I lost my patience and I told the proprietor,you believe that a 9 years old boy is too young to do that but my 3 years old daughter is a liar just because you want to protect the image of your school, a 3 years old girl came back from school and told her mother that someone touched her bom bom and you said that she is lying, I told her that I don't blame her, if I went straight to police station we won't be here talking this nonsense, and I told the other woman, that she should be ashamed of herself, instead of fighting for the girls child she represent she was fighting for the image of the school, thank God she has kids, just know that when it happens to them nobody will believe them.

 I changed my children to another school. 

So poster please change your daughter to another school because If you leave her there, they might start bullying her there, and next time don't beat your child for something you are not sure of.  

And please poster should take her child to hospital for proper check up and change her to another school, since they did not take responsibility for what happened to her, thats what I did to my child. In my childrens new school, a male teacher did that to some of his pupils and the owner of the school called police and arrest him , that shows that she have the interest of the children at heart unlike those that what matters to them is the image of the school. My fellow parents and guardians please watch your children closely.


So one cannot even send their child to school again without being scared? what is going on? how did it get so bad for Gods sake?

All these stories have really made me sad....


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