How did putting all your eggs in one basket turn out? Did it pay off in the long run?
There are some who will NEVER put their eggs in more than one basket
Lets gist!
Saturday, July 15, 2023
Saturday In House Gists - Putting All The Eggs In One Basket
When it concerns Marriage or relationship, Do you put all your eggs in one Basket?
How did putting all your eggs in one basket turn out? Did it pay off in the long run?
There are some people who would NEVER put all their eggs in one basket..
There are some who will NEVER put their eggs in more than one basket
Lets gist!
How did putting all your eggs in one basket turn out? Did it pay off in the long run?
There are some who will NEVER put their eggs in more than one basket
Lets gist!
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Right now I'm only putting all my eggs in God's (Yahweh) basket.
ReplyDeleteOnly Him can solve all the puzzles, and only him will.
Ok on another angle sometimes putting eggs in one basket pays off o, just be smart and wise
Me I put all my eggs in one basket at a time. It kept me more focused llike that. I know what I want and deserve,so if after focusing on you for a reasonable period of time and I'm not seeing it...I'm out of there. I met my husband when I was 31 and we were married on my 32nd birthday. It's been 8 years now and it's all good.
DeleteDouble dating to me will makes you loose focus in a relationship. Just do one man at a time abeg
ReplyDeleteWhich one be all these eggs and baskets analogy 😂😂..
ReplyDeleteOmo, the question na say you be CHEAT ABI you no dey CHEAT for your relationship/marriage 🙄🙄
No whine yourself with any egg and basket talk, claim your award with your full chesstt🚶🚶
Hahahahha I tire oh.
DeleteBianca Bruno
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Dante wey no dey disappoint.
DeleteI only put all my eggs in one basket when I was 100% certain it was a desired and worthy basket that also desired my eggs in return.
ReplyDeleteMeaning you were cheating on him before you confirm he is serious about marrying you?
DeleteEven though this reply is turning on e own, sense dey am
DeleteOr maybe I was cheating on someone else with him 🤷♀️
DeleteNo matter how you interchange it, you are cheating on him.
DeleteSo next time, don't call someone a cheat because you ain't a Saint for moral condemnation.
17:48 happy new year
Delete😂🤣😂🤣😂 Eka ooo no kill me with laugh, anon happy new year o😂😂🤣
DeleteHmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis is gonna be an interesting read anyway.let me learn from people.
My take is, whatever school of thought that works for you is better. Don't use other people's manual..Do what is right.
I once kept all my eggs in one basket when i was still single but due to one thing or the other, it didn't turn out well.
Now that I'm married, because we are one, so, my eggs are in one basket and it's working fine for me
God continue to bless your home.
DeleteYes , one basket, then leave the rest to God.
ReplyDeleteAll my life I have plan A to C for every decision I take. I don't play with risk assessment. So I can't have all my eggs in one basket.
ReplyDelete👏🏾👏🏾 Risk assessment
DeleteI have never tried that One basket ishh, even in marriage I get safety husband ,that's ready to marry me instantly if things go south
ReplyDeleteYour confidence sha, same way the man get plan A to Z
DeleteO Chim.
DeleteWith recent incident and observation about my husband, plan B is an option.
DeleteWomen are cheat. They will certainly stain your white.
DeleteMake your marriage go south and see the way that your backup husband will disappear.
Osheyy, safety husband keeper! Dey play! We, men, are also in the game. Nobody was born together with a husband or wife. Even twins/triplets/quadruplets separate at one point in their lives.
DeleteJust dey play. Man way go marry woman way leave en husband house no go ever dey faithful
DeleteMy two cents✌️
Why are ye all triggered about her safety husband?😄😄
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣 safety husband?
DeleteSafety husband!
DeleteThis Blog is na school.
We learn by the day.
No bi cheating partner be dat?
Abi the safety drops only when the east goes south.
Till then what would the safety husband be doing with his life?
Keeping safety wives until the north goes west.
Yet one gender points only at the other.
Safety husband! 🤣 Youdon'tmeanit!
DeleteE get why I come here straight after a long day.
DeleteSafety husband 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteThere’s always a plan A B and C at every point in my life
ReplyDeleteWill you be sincere enough to say with all the Plan A, B and C you have gotten something tangible out of it relationship wise?
DeleteI would've want to put my eggs in different basket,as per relationship,I no get liver abeg,but,if other things,plan A,B C is the surest.
ReplyDeleteNa crate we dey use now. One egg per crate.
ReplyDeleteCrate? It's one per state levels now.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you eeh
Delete🤣🤣
DeleteLol
DeleteIf na crate all the holes where egg nor dey go jus show.
DeleteSome put all their eggs in one basket and was lucky like me😂. Others have done that and were disappointed. So I will say follow your heart. If you know the basket carry the eggs well without breaking it.
ReplyDeleteIf you're dating two people because you don't want to put all your eggs in one basket, you're not in love. You're into business. With love, you put all your eggs in one basket. Love places a risk of losing it all or getting it right. If you can't risk it, stay single........... Solomon Buchi.
ReplyDeleteI concur with him. I will rather risk it all than do business with my emotions. It works for others doesn't mean it will work for me. And yes, I will definitely get it right someday.
Let's not even sugarcoat words here. It's purely CHEATING. If you venture into a relationship with the mindset of cheating by justifying putting your eggs in many baskets, you will still do samsame in marriage when you finally meet different men doing fine more than your husband. This is just the truth.
DeleteIt takes a whole lot to be discipline in life.
Interesting topic.
ReplyDeleteThe matter is a sensitive one.
Let me share my “friend”current situation with you all.
They started dating since university , graduated together and seeking greener pastures together. The lady started dating her university boyfriend when she was 22 years, now she’s 30 and somehow comfortable financially, boyfriend is 34 and still somehow stable, but still leaves with aging parents in the family house, no bachelor/ personal property, nothing nothing, just his working tools and clients. Lady feels like the guy is wasting her time and youthful age and this is beginning to bring resentment and frustration. But they love each other sha.
Now, this same lady has seen someone that is very interested in her and wants to wife her. Financially capable and mature for marriage. When asked if she’s in a relationship, her reply was “ it’s complicated “. Now They’re ( the second guy and the lady) currently talking on phone and will soon meet wach other physically for the first time. Is the lady bad?
Your friend should stop wasting her time with the first man. He doesn't seem like he's ready to marry her.
DeleteOnce a relationship is past one year and the man hasn't taken steps towards marriage, please walk away
18:09, you guys keep pushing people into rubbish with this after one year talk.
DeleteMost of you don't have love; but will be forming commando online and chasing people away from what gives them joy.
That notwithstanding, if all she craves now is Mrs and the other guy isn't ready yet, let her marry the new guy with her full chest and know she did what she wanted and will take whatever that comes with it.
These are the kind of relationship she should leave. Assuming they are still struggling financially I would have adviced that she endures. Now she is financially stable and the guy is trying even though he is not rich yet , so what stops them from marrying? He wants to wait until he becomes rich before he can marry his childhood love? He is not serious
DeleteI don't even have eggs to put in any basket anymore. Relationship na scam🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteI used to think so but then something different happened to me. When you meet the right person, they will not only love you but respect and adore you. There are still good people and real people but handful.
Delete🤗
DeleteI am actually of the opinion that a person can date multiple people at the same time. However, I disagree with having multiple BFs or GFs (relationships) at the same time - outside of an agreed "poly" situation.
ReplyDeleteI view Dating and Relationships (which are 2 different stages) like a hiring process.
The woman becomes the HR manager and she is looking to fill a position (ie. Life partner, husband).
You place an ad and start getting applications (ie. Match-making, online dating etc).
You narrow down the options and choose the strongest contenders for interviews (ie. Going on dates and getting to know the guys better).
Some candidates go through multiple levels of interviews, and even get to meet some of their prospective colleagues (ie. Let them meet a trusted friend or family member and get their honest opinions about the men).
After all the interviews and compatibility tests etc., then you offer them them a permanent contract (ie. A commited monogamous relationship). If you both agree to the T&Cs, then you proceed and face forward.
You can set a probationary period, so if anything comes along that you cannot overlook, you terminate his contract and start the rehiring process all over again.
Omo thid your permutation na helele
DeleteMakes sense as explained. That is how it has been since women started asserting their right to choose their partners. And where all relationships are kept chaste and not monetised, there is no big deal.
DeleteBut
Life has passed that stage in many ways.
How many women would agree that a man could adopt the process described in "hiring" them?
Lol..
DeleteThe man can also be submitting applications and passing various stages in other companies (dating other girls too) until he gets employed right?
There is no question that most men do way more than this most of the time. They have the one they want to marry and the others who they don't mind wasting their time.
DeleteThere is no such thing as one basket. Your typical Nigerian lady has at least 5 boyfriends
ReplyDeleteHmm
DeleteAnd the men have how many? Oh I forgot, it is a man's world abi?
DeleteWhen you make plans and provisions of what to do when you fail, invariably you have chosen to fail.
ReplyDeleteJust like Dante said above, it's cheating in its entirety saying you're putting your eggs in different baskets. Best believe, you will lose all eggs because you won't be able to keep any. A divided attention and emotion can't succeed at anything.
Once I notice you're double dating, I will cut you off if I want to be nice and a gentle man else I will just be playing along till you finally get the message.
I've always been team put my eggs in one basket ooo. If the basket collapse we go enter street again. You have no business being with someone if you will still be considering other options.
ReplyDeleteI honestly prefer honesty.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone. When the time is right, I will know.
ReplyDeleteAt a wedding ceremony the pastor asked if there was anyone who had any reason why the marriage shouldn't go on; it was time to stand up and speak, or forever let them hold their peace.
The moment of utter silence was interrupted by a young beautiful woman carrying a child. She started slowly walking toward the pastor.
Everything quickly turned to chaos. The bride slapped the groom. The groom's mother fainted. The bridal train scooted towards the door. The groom's men huddled together like a bereaved flock, wondering how best to help save the situation.
The pastor asked the woman, "Can you tell us why you came forward? What do you have to say?" The woman replied, "I can't hear from the back."
LESSON: Hold judgment until you've had all the facts. However, many times we fire the shots too quickly and beautiful relationships are ruined.
I always put my eggs in one basket,I don't have plan A or B even before I got married.
ReplyDeleteAny lady in her late 20s shouldn't put their eggs in one basket 🧺 except u are engaged already....
ReplyDeleteA was very nice, humble but was struggling financially, graduated with no jobs,slow,not serious with the relationship,I was actually faithful until my brain rebooted say this one na time waster ...
So I added B, this one love me 😂,took care of me, provide for me,but na Anambra mummy's boy, his mum wants someone else and told me to my face..na so I add C
C doesn't have much but he love God and has potentials and rest of mind,he even loves me more than I love him and is ready to settle...so I went for C and everything became beautiful 😍, it's been 7years with no regrets,we dated for just 6months...
A just got married this year,B has two baby mamas and is still not married..
@ Mrs S, thanks for your story. Sometimes, circumstances will make you take these decisions,not everyone who has options are cheats.
DeleteThis is pure wisdom at work 🙏🙏
It's all history now anyway but you for just dicahrge A before you add,discharge B before you add C. Nothing worng is quitting a relationship heading nowhere and moving on. How are the twins doing?
DeleteThank you @18:58
DeleteThanks for sharing.
DeleteNo o o, didn't you see it that you pointed out their faults? Those things you pointed out are enough for a wise person to know that that is not where you belong. You would have called off the relationship immediately you saw those signs in boy A, and when you met boy B you would have done same thing . What were you still doing with them after all the confirmation that the relationship won't lead to marriage?
DeleteJust say you want dey enjoy outside nackings. I understand now.😁
Putting your egg in one good basket is in marriage only. As a young girl, don't put your eggs in one basket biko! Don't sleep around too.
ReplyDeleteWhat about not collecting money, food and gifts from the baskets?
DeleteWhatever works for you, but me I no get liver to put my eggs in more than one basket.
ReplyDeleteOne basket is enough. If the basket shatter. We move.
ReplyDeleteI date one at a time. If it doesn't work, I move on.
ReplyDeleteThis is the root of many first born paternity fraud.
ReplyDeleteHow good and pleasant it would be if more younger men read blogs like this than political blogs and newsletters. Many more will marry with better understanding
Posts like these explain why some female bvs are always angered by comments by some male bvs - the prefer that some matters are better left unsaid.
Stella, well done.
One man at a time is the ultimate.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is many will come here, say that it is cheating, bla bla but are actually doing the opposite in reality. Lots of people these days have multiple partners. The ideal thing is one at a time sha. People like me nor fit juggle,na awa nature be dat. 😉
ReplyDelete