Sometimes it is not only always about cheating....
There are some other betrayals that make people end relationships or walk out of Marriages...
Which betrayal did you suffer in the hands of your lover/spouse that made you walk away from the relationship or marriage?
Or is cheating the only thing that can make you walk away? Well some people stay after the cheating and their mindset is ''My mama no leave my Papa when he cheat so why i go leave''
Secret betrayals can end a marriage or relationship..
Money betrayals can also end it..
Lets gist!
Good Afternoon People of SDK. Happy New Month of July.
ReplyDeleteCheating is a choice, some people will see the red flag and still choose to ignore thinking he/she will change. It can only take the grace of God for a cheat to repent.
Aside cheating, unending lies can also end a relationship, some people are so good in lying that they start believing their own lies.
ReplyDeleteMy friend of 12 years, trying to push me to a fake lawyer, she knew was fake. Thank God, I wasn't from a home that mount pressure on someone and my instinct is fire. From day1,I couldn't tell what it was. I said no immediately, but she kept pushing but I stood my ground. 2 years later, everywhere burst in my state. He ran away, no one knows where he went.
ReplyDeleteI got the so friend off immediately, I wonder what her aim was. To destroy me probably. Knowing I like following rules and it will be a stain in my career, destroy me forever, if I had marry him. He wanted marriage like ASAP. Thank you Jesus.
Thank God. This story is so scary 😱
DeleteHe wanted marriage immediately to get cover from your respectability and good reputation.
DeleteInstincts are good and if you were a desperate person you would have entered one chance. Your story is a salient reminder that no matter how much we desire something to never let desperation set in or operate from a place of desperation.
Everywhere burst open..
DeleteCare to share the full gist? What did he do?
Happy new month my people here
ReplyDeleteSDK happy new month
Good afternoon to everyone
Mine told silly unnecessary lies, like a child. He once told me, with no provocation that we belong together. I was feeling cute and reminded him on a later date. He told me that he was lying and that I know that he lies. I didn't quite what to make of it. This man is always available to me but cannot seem to stop entertaining random women on WhatsApp. He likes making them feel that the interest is there and they have a chance with him. They know he's in a relationship. The one that worries me is the woman he knew before she married. Every day chatting from morning till night and when he doesn't hear from her he will be chasing her on WhatsApp. We broke up over her last year after he promised to end the inappropriate relationship. I found out last week that the chatting resumed since December. I also saw more random women. His excuse is that I don't like chatting because we see and talk regularly. Some men love WhatsApp this much? He says he's not sleeping with any of them as if sex is the only betrayal. We are both Christians and are avoiding pre-maritals. I can't take this so I've left him. I don't believe he won't cheat in marriage. He has apologised as usual saying relationship and marriage are different.
ReplyDeleteHow can relationship and marriage be different, When the same person in the relationship will still be the same person in the marriage?
DeleteI am sure as a Christian you have prayed and even God has weaned you to back off.
Be happy that you dodged this bullet.
DeleteYou even tried, sm1 that even confidently told u that u know he lies, yet u continued the relationship.
DeleteAnon 14.59 is he name Lanre? And he lives at United Avenue Estate or something like that at Sangotedo? If yes you Don enta long thing oo. He is a chronic cheat amd serial lair. I met him on this blog and had to run for dear life. His lies can wake the dead
DeleteAnonymous 17:10, lol thanks for the tea but he's not the Lanre animal. We are in the UK. We are both in our 40s and I guess that's the main reason i hung around. Fear of being alone is powerful. Its really tough but I'm moving on but it's tough. I only saw WhatsApp. I can only imagine what Instagram is saying.
DeleteYou can’t be a blog bv cos wtf is this chronicle you just typed. Girl, the bar you’ve set for your intending partners is on the floor. Please pick it up and raise it.
DeleteThis man you just described up there is worse than this Mr I’m unavailable. You were warned
It is not only cheating that causes pain in marriages. Sometimes your partner may prioritize his family and friend over you.
ReplyDeleteThis was exactly my case! His putting his family before our Kids killed every love I had for him.
Delete16:23, and you are still with him?
DeleteI broke up with a guy because he allowed his friend feed him wrong info about me,I can’t be defending my self all the time while you base all your decisions on friends.to think that I was working the whole time yet the friend fed him lies that the reason I wasn’t coming around was because I was seeing other guys.e
ReplyDeleteLol. The guy wanted you to end the relationship. Either that or he’s super possessive and paranoid. The type that will make you stop working when y’all marry
DeleteI cannot com and kill myself because of boyfriend.I hate nonesense.
DeleteI have never been married, but I know of a marriage that broke up because the husband wanted an*l sex and the wife refused. She got tired of his pestering and questioned his sexuality so she filed for divorce and exited the marriage.
ReplyDeleteI know of another where the husband impregnated the wife’s sister who came to help her with the baby when she had to go back to work. That was a big scandal at the time.
That first one, many women will give him an#al s*x to save the marriage. Then her an*s will start leaking and she will be going around with Pampers and cry everyday.
DeleteThank God you have sense and chose your life over marriage
He liked to keep malice so he can cheat well ! He would pick fights then go weeks without speaking to me. The last straw was when he ghosted me for 3 months and went to South Africa to patronize prostitutes and hang out without my knowledge at that point I was emotionally weak but needed a way out by fire by force because I knew that man could never be a responsible husband if we ever married. I left him ( in my mind) found God and moved on he came after his escapades mehn I ran away and moved house !!! I cut him off and ghosted in the worst way — God bless him wherever he is I’m married now Hope he’s happy (this was around 5 years ago)
ReplyDeleteVerbal and physical abuse, prioritizing family of origin over our family, and an unwillingness to improve are the things that ended my marriage. Now the sad, angry man is trying to poison our small child against me by telling her that I am a liar. Wish I had seen the signs earlier.
ReplyDeleteMy ex wife gambled my savings away. Not once but thrice. It had to end.
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