I keep telling people that for me to keep malice with someone is if that person did something really, really bad, maybe, took my wife. That would be how bad it would be before I can consider being enemies with the person.
As long as nobody killed anybody, nobody stole from anybody, it's just a misconception or misunderstanding which two grown up men can talk about over a bottle or two saying, 'Guy, that thing you do pain me', 'Guy, that one wey you do too pain me.' And you drink, shake your hands and life goes on.
People say I don’t look my age. I can't and won't look my age because I don't keep things in. There's no animosity in me because I won't allow it.
When he was asked if the senior colleagues in the comedy industry knew about the beef, he replied, " Yes, the bros (senior colleagues in the comedy industry) knew about the beef and at some point in time, they had to ask me to slow down. They were like, ‘You’re doing too much. You are putting in too much to make this thing work. Friendship is not by force'.
I was still believing it can work, we can work things out. So, in my last comedy show, I had to do a routine saying 'who's my guy? This is my guy. If you see this guy, tell him he’s my guy.’ The following morning, every where exploded again. ‘We are not friends. We are not that. We are not this'.
So, for me now, I’m not pushing anything anymore. As I’m here now as AY, if I have to go to my grave without sitting with any of these guys to say ‘hello, ‘hi,’ I will be happy."
Na wa oooo
ReplyDeleteNa wa ooo. Is friendship by force? AY should rest pls.
ReplyDeleteHe was asked the questionand he replied. But after now, if he is asked, abeg he should just say that chapter is closed. Next question!
DeleteVarey B Q.E.D
DeleteThis issue has been overflogged, let it rest!
ReplyDeleteTwins ♊ Squared
I am telling you 🙄🙄🙄
DeleteOdiegwu
ReplyDeleteNawa for this guy. He should move on already.
ReplyDeleteSomeone can forgive you and still decide not to have anything to do with you. Know this and know peace. Some people do this for their peace of mind. Please move and stop drawing us backwards this man.
I agree with you. It must really hurt but he gats move on!
DeleteAY is really concerned...abeg can someone give me update on the cause of their rift?
ReplyDeleteNa now you gerrit! Love and frienships cannot be forced. Dey your dey no be pride; na to avoid syphilis, sorry see-finish.
ReplyDeleteBM please forgive! Hell is real. made up of fire and brimstone. it's not a place to be. i dont know what religion you practice. Give your life to christ and learn to forgive i beg you
ReplyDeleteIt is well.
ReplyDeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteBasket mouth na God?Even God that created us still hear us if we call....I beg leave that big eye alone and forge ahead,you try AY...... Josaria
ReplyDeleteStop body shaming.
DeleteAY , Basket mouth is beginning to look like the bigger person! You think you have arrived, but you still need to work on your emotional intelligence!!!
ReplyDeleteFriendship is not by force! I use to have loads of friends, especially Nigerian friends! Do you know what? They are your friends because of your status! You pay for their meals at high end restaurants! You were travelling the world!!!As I am now, is only my closest sibling that is my friend and everything! I went through a lot in the last 7 years, do you know who stood by me! God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit!My best friend in the US and 1 sibling! Then 2 friends in Nigeria!!! 1 friend in the UK.
Even the men of God started showing disdain because no inflow of money like before. Thank God for the true men of God that stood by me!
Do you know what! God separated the sheep from the wolves in my life!
I have so much wisdom now,that they all thought, I was financially finished
Little did they know, that God was just starting with me!
I love 💘 everyone from a distance and have forgiven all,but I trust none! I can't sit at their table to eat, because these set of people can poison me.
Basket mouth has forgiven you,but he can never sit at your table or be friends with you.
Life is too short to eat with the devil 😈 with long spoon. Shalom
Your explanation above is Apt. AY you know you've grown, become wiser and better; Making you desperately looking for opportunity to show this new and better you to BM and others but Basket Mouth has forgiven you but chose not to have you in his inner circle anymore. over talking about it won't make him see this new you. Its your actions and behaviour that will.
DeleteLet go please
Wisdom ⭐ well said
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ReplyDeleteKeep it moving AY since they are not interested in the friendship anymore.
ReplyDeleteNa dem sabi o.
ReplyDeleteSe una no wan go heaven?
Wetin una dey read for bible ?
old men behaving like kids
ReplyDeletei await when you guys will make up, cos it will happen
How are they behaving Ike kids. Is it by force t be friends. I don’t want again na fight? Or you want t tel me you are still friends with all your friends 10 years ago.
DeleteAaaahhhhh ki lo wa le toh yen?
ReplyDeleteAy keep being the victim while Basket keep being the devil🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteHe shouldn’t talk about it anymore after this even if they ask questions about it.There’s some envy and jealousy involved in this issue but I won’t say from who.Tuface is close friends with both of them,he should’ve resolved the issue but what do I know.
ReplyDeleteKim kardashian entered the industry wanting to be friends with Beyonce by all means. Bey was up there, queen status in industry, very talented, well respected and minds her business. She didn't hate Kim but also didn't want her friendship, only cordiality. Years later and Kim, being the hustler she is, rose to be on Bey levels. Became a billionaire, married a billionaire, multi businesses, multi magazine covers. Fine. Bey still didn't want close friendship, didn't want clout, reality show or social media presence, just wants to mind her business and face her music... truth is they are both doing great but their personalities wouldn't match in friendship unless they want to form a fake one, which Bey would never. How they are now is fine. Cordial. Greet when they see, and when the party is over, to thy tents oh Israel
ReplyDeleteLife is a party, go where you're invited
Period!
Delete👍👍👍 you said the truth
DeleteAbility to forgive is a major thing that keeps marriage together. I’m not judging or interested in these folks but it is interesting that the other two cannot keep their wives or home especially the one whose wife nursed him back to health from a serious illness. This one should leave them alone, he doesn’t need them. I watched BM’s interview with his wife on YouTube back then. He was very condescending to his now ex wife I was embarrassed for her. Character is like a smoke. AY seems like a people pleaser. The Bible says “ as much as lies within your power, live at peace with all men”. Some don’t want to live at peace with you and that’s ok. Leave them and stop talking about it publicly even if it hurts.
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