POSSIBLY PREGNANT
I am just here thinking about how my "caring" boyfriend just zoned out of the conversation we were having when I told him that my period is kinda late....guy man lost appetite and was telling me how this and that person will be disappointed in him and how I've ruined his evening....Like enh ,I am like WTF!!!
And the scary or good part is that we've not Had s#x, I've never had and he too hasn't, just that the last time we kissed we were so carried away that we began humping bare and he ejaculated on me , close to my vjay area...
Is pregnancy truly a possibility from that..? And i pray God helps me this time around to be purely celibate until marriage....And I am also having double thoughts on his reaction about the conversation....
Bv's please bear with my scattered writing...my head no dey one place ...
*Yes you can get pregnant like this
His reaction is horrible and if it turns out that you are not pregnant, please dont tell him well well before you continue the relationship...
Wahala, Wahala Wahala 😩😩😩
ReplyDeleteHmm...
ReplyDeleteMarry him and have kids
ReplyDeleteOf course people will talk if you get pregnant now
Verily I saith unto thee, in this heavenly race, is either thee is daughter of zion or child of the world. Thou shalth never be both.
ReplyDeleteWhen thee sinneth, let it be with thy full heart and when thee becometh holy, let thee be steadfast with thy holiness.
Congrats for the innocent baby that cometh in few months.
As thee maketh out and conceived, let thee prepareth for baby food and diapers.
Peace be unto thee as thee enjoyeth the fruit of thy labour, as thy knacker knacketh thee well.
KJV*
DeleteKJV, welldone. Thou hath well arrangeth poster's scattered thinking.
DeleteI hope you're not pregnant. And when your period comes, tell him how you felt about his reaction.
ReplyDeleteIf he is so concerned about people's opinion if he gets you pregnant out of wedlock, then he shouldn't be doing anything that can lead to it in the first place.
You can very pregnant
ReplyDeleteBetter end that relationship now
ReplyDeleteI definitely agree with this.
DeleteShe can end it if she wants to o, but I don't think the guy is a bad person for reacting like that. Nor be every time you dey get Nigerian film reaction to pregnancy, even in happy marriages. People process things differently. Allow the guy process this rather shocking information. After all, pregnancy after dry humping is not very common laidat.
DeleteI agree with Fidel, my husband and I were married and actively trying for a baby for 5mths, I conceived on the 6th month and cried tears of joy but when I broke the news to my husband, his reaction was neither here nor there 😮 e shock me
DeletePlease cut the young man some slack! Oga never even enter Jerusalem, you don bring pregnancy news… if na you nko?
He is a weak coward, not boyfriend talkless of husband material. No support , the selfish creature was only concerned about how it would affect his reputation, thrash
DeleteThank GOD for allowing circumstances show the real selfish and mean nature of the guy, no pretence
Go for pregnancy testing by 2wks but end the relationship NOW!
You can get pregnant that way,my cousin years back got pregnant by the same method...you don't need a drum of sperm to be pregnant.
ReplyDeleteDrum of sperm 🤦
DeleteThe ex BBN naija girl also got pregnant through the same way and delivered through CS because she was still a "virgin", according to her.
DeleteI hope you aren't though. Better cross your legs going forward.
Iam afraid to say this but there is a possibility of being pregnant like this yes... I remember when my niece got pregnant at 19 as a virgin yesssss, she kept telling everyone she hadn't had sex but they didn't believe her, she refused to go for antenatal till the day of delivery, the doctor was angryyyyy, happened to be my boyfriend then, it was during labour they discovered her hymen was still in place, so annoying and sad....this is a true life story. Please do a pregnancy test, I pray it is negative, next time don't allow your boyfriend to ejaculate near your garden
ReplyDeleteMake I laugh small.. 😃
ReplyDeleteLemme join anon to scream wahala.
ReplyDeleteSex you no enjoy, Belle na you come carry am.
Chai .
I'm seriously hoping and praying it's not pregnancy.
Cut the guy some slacks abeg..
ReplyDeleteHe tried to also be celibate too, doing dry/wet humping and no penetration, cos he didn't want to disappoint his folks, only to still be hit with the pregnancy talk.. Haba.. he is human, he has emotions..
Una just think say guys no suppose dey react to anything like we're non-living things
No cutting of slack. He is blaming her, that shit head is a pos for blaming her, like she went out of her way to make this happen.
DeleteNon Living things can not do anything 🤣🤣🤣
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DeleteYou must sha argue with everything no matter how much sense it makes..
Enjoy✌️
Very selfish and insensitive "boyfriend" she is dragging along in life, irresponsible too
DeleteAunty throway that creature , no sense , responsibility dodger
Dante, i reason with you on this.
ReplyDeleteYes you can get pregnant through that way, but you didn't state how many days late your period is, because sometimes due to hormonal change, your period my come so late. If it's 7 days or more late, please run a test. Only test can confirm
ReplyDeletePoster I don't think this guy is ready for commitment. You shouldn't hurry into marriage .if you make a mistake of rushing into it without praying and seeking the face of God, you may have yourself to blame.he feels certain people might be disappointed in him at this time if eventually you are pregnant,so what does that tell you?
ReplyDeleteGo for a test and know your fate before deciding your next step in life.i pray God grant you wisdom at this time.
Your guy is just afraid, it happens to everyone grown men so please don't get too disappointed. Unless he doesn't come around soon.
ReplyDeleteThere's a possibility you are pregnant but you Wii only be sure after taking a pregnancy test.
Let me quickly add that, if it turns out that you are pregnant, please keep the baby no matter what people will say. Don't do something you will regret later in ife.
You could be pregnant, just know that once you are pregnant your guy will disappear and will cut all communication with you. If you are lucky and it turns out negative please close your legs and pretend to be manmaid.
ReplyDeleteThose abusing the boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteHow many asked if the Poster is herself ready for marriage and all-round motherhood. Or is a child for the mother as a playmate and for the father as a burden?
And please why do we keep deceiving ourselves that there no longer a difference between a boyfriend and a fiance.
So sorry about what happened poster. And I pray it doesn't result to pregnancy as you fear and if eventually you discover that it's not pregnancy please follow that Stella's advice, with that you'll have enough time to study him properly to know how much genuine he is. Still trying to understand this story though. "...we began humping bare and he ejaculated on me" I don't even understand what that is. Is it that the grammar is too big for me or what. Just came from the dictionary and it says humping means that the person had sex and the ejaculation means that he released sperm on you. So why am I getting from the comments here saying "yes you can get pregnant through that way" is this not the normal way people get pregnant? What's strange about it? They had sexual intercourse and he released in her, though the act was unplanned... Make una no dey use big grammar dey confuse people abeg. I don't even understand again . I know we are many here who don't understand this story but they don't want to say it...
ReplyDeleteThe poster means there was no actual penetration, was probably rubbing his penis on her laps till he ejaculated, the sperm can mistakenly enter the veejay and you have a technical virgin being pregnant.
DeleteWages of sin is death .....
ReplyDeleteOh please, most guys will react that way, especially someone principled enough to go straight the norm. You are also VERY SELFISH running down here, not considering how he probably feels+the weight of potential responsible vis a vis good current status.
ReplyDeleteBiko, Break Up with him as your crew of disgruntled singles have advised. He deserves better; someone that'll actually cross their legs and keep him from falling even when he slips Not the one that is being celibate for appearance sake like you.
I don't feel the guy reacted too badly sha, he's just in shock. As some BVs have said, he didn't actually have sex but is dealing with a possible pregnancy. I'm not sure how I'll feel if it were me.
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