She stated this in a video she posted...
She said:
“I have been getting a lot of questions like, ‘Is she single? Is she married?’
Now, I’m going to answer all your questions. I’ve never been married before. I’m single, and I’m a single mom. The reason I’m not yet married is not because I don’t like the word ‘marriage’. It’s because I’m taking my time and I love my space. So, if I must marry anybody, it has to be a distance relationship. I don’t think I’m very comfortable if I marry a man and every day I wake up, I see you on my bed, in my space. I will not be too comfortable.
“Sometimes, I believe distance relationships help create more fun in a relationship. It helps to make both partners miss themselves.
“That is why I’m not married currently. And it [marriage] is not really in my dictionary right now.”
She added that she has been celibate for four years and hopes to get married “when the time is right.”
Now, I’m going to answer all your questions. I’ve never been married before. I’m single, and I’m a single mom. The reason I’m not yet married is not because I don’t like the word ‘marriage’. It’s because I’m taking my time and I love my space. So, if I must marry anybody, it has to be a distance relationship. I don’t think I’m very comfortable if I marry a man and every day I wake up, I see you on my bed, in my space. I will not be too comfortable.
“Sometimes, I believe distance relationships help create more fun in a relationship. It helps to make both partners miss themselves.
“That is why I’m not married currently. And it [marriage] is not really in my dictionary right now.”
She added that she has been celibate for four years and hopes to get married “when the time is right.”
Good luck to you dear.
ReplyDeleteDifferent strokes for different folks. Good for you, Lizzy gold. May God grant us all our heart desires.
ReplyDeleteOkay Lizzy. It's your choice.
ReplyDeleteWell… if that is what she likes then she should go ahead, some men will like it too.
ReplyDeleteBaby girl take all the time you need in the world and make the right decision. Your view about is distance but some people will want to force it to your throat to marry a stay in same state husband. According to your wish.
ReplyDeleteHonestly,I'll also prefer a long distance marriage. So as to allow each other to focus and hustle without anyone disturbing the others peace,and also to avoid all these stories we hear here and there
ReplyDeleteAre you me? Do you know how many times i pray for transfer for either my husband or myself? Infact my husband cunningly moved into the guest room under the guise that he knows he disturbs me when he snores. Having the bed to my self at night is heaven!
DeleteGood for her. Anything that makes you happy do it. Don't allow world people to make you do otherwise
ReplyDeleteWhatever you like, your cup of tea.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your life sha
Your life ,your choice Liz
ReplyDeleteYour cup of zobo,
ReplyDeleteLizzy during one of your interviews few years ago, you said that you chose to be a single mother because you don't want to marry, you also said that you want to give birth to the number of kids you want without getting married, so why are you saying something else now, what happened?
People are not allowed to change their views?
DeleteShe's allowed to change her mind right?
DeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteNow say na babe talk am, we're seeing "do whatever makes you happy", "different strokes different folks" etc etc..
But if na me talk about liking my space just like I wrote last week about how I'm not into calls and hate unnecessary calls, na so so "you never fall in love" full under my comment..
Na only Una dey fit define wetin be love and wetin no be love so far e relate to man and no be wetin you like..
Make Una well-done 🙄
Ma
Even as anonymous as you are, the way you seek attention should be studied.
DeleteLol..
DeleteThe way you hate on a Monday morning should be studied..
Werey
Dante I noticed that too that day, I was just wondering like someone was explaining how he's wired in being in a relationship, people were just saying you haven't fallen deeply in love that's why, it beats me ooh. Me I sha hate such unnecessary calls and being on the phone for long hours..🤷
DeleteWhatever works for you go for it
ReplyDeleteEveryone with their own wahala.
ReplyDeleteYour choice Lizzy. Atleast your kids won't block his way one day.
I once watched a documentary many years ago about a married couple who lived in different houses. They said when they lived together they argued all the time, so living in different homes was the solution for them. They didn’t even live far from each other, like two streets apart. It was interesting for the times. Folks have to start being comfortable living their truth and not getting boxed into society’s expectations.
ReplyDeleteYou see distance marriage ehhh,I so want it. I don't like my man being in my face all the time. Most times I just tell God to give me an offshore worker for a husband,so dt he will be away most times while I enjoy my peace and space. And no it's not because I intend to philander, when it comes to self control I give myself 95percent
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