Hailings...
IN HOUSE MEMO
How una dey? I am very upset about something...How can someone just sit down and be calling someone repeatedly to a point of almost depressing me?If you are looking for help and use suicide thinking you will get me to help, I will close up Immediately....I am not in the frame of my mind for anyone to traumatise that way... A lady who claims she has been reading the blog for ages, sent a message on Instagram that she has sent me a mail...
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I was trying to work and an unknown number kept calling me and it tried for 50 times, half of the time i picked, nothing was said and the other times i cut it, and then only for me to pick one time and she introduced herself and i screamed at her asking why she was calling me with a hidden number, people of God, this person screamed back at me and i cut the call and when i went on my inbox i saw mails upon mails asking for help to feed with the kids and threatening to kill herself if i dont help....Just imagine!...I have nothing more to say to this and i have delted all the mails...If you are reading this, do not ever send me suicide mails again... I will not even read...If you have been reading this blog for ages, you will know that this way does not work with me.......
i am so upset!
Enjoy the rest of the day everyone!
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FROM THE COMMENT SECTION
''Good day Stella. I have three girls and I want a boy for myself not necessarily because of my husband. He is happy with his girls but every time I go to a wedding, I always wish I had a boy for the mother son dance.
My husband recently told me that there is a doctor in Portharcout that can help get a surrogate as I am in almost 50 years.
Please I need advice from people leaving in Port harcourt as I don’t want anything illegal to smear my name.
Please don’t call me greedy, I love children but I can’t have more as I have Fibroid and my kids were through IVF and we have the means to cater for another''.
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Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteGoodafternoon Esther and to all the beautiful souls π₯°π₯³ on SDK Blog!
DeleteMummy Anthony-Clever
Good afternoon
DeleteWelcome ihn, Hope everyone is fine???. Madame Stella sorry don't mind her,she is delusional. Bikoπππ
DeleteYou see this life baa, e no dey too good say you broke come jobless add and people come see you finish I swear. I just remember that time I was doing nothing and come broke join sef. I dey always stay indoor thinking wetin my life want be or don even become sef. Na so dis my neighbors anyone wey want go out or work, go bring keys come knock my door. ''Abeg, if my woman come give her the key'' Another one will say, ''if my children return abeg give them.''
ReplyDeleteNa me dem dey even call for phone to ask whether NEPA cut light. Abi na the ones wey go say, ''abeg remove my clothes rain don start.''
Kaii I see something oo for this people hands. Even when something happen, na me them go say make them come ask for the gossip and tory.
Na so I begin comot for house before I turn to yard maid. Na so the idiots them without shame and conscience come begin asked me, ''you don finally get work?'' Na so I talked for my mind, make God and thunder punish una there.ππππ
I just remember all these now as I see somebody where I go dey give him neighbor key say him babe dey come for afternoon.
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Una Good Afternoon ooh.
It's well Tj.. Thank God there's always light at d end of every tunnel.
Deletefirst four lines is me at the moment.
Deleteit is not easy at all
Acenene it is well with you
Deleteπ€£π€£π€£π€£ God no go shame us.π€£
Delete"yard maid" ππππ
DeleteThank God you are doing better now. Honestly, nothing pass see finish for dis life. E hard make poor man breef o. Kai!
The edit feature on
ReplyDeleteWhatsApp is good.
Everyday rain
Can't find it in my WhatsApp
DeleteGood afternoon to y'all
ReplyDeleteHave you seen someone with the same name and surname as you before? How was the feeling? Awkward or good?
Yes. We even worked together in the same department. The thing is that although we have the same name i only write my own on paper when the needs arise because nobody calls me by that name.
DeleteLol ok
DeleteGoodafternoon my fellow sdkerian fambam!
ReplyDeleteThey want to see your downfall and God is setting you up as a voice and a force that cannot be repelled..
ReplyDeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY.
Threatening someone who owes you nothing with suicide,what kind of human being is that one? Good afternoon blog fam
ReplyDeleteHow missed calls. How?
DeleteText message would do.
Good afternoon beautiful people.
ReplyDeleteIt's a cold afternoon.
The Country is turning into what the leaders want it to be.
Nigeria must Survive!
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I greet you massively Nne π sending you loads of hugs π€π€π€π€
Delete@SDK sorry about that,just continue to ignore the person..some people just like to frustrate another person, calling upto 50times like you're holding her kidney? Kai..there are ways to go about seeking for help,not using threat's and all
Welcome IHN π
ReplyDeleteGreetings everyone
Stella Ma'am,pls don't allow anyone to rain on your parade,just ignore the person, imagine the audacity from someone looking for help
Na the country wey we dey be that nau π funny meme
Very funny meme π€£ππ€£
DeleteI have been listening to alot of oldies duets since morning
Ever changing time -- Aretha Franklin and Michael McDonald
Someone out there -- James Ingram and Linda Ronstadt
A whole new world -- Peabo Bryson and Regina Belle
That's what friends are for -- Dionne Warwick, Stevie Wonder, Gladys Knight, Elton John
I don't know much --Aaron Neville and Linda Ronstadt
All I want is forever -- JT Taylor and Regina Belle
What a feeling π₯°
@Paris you know ball! Been a while I listened to some of those songs . Lemme go recheck
DeleteParis dear, I like your style. π
DeleteOld school gbedu can make sense!
Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteThe poster that wants another baby please in whatever you want to do go through the right way. May God grant your heart desires.
I saw an app for surrogate mothers and family. It a private affair as it is operated by professionals who link parties up but still remain private.
DeleteThey act as middle man and you don't have to meet with the surrogate.
The hospital(s) where she did the IVF can arrange it for her. It is usually a part of their services. If they don't provide such services, they are likely to give go referrals. Always best to work with professionals in matters like this if there are no extra considerations.
DeleteI dey fine Stella just that rain is too much .God bless y'all.
ReplyDeleteHello everyone, how is your day going?
ReplyDeleteSuicide mail, nawa o.
May God come through for everyone in this country.
Good afternoon π
ReplyDeleteEnd of the year party rehearsal can be really exhausting but it's really interesting
God bless our kids, they are really trying
Which one is end of year? Or you mean end of session. The year never dey end naaa
DeleteNo vex Stella! If she has been on the blog as a bv for ages past as she said, she should know that emotional blackmail with suicide won't work on you.
ReplyDeleteThe corn meme is just so funny. It is well.
ReplyDeleteHello everyone.
Sister mi,ba wo ni?
DeleteSis darl, mo wa. π₯°
DeleteSo wa pa?
A very beautiful afternoon to y'all ✨✨✨
ReplyDeletePlease let's learn to not traumatize people with threats and incessant calls because,trust me, we're all going through one thing or the other. Challenges only differ. Stella, e pele
Madam that needs surrogate,may God lead you to the right person and may you receive your heart desire.
"Blowing out someone else's candle won't make yours shine brighter". Deep words.
ReplyDeleteCool afternoon my yard pipuππ
People with entitlement mentality. Why can't you find something to do for yourself ?
ReplyDeleteGod abeg !!!!!!!!
Una good afternoon
Good afternoon Stella and bvs
ReplyDeleteMay our hustles pay in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen
Amen π
Delete@Eka hope you're good?
@Gifty @Miss Abroadian @Shea @Ogoja dude @Tenth @XP hope y'all doing fine?
Shooting Stars: Historical movie about LeBron James and his childhood basketball-player friends. Nice movie.
ReplyDeleteCurrently seeing Battle on Buka Street. And I'm looking for what to criticise. It's been dramatic from the beginning. Loving it.
Someone said buka street is a waste of data, who to believe now?
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteStella please don't let anyone ruin your day ππΎ Most people tend to use emotional blackmail to get what the want ! Instead block her and said emails ! Everyone has their own problems but instead people think that just because you are ok then they must harass someone
Good day everyone,
ReplyDeleteSome people are very funny.
So you will commit suicide if Stella no help... just dey ▶️
Some people are just extremely rude and unhinged. How do you go about bombing someone's phone with 50 calls because you want the person to help you, someone who is not your family or friend o, damn, Stella your eyes dey see something.
ReplyDeleteYo u even took it up a notch by threatening to commit suicide if she doesn't help, my God!! This thing dey make me vex, i won't even say more to you.
Portharcourt poster I hope you find what you want.
I'm off to work today, have a nice day all.
Happy belated birthday Uzu Anwuli, every of your heart desires this year shall be met, I like your blog persona.
Dainty T.
Stella I guess you are traumatised ! The caller that is disturbing Stella for money to feed children has money to make international calls and has data π³. My dear you don't need to call someone up to 50 x before we know you are serious??? The children you have is Stella the father of the children??? Abeg ooo. This is Alakoba style. Make your husband feed his children ooo. Don't constitute a nuisance online BIKO!
ReplyDeleteYou sell corn and buyer buys and you request the corn to be cut for you. You sell drinks and you request customers buy for you. Okay. Your kind of longer throat needs new name.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon awesome BV's. Some people's entitlement and begging mentality can drive one crazy. It is well oooo. May God direct and grant ur earnest desire surrogate seeking mum
ReplyDeleteMost people suffer because of lack of knowledge. When you have conversations with some people and hear them voice out their mindset , you’ll clearly see why they are missing opportunities and going through so much.
ReplyDeleteAquire knowledge.. but May God grant you wisdom & understanding! so that your life will go Smoothly
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Good afternoon blogfamsππππππ❤πππππ
Lols @corn meme
ReplyDeleteIya Ajoke: I am craving pizza.
ReplyDeleteBaba Ajoke: The same pizza you can't pronounce correctly?π€ͺ
Iya Ajoke:π
Ajoke: Mum, I will help you on one condition. How about I get half of the pizza?π
/ΛpiΛtsΙ/ peet suh
Pee za ❌
Iya Ajoke: You will start receiving slaps like Taaoma.π
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Entitlement mentality is sickening. Imagine emotionally blackmailing someone on top money that isn't yours? Did she send you to give birth to children you can't take care of?
ReplyDeleteNna eh, wahala everywhere. I'm watching CNN and Aljazeeera interchangeably and it's mostly depressing news.
ReplyDeleteFrom Israeli- Palestinian to Russian- Ukraine war, to fightings, killings, and so much suffering in this world.
Now, a submersible with five people on board went missing during an expedition to the wreckage of the Titanic. Since Sunday. Wetin dem still dey find? Ship that sank since 1912, explored by many. What could be new? If they're not found by Friday, they'd be assumed dead because they have just 70-96 hours of oxygen. My heart is heavy.
wow!
Deletei pray they are found
I just pity them. Lives wasted ππ
Delete@Castle, abeg... someone on Daily Mail today wrote your exact sentiments that they should let Titanic rest. I've been praying for God to show the people in that submersible mercy and deliver them o. I read about another journalist who had same experience with the Titanic in 2000. He said he felt an invisible presence after the stuck sub he was inside was able to float out
DeleteIt's a whole lot I tell you. You will just be all in in Nigerias ish and say let you check up on the world then boom
DeleteI pray they find them.
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
Anon, I read one book about unsolved mysteries of the world and it was said that this ship and all others that sank are haunted.
DeleteAnd two billionaires are on the missing sub oh. They can't die like that na. They will be found by God's grace. I don't even want to imagine what is going through their minds right now...the realization that all the money you have may not be able to help you must be shocking.
DeleteSomeday, it's all going to make sense
ReplyDeleteDon't stop pushing
amen
Deletei cant wait!
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DeleteGood afternoon everyone π
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon SDK and Bvs.
ReplyDeleteHello Bloggy
DeleteStella kpele
ReplyDeleteThe lady is feeling entitled to ur help.
Madam biko hold God not stella she is also a human being like u.
Ummmmmm blowing of candle stuff hmmmmm very deep, one day i will share my story here to encourage someone.
Stella press ignore button on the highest
ReplyDeleteSome people with their entitlement
Mentality
Can't deal mehn!
Good afternoon everyone, hope your day is going on good?
ReplyDeleteHumanity before religion
ReplyDeleteHow someone can call another person for so many times beats my imagination. How do you threaten someone else with suicide? Person wey no owe you anything o. Nawa o
ReplyDeleteThat was too much from the person that keept on calling Stella repeatedly. 50 missed calls for something that is not an emergency? Hunger is not emergency. Yes, it is not an emergency because you knew when you started running shot of money so you must have had alot of time to seek support from Stella or anybody. How could you bombard somebody's space within a short space of time like that as if the person doesn't have other things to attend to rather than holding her phone all day? Now I understand better when they say common sense is not common. You don't call someone repeatedly like that. Lol, you even had the guts to yell back at Stella , poverty never humble you and that proves that you have not really experienced hunger. Just few days hunger you are already acting this way. Wait until you feed once a day for one month then you will have no option than to act humble anytime the person you are begging food from is mad at you. This your case is totally different from that of the late Deborah and the OpM pastor. You acted entitled please. I hope you don't slap Stella if you see her physically because this your action shows that you could strangle Stella for not replying on time if you saw her physically.
ReplyDeleteI didn't even know that I wrote anonymously 15:25
DeleteSelf entitled mentality, you should have asked her what was she waiting for.
ReplyDeleteStella biko ewela iwe( do not be angry), na Tinubu cause am...Do not let these ungrateful, entitled, Nigerians frustrate you. God knows I cannot do what you do on here, no shame in saying being patient with abusive, manipulative ingrates, ain't my fortΓ©!
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon people. It's been raining in Warri. Na wah oo, giving someone that owes you nothing 50 missed calls and even threatening sui -cide.
ReplyDeleteDash us small rain here biko
DeleteWo, my comment went annon
ReplyDeleteMy father my helper, please come through for me. Amen!ππππ
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon.
ReplyDeleteBe like say the rain π§️☔ don turn everyday for warri .
It is well with you Stella. Just do you. Don't let humans change you.
Congratulations to IJ baby,.
The Woman that is looking for a male Child. I wish you great π luck and success.
Chai!π€
ReplyDeleteSo that format of threatening with committing suicide for assistance from SDK hand don cast.. and I be won try am ohπ€¦π€¦
Make I go think of new format.. money must be madeπΆπΆ
@In house memo that was the height of foolishness by the culprit. Trying to emotionally blackmail some into helping you is manipulative. Sadly we have a frightening population of entitled individuals, who see nothing wrong in disrespecting boundaries with their art of coercion.
ReplyDeleteKindly forgive the culprit Stella, and let that inconsiderate act not wither your vibe. Good afternoon everyone.
Good afternoon everyone πΊπΊπΊ
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Good evening SDK family π¨π©π§π¦. Ma'am Stella don't mind her, she will be okay. So sorry about that.
ReplyDeleteHmmm Oga find new format
ReplyDeleteGoodevening blog family, the person threatening Stella with suicide must be out of her mind. Is Stella owing you? Helping others has become something you want to use to traumatize someone.
ReplyDeleteSome people's sense of entitlement is on another level.
ReplyDeleteThis surrogacy works the one I watched in the movie When The Bough Breaks I dey fear, sometimes they want the life you re living,becomes ,greedy and manipulative and so well it favor some pple just make sure the person qualifies the criteria and it will not be sth that you wish you listen to your husband, it favored ini Edo just pray about it so that God will give you a good person
ReplyDeleteWhat a day, Phew !!! π₯Ί
ReplyDeletePoster there are many legal and registered surrogacy homes in Nigeria now. Especially in Lagos. Pls pass through legal process. (I can recommend one if you want )
ReplyDeleteThe surrogate dosen't have to see you or know you.
Everything is paid for and Papers signed.
After delivery,they give you your baby.