About 5month ago, my sister in-law ( my husband Younger sis) came to my shop to buy market from me, cux I sell wigs and cosmetics wholesales,I had just collected some contribution money that I have been doing for some time, 4million, almost an 1hr before she came so I was supposed to go deposit the money in the bank, in the afternoon of that day but I couldn't leave my shop as I was expecting a client, so I just kept the money in a small carton of biscuits and place it under the table of my office..
When she came we Sat down in my office to chat and cross check the market she bought, I had only left for some period of time to attend to a customer that was having difficulties with one of my sales girl but when I got back she had already arranged her things and was leaving, I didn't bother to check my stuffs, that was not the first time she was coming to my shop or was it the first time she was in my office..
After every thing and attending to my customers and clients in the office that day, I decided to go deposit the money I couldn't find it, I called all my sales girls to question them, they didn't carry it, we searched everywhere, I called all my clients and customers who came into my office nobody agreed they took the money, I called my sister in-law to ask, she said she wasn't the one....
I had to call the police my 4 sales girls were arrested and my CCTV footages were analyzed it's was only my sister in-law that carried a big bag out of my office, when I got home that day I told my husband what was happening the only thing he said, I had that kind of money somewhere and i couldn't assist him with his business good for me..
After a day of up and down my sister in-law was invited to the police station for questioning but she denied everything, when she got home from station she called all my husbands family to tell them I accused her of stealing my money and because of the money issues there were alot of troubles and quarrel between my in-laws and I...
A family meeting was held and I was told to kneel down and apologize to her as she is older than me. I did as I was told, I even began to question myself maybe I was mistaken or might have wrongly accused her ...
Aecause of All these I replaced my sales girls, I have moved on since then till 2weeks ago my mother inlaw called me that I should come to her place, when I got there with my husband I met other of my husband families and an Alfa, they explained that my sister in-law has been sick for almost a month which I was aware of but didn't know it's was serious to the extent of her not being able to walk, all her body is swollen and her tongue is hanging out of her mouth her stomach is swollen like she is pregnant, she can't speak normal..
I was asked to forgive her for stealing my money and fortify what I did,( apparently because of her sickness they went to an Alfa who revealed she wronged someone and asked what she did and she confessed of stealing my money)but I didn't do anything,I didn't go anywhere, even the novena prayer my mom suggested I do, cux my mom is a Catholic, I only did it for two days, it's was supposed to be 14days,I couldn't finish it am lazy when it's comes to praying so I couldn't finish the novena prayer, apart from crying every day and whining about it and saying anybody that took my money will not know peace until they return it to me ..
There was no other thing that I did, I have even forgiven her and made them know that I had no grudge or anything against her, I even prayed for her as suggested by the Alfa, it's been a week since all the forgiveness of a thing happened, just 4days ago both the Alfa and my mother inlaw with my sister in-law husband came to my house, they are asking me to help her carry out ritual more like some sacrifice to appease some elida so she can be well, they asked me to think about it, I discussed with my parents, my dad said I shouldn't dare it, so I called my mother inlaw and told her that I can't do it..
I also explained to My husband that i am scared of doing the ritual apart from what my parents are saying, I don't want to do it, but my husband said if I have really forgiven her or didn't have a hand in her sickness I wouldn't have a problem doing the ritual for her, because of this whole thing my husband and I have been fighting and quarreling, am 8weeks pregnant, this is my first pregnancy, All the calls of my in-laws and the family of my sister in-law husband has been stressing me out, especially my mother inlaw who as been threatening that nothing must happen to her child, with everything I have only been crying...
I don't know Why All these is happening to me, I have even moved on from the missing money since when its happened
This morning my dad came to take me home, my husband wasn't around when I left, iam currently in my parents place, I don't know if am doing the right thing by not helping with the ritual, or if I should just do it and forget everything, but i am scared, my mum said it may be a way to turn the sickness towards me but I didn't do anything wrong, i am worried that if I don't do something might happen to her,
my dad is saying I should file for divorce, I have only been married for 3yrs,
Please what can I do at this point
Has anyone ever been in a situation like this
I didn't do anything
I don't even have the guts of even going anywhere to do some one harm
This morning my dad came to take me home, my husband wasn't around when I left, iam currently in my parents place, I don't know if am doing the right thing by not helping with the ritual, or if I should just do it and forget everything, but i am scared, my mum said it may be a way to turn the sickness towards me but I didn't do anything wrong, i am worried that if I don't do something might happen to her,
my dad is saying I should file for divorce, I have only been married for 3yrs,
Please what can I do at this point
Has anyone ever been in a situation like this
I didn't do anything
I don't even have the guts of even going anywhere to do some one harm
Poster will probably not see it but i’d rather lose my marriage than partake in any of such ritual!
ReplyDeleteBtw, did she return the money because maybe she will get better if she returns the complete money.
Who knows who else she must have stolen from that also cursed her, it’s not this one they want to use to cleanse their sister.
Me too, especially when the hands are clean. I am not dabbling in anything that I don’t want to please anyone. If ppl married for 50yrs can divorce then what is 3 yrs to move on from, especially with a family that is full of drama and dishonesty. Please
DeletePoster please listen to your father. These people can't love you more than your own parents. File for a divorce and move on from there. You have a good spirit. Do not dabble into what will affect you in the future.
DeleteIt could be that maybe one of the girls you arrested and fired has gone to do juju to the person who stole the money.
DeleteBesides they should also return the money!
The thief should also compensate the girls that lost their job.
Then she will be well.This I have seen. (Lol)
I agree with you maybe one of the girls..They should invite them and apologise to them.
DeleteLet her stay with her family till she put to birth then she can decide if she will divorce her husband or continue with the marriage. I will not ask her to leave the marriage now since everyone is hurt, her decision now may spoil things in the future. She needs to be in a good environment for her baby not for anything. Let her go offline to allow her to regain herself, a pregnancy that she is looking for should not be taken as a joke.
ReplyDeleteShe should not perform anything, and her sister-in-law should face the music cos she was asked before now if she took the money but she refused. I am sure her sister-in-law are those who believe any money from their brother's wife belongs to their brother. She tot that 4m was for her brother and decided to take what belong to a woman who is suffering to enrich herself. She should face the consequence and allow others to learn from her story.
I want to ask if the table was turned would her sister-in-law do the same for her? I am just afraid for her and her unborn child before the Alfa will turn everything into something else.
I won't do it. Them send ham to steal? They want to reverse the sickness to her. She is a thief and probably might have stole from other people. I will gladly leave that marriage than doing that ritual. That's not what I believe in. Abeg this novena prayers, how do they do it.
ReplyDeleteAnom 13.16 this your last comment below had me in stitches
DeleteAbeg this novena prayers, how do they do it.
Anon 13:16 Novena prayers means nine days of prayers for a particular petition/intention. Some novena prayers can be more or less than 9 days. It is basically any prayer that you repeat for a consecutive number of days sometimes with fasting as you choose. There are so many different novena. Most Catholic s just concluded the Novena to the Holy Spirit and some wi soon start the Novena to the Sacred Heart of Jesus.
DeleteNovena is a 9 day prayer said to the Blessed Virgin Mary. Though I think you can also make the prayers to God as well.
DeleteNovenas are not just to the BVM. They are nine to 30 days prayers that are said to different saints, God, Jesus, Holy Spirit and more. If you lost something, novena to St. Anthony works. You need to sell property, try St. Joseph's. Just pray and leave the rest. I don't joke with novenas because they are powerful, especially when you ask and remove your mind from it so that God's will is done.
DeleteWhich kain wahala be this? Don't carry any ritual oo, not even now that you're pregnant. The ritual could be turned against you. Let them look for alternative way of finding solution to the problem.
ReplyDeleteFile for divorce osiso, thank God your parents are understanding. Your mum should start calling your MIL and give it to her hot hot. What nonsense!!!
ReplyDeleteMe carry ritual for who??😂😂😂😁😁😁
ReplyDeleteMarriage don end be that na..
I never carry ritual for myself,na sister Inlaw wey tiff my money and probably other people’s money too..
Abi na me send you go tiff???
Never involve yourself in what you know nothing about;before you carry curse give yourself or unborn baby..
@MARTINS
It's not as if she will even get her money back
DeleteWhich Kain wahala be this biko?
It's not even OK for her to do any ritual with a child she is carryig and all.
That her husband's family is very wicked. Chai! I am so livid.
ReplyDeleteI thank God she has a very wise family. She should never try to do that sacrifice oh. Na pikin she carry for belle make them no transfer the sickness to the innocent child. Let her stay put in her parent's house.
If the marriage wants to end, let it end. Only God knows where that SIL went to to provoke that kind of sickness.
Have they even returned the money she stole? Why is no one talking about that?
Wicked husband's family. God forbid 😒😒
She should listen to her mom but not divorce her husband. Any talk on following that sister in-law to do ritual should be totally ignored and rejected irrespective of who is trying to persuade her. If possible she should block all of them except her husband. If her mother in-law is doing everything to ensure her daughter doesn't die, she too should do away with everyone and thing stressing her so she can stay sane and healthy for her unborn child.
ReplyDeleteShe should divorce him. She is forever connected to that family and the dynamic will never be the same again. She cannot trust any of them. The marriage is quite young and easier to move on from. The husband does not have her back, it is better to count her losses and move on. They are not a good family.
DeleteNot everybody you wrong and go free. I know the poster won’t get to read this but if I were to be the poster I’d still do the novena for the sister in law asking God to forgive her and heal her but I will never do any fetish appeasing.
ReplyDeleteEezi
Pls don't carry out the rituals.
ReplyDeleteMadam if you are a bv or someone that knows her pleaseew
ReplyDeleteDo not engage in any RITUAL, they want to send the sickness to you and eventually kills you and your husband will marry another wife.
Your sis in law should confess and tell them the other bad-bad things she had done to people.
DON'T DO ANY RITUAL no matter the sweet mouth of your husband. In fact, your husband is not matured enough to marry you.
YOUR MOTHER IN LAW IS EVIL FOR NOT TELLING HER DAUGHTER TO RETURN YOUR MONEY AND PROBABLY confess to her other crimes.
Don't disobey your parents unless you want to DIE.
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DeleteThe MIL only wants to secure her own daughter.
God wants to remove you from the midst of the evil people you call in-law, instead of you to go n do Thanksgiving. Even if this pass, another one bigger than this is loading in the future. Imagine what your so called hubby said when you loss your money'. Abeg forget that family.
ReplyDeleteGreat Red Flag🚩 flying at fullmast.
DeleteExactlyyy!!! Divorce straight. This is not the kind of family one wants to be with if you're a Christian, fetish humans. These ones will sacrifice an inlaw in a heartbeat if there calls a need for it, God forbid bad thing abeg.
DeleteAre you still in that marriage?
ReplyDeletePls file for a divorce. Evil family.
You should even thank God that wants to remove you from their midst. Let her die if she wants to die or you would rather die in her stead? Evil beings. Tufiakwa!
Carry wetin?if my forgiveness is not enough for them,they should hold their son....I will gladly walk away.
ReplyDeleteFollow your dad's decision.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is a S!MP..
His family are evil..
Have they refunded your 4mila?
Let the woman suffer for the consequences of her actions..
Did they care about how you suffered for the missing 4m..
You even knelt down to apologize.. evil woman.
Stupid Thief..
You better don't involve yourself when nature is dealing with someone before it jumps on your own head
Welcome back Dante. I've missed you. I hope you're fully recovered now?
DeleteIt's not enough to confess, maybe she should return the money first then her healing can start.
ReplyDeleteShe hurt a lot of people, what about those poor sales girls' that lost their means of livelihood because of her actions
Thanks. Another angle.
DeleteUnfortunately, those girls will never admit or carry the Calabash for the sick woman.
It appears the Novena just helped the owner of the property to deflect the arrows sent.
Yes. It was all or one of those sales girls who lost their jobs innocently that prayed on her head. She cause innocent ppl to lose their jobs and perhaps their only source of income to care for their sick parents or young children. Let the parents go find those sales girls and seek forgiveness from them.
DeleteI cannot stand a family thief, you can’t even rest your purse in peace in your own home around them.
Madam,hold your ears,that's child u are carrying is an unborn star, please don't do any ritual,it will take your life eventually,leave your husband and his fetish family alone,they are not telling you the exact truth,is not your money that triggered your sister in law sickness,your husband family wants to use you and your unborn child for rituals.Double stars going down,you and your unborn child,God forbid,tell your mother inlaw to do the rituals on behalf of her daughter and leave you alone.
ReplyDelete4million naira in a small cartorn of biscuit.?
ReplyDeleteYes it’s not that much really.
DeletePossible in N1000 notes.
DeleteSmall is relative.
In 1000note it won't be noticed
DeleteNa was ohhhhh. She stole a whole 4million!!!!!!!! She must have offended others ohhhhh, let her confess fast fast so She can be forgiven.
ReplyDeleteYou were married into a very wicked family. Please don't carry any ritual, your sister in-law should open up on other people she offended. If she should die in this don't feel guilty because you are not her killer.
ReplyDeletePoster, don't carry out any ritual. They might want to send the sickness back to you.
ReplyDeletejoin NSPDD or mfm fast and take cover in prayers ...leave this man for now the evil around him is much
ReplyDeletePoster, the ritual you need now is the novenna of our lady of perpetual help and holy ghost to protect you and your unborn child and for God to forgive her as you have done.
ReplyDeletePlease try and focus on God, gather strength to pray no matter how brief as the enemy is like a roaring lion seeking for whom to devour. Tell your mummy to book masses for you while you are doing the novenna.
Me and myself will not partake in anything that I don't believe in. May God strengthen you, abeg always stay close to your family.
Where I come from, it's an abomination for a pregnant woman to carry anything on her head cause those with foetus re seen and treated as kings for bringing another soul to Earth,you ain't even allowed to kneel for anyone , talk more of carrying Ebo for your ole of a sister in-law. Mtcheeeeew.
ReplyDeleteThat your husband is a sissy, if he can't tell his family to respect his pregnant wife and back off then to hell with him.
Divorce the man and forget the useless family.
ReplyDeleteUseless family indeed! U are hardworking U have ur Dad's support.... abeg leave immediately. Make it clear you are not responsible and that you have forgiven her...bunch of diabolical people...tueh
DeleteShe doesn't even know she's so favoured to have the support of her family and she's not broke. Abeg, leave those people, they don't like you and will always be against you as you refused to carry ebo for SIL.
DeleteVery very very useless family, poster does not know God is already fighting her battle for her and giving her warning signs.
DeleteDo another novena for her.
ReplyDeletePls file for divorce ASAP!!!!! DO NOT DO THAT RITUAL!!! she has probably stollen from other people. Pls don't do it
ReplyDeletePoster! please dont do any ritual, please. From your husband's answer when you told him about the missing money, to your diabolic inlaws, to stealing SIL to all the rubbish you pointed out , you dont need those inlaws, haba! is marriage this important? to extent of risking your life and unborn Baby....haba! I am so angry
ReplyDeleteForget the evil family
ReplyDeleteThat your horseband is a Devil, how did you not see the signs? He doesn't value or love you.
Wicked man and his family.
They want to turn the affliction over to her(the wife) head.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThe husband is wicked. Look at his response when she told him about the missing money. A good husband would have been worried for her and even made effort to look for the money. But this one was annoyed she didn't give him the money and even said good for her. You can even tell from the story that the wife is doing better financially than the man, and that he's jealous of her.
ReplyDeletePoster, better don't do any ritual o. It's better that marriage ends. It seems they want to put her illness on you and even spoil your name join.
Let the owner of evil load carry it..
ReplyDeleteBe wise poster and pick race, they want to afflict you with sickness 😷..
ReplyDeleteReturn to your parents house, thank God they are by your side.
Do not do any ritual.
ReplyDeleteIf the marriage would end because of it, let it.
It is better to be a single mother and alive .
Than to be a dead married woman.
Your sister in-law has stolen from other people.
She should think well.
It might even be what she stole is far less than this money.
But the person went diabolical.
Let her think, she feels its you because this case is the most recent.
Even the sales girls that suffered for what they did not steal. Na them fit don do her.
ReplyDeletePlease ask them to refund your 4million Naira. Such a wicked and devilish family.
ReplyDeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
Please listen to your parents
ReplyDeleteNo matter how good, real challenges like this will test marriage. If she were my sister, the marriage is over already. And while at it, I must take my money first.
ReplyDeleteFile for divorce, keep your life. Your husband won't change and the next one will be worse.
ReplyDelete