Do you know that snooping on your spouses phone can end the Marriage or relationship? You didnt know? Someone said ''If you are married, did you sign the dotted lines to become a monitoring spirit? Do you think snooping will stop the inevitable`?''
Did you snoop on your lover or spouse and it ended or almost ended the Marriage or relationship? Have you stopped snooping?
Do you keep quiet when you snoop or confront? which is best, keeping quiet or confronting?
Everyone locks their phones these days or are very careful, so how did you get into the phone to snoop?
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ReplyDeleteJist us, here to learn
I don’t beleive snooping can end a marriage. It’s what you were doing in the dark that has the potential of ending a marriage not snooping
ReplyDeleteZendaya
That thing is another work on its own. That's how I see snooping.
ReplyDeleteThe problem isn't in the snooping but what next after the snooping? Do you have the guts to walk away after finding out your husband/wife is unfaithful or you just want to snoop and start crying your eyes out?
ReplyDeleteSome will say they will withdraw from sex and what if I should asked, after doing that, he or she doesn't still change most especially if this partner is the wealthy type, what next will you do?
I strongly condemn cheating in its entirety but you see, some things in marriage are better handled with wisdom.
I don't really snoop but I believe one should snoop if anything suspicious is noticed, then take action. If resources are not available to take action immediately, strategize a plan and work towards it. Don't die there because you think you are helpless.
DeleteI hate when people say “what do you do after snooping”
DeleteSnooping can nip a lot in the bud, several kinds of revelation can actually be used to make the marriage better
Not everyone must leave, some work to make things better, some find out things they themselves need to work on, some find out financial secrets that helps them plan and work better as a family.
Snooping will forever be good, cus even if you don’t do something immediately it will eventually shape other aspects of your life, don’t be a dumb fool living in ignorance
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Push up has said it all!
DeleteWhere do I send your bottle of champagne to, you saved me the energy of typing!
I will continue snooping till Jesus comes,he has my passcode and I have his.
ReplyDeleteGbam!!!
DeleteSnoopy should not end a relationship, its the shady deals that will. I used to keep away from husband's phone and won't bother myself until a young girl almost took my place after 21 years of marriage! Fellow women, don't be too quiet or unbothered
ReplyDeleteChai, see mentality. Congratulations ma, you won....ikwakwakwa.
DeleteHe choose to be snatched.
DeleteWe all lock our phones, yes but some of us have our spouses password and vice versa.
ReplyDelete8 plus years knowing this man and I have never seen anything even remotely suspicious but I will keep snooping. It’s in my blood, it’s in my DNA. I am unashamedly team snoop and that will never change.
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DeleteA quick one Eka Joy. When one snoops at their partner, is it that they don't trust the partner or what exactly could be their reason if he or she hasn't given a reason for the suspect. .
I can only speak for myself I trust my partner 100% as he has given me no reason whatsoever to doubt him in the 8 plus years we’ve known each other but u see that snooping, I will never ever stop.
DeleteSome say ignorance is bliss,
ReplyDeleteSome say snooping saves life
whichever way, don't start what you cannot stomach or finish o to avoid ...
Ignorance is a fool's bliss!
DeleteI'd rather snoop and be aware than languish in ignorance.
Again, I say: snooping is for financially and mentally capable women. If you and your extended family rely 100% on a man's money, you are snooping in vain. You go just add high blood pressure join your problem. Same goes for men. If na Funke Akindele you marry go dey snoop, na you go pack load commot laslas if dem begin cut onions for her phone. More importantly, may you not marry someone that will give you reasons to snoop and most importantly, do not enter into a union with someone you intend to rely on for everything in life. Disrespect is the least you'd suffer in such unions; na your physical and mental health go suffer am pass. Snooping is a high-class sport; the aftermath could prove expensive.
ReplyDeleteWhen you snoop and confront your partner but still do not leave or have the capacity to demand a positive change, the partner go know say you be "Snooping Simp". Don't bother. Shebi one yellow hanty wey dey form voltron after snooping and leaving don dey pray to go back to the same philanderer again unto say free money sweet to chop and she no get the personal capacity to flex the kain life wey she love. Na so.
You are not snooping in any vain, it will show you just how much you mean to the man and how he sees you and if he genuinely loves and care for you and your family
DeleteIt will also help you save for when you to leave, snooping helps you plan
Even if you do not have money, snooping can protect your health or can help you guide a naive partner. A woman or man need not have money to leave a dangerous situation. Some partners may still be at the temptation stage. Snooping enables the innocent partner to act fast and redirect, or make amends, or leave quick.
DeleteIf a person who lives on the ground floor of a five story building sees massive cracks in the pillars and beams of the house. Will he/she stay on because he/she does not have money for rent elsewhere? No. He/she will move out for his/her life. Snooping sometimes reveals massive cracks in a relationship / marriage.
I snooped o and we are no longer together. If I hadn't snooped I wouldn't have known he was shagging his supposed female bestie and church member,if I hadn't snooped I wouldn't have known he goes about looking for small girls to have anal sex with,if I hadn't snooped I wouldn't have known he got one preggy and she wanted to know what they would do about it,if I hadn't snooped I wouldn't have known he goes about telling all these girls that I don't give him peace and he wishes he married them. In fact,I just realized I was an after thought while slaving for a man and family that felt they were doing me a favor. I ate shit for that family so that I will prove virtuous woman. It took my mom to make me realise that these people no value me and the earlier I left,the better. I am glad I did. Picking up myself and I have never being happier, healthier and at peace with my children and my immediate family by my side. Anytime I confronted him,he turned it on me that it was my fault,lol. His family will say if I tell anyone pim,it will be difficult for me o. I should better tie the wrapper tighter on my waist and face the challenges that comes with marriage..hmm I could write a book on those manipulative family. EA,I will have the last laugh oo,God is on the throne.
ReplyDeleteThank you my dear, may God establish you soonest. It's better to snoop and take action or start making alternative plans before you find yourself sleeping on okada.
DeleteGood for you. The power of snooping set you free.
DeleteI don’t think the average person just got up one day and say they will start snooping. I think they noticed a pattern of behaviour that was concerning and decided to dig a little in the hopes their thoughts were wrong. Nobody wants to find disturbing things about their beloved. I can only imagine the shock and heartache that those who snooped and discovered they were sleeping with the enemy or a complete stranger.
ReplyDeleteSome snoop and cannot get out even though they want to. They may have found out that their spouse is a very dangerous person who has done abominable things, they can only sit in it even with all the knowledge they have. Snooping will either set you free or bind you deeper in bondage. Make sure you can handle anything before you snoop.
Well, some snoop as a practice without any cause for suspicion and even when their partner is clean as a whistle or freshly washed hands.
DeleteSome snoop without any ground for suspicion and found plenty.
God has been the refuge for some people without snooping. Our mumu or dem mumu protects us.
When madam started making or receiving male midnight calls and early morning calls. There was no need to snoop. The facts spoke for themselves.
I snooped and found out he was into betting. I noticed that no money stays in his hamds and he owe a lot of people hence my reason fot snooping.I confronted him, he lied that he has changed until some people he was owing visited and met me at home. He wasn't happy that he was exposed. I reported him to his family and we agreed that if he tries again I will leave.
ReplyDeleteSnooping on ur partner is a reason why you shouldn't be in that relationship
ReplyDeleteIs through snooping I found out that my husband 22 years gf was pregnant for him and they both plan to hook the pregnancy on her main bf. As am talking nw she still with the say bf and pregnant no2 and my husband still communicate with her on daily basis
ReplyDeleteMost people, married or not, male and female, cheat or are capable of cheating that’s why snooping brings up issues about 90% of the time.
ReplyDeleteVoice notes needed on blogs. No energy to type
ReplyDeleteSnooping showed me the true character of the human I married
ReplyDelete1. Ex rapist
2. Multiple relationships
3. Always funding trips for uni babes and travelling from Lag to the south east every month to satiate his huge sexual appetite
4.Business deals where he cheated on partners and used their funds for gallivanting
5. Snooping showed that for each time I was a financially supportive wife the funds were used to sponsor a stupid unworthy cause
Snooping strengthened me and made me who I am today. Them no born the spirit of naivety!!!!
Snooping with the help of God made me strong